Virgos, do you get along with Aquarius? Help!

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serafina
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I've never had an Aquarius (that I know of) in my life and now I do and she fascinates/infuriates me.

I work with her and when I was an intern, I found her to be bossy and condescending, but very friendly and charming at the same time. We really got along and she took me under her wing and actually helped convince my boss to hire me.

But then we fell out. She has a reputation for being moody and a couple of coworkers asked me why she's "always so mad" and she overheard me respond that "she just gets that way a lot". So she gave me the silent treatment for 2 weeks until I asked her why, and she exploded about how I talked behind her back. I apologized but I can't help feeling like she overreacted. I resented that she was hypocritical - she told me if I have a problem with her to confront her directly but yet when she had a problem with me, instead of confronting me, she iced me out. And I didn't even really have a problem with her, I was just stating fact, though I understand how it upset her.

So after I apologized she went mostly back to normal. We're not as friendly anymore but we still lunch together and joke around sometimes. But she still comes up to me and other colleagues to gossip about other people and I'm totally perplexed because I don't get how she can't see the hypocrisy in holding a burning, hate-fueled grudge towards me for half a month over gossip while constantly trying to spread it.

I love/hate her. She's super intelligent and generous, and assertive, and a good employee, but she gets offended and moody so easily over petty things and it makes me feel resentment towards her unpredictability and immaturity. Are all Aquarius people like this? How do you interact with them without becoming overly critical or exhausted?
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kaqual75
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No, we aren't all like that. Some negative characteristics are just personality flaws. Typically we only shut you out after we've taken a lot of bs and just can't take any more. We ice you out forever. So I don't think her behavior around being mad is about her being an aqua. Also, we are pretty straight forward and blunt like virgos so her giving you the silent treatment doesn't seem too Aqua like either. I'm a Feb Aqua though. They say January aquas are different.
I'd say you know her cards know and know how and when to keep her at arm's length so you don't get caught up in that drama again.
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Posted by kaqual75
No, we aren't all like that. Some negative characteristics are just personality flaws. Typically we only shut you out after we've taken a lot of bs and just can't take any more. We ice you out forever. So I don't think her behavior around being mad is about her being an aqua. Also, we are pretty straight forward and blunt like virgos so her giving you the silent treatment doesn't seem too Aqua like either. I'm a Feb Aqua though. They say January aquas are different.
I'd say you know her cards know and know how and when to keep her at arm's length so you don't get caught up in that drama again.



+1 Agreed! My mom is a Feb Aqua and she is cool and funny as crap. Yeh she gossips and have a bit of a mean streak and openly speaks her mind but she has a very very forgiving heart and puts up with alot and is quick to go out of her way to help people. The few other Aquas I know don't behave in the manner which OP stated either. So I do believe some of her behavior hs to do with other stuff going on with her.
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serafina
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She is a February Aqua. I find that half the time she's really direct and confrontational when she has an issue with someone and the other half, she spends her time gossiping, which is part of what makes her personality confusing to me.

I know Aquas are supposed to be kind of aloof with their emotions and she's half and half about that, too. When she's in a bad mood, she does keep it to herself and she doesn't disclose much about her personal life, but at the same time, she'll sulk and act irritated/rude in the office (which is part of what caused that fight she had with me)
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I did get along with my ex Aqua after we broke up n he iced me out! But I always thought he was very smart and very funny and so many othe great things about him. He was a first decan Aqua ( jan). He doesn't hold grudges and no gossiping or silent treatment, unless I did something that he needed time n space from me for awhile; it's funny I undestand him more now, than I did when I was with him! He always just Thot of me as a nagging, attacking criticizing virgo oh and irrational and over emotional; bullshit relationship-- that thing effed me up for months almost goin on a year! Never again!!!
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kaqual75
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d anything about aquas? Seriously, troublemaking is the furthest thing from what we are. Gems, Sags, and Aries maybe. Not aquas.

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LIIIIEEEESSSS!!!!!!

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Us? Troublemakers? I've never heard this. We are the hippies of the zodiac. All about peace and love. ————


Posted by Weeds
Funny you mention this...
I've always seen Aquarius as troublemakers and tend to keep my distance... The more mature ones usually grow up from this.. Sometimes and is replaced with awkwardness

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perience out weighs vague description from a website or book 🙂

Posted by kaqual75
have you read anything about aquas? Seriously, troublemaking is the furthest thing from what we are. Gems, Sags, and Aries maybe. Not aquas.

Posted by Weeds
LIIIIEEEESSSS!!!!!!

Posted by kaqual75
Us? Troublemakers? I've never heard this. We are the hippies of the zodiac. All about peace and love. ————


Posted by Weeds
Funny you mention this...
I've always seen Aquarius as troublemakers and tend to keep my distance... The more mature ones usually grow up from this.. Sometimes and is replaced with awkwardness

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