Virgos have a critising problem

I understand virgos are smart and can see through a lot of bullshit faster than others can. Their very good at analyzing and seeing stuff for what it really is. Actual Factual. But they have a problem with Criticizing. Usually if people don't want your help they won't ask. So why do they feel the need to always voice what they've analyzed. Me being an Aries, causes me to follow my heart and intuition because that's what feels right. It feels right in my heart and makes me happy. Then Virgo comes along and can't understand why we choose to do what we do. At that time what i chose to do felt right and is what i really wanted to do.

Virgos should know that Aries hate criticism because your judging our actions in oppose to what you would do. But were different people. Sometimes i want to follow logic but its so hard when what you really want to do is follow your heart. I believe in God over science any day. Because faith is unlimited.

I just don't see the point in you Virgos being so critical if your flawed as well. And you don't want an aries to point out your flaws because when were ready we will not back down from an argument.

I find the men more annoying and mean with their criticism than the females. But i find the females more kind and fun in the long run.

How many Virgos do you know anyway?

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Aries get on my fucking nerves, most of the time. You Aries just jump without thinking, and you wonder why you get criticized to life. If everybody jumped off a bridge Aries would hop right along with em, while Virgos would wait for every single last person on earth to mimic the idiot so we may have the earth to ourselves. Hahahah. 🙂

Lol!

Posted by Amandus
How many Virgos do you know anyway?

Apparently ALL of them.

I have a Virgo ascendant and a Aries sun and mercury so i can see both sides. I have a very impulsive side which annoys my Virgo side to no end. Virgos do not just do what just feels good to them because all the possible consequences go through there head. and Aries and Virgos will most likely have a different view on what feels right. Aries think being energetic going head first feels right. Virgo thinks being cautious and thinking before acting feels right. let the Virgo voice there worries which i guarantee they have and talk to them about it. Yes we can be critical but we are also rational.

Posted by Amandus
How many Virgos do you know anyway?

a lot

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Aries get on my fucking nerves, most of the time. You Aries just jump without thinking, and you wonder why you get criticized to life. If everybody jumped off a bridge Aries would hop right along with em, while Virgos would wait for every single last person on earth to mimic the idiot so we may have the earth to ourselves. Hahahah. 🙂

LOL yes we do jump without thinking because we feel like jumping at the moment. We dont need to think twice much less think. Its all feeling and intuition and we are not ones to follow if anything we would be the one jumping first and everyone would follow behind. But then you would criticize us about that anyways.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Aries get on my fucking nerves, most of the time. You Aries just jump without thinking, and you wonder why you get criticized to life. If everybody jumped off a bridge Aries would hop right along with em, while Virgos would wait for every single last person on earth to mimic the idiot so we may have the earth to ourselves. Hahahah. 🙂

And I would be standing right next to that virgo because we have the same mercury mind.. Also notice i said next to you and not a little infront of you, gemini`s are generous, they share! lol

Aries are entertaining. i like observing, so some of the crazy stuff they do is to my amusement.

The title isn't right..

Posted by Peanutbutter
The title isn't right..

Its not like it could be fixed anyway...


Forever incorrect...

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Aries get on my fucking nerves, most of the time. You Aries just jump without thinking, and you wonder why you get criticized to life. If everybody jumped off a bridge Aries would hop right along with em, while Virgos would wait for every single last person on earth to mimic the idiot so we may have the earth to ourselves. Hahahah. 🙂

GOLD! GOLD! GOLD!!!

yeah you're right we do

It dosn't matter how many you know.


If you know 10 and all ten are the same .. then statistically, it's 100% of the Virgos.


And they know that, but, would most likely taunt you, trying to make you think you're in error for having a life experience that isn't to their liking.



Pretty much proving your theory.

If any of you cared to notice, the Aries wasn't putting you down, rather making an observation as it compares to herself and her own view. She was explaining how/why she feels this way ... "feels" being the key word.

And all of you took it personally, as if she was trying to be an ass .. when in reality, it's you who was being assholes, due to not being able to handle a person pointing out an a personality trait.


Except for one person ....

Posted by dimitri
yeah you're right we do

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

As she was making an observation about us, I did the same for them. We are "Critical", but they are boarderline "Mentally stupid". So we both have our fuck ups.😄.....

You were compelled to critisize her back because you couldn't handle her having an opionion you don't like .... there was no need to retaliate otherwise.

If you have something to say to the Rams, such as, they are mentally stupid, then go to thier board and broadcast this obversation.

The point is .. you can't handle your own flaws by being accepting that a person might notice you have them, so feel compelled to turn around and critisize the person for noticing, which only proves the point she was making.

Her observation is accurate ... the Virgo will critisize for no reason, for any reason, for all reasons. Just like now, you, as a Virgo, like all the other Virgos except one in this thread, will turn around and critisize her because she has a viewpoint you can't accept, even when it's the truth.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Aries get on my fucking nerves, most of the time. You Aries just jump without thinking, and you wonder why you get criticized to life. If everybody jumped off a bridge Aries would hop right along with em, while Virgos would wait for every single last person on earth to mimic the idiot so we may have the earth to ourselves. Hahahah. 🙂

Bahahaha...so true!

but I love some Aries peeps...I get along good with them! still true though lol

And it's always the truth.


If a person observes, puts into THIER OWN perspective and then makes a decision on what this opinion means .. then it's 100% accurate, according to their judgement.


People really struggle with being a relationship with Virgos because of this, and instead of the Virgo trying to understand, so they can make their life better ... they attack, thinking they are doing the right thing for themselves, when in reality the only gain is to push the person further away.

Borrrrring!

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

Therefore Aries needs to think before they act.

this thread is about Virgos, not Aries.

You can't handle that a thread is in place to discuss one of your bad traits, and so in Virgo fashion, you have to turn it around instead of accept.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

Also, If I went to the Aries board, and said everyone there was "Mentally Stupid", I would expect alot of backlash, truth or not.

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you expecting it, and it actually happening aren't the same thing.

Aries usually do NOT respond to those kind of threads .... because they are actually dignified, and can handle the truth about themselves

Posted by P-Angel
If any of you cared to notice, the Aries wasn't putting you down, rather making an observation as it compares to herself and her own view. She was explaining how/why she feels this way ... "feels" being the key word.

And all of you took it personally, as if she was trying to be an ass .. when in reality, it's you who was being assholes, due to not being able to handle a person pointing out an a personality trait.

Oh I didn't think about that...

Sorry if I seemed as though I found your opinion unacceptable, Chachacha. I only asked because I was frustrated with my writer's block and wanted to poke a stick into the mud...


I actually find this trait can be a little too much too.

I'm here thinking how lucky I am that I don't know as many as you do. Being Virgo myself is enough criticism for me.



I feel like a freakin dumbass for realizing it the first time...

Posted by Amandus

I feel like a freakin dumbass for realizing it the first time...

Insert "not" in between "for realizing".

Ironically, I went to the Pisces forum and criticized fishies, got plenty of hatred and I was the guilty one for pointing it out. What say you, P-Angel?

How is that ironic while talking to me, considering my response to you was about logic ... considering in this thread it's about Virgos losing their shit over an observation?

You made an observation ... and I answered logically, not agreeing nor disagreeing.


Do you actually understand the word, "ironically" ... and secondly, why ask me here what I have to say, when I addressed it your thread.


Are you the among the ignorants, then?

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

As she was making an observation about us, I did the same for them. We are "Critical", but they are boarderline "Mentally stupid". So we both have our fuck ups.😄.....

You were compelled to critisize her back because you couldn't handle her having an opionion you don't like .... there was no need to retaliate otherwise.

If you have something to say to the Rams, such as, they are mentally stupid, then go to thier board and broadcast this obversation.

The point is .. you can't handle your own flaws by being accepting that a person might notice you have them, so feel compelled to turn around and critisize the person for noticing, which only proves the point she was making.

Her observation is accurate ... the Virgo will critisize for no reason, for any reason, for all reasons. Just like now, you, as a Virgo, like all the other Virgos except one in this thread, will turn around and critisize her because she has a viewpoint you can't accept, even when it's the truth.

Maybe I didnt make myself clear when I said I never said she was wrong. We do critisize, but not for no reason. There is always a reason. Constructive criticism is what smart people call it. I called Aries mentally stupid because they act without thinking. You die faster than someone who thinks before they act if you act before you think. There are minimal exceptions, but this is not the case. Therefore Aries needs to think before they act. Also, If I went to the Aries board, and said everyone there was "Mentally Stupid", I would expect alot of backlash, truth or not. So why shouldn't she expect the same on the virgo board? I'll wait....

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if thats what you call mentally stupid then we are. We think when we think we need to think. Were sooooooooooooo impatient were not even patient with our thoughts. Im willing and trying to change though. If you can change your bad traits only good can come of it.

Posted by Chachacha
I understand virgos are smart and can see through a lot of bullshit faster than others can. Their very good at analyzing and seeing stuff for what it really is. Actual Factual. But they have a problem with Criticizing. Usually if people don't want your help they won't ask. So why do they feel the need to always voice what they've analyzed. Me being an Aries, causes me to follow my heart and intuition because that's what feels right. It feels right in my heart and makes me happy. Then Virgo comes along and can't understand why we choose to do what we do. At that time what i chose to do felt right and is what i really wanted to do.

That's fine. You're both allowed to have opinions. As long as you're happy with your choice, it shouldn't really matter if someone else says something to the contrary. I doubt that the Virgo is finding fault with you as a human being - they're just taking issue with your decision. They probably wouldn't push so hard if they didn't think you were strong enough to handle it (that's why we're a lot more polite whom we don't know - who knows how they'll react).

Your Virgo isn't a magic 8 ball. There are times when you'll solicit advice, and won't get it. There are times when you won't solicit advice, but you'll get it anyways. Relationships don't come with off switches, and you can't change the channel to something that you'd rather hear. But would you really want to hang out with someone who never disagrees with you?

(I get that there's a lot of social nuance to this. The difference between perceived banter and perceived criticism is just an issue of tone. One's playful, the other aggressive. In addition, we shouldn't just speak out about things that we abhor, but also things that really impressed us as well. But these issues aren't Virgo specific - a well-adjusted person can challenge your decisions while letting you still feel good about yourself.)

Posted by Chachacha
I just don't see the point in you Virgos being so critical if your flawed as well. And you don't want an aries to point out your flaws because when were ready we will not back down from an argument.

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If people had become perfect before they were allowed to be critical, then nobody would ever speak their mind. You're allowed to say what you're thinking. I promise.

Posted by P-Angel
And it's always the truth.


THIER

Here's a Virgo criticizing your spelling bitch. It's "THEIR". 😄 You're welcome.

Posted by Peanutbutter
The title isn't right..

Lol...I do believe it's "CRITICIZING".

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22

As she was making an observation about us, I did the same for them. We are "Critical", but they are boarderline "Mentally stupid". So we both have our fuck ups.😄.....

opionion
critisize

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How the fuck are you going to talk shit, & you can't even spell? Lmao...Stupid little brainless fish. ME "CRITICIZING" AGAIN.