Virgo's over analyze?

They say we over analyze everything!

How else can you think yourself out of a paper bag?

We think things through so we can know if we're making the right decision or not.

Those who date Virgo's, does this annoy you?

it annoys me...so I can def see how it would annoy others!

Posted by VirgoCupcake
Those who date Virgo's, does this annoy you?

For me no. This was actually the endearing part knowing that someone else actually does this. I think the differences were that the virgal I knew wasn't willing to share how she came to a conclusion on certain things.

Posted by Ixion120
There is definitely the potential, the problem is when you let that thought process immobilize you.

oooooo perfect!!! I'll keep that in mind

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Posted by VirgoCupcake
Those who date Virgo's, does this annoy you?

For me no. This was actually the endearing part knowing that someone else actually does this. I think the differences were that the virgal I knew wasn't willing to share how she came to a conclusion on certain things.

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Sometimes the conclusion of certain things, may seem irrational to someone else. So to explain it is kind of hard. So instead just making it known of how she feels, seems to be more important than how her thought process got her there.

Over analyzing is a con too.

All men can;t handle it. I've noticed that my Virguy (the first one) I dated was VERY open to over analyzing.

My boss is a Virgo and her constant criticism is annoying as hell. She's very insecure. I'm on a Virgo cusp and only tend to critique my lovers, which drove them away..I NOW UNDERSTAND WHY. Needless to say, I try not to critique my current love for this reason.

Posted by CluelessCancer
I can't really say anything negative about Virgos regarding this, cause i over analyze all the time, and i blame my Virgo MARS, and i'm a worry wort, that's my LEO...so we all have our own internal battles to deal with.

ommmmmmg I WORRY TOO!!!

i need to find out my other signs lol with the moon and sun and all that other crap?

SN: how do I add a picture? everytime I try to add one it just wont post. 😢

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Posted by Ixion120
There is definitely the potential, the problem is when you let that thought process immobilize you.

oooooo perfect!!! I'll keep that in mind

I try to steer my analysis through a mental process to eventually get to a resolution. If a resolution can't be achieved after going over all the information that I have available then that means to me I don't have enough information to render a decision so I just keep it moving.

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And see I just try to work with the information that I have. I try to rational and try to look at life cirumstances. But somethings just pulls me RIGHT back into reality.

There is nothing wrong with analyzing...but to do it constantly like "we" do (at least I do) is really just annoying. I dont want to analyze everything...I dont want to know how everything has to work etc. but alas ...that is our/my cross to bear :/

Posted by LostinmyMind11
There is nothing wrong with analyzing...but to do it constantly like "we" do (at least I do) is really just annoying. I dont want to analyze everything...I dont want to know how everything has to work etc. but alas ...that is our/my cross to bear :/

yessss sometimes I do annoy myself 😢

I personally like the fact that I analyze so much & that it's one of my virgal traits. However I do my analyzing quietly & when I make my mind up I have no reservations in explaining how I came to my conclusions if someone wants to know.

I do tend to be a critic but am very careful with my words as not to offend. If I voice my critique to someone it's because they asked for my opinion & I make sure it's only for their personal growth. I try to always keep it as positive as possible. For example if asked "does this shirt look bad on me" I would reply by picking out something that they rock in and say "this shirt would totally rock your outfit much better". It's all in how you choose your words & express your opinion.

Didn't bother me when I dated Virgo. In fact, I may have done it more than he; still do. No big deal. It needs to be done at times. *shrug*

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Posted by VirgoCupcake
Those who date Virgo's, does this annoy you?

For me no. This was actually the endearing part knowing that someone else actually does this. I think the differences were that the virgal I knew wasn't willing to share how she came to a conclusion on certain things.

Sometimes the conclusion of certain things, may seem irrational to someone else. So to explain it is kind of hard. So instead just making it known of how she feels, seems to be more important than how her thought process got her there.

Over analyzing is a con too.

All men can;t handle it. I've noticed that my Virguy (the first one) I dated was VERY open to over analyzing.

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I definitely can relate to that. It's the reason why I don't discuss certain things myself. Might just be with this virgal I suppose. Everything else was fine and dandy but when it came to us her conclusion was "it'll never work".

Naturally I'm entertained by the idea and wanted to know her thought process. Even after accepting it her behaviour ended up not matching what she said which ended up with me having more questions 😛

I guess it really is one of those qualities that you either love or hate.

I guess it really is one of those qualities that you either love or hate.

YUP!!!!!!

Posted by GemStar05
Didn't bother me when I dated Virgo. In fact, I may have done it more than he; still do. No big deal. It needs to be done at times. *shrug*

It doessss!!! =)

Oh boy, Virgos, just to get you guys out, I literally have to sit through an interview of questions.

But it works for us, Taurus' as we like knowing you are only thinking of what's best for both of us, it adds to our sense of security.