VirgoM20
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VirGuy (me) and VirGirl - Disasterous date!
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Im sorry mate but this is way too funny hahahahahah
Don't apologise, it IS funny. It's one of those things that was a bit awkward at the time but I'll laugh at when I'm telling friends, etc. The funny thing is, she told me about how she had done something similar to another guy, but because he was blind drunk and behaving in a threatening manner. I was not remotely drunk and being the perfect gentleman. If she had wanted to go she could have simply said so, or just seen the date through to the and and then e-mailed me next day to say she wasn't interested. Odd behavior for a Virgo.
That really sucks. Even if something happened she should have been up front and told you to end the date. Sheesh!
No that's virgo.......hahaha
If we aint feeling it............later.
If we aint feeling it............later.
Not telling me anything new, I was married to one for 13 years. LOL I'm talking about being an adult.
Posted by venusianbull
Even if something happened she should have been up front and told you to end the date.
Yeah, I can forgive her for disappearing if she had been taken ill and didn't want to return to a busy social environment for whatever reason, but a text from the taxi that she was escaping in would at least have let me know what was going on. Even if she wasn't ill and was just making an excuse to leave, a text to tell me she wasn't coming back would have been polite. As a Virgo I cannot relate to another Virgo exhibiting such poor manners.
I agree with you VirgoM, it wasn't a mature move on her part. Manners it what it boils down too in my opinion. At the very least a chat and a "Thanks for a nice evening." would have sufficed, it's still an evening out which should be a pleasant thing. Her loss I say. 🙂
Wow there's no excuse for that.
OMG LOL sorry not laughing directly at you but it's hilarious what she did.
Now you know in the future when 2 friends suddenly show up, politely excuse yourself and get the hell out of there, how humiliating.
Now you know in the future when 2 friends suddenly show up, politely excuse yourself and get the hell out of there, how humiliating.
I agree with seavixen something pretty embarrassing must have happened!....and to add to that, for her to behave the way she did after she left she couldn't have been feeling the date that much if im honest- but on the other hand its not like a virgo to behave this way- especially to bring her TWO! friends along........sorry mate sure u'll have better luck next tym😢
Posted by Prince_Pisces
wow. . .all three of them got up and left you lol!
Hum .. interesting.
We're not talking about her leaving you ... it was all 3 of them.
The person that really stands out in my mind is the friend that went to look for her. She didn't return, and then texted the other friend to give the other friend still sitting there an excuse to leave.
Curious ...... why did they ALL feel compelled to run?
Weird, mannerless and unfortunate. 😢
Posted by VirgoM20
I took the opportunity to go on a date last night with a Virgo woman. When we met in a bar she was immaculate looking - tastefully dressed ..................
.................. I find it odd that she didn't even send a text to tell me she wasn't coming back.
And I find it odd that if this woman was a person who knew you well enough to know your cell phone number so she could text you ... then why you would meet a date in a bar, instead of actually courting her like a proper gentlement, which means .... escorting her from her doorstep.
This whole thing sounds fishy. You would expect manners, yet, have her meet you at a bar .. very distasteful from jump.
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
You poor thing! it is funny though.....🙂
Yeah, I'm laughing about it. Might as well get something positive out of the situation, lol!
Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I think you need to check yourself for a bitch magnet of some sort Virgo......check all your pockets 😉
Yeah, you cold be right... I have a Gemini girl interested too. I'm wondering if I even dare risk it! That said, my mother is a Gemini so I'd at least have "inside information" from someone who knows what makes them tick!!
Posted by Prince_Pisces
wow. . .all three of them got up and left you lol!click to expand
Yeah, and they did it in sequence. I can imagine the frantic texting that must have been going on between them to engineer a situation whereby they all ended up somewhere else, minus me. Bet it would have been hilarious to have been in on it.
Well isn't that too bad VirgoM20, better luck next time with another Virgo lol wonder what got her to leave like that. What did you do?? I'm kidding. She must have panicked about something or else Just left, that sucks for you.
The only thing that I can think that would make any woman do that is she started her menstrual cycle and made a huge mess on her outfit, there are a few other reasons that could cause that kind of behavior but I'm not going to make excuses for what she did, it was rude no matter what angle you look at it.
Well, whatever... if she had texted me as soon as possible to let me know she wasn't coming back it would have been fine, whatever her reason was, whether she did have a genuine emergency or just wanted to escape from me... But leaving it for me to chase her up when I'd traveled a long way from where I live to meet her and had limited options for getting home because of severe weather here which has caused a lot of disruption to transport put me in an awkward situation and was pretty poor manners. Still, never mind. If there's one thing I learned in 2009 it's that there's "plenty more fish in the sea"!
Thumbs up to you, VM20 for...
1. Knowing we're laughing WITH you while sympathizing with your plight
2. Good enough attitude to not let it get to you.
1. Knowing we're laughing WITH you while sympathizing with your plight
2. Good enough attitude to not let it get to you.
The funny thing is, I don't hate her for it. She either A: was genuinely ill, or B: just made an excuse because she didn't like me. The fact that she didn't bother to text and tell me I could go home because she wasn't coming back was clumsy and, I think, un-Virgo-like, and that's my reason for starting the topic. I'm more interested in knowing why a Virgo would behave like that than I am in making a big fuss about the situation! It's all fodder for interesting discussion as far as I'm concerned. I'm just slightly confused because we were getting on well. I've had some absolutely cringeworthy dates with people of less patient signs that we both saw through until home time out of sheer politeness, so for someone from a "polite" sign, who I was getting on well with, to behave like this makes it all the more fascinating!!!
I guess she just wasn't that into you, virgo or not she wasn't into you enough to stay to the end of the date...there are some women that know exactly what she wants and refuse to waste time
Your date reminds me of a scene on sex and the city were Carrie's gay guy friend got so lonely he put out a personal ad in the paper, showed up to the designated meeting spot and finally when his date showed up, he looked him up and down and said sorry it's not going to work and walked away LOL talk about rejection but some people are really like that, won't even try to get to know a person if the attraction isn't there.
Your date reminds me of a scene on sex and the city were Carrie's gay guy friend got so lonely he put out a personal ad in the paper, showed up to the designated meeting spot and finally when his date showed up, he looked him up and down and said sorry it's not going to work and walked away LOL talk about rejection but some people are really like that, won't even try to get to know a person if the attraction isn't there.
I feel bad for VirgoM20 now, there's always luck for you next time.
Posted by VirgoM20
Well, whatever... if she had texted me as soon as possible to let me know she wasn't coming back it would have been fine, whatever her reason was, whether she did have a genuine emergency or just wanted to escape from me... But leaving it for me to chase her up when I'd traveled a long way from where I live to meet her and had limited options for getting home because of severe weather here which has caused a lot of disruption to transport put me in an awkward situation and was pretty poor manners. Still, never mind. If there's one thing I learned in 2009 it's that there's "plenty more fish in the sea"!
This quote leaves me with the impression that you had not met her until this time. You had travelled a great distance to meet her.
If you had met her before, then you would have known a bit more about her demeanor, her disposition.
So, I'm left with the conclusion that this was first physical introductions ... so, taking into considering that you travelled to meet her, I would also come to the conclusion that you met her online.
People are present themselves differently online than they actually are. Just as she was not what you thought ... you obviously were not what she thought.
Manners is what you are using at this time to be upset about ... you were dissed, that issue is more important and severe than manners, or lack thereof.
And btw, I know many Virgos who don't have proper manners .. this is something you are taught, not magically born with.
Update!
Yesterday I got chatting with a random girl in my town. Anyway, this girl added me to her Facebook right there on her iPhone, so I had a look through her friends on mine to see if I knew any of them, and VirGirl was among them! Small world!! I told her what had happened with VirGirl and she said she knew VirGirl quite well and that VirGirl simply wasn't the type to have done a runner like that - she is the most down-to-earth, genuine, sincere and decent person she knows - and that she most definitely would have been ill to have disappeared like that, so now I feel bad that I didn't contact her the next day to make sure she had got home okay and was recovering. Now I'm wondering if I should try to re-establish a dialogue with VirGirl, partly so I can apologize and also because I did like her.
Thoughts?
Yesterday I got chatting with a random girl in my town. Anyway, this girl added me to her Facebook right there on her iPhone, so I had a look through her friends on mine to see if I knew any of them, and VirGirl was among them! Small world!! I told her what had happened with VirGirl and she said she knew VirGirl quite well and that VirGirl simply wasn't the type to have done a runner like that - she is the most down-to-earth, genuine, sincere and decent person she knows - and that she most definitely would have been ill to have disappeared like that, so now I feel bad that I didn't contact her the next day to make sure she had got home okay and was recovering. Now I'm wondering if I should try to re-establish a dialogue with VirGirl, partly so I can apologize and also because I did like her.
Thoughts?
God no!
if she was sick, then she would've been embarrassed and apologetic via a call, email, text...courier pigeon.
now you're right in that i would expect a guy to contact me if i fell ill, but the question is, did she fall ill? based on what you described, i don't think so.
sounds like a poorly planned exit strategy.
if she was sick, then she would've been embarrassed and apologetic via a call, email, text...courier pigeon.
now you're right in that i would expect a guy to contact me if i fell ill, but the question is, did she fall ill? based on what you described, i don't think so.
sounds like a poorly planned exit strategy.
Posted by VirgoM20
Update!
Yesterday I got chatting with a random girl in my town. Anyway, this girl added me to her Facebook right there on her iPhone, so I had a look through her friends on mine to see if I knew any of them, and VirGirl was among them! Small world!! I told her what had happened with VirGirl and she said she knew VirGirl quite well and that VirGirl simply wasn't the type to have done a runner like that - she is the most down-to-earth, genuine, sincere and decent person she knows - and that she most definitely would have been ill to have disappeared like that, so now I feel bad tha fish in the sea and get a fish with manners! t I didn't contact her the next day to make sure she had got home okay and was recovering. Now I'm wondering if I should try to re-establish a dialogue with VirGirl, partly so I can apologize and also because I did like her.
Thoughts?
I don't think I would. If she were really interested I think she would've contacted you in the next day or so to apologize even if you hadn't checked on her. That was RUDE!!! Even if I was AWFUL sick I would've either texted you or had my friend text you to let you know. I would've definitely contacted you and told you what happened and apologized so I think you should just go with what you said about there being plenty of other fish in the sea and get one with MANNERS and courteousness! Also, I think it's really tacky that she had two friends with her. I will tell friends where I am and give them information when I go on a date with a new guy for safety reasons but I would NEVER bring along friends!
Just my opinion though!
Posted by hikoro
VirgoM20
Do you have any placements in Libra?
I am curious. Only Libras or people with Libra placements tend to be serial daters. They are partnership-oriented and don't feel comfortable with being alone (not in a relationship).
Quite a bit of Libra, yeah...
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun - Virgo - 26.46
Moon - Scorpio - 19.39
Mercury - Libra - 20.21
Venus - Virgo - 14.28
Mars - Libra - 4.45
Jupiter - Pisces - 11.02 R
Saturn - Cancer - 17.22
Uranus - Libra - 26.12
Neptune - Sagittarius - 7.08
Pluto - Libra - 6.20
Lilith Aquarius - 14.37
Asc node - Sagittarius - 13.18
Placidus Orb:0
Ascendant - Leo - 25.31
I - Virgo - 13.51
III - Libra - 8.32
IV - Scorpio - 11.48
V - Sagittarius - 21.52
VI - Capricorn - 27.40
VII - Aquarius - 25.31
VIII - Pisces - 13.51
IX - Aries - 8.32
Midheaven - Taurus - 11.48
XI - Gemini - 21.52
XII - Cancer - 27.40
Posted by Stpatrickspisces
Also, I think it's really tacky that she had two friends with her. I will tell friends where I am and give them information when I go on a date with a new guy for safety reasons but I would NEVER bring along friends!
Just my opinion though!
In her defense, her friends turned up after about an hour and she did ask if I minded them hanging around for half an hour before they moved on somewhere else. I said okay because I thought I could achieve three things... 1: An insight into how she acted with her friends - you can learn quite a bit about someone when you see them with their friends, 2: She would be more relaxed with her friends so it might loosen things up between me and her too - we were both a bit nervous, 3: An opportunity for me to demonstrate a willingness to associate with her friends and thus demonstrate that I'm not an overly-possessive weirdo.
But anyway... the three of you have all said the same thing... to leave well alone. I think it was just wishful thinking on my part that the whole thing could have been put down to a misunderstanding and resolved because I really fancied her and got on well with her.
Posted by VirgoM20Posted by Stpatrickspisces
Also, I think it's really tacky that she had two friends with her. I will tell friends where I am and give them information when I go on a date with a new guy for safety reasons but I would NEVER bring along friends!
Just my opinion though!
In her defense, her friends turned up after about an hour and she did ask if I minded them hanging around for half an hour before they moved on somewhere else. I said okay because I thought I could achieve three things... 1: An insight into how she acted with her friends - you can learn quite a bit about someone when you see them with their friends, 2: She would be more relaxed with her friends so it might loosen things up between me and her too - we were both a bit nervous, 3: An opportunity for me to demonstrate a willingness to associate with her friends and thus demonstrate that I'm not an overly-possessive weirdo.
But anyway... the three of you have all said the same thing... to leave well alone. I think it was just wishful thinking on my part that the whole thing could have been put down to a misunderstanding and resolved because I really fancied her and got on well with her.click to expand
Oh okay...that makes more sense but it sounds planned nonetheless. I appreciate your reasoning in it though. I understand your disappointment because it sucks when we find someone we feel like we could hit it off with and things point to the opposite. You seem like a really good guy though so I am sure you will find others you feel that "click" with. I have started really hammering that into myself because I want to make sure I'm with someone that is really "into" ME in the beginning because then I am not just chasing after him and second guessing myself. Hope that helps a little. She is not a decent person is she could do that though in my opinion. :-/
I'm curious why would you disclose personal information about you and someone else to a new random girl. I would think that a disaster date would be less than desirable for a possible new love interest to know, I mean you wouldn't want to give the impression that your an unattractive loser that is stalking a bad 1st date but maybe I'm reading too much into it.
I would think your Xvirgo friend would most likely think you were stalking her on FB if she saw you on a mutual friends FB page...I dunno this FB stuff just gets really weird when people have mutual friends but aren't speaking to one another but at the least it could open up dialogue between you and virg-girl if she sense you have completely moved on.
I have to totally agree to stay away from virg-girl, if she comes back to you and wants to communicate well sure use it as an opportunity to set things right but for now stay out of the creepy desperate weirdo box category.
I would think your Xvirgo friend would most likely think you were stalking her on FB if she saw you on a mutual friends FB page...I dunno this FB stuff just gets really weird when people have mutual friends but aren't speaking to one another but at the least it could open up dialogue between you and virg-girl if she sense you have completely moved on.
I have to totally agree to stay away from virg-girl, if she comes back to you and wants to communicate well sure use it as an opportunity to set things right but for now stay out of the creepy desperate weirdo box category.
Posted by tiki33
I'm curious why would you disclose personal information about you and someone else to a new random girl. I would think that a disaster date would be less than desirable for a possible new love interest to know, I mean you wouldn't want to give the impression that your an unattractive loser that is stalking a bad 1st date but maybe I'm reading too much into it.
I would think your Xvirgo friend would most likely think you were stalking her on FB if she saw you on a mutual friends FB page...I dunno this FB stuff just gets really weird when people have mutual friends but aren't speaking to one another but at the least it could open up dialogue between you and virg-girl if she sense you have completely moved on.
I have to totally agree to stay away from virg-girl, if she comes back to you and wants to communicate well sure use it as an opportunity to set things right but for now stay out of the creepy desperate weirdo box category.
i dont do the fb and myspace thing i was never into i guess 2 much law and order and csi showing me how people can be loco lmfao.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGoPosted by tiki33
I'm curious why would you disclose personal information about you and someone else to a new random girl. I would think that a disaster date would be less than desirable for a possible new love interest to know, I mean you wouldn't want to give the impression that your an unattractive loser that is stalking a bad 1st date but maybe I'm reading too much into it.
I would think your Xvirgo friend would most likely think you were stalking her on FB if she saw you on a mutual friends FB page...I dunno this FB stuff just gets really weird when people have mutual friends but aren't speaking to one another but at the least it could open up dialogue between you and virg-girl if she sense you have completely moved on.
I have to totally agree to stay away from virg-girl, if she comes back to you and wants to communicate well sure use it as an opportunity to set things right but for now stay out of the creepy desperate weirdo box category.
i dont do the fb and myspace thing i was never into i guess 2 much law and order and csi showing me how people can be loco lmfao.click to expand
LOL I don't do FB/Myspace either LeGendary ViRGo, it's more a privacy issue for me.
me 2 tiki i dont like people looking me up and stuff its scary 2 me i like meeting people face 2 face so i can determine if i should deal with them of drop them simple as that.
when that stuff first i dont even know what was the hype about people thought i was crazy lmao.
being a virgo privacy is golden 2 me i love 2 get away from people having all those Uranus aspects in my chart 2 thank for that.
i always say take ur time 2 get 2 know someone and if the person is worth it u will value them more then gold.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
me 2 tiki i dont like people looking me up and stuff its scary 2 me i like meeting people face 2 face so i can determine if i should deal with them of drop them simple as that.
when that stuff first i dont even know what was the hype about people thought i was crazy lmao.
being a virgo privacy is golden 2 me i love 2 get away from people having all those Uranus aspects in my chart 2 thank for that.
i always say take ur time 2 get 2 know someone and if the person is worth it u will value them more then gold.
I totally agree, it's just better to do face to face, I'm not a huge text message person either anymore, either call me or forget about it I know that seems a bit harsh but I like real human physical connections, I'm not into developing anymore imaginary relationships online so I totally know what you mean by being private and determining if you should deal with a person or drop them.
I don't want to emotionally bond with someone online that I have to drop later for whatever reason be it he's crazy or just not compatible.
it sounds to me like she made it up to get rid of you. as a virgo female myself,ive pulled those dramatic fake stories to get away from a guy. i met this guy for the first time from the internet haha annnd i got into his car,and on the way to the gas station he was talking about his mental disorders i think he was either schitzo or bi-polar.so while he was in the gas station i called up my friend and told her to call me back in 3 minutes and tell me her mom got in a car accident.sure enough,it worked. he brought me back to my car. i never talked to him again 🙂
LMAO@i met this guy for the first time from the internet haha annnd i got into his car,and on the way to the gas station he was talking about his mental disorders i think he was either schitzo or bi-polar...
Posted by missmeow4
it sounds to me like she made it up to get rid of you. as a virgo female myself,ive pulled those dramatic fake stories to get away from a guy. i met this guy for the first time from the internet haha annnd i got into his car,and on the way to the gas station he was talking about his mental disorders i think he was either schitzo or bi-polar.so while he was in the gas station i called up my friend and told her to call me back in 3 minutes and tell me her mom got in a car accident.sure enough,it worked. he brought me back to my car. i never talked to him again 🙂
lmfao this shit is funny hahahaahha lmao
VirGirl has been in touch! She sent me a message apologising and saying she wanted to be friends with me. I say VirGirl??_ but I'm wondering if she's actually a Leo. When I met her I found out that her birthday is August 23, and looked on a web site and it said Virgo??_ but I??ve since looked on Wikipedia which says Leo runs until August 23 and Virgo starts on August 23 — it can't be both, so which is it? — and I??ve looked no a few other sites which all say August 23 is Leo!
Posted by VirgoM20
VirGirl has been in touch! She sent me a message apologising and saying she wanted to be friends with me. I say VirGirl??_ but I'm wondering if she's actually a Leo. When I met her I found out that her birthday is August 23, and looked on a web site and it said Virgo??_ but I??ve since looked on Wikipedia which says Leo runs until August 23 and Virgo starts on August 23 — it can't be both, so which is it? — and I??ve looked no a few other sites which all say August 23 is Leo!
dude she's a virgo but a early virgo and a cusp and hence might behave like a leo and have a leo ego
virgos start from the 23 of august to sept 22
here's the proof
http://entertainment.howstuffworks.com/virgo.htm
Virgo20
your Virgo date lady must have seen an old flame and decided to ditch you. She probably still has feelings for the other guy.
The moment I read your story, that is what came to my mind first. Dont fall for her 'friendship' offer crap.
good luck!
your Virgo date lady must have seen an old flame and decided to ditch you. She probably still has feelings for the other guy.
The moment I read your story, that is what came to my mind first. Dont fall for her 'friendship' offer crap.
good luck!
That was def. a plan to get rid of you.
Why were her friends there in the first place?
To come and save her from her date, if she decided she wasn't into you. They probably had some secret signal for them to know when to come in and save her.
The usual way its done is...friends will be there without guy knowing, waiting for a signal. Once they get the signal, they phone your date and pretend an emergency has come up which requires your date to scream "oh no!!!" into the phone, and tell you how sorry she is, but she HAS to go right this second.
Sorry.
Why were her friends there in the first place?
To come and save her from her date, if she decided she wasn't into you. They probably had some secret signal for them to know when to come in and save her.
The usual way its done is...friends will be there without guy knowing, waiting for a signal. Once they get the signal, they phone your date and pretend an emergency has come up which requires your date to scream "oh no!!!" into the phone, and tell you how sorry she is, but she HAS to go right this second.
Sorry.
lol@MsPisces
Yeah August 23 is a Virgo. I feel bad for you. I would just do the friends route with her.
Posted by VirgoM20
VirGirl has been in touch! She sent me a message apologising and saying she wanted to be friends with me. I say VirGirl??_ but I'm wondering if she's actually a Leo. When I met her I found out that her birthday is August 23, and looked on a web site and it said Virgo??_ but I??ve since looked on Wikipedia which says Leo runs until August 23 and Virgo starts on August 23 — it can't be both, so which is it? — and I??ve looked no a few other sites which all say August 23 is Leo!
She's a cusper baby, virgo/leo cuspers have a blend of both astrological traits, I find them to be very extroverted, attractive, carry themselves well, artistic, dramatic, full of drama but fun which is the leo side but some I know deal with depression because part the other part of there personality is introverted as well.
Keep her as a friend but maybe you should consider not making it so easy, you did that once and got burned.
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My date decided she needed the toilet and disappeared. After a while one of her friends phoned her to find out why she was taking so long. It turned out she was in the bathroom feeling very ill, so the friend went to see how she was but couldn't find her. The friend then returned and said that my date had gone outside to a cash point. Then the friend went off to look for my date and I was left with the other friend. We chatted a bit and then he received a text message and told me he had to leave. I waited a little longer on my own and then texted my date to see where she'd gone. She told me she was ill and was on her way home, so I left and went home too.
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Whatever her real reason for leaving, I find it odd that she didn't even send a text to tell me she wasn't coming back. If I wasn't more intelligent I could have sat there like an idiot for quite some time!