We had a situation

And I told him I would give him some time. The freshly divorced Virgo is feeling guilty I'm sure... His ex saw us together and flipped! I certainly understand and really feel for them... This is not any easy situation even under the best circumstances. I did not cause the divorce, it was well under way when I met him. I could see he was (is) upset. I told him that I would give him some time.... How long should I wait to contact—.. I'm listening to advice here. I don't want to contact too soon but I do want him to know I'm here and I understand and will be happy to listen or help in anyway... This is so difficult. It's only been a week of no contact and I really miss his company.

Whose idea was it to divorce? If it was her idea, then punch her in the head and remind her that if she wasn't divorcing him, then it wouldn't be an issue.

You can contract just keep it light let him initiate mostly

It's just very fresh... They have kids... It's been very difficult.....she's upset because he has already "moved on".. I'm taking this very seriously because I really really really like this man... I don't want to be the rebound... I WANT him!

i don't think that you are the rebound. i know that when i got divorced it was hard for me to accept that my ex moved on. women are very territorial persons and we hate when someone else is in on their terriroty. i would let him know that you are there. and that would mean so much to him. it will be worse before it gets better trust me. it has taken me almost three years to get everything right and to the point were we are not fighting when we actually communicate about our child.
give it time, but at the same time, only you know when it is a lost cause, if you believe that it is meant to be then he will be with you. have faith and keep contact as long as he contacts you back.
once he realizes that u are there, then he will be with you, might not be today, or tomorrow but it will happen.

Posted by Shescomeundone
It's just very fresh... They have kids... It's been very difficult.....she's upset because he has already "moved on".. I'm taking this very seriously because I really really really like this man... I don't want to be the rebound... I WANT him!

Any man/woman that jumps from a marriage with kids IS REBOUNDING. Accept it and enjoy it while it lasts.

FFS, another liar and ho

Posted by Shescomeundone
After a heavy heart I texted him today and asked if he could call me today.... He is married and I'm broken hearted. I know that's it for me... He sounded sad when I told him I wouldn't be initiating any conversations anymore ... God I hate my life... I really really like(d) him! I'm gonna melt when I see him at work... Luckily he won't be there too much longer...

He's married leave this womans husband alone!

He is since divorced and guess I will just enjoy the ride... I'm crazy about him but I do resize I'm probably the rebound... Well not even... More like the PTS woman! 😢

Posted by Shescomeundone
He is since divorced and guess I will just enjoy the ride... I'm crazy about him but I do resize I'm probably the rebound... Well not even... More like the PTS woman! 😢

Since the end of October? Stop lying. We get you enjoy the ride of another woman's husband. That's been plastered all over. You are simply a piece of ass..no more.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Shescomeundone
He is since divorced and guess I will just enjoy the ride... I'm crazy about him but I do resize I'm probably the rebound... Well not even... More like the PTS woman! 😢

Since the end of October? Stop lying. We get you enjoy the ride of another woman's husband. That's been plastered all over. You are simply a piece of ass..no more.

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Maybe Im piece of ass but he is officially divorced now...

Generally it takes one month for each year of a relationship to even be anywhere NEAR ready for another relationship. During this time, there are several things going on that involve the ex: hard feelings, drama, guilt, battles and arguments, jealousy, a need to "one up" each other, etc.

Any relationships during this time period are one or multiple of the following: paybacks, "I'll show him/her", manipulation techniques, ego builders, rebounds, starter girl/boyfriends, attempts to show the world they are fine, a way to get sex,

I do realize that there are always exceptions to the rule and there can be circumstances in each marriage that might make this "rule" null and void, however, generally allow one month per year of the relationship.

Have fun, keep your eyes open, but don't get hurt. 🙂