Unpredictable is what sums me up. But I only have one Virgo aspect in my whole chart. Mostly fire and air signs.
What are Vigos like when they get angry?
I sulk...I am unapproachable in that time.
Virgos have a hard time forgiving and can hold grudges for a long time. Immediately, an angry Virgo would either retaliate by slicing and dicing you with her words if she is confident she can get away with it, or she will ignore you for the rest of her life and blow off steam on her own.
I have gotten better at processing anger and also at forgiving more quickly. But I definitely have ignored people for long periods who were baffled and had no idea they were being shut out of my life. I felt that was sufficient punishment for their transgressions!
I have gotten better at processing anger and also at forgiving more quickly. But I definitely have ignored people for long periods who were baffled and had no idea they were being shut out of my life. I felt that was sufficient punishment for their transgressions!
Depending on the situation and who am dealing with. I can be cold and shut you out completely.I really rather do that... but I have a sharp temper and get angry quickly. My rage is usually very intimidating and a distinct contrast with my usually happy-go -lucky good nature. I don't usually stay angry for long though. I'm usually forgiving. But let us imagine the worse scenario... cold and if I decide to play mind games...I usually read people and situations well. It makes me a good friend but a formidable foe.
I don't know: what is a "Vigo" anyway?
Cmon dawg. Forgive the spelling errors on titles...we can't edit them.
I become a snappy, snarky bitch in effort to hold in the explosion. I don't get truly angry often though. I can also do the intimidating glower-like-a-serial-killer thing, it's fun.
Depends on how close or comfortable i am with that person.
if i'm really close to them, i'll try and reason with them and if that doesn't work i'll ignore them.
if i'm not close to them, i'll try and ignore them. if they persist, i usually curse.
i currently working on voicing my anger immediately when i'm offended.
i've realise that it's often good for the offender and for me as well(less worry about the ofender's sin)
if i'm really close to them, i'll try and reason with them and if that doesn't work i'll ignore them.
if i'm not close to them, i'll try and ignore them. if they persist, i usually curse.
i currently working on voicing my anger immediately when i'm offended.
i've realise that it's often good for the offender and for me as well(less worry about the ofender's sin)
lol sv
Posted by Virgospirit
Virgos have a hard time forgiving and can hold grudges for a long time. Immediately, an angry Virgo would either retaliate by slicing and dicing you with her words if she is confident she can get away with it, or she will ignore you for the rest of her life and blow off steam on her own.
I have gotten better at processing anger and also at forgiving more quickly. But I definitely have ignored people for long periods who were baffled and had no idea they were being shut out of my life. I felt that was sufficient punishment for their transgressions!
Yes! this is me. I can not talk to someone and not think twice about it.
I've been so mad before I didn't say a word because i knew if I did it would not go well.
I can say some pretty mean things when I am mad, so I'd rather just not say anything.
Posted by virgodog58
I don't know: what is a "Vigo" anyway?
Such a Virgo response. lol. 😛 you know what I mean.
in their youth, psychotic fuckers. it's like a mini-explosion that comes out of nowhere. like if you've ever heard someone say, "their eyes even looked different"...that's what it's like in youth when they're TRULY angry.
creepy fuckers.
creepy fuckers.
@amandus + virgoddess1: yes typos are to the Virgin what red rags are to the Bull. It's in our blood and in our bones I think. I'll bill you later for this service.
Posted by virgodog58
@amandus + virgoddess1: yes typos are to the Virgin what red rags are to the Bull. It's in our blood and in our bones I think. I'll bill you later for this service.
I refuse to pay for something I've already done for myself. 😱
An angry virgo (man) wont say too much usually, they will go into hiding and pout and sulk. They will replay everything you have ever said done or did not do that made them sad. They will analyze it and come up with their own explanation of why it occurred,because they think they know the answer. If they come to the conclusion that they were in the wrong, they will not admit it because then they have to admit that they are not perfect. Some virgos will run away and go to a safe place (usually with family) to try to suppress what they are feeling (emotions, they dont like those).
Posted by caligula
in their youth, psychotic fuckers. it's like a mini-explosion that comes out of nowhere. like if you've ever heard someone say, "their eyes even looked different"...that's what it's like in youth when they're TRULY angry.
creepy fuckers.
hahahah..mine isn't young and he still acts that way. He's not someone you mess with because he is capbale of killing someone and not regret it BUT they would have to be doing harm to family, friend, or an innocent person to do so..
He's been a fighter all his life..
My dd is a virgo but she doesn't have that side to her that I have ever seen and she is 10. Not sure why...
Lmbo @virgodog58 you're being such a "VIGO" right now _—
Posted by LadyLionnessYou are clueless in your assessment. Sounds just like someone who is bitter. Lol Did you get your little heart broken? A true Virgo will NEVER go into hiding and sulk as you say. A Virgo will be very upfront and direct. It's not until you keep doing the same stupid sh** is when a Virgo will cut your ass off and not think twice about you. Also, you go by lioness, so you're probably a Leo which Virgos don't like your personality much. You want the world to revolve around you and a Virgo will give your ass a rude awakening. Which is probably why you sound bitter. Lol
An angry virgo (man) wont say too much usually, they will go into hiding and pout and sulk. They will replay everything you have ever said done or did not do that made them sad. They will analyze it and come up with their own explanation of why it occurred,because they think they know the answer. If they come to the conclusion that they were in the wrong, they will not admit it because then they have to admit that they are not perfect. Some virgos will run away and go to a safe place (usually with family) to try to suppress what they are feeling (emotions, they dont like those).
Serenity now serenity now
My eyes and skin start turning green, my body and muscle will get even more bigger and stronger, then start ripping my shirt off.
Posted by MCThePredatorI don't think it's good idea to promote your music here to be honest with you.
As a Virgo I honestly don't know. What I do know is my music which I would love some feedback from you all, if you click on the link it will lead you to my soundcloud account, please listen to all the songs. The other link will be to facebook to my official page on facebook and hit the like button, I hope if its not to much to ask to show some love and support its only a click away.
https://soundcloud.com/mcthepredator/mellow-metropolis
Great Morning!! please check out my page full of great instrumentals, I am also on facebook, twitter and instagram as MCThePredator. Please show love and click like to the facebook page. Thank You all
P.S My facebook page is facebook.com/marcus.crumpler.1
Try to find a website where people will focus on music more than astrology. last fm, maybe?
Posted by MCThePredatorAlright man.Posted by Nathan912Lmao shit I was on this site a few years ago as ProphetProdigy I know everybody on here is into the stars and moon but I also know somebody will click and listen. Thats all I need. I am also on facebook, souncloud, twitter and instagram as MCThePredator youtube page coming soon as MCThePredator.Posted by MCThePredatorI don't think it's good idea to promote your music here to be honest with you.
As a Virgo I honestly don't know. What I do know is my music which I would love some feedback from you all, if you click on the link it will lead you to my soundcloud account, please listen to all the songs. The other link will be to facebook to my official page on facebook and hit the like button, I hope if its not to much to ask to show some love and support its only a click away.
https://soundcloud.com/mcthepredator/mellow-metropolis
Great Morning!! please check out my page full of great instrumentals, I am also on facebook, twitter and instagram as MCThePredator. Please show love and click like to the facebook page. Thank You all
P.S My facebook page is facebook.com/marcus.crumpler.1
Try to find a website where people will focus on music more than astrology. last fm, maybe?
Thanks for the heads up.click to expand
Hello, birthday twin! 😉
Posted by MCThePredatorAwww.Posted by DamnataTo be honest I was hoping you remembered me!!!!, I'm good how have you been?
Hello, birthday twin! 😉click to expand
Well we already have few Virgos here. COULD YOU ALL JUST STOP VANISHING? You are needed to reply in wimmin topics.
I didn't know you were into music. I remember us posting in the quotes/poetry topic.
I'm good. Life is a bit topsy turvy but I'll figure it out.
Posted by magmaI miss the many Virgo Men we used to have here.
"COULD YOU ALL JUST STOP VANISHING? You are needed to reply in wimmin topics."
You've said similar things before, are you going to tell us more or why at some point?
And since there's a majority of women on DXP...there are a lot of topics about Virgo Men. So it's nice to have Virgo Men replying to those topics.
Posted by KsamCancerLOL, this if for me is so true, ex kept complaining and wanted answers to questions, I answered her, she did not like the answers, she got angrier and angrier and just kept repeating the questions, I've given my answer what more does she want? I just went passive aggressive.
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
As for me getting really angry so I lost my temper, once AFAICR.
I get annoyed often. But not much sets off my temper. When I'm angry, I have an explosive blow up. I don't know what I'm going to do next and a part of me is watching from the backseat shitting herself. No, no, no, no, no. I've done things like pour my drink on her head. In a pub, I've let loose the bouncer on him or told store security he just shop lifted. I once sagged my sister in public, she was wearing jogging pants and I yanked them down around her ankles. Other times I've said things that, while funny were mean spirited and I immediately regretted humiliating the person.
My temper is one of those things I like least about me. It's why I prefer to keep my emotions in check. I feel like I'm not in control of what I'm going to say or do next an that's just inexcusable. "I lost control." doesn't work in a courtroom. I need to work harder to control it. It's so hard. I feel like I'm going to vibrate right out of my skin. I want to bite down on their throat and rip out their jugular. It feels like I'm fighting that instinct so hard, I forget to reign in what will come instead. I don't see it coming. In that moment it's just blinding rage. I'm a reserved person. I don't know how this happens but in my nightmares I actually bite down on their throat and tear and there's blood everywhere. I don't understand it. It's a disproportionate response. No one deserves that.
This probably isn't a Virgo thing. This is probably just my crazy.
My temper is one of those things I like least about me. It's why I prefer to keep my emotions in check. I feel like I'm not in control of what I'm going to say or do next an that's just inexcusable. "I lost control." doesn't work in a courtroom. I need to work harder to control it. It's so hard. I feel like I'm going to vibrate right out of my skin. I want to bite down on their throat and rip out their jugular. It feels like I'm fighting that instinct so hard, I forget to reign in what will come instead. I don't see it coming. In that moment it's just blinding rage. I'm a reserved person. I don't know how this happens but in my nightmares I actually bite down on their throat and tear and there's blood everywhere. I don't understand it. It's a disproportionate response. No one deserves that.
This probably isn't a Virgo thing. This is probably just my crazy.
Posted by BlackMambaI'm glad someone finds it funny. I'm not keen on "letting anger out". I think the world could do with less of that. But maybe I could try to figure out why I get so angry in the first place.
Lol let your anger out dude you're not helping anybody by repressing it. Also ask yourself why your angry really dig deep and that might help.
Get a journal
Posted by BlackMambaI am physically active. I rock climb, hike and when no one's looking, I download dance routines (danced competitively growing up) and learn them in my living room.
Maybe do boxing so you can vent. Also I'd check your testosterone levels.
Not sure I'd want to box with anyone. What if I actually bit them?
Posted by BlackMambaYeah, how do you get consent to bite someone?Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseBite your next man I'm sure he'll enjoy itPosted by BlackMambaI am physically active. I rock climb, hike and when no one's looking, I download dance routines (danced competitively growing up) and learn them in my living room.
Maybe do boxing so you can vent. Also I'd check your testosterone levels.
Not sure I'd want to box with anyone. What if I actually bit them?click to expand
"So, er... next time we're... can I bite you?"
Posted by VanishMy funny/not funny story. I didn't notice that I bite my lip during sex until the day I went right through my bottom lip. I had to go to my dr's office and get three stitches. I lied and said I was trying not to laugh.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseI bite them without consent.Posted by BlackMambaYeah, how do you get consent to bite someone?Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseBite your next man I'm sure he'll enjoy itPosted by BlackMambaI am physically active. I rock climb, hike and when no one's looking, I download dance routines (danced competitively growing up) and learn them in my living room.
Maybe do boxing so you can vent. Also I'd check your testosterone levels.
Not sure I'd want to box with anyone. What if I actually bit them?
"So, er... next time we're... can I bite you?"click to expand
Posted by BlackMambaNever occurred to me that other Virgo's might be biter's too. Wonder if that's true.
Or not so tenderly... Depends on person
Posted by BlackMambaOh no! You just called me a vampire! But biting throats does feel like a natural response to excitement. Sex or anger.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseTrue blood!Posted by BlackMambaNever occurred to me that other Virgo's might be biter's too. Wonder if that's true.
Or not so tenderly... Depends on person
You guys are vampires. I felt weird that in my 30+++ years I had Hickies, but he so loved to suck and hard on my neck
I took it like a champ. Virgo Mars and I bit too but not as hardclick to expand
Posted by BlackMambaYou're brave. I'd be pretty mad. Hence I don't let myself do that. There's always that nagging worry that I'll take it too far.
Suck and bite. I'd have red marks. I wore them like a Scarlett letter. Proudly
Posted by KsamCancerso if that virgo invited you to an event they were part of and when you showed up, they barely said "hello", didn't even say your name, acted very cold and stern and then gave you the silent treatment never even looking at you as if you didn't exist for the entire time you were there (1 hour) leaving you to stand alone; would that indicate he was angry and pulled the passive aggressive crap to express his anger toward you?
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
for the life of me, i still don't understand this behavior. i asked him about it and he acted as if nothing was out of the ordinary even saying he was so busy, he just couldn't speak with me, which was utter crap.
i'd rather him tell me he hated me to my face than give me the silent treatment. it's not only rude and hurtful, but very cowardly. i have no doubt, if the tables were turned and I had treated him the manner he did me, he would have gotten pissed.
Posted by BlackMambaI've never had someone I lost my temper on laugh it off. I wish.
Let your inner vixen out. Also not everyone is going to be scared of your angry tantrums.
Some of us might just laugh at you.
But better than being a cold robot. Urff
I wish I was cold or distant. That's the way I would describe my family. Compared to other people, I'm reserved. Compared to my parents and siblings, I'm over-emotional and lack self-discipline. Doesn't matter how long or how I hard I've tried to reach their level of zen, I don't get there. KWIM?
Posted by BlackMambaLOL
I personally like being mauled, it's hot!
Posted by gemini64Or he was avoiding you while he cooled off to keep from saying something he might regret later.Posted by KsamCancerso if that virgo invited you to an event they were part of and when you showed up, they barely said "hello", didn't even say your name, acted very cold and stern and then gave you the silent treatment never even looking at you as if you didn't exist for the entire time you were there (1 hour) leaving you to stand alone; would that indicate he was angry and pulled the passive aggressive crap to express his anger toward you?
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
for the life of me, i still don't understand this behavior. i asked him about it and he acted as if nothing was out of the ordinary even saying he was so busy, he just couldn't speak with me, which was utter crap.
i'd rather him tell me he hated me to my face than give me the silent treatment. it's not only rude and hurtful, but very cowardly. i have no doubt, if the tables were turned and I had treated him the manner he did me, he would have gotten pissed.click to expand
Just another possibility to consider.
Posted by BlackMambaMother was AquariusPosted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseSo you're the only one in your family that's interesting and you want to be more like them?Posted by BlackMambaI've never had someone I lost my temper on laugh it off. I wish.
Let your inner vixen out. Also not everyone is going to be scared of your angry tantrums.
Some of us might just laugh at you.
But better than being a cold robot. Urff
I wish I was cold or distant. That's the way I would describe my family. Compared to other people, I'm reserved. Compared to my parents and siblings, I'm over-emotional and lack self-discipline. Doesn't matter how long or how I hard I've tried to reach their level of zen, I don't get there. KWIM?
What's their signs?click to expand
Father is Capricorn
Sister is Virgo
Brother is Aquarius
They're smarter, more successful and stable.
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseAvoiding me from what? two days prior, he emailed me and said, "everything is great!" i can understand your suggestion but in this case, there is zero reason to behave as he did. and if he wanted to avoid me to keep from saying something he might regret later, then why total silence for 6 months? i've always been open and honest with him. he knew where I stood. and he should have known that the last thing I wanted from him was to be treated with disrespect.Posted by gemini64Or he was avoiding you while he cooled off to keep from saying something he might regret later.Posted by KsamCancerso if that virgo invited you to an event they were part of and when you showed up, they barely said "hello", didn't even say your name, acted very cold and stern and then gave you the silent treatment never even looking at you as if you didn't exist for the entire time you were there (1 hour) leaving you to stand alone; would that indicate he was angry and pulled the passive aggressive crap to express his anger toward you?
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
for the life of me, i still don't understand this behavior. i asked him about it and he acted as if nothing was out of the ordinary even saying he was so busy, he just couldn't speak with me, which was utter crap.
i'd rather him tell me he hated me to my face than give me the silent treatment. it's not only rude and hurtful, but very cowardly. i have no doubt, if the tables were turned and I had treated him the manner he did me, he would have gotten pissed.
Just another possibility to consider.click to expand
Posted by VanishAbsolutely nothing. we had exchanged a few emails prior, even one two days prior and he said "everything was great!" but when I showed up, man oh man, did he have this cold, almost pissed off look. i have often wondered if he was pissed prior to me getting there and then when he saw me, he didn't want to deal with me for some reason. I have no idea. I asked him several days after by email and he didn't reply for over 6 months. I followed up with a concise email asking him if he was angry with me for some reason I didn't understand, and he replied with basically blowing it off saying he was just preoccupied that day, which was total BS!Posted by gemini64What did you do to him?Posted by KsamCancerso if that virgo invited you to an event they were part of and when you showed up, they barely said "hello", didn't even say your name, acted very cold and stern and then gave you the silent treatment never even looking at you as if you didn't exist for the entire time you were there (1 hour) leaving you to stand alone; would that indicate he was angry and pulled the passive aggressive crap to express his anger toward you?
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
for the life of me, i still don't understand this behavior. i asked him about it and he acted as if nothing was out of the ordinary even saying he was so busy, he just couldn't speak with me, which was utter crap.
i'd rather him tell me he hated me to my face than give me the silent treatment. it's not only rude and hurtful, but very cowardly. i have no doubt, if the tables were turned and I had treated him the manner he did me, he would have gotten pissed.click to expand
the entire thing was a complete 180 from anything he had ever done prior. So yea, I'm at a total loss.
Posted by gemini64I'm just guessing. I wasn't there and I'm not him. Just offering a possibility. I just know that my interpersonal skills suck because I miss the big picture of how my behaviour put together from different events are going to be interpreted. I'm good at not blurting out things I shouldn't. But usually I get in trouble for what I didn't say. I hold back a lot. In school I've had a person who moved in the same social circles tell me they'd never heard me talk in three years. I'm sure they're exaggerating, but it is true that I should say more. I don't make it easy for people to know where they stand with me.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseAvoiding me from what? two days prior, he emailed me and said, "everything is great!" i can understand your suggestion but in this case, there is zero reason to behave as he did. and if he wanted to avoid me to keep from saying something he might regret later, then why total silence for 6 months? i've always been open and honest with him. he knew where I stood. and he should have known that the last thing I wanted from him was to be treated with disrespect.Posted by gemini64Or he was avoiding you while he cooled off to keep from saying something he might regret later.Posted by KsamCancerso if that virgo invited you to an event they were part of and when you showed up, they barely said "hello", didn't even say your name, acted very cold and stern and then gave you the silent treatment never even looking at you as if you didn't exist for the entire time you were there (1 hour) leaving you to stand alone; would that indicate he was angry and pulled the passive aggressive crap to express his anger toward you?
When a Virgo is angry its usually passive aggressive behavior. Theyll give away all your clothes to donation since "you weren't picking up the phone". If you arent talking to each other, theyll cook dinner without you since "you didnt say you were hungry" things like that.
for the life of me, i still don't understand this behavior. i asked him about it and he acted as if nothing was out of the ordinary even saying he was so busy, he just couldn't speak with me, which was utter crap.
i'd rather him tell me he hated me to my face than give me the silent treatment. it's not only rude and hurtful, but very cowardly. i have no doubt, if the tables were turned and I had treated him the manner he did me, he would have gotten pissed.
Just another possibility to consider.click to expand
It has occurred to me that other Virgo's might be in the same boat.
I generally shut people out while calling forth a snowstorm to slowly but surely bury them to death. But the damage done to me must be quite big for me to do so.
My Virgo usually vents ALL of the little stuff off ... he's able to stay relatively relaxed with being able to bitch without me taking it personally.
Out right full on angry about something .... he's an exploding teapot ...... hot and very short lasting
I suppose if he wasn't able to vent off steam then he might be more ferocious.
What a bunch of nutters in here talking destructively, talking on a fanatical persona of a superhero and everyone beware, lol
That was a terrible analogy .... the anger in a teapot .... that's not what it means.
Depends on who i'm mad at and the situation. Normally I will ignore and be cold as ice, I can cut somebody out of my life without hesitation. Other times when pushed too far, I can snap and be your worst nightmare both physically and verbally. Guess there's no in between for me hahaha!
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