what are virgos like when they are jealous?

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Jealousy is not a normal state for Virgo, and usually they only have this feeling when they've been played and manipulated.

Virgo here. Spit it out leo

Posted by P-Angel

Jealousy is not a normal state for Virgo, and usually they only have this feeling when they've been played and manipulated.

Very true for me

i dont get that feeling that virgo has jealousy issues at all.

they will fight for what they want, and if they are watery, they have some insecurities but they will never be jealous of what you have, or who you are, more that they turn inside themselves. So they are harder on themselves to do better. kind of like Fixing themselves up. Why bother to waste energy on others trying to be jealous?? when that the time wasted can be fixing yourself UP.

I'm also in agreement regarding virgo's getting jealous. Don't think it's jealousy; what i have experienced is more akin to possessiveness. been on that end several times with a virgo man. and they do it ever so subtly. It's not done in an open, in your face type verbal statement. It's done by passive - aggressive behavior.

I'm not saying all male virgo's are passive - aggressive, but I sure have known a few who excel in it. I used to not be able to see it for what it is, now I can spot it in a heartbeat.

virgos arent inherently jealous. its another placement in the chart that would cause them to be jealous. i.e. a virgo with scorpio, aries, etc

Posted by SensitiveBlues
i mean show me i matter.

they don't show you affection
jealousy


nothing

how does a water sign deal with that...

By not dating them in the first place.

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Posted by gemini64
I'm also in agreement regarding virgo's getting jealous. Don't think it's jealousy; what i have experienced is more akin to possessiveness. been on that end several times with a virgo man. and they do it ever so subtly. It's not done in an open, in your face type verbal statement. It's done by passive - aggressive behavior.

I'm not saying all male virgo's are passive - aggressive, but I sure have known a few who excel in it. I used to not be able to see it for what it is, now I can spot it in a heartbeat.

if im possessive of a female, i shall let her know. first she has to be worthy of telling her that.

possessiveness can be both good and bad.

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what if she wasn't yours to have?

trust me, i know the difference between jealousy and possessiveness. virgo men try to act all cool and in control, but it's so obvious when they are not in control of someone they want to control or at the very least, desire.

they can't address it head on. they subtly maneuver their words and actions to keep you from getting a firm grip on what their true intentions are. this keeps them safe while you are thinking, WTH is he doing this? doesn't he know I can see through his act?

I'm telling you, i've had too many experiences with virgo men who do this. i don't know if it's only with those they can't have or if it's part of their insecurity.

It's a different act when they are confident in their ability to pursue someone who is available and has a mutual interest in them.

quiet..

My virgo doesn't really feel jealous. I'd just compliment what they have and work towards trying to get it for myself.

Never.

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
@gemini64

"It's a different act when they are confident in their ability to pursue someone who is available and has a mutual interest in them."

this is what i'm talking about of being possessive when they have a mutual interest. there is a line i think, that one should not take it to far or out of control.

so if she was not mine to have then, there is no need to be like that. only with a mutual aspect to the relationship.
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i dont think it's a virgo guy thing. it's guys and females of all signs.
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if she was not mine to have to begin with, then there is no need at all to be like that at all.

and i let someone know my intentions if there are any at all bc mind games, i dont do and it sounds like you dont either as most gemini females ive meet pretty much let me know ahead what the deal was.

possessiveness used to make another out right jealous, is wrong period.

you may be correct that the possessiveness I'm referring to is both male and female, however, I've had a handful of experiences with virgo men with this tendency, it's become a consistent thing I've noticed and honestly look for from the get go.

you seem more honest about how you'd act around a woman you may have attraction to etc., but can't have for whatever reasons. that has not been my case with virgo men. granted, i don't know every virgo man in the world. so given the fact that you aren't like the ones i've known, that's very respectful. i think i attract virgo men because of being both gemini but a confident and outgoing women. I love to converse and discuss serious topics. Most virgo men eat that up from the get go.

Posted by CrosstownTraffic
@gemini64

so possessive ways of me::

say me and you have a kid. i want to know where your at and our child is at, at all times when possible.
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is that wrong? some people say yes, all though i don't think so one bit. if something happened to our kid, i would want to know where you may be if something did happen. i dont need or want to know all that to spy on you bc if i dont have any trust for you then, we are doing one another no good at all.

No, i don't think you are being possessive of your GF or wife if you have a child together and you want to know where she is? granted if you text her or call every 15 minutes, that is over the top. But wanting to know where she is and if they are fine, that's perfectly ok. I do the same with my husband. It's nice to know your loved one is ok.

hmmm then this girl im dealing with is probably a scorpio....

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
i mean show me i matter.

they don't show you affection
jealousy


nothing

how does a water sign deal with that...

By not dating them in the first place.

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Im cancer and most of serious boyfriends have been virgos, i have no idea how it happens because on paper, i wouldn't date a Virgo. they do not show emotions, i can't deal with them so how do i end up with them?! As friends thou, we get along like a house on fire! but date them? im not doing that again

Posted by DMV
virgos arent inherently jealous. its another placement in the chart that would cause them to be jealous. i.e. a virgo with scorpio, aries, etc

^ that

i'm not jealous of stuff or situations, etc. but i can be jealous of relationships (scorpio venus)

Posted by leo48
I have and interesting story for you all but that will come after the comments

I'm only jealous if I feel insecure about the relationship, or you cross the line between friendship and flirting. Otherwise, I could give a damn if my SO has female friends. And if I DO feel jealous, either I will let you know if it's blatant disrespect, or hide it, depends on the situation.