What is in his mind—

Have been friends with this Virgo guy from past 2 years , I like him a lot , earlier he had a gf and even I was dating , we never met just use to talk on text never spoke to each other. We both are single now , I am a Capricorn, we met for the first time , every time either of us use to be busy, at times I asked him out and then later he asked me out thrice , dint make it obvious though, but the first meeting was wierd, he tried to flirt though he couldn't and was talking about other girls too , he never initiates text, don't know what he wanted to show for the first time, he seems interested but confusing at times .
Can't figure him out !!!!

1. I can't stand for someone to compare me or talk about exes..
2.A guy must initiate as well as the girl mutually.
3.I get embrassed or put on the spot if flirting happens right away, I have to feel comfortable around them, maybe it's the same way for you, comfortable and sincere only but it is the first meet up.
4. What are your mars, mercury, and moon with his??

I don't know about moon sign
I think he is not ready yet , he talked about other girls as in he tried to show me that he started flirting with girls and just give compliments, he dosnt know how to flirt I have seen , I don't know why he wants to show me that he can be a bad guy coz he is not, at times I feel he is testing me,
Earlier once his friend tried to flirt with me , I told him bout his friend and asked to tell him not to bother me .