What should I do?

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Long story short I'm a Pisces/Aries cusp. I have a friend who is sep. 4th Virgo. We ended up having a fwb type relationship. Everything was going great until a couple weeks ago. He stopped responding to me, never initiated contact. Anytime we do hang out tho, he flirts. I have been ignoring the flirting tho, because he never tries with me when I contact him. I called him the other day to see if he wanted to hang out but he said "I have plans later with Erica". I sent him a text after that telling him he sucks at taking hints followed by a sexy snap chat. He didn't say anything back but oh I get it. He didn't respond to me flirtatiously saying "oh finally lol". But the next morning added me back on snapchat. I don't understand why he sends so many mixed signals? I just want my friend back and regret sleeping with him in the first place. Could he be back firing at me for mentioning I want to find a guy or is he genuinely bored with me?
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Posted by confused34567
Long story short I'm a Pisces/Aries cusp. I have a friend who is sep. 4th Virgo. We ended up having a fwb type relationship. Everything was going great until a couple weeks ago. He stopped responding to me, never initiated contact. Anytime we do hang out tho, he flirts. I have been ignoring the flirting tho, because he never tries with me when I contact him. I called him the other day to see if he wanted to hang out but he said "I have plans later with Erica". I sent him a text after that telling him he sucks at taking hints followed by a sexy snap chat. He didn't say anything back but oh I get it. He didn't respond to me flirtatiously saying "oh finally lol". But the next morning added me back on snapchat. I don't understand why he sends so many mixed signals? I just want my friend back and regret sleeping with him in the first place. Could he be back firing at me for mentioning I want to find a guy or is he genuinely bored with me?
It's not mixed signals. It's FWB.

FWB has an expiration date. Usually FWB is for some no strings sex until one of you finds someone you want to take seriously. Perhaps he's taking "Erica" seriously and wants to date her, thus no longer interested in FWB.

FYI - if you don't want to lose a friendship with a man, then don't FWB with him. Not only does it kill a friendship, but also once he's in a relationship there is NO WAY his gf is going to accept him being around someone he's slept with in the past.