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Why Virgos Are Often Seen as Kind and Grounded
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What's with crabs and virgins—
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Idk...I usually keep a low profile and pop up every so often which is normal cause she knows how I am but last time it was terrible...she kept yelling at me and trying to boss me around...then in front of her bf n his friends she said " I was about to slap u" ...I told her to square up when shes ready... But that hurt me to have to speak to her like that
So my question is what caused her behavior
Did I offend her or bruise her ego or what?
Posted by CantGetEnough
Show that bitch who's boss.
I'm already in hot water for showing ppl who's the boss...lol n she knows that...tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎
Posted by busyeyes88
Crabs produce too much water ... They literally turn most earth signs into mud!You don't sound very 'gentle' OP - 'may have to beat her fukin face in'... Hmmm
But why I knew her since 8 the grade ...she was always somebody I considered a friend...mabey I am too sensitive my feelings are really hurt
Posted by starwars
I think its fine, all friends have their days and turn bitchy for some time because they think you'd tolerance their shit bc you're their friend.
just don't be passive about it and tell her that she was being a bitch
Makes sense.. "Friends"
Posted by starwars
I think its fine, all friends have their days and turn bitchy for some time because they think you'd tolerance their shit bc you're their friend.
just don't be passive about it and tell her that she was being a bitch
Makes sense.. "Friends"
Posted by Darling
So my question is what caused her behavior
Did I offend her or bruise her ego or what?why did she say she wants to slap you? what have you done?
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Not sure..I just walked into her yard n she said I was about to slap u...n I'm looking at her like o...k...I guess she thought I was someone else but when u recognized me wtf would make u still say that—
Basically crossed the line with that comment
Posted by LillyPetal
What's with crabs and virgins—
Wat u mean?
Posted by Darling
What makes a Virgo female go from being one of the coolest friends you have to a loud- wanna be bully-stupid bitch...I thought I was safe to be my sweet fun loving self around her.. Now she tries to bully me and embarrass me in front of people— What causes a virgo chick to flip...I'm a cancer so I'm sensitive so I distanced myself but I may have to beat her fukin face in ...n I'm tryna be peaceful¢WHAT CAUSES THIS BULLSHIT!?!!
Oh Perfect, I have no explanation but an example. I have two separate friends A Cap and Virgo, each one detests the other but tries to be cordial around me. On this particular day we were all supposed to go the beach together. For some reason my Virgo friend decides to act like a diva, she made us wait while she was on the phone, and then felt unapologetic about it. She went further by making one ridiculous statement in the lines of "it's not all about you".. I flipped. My Cap knows not to thread that path with me, but with my virgo I'm always so mellow, she wasn't prepared for the back lash she got. Of course, I left them both.
According to the Cap she said.."wow, you went from 0 to 60 in 2 secs. The virgo called later to apologize, she said, I overreact to things. My leo Mars fights anything and anyone. Can't be sensitive 24/7.
Posted by Darling
What makes a Virgo female go from being one of the coolest friends you have to a loud- wanna be bully-stupid cookiemonster...I thought I was safe to be my sweet fun loving self around her.. Now she tries to bully me and embarrass me in front of people— What causes a virgo chick to flip...I'm a cancer so I'm sensitive so I distanced myself but I may have to beat her treetrukin face in ...n I'm tryna be peaceful¢WHAT CAUSES THIS BULLbutter!?!!jealousy. virgo and cancer friends fight over this alot. Virgo is jealous of Cancers charisma
my X virgo friend was super stalking my Virgo boyfriend, whose now an x and i still see her fb creeping
mind you i threw a CAP at her who was into me, he dated her and dumped her cold, dated her friend.
i also threw a SAG at her that was into me, he told her he would never go out with her, unless im there as well
so finally when she saw i was in love for the first time, she had to have him, cause why would i be in love with a man who made minimum wage, when lawyer and investment banker was into me.
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Smh effin haters
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎
this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
Posted by busyeyes88
Crabs produce too much water ... They literally turn most earth signs into mud!You don't sound very 'gentle' OP - 'may have to beat her fukin face in'... Hmmm
stfu ! i say this with the most politeness i can muster
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Posted by busyeyes88
Crabs produce too much water ... They literally turn most earth signs into mud!You don't sound very 'gentle' OP - 'may have to beat her fukin face in'... Hmmm
stfu ! i say this with the most politeness i can muster
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I mean...what Mud?? What water?? Since you're neither of the how would you understand the dynamic. ? I have 6 Virgo friends and counting..
Hormones? LOL Sometimes virgo bestie and I bicker back and forth. Most of the time we're cool.
It's not always sunny days in relationships.
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
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Did I shank someone— Why yes I did‘
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
Did I shank someone— Why yes I did‘
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The jodi ariasque vibe of cancers continues...
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
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N no...I'm usually the one there to listen to her complain about her life...always trying to make her feel good about herself n trying to teach her crybaby complaining ass the art of optimism...‘ ditch me— I don't give a rats ass but u will respect me for the simple fact that I been a good friend to umteen YRS...
Who's Jodi ari- whatever— @ Damnata
Posted by blessyou
same thing with this happened to me with a taurus. Pretty much he did the right thing and showed her who's boss. I can relate because I have a cancer asc and I feel like people try to pin me as some moody dude but yeah I pretty much had to give her a reality check. Hit her with facts. You don't even need to lay a hand on these bi*ches nowadays, hit em with facts and they'll fly away..
FactsðŸ'¯ðŸ'¯ðŸ'¯ðŸ'¯
Posted by Darling
Who's Jodi ari- whatever— @ Damnata
She murdered her Bf...she's cancerian. Love those shows..
I don't see anything wrong with what she said tbh...you scared her for a second, and meant that if you, weren't you, she would have hit you.
You're taking it too personal.
Posted by Darling
Who's Jodi ari- whatever— @ DamnataShe murdered her Bf...she's cancerian. Love those shows..
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Oh lord‚‚‚
Posted by Greentea
I don't see anything wrong with what she said tbh...you scared her for a second, and meant that if you, weren't you, she would have hit you.You're taking it too personal.
That's understandable but after that she just continued to yell at me n try to treat me like a sidekick...I think its because I let her slide with that she just started ice skating
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
lol the most emotional hypersensitive sign is Virgo....they just don't see it. everyone else does tho.
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nope, cancers are incredible in debates. we start logically etc and suddenly i am called "traitor of this country!" out of nowhere. it's just..on another level.
just discussing fights, other than that i sync well with cancers.
Posted by Greentea
I don't see anything wrong with what she said tbh...you scared her for a second, and meant that if you, weren't you, she would have hit you.You're taking it too personal.
This^
i was just sitting here reading this thread and stumbled on her reasoning for wanting to fuck her face in. i was waiting on someone else to tell the op this because i didn't know how to put it in words 😢.
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Lol oh man mabey u had to be there to understand... That comment started a domino effect of belittling... Even her bf n his friends was looking at her like" ?"
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
lol the most emotional hypersensitive sign is Virgo....they just don't see it. everyone else does tho.
nope, cancers are incredible in debates. we start logically etc and suddenly i am called "traitor of this country!" out of nowhere. it's just..on another level.
just discussing fights, other than that i sync well with cancers.
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Sounds to me like she was rough playing with you, and teasing you ... but, hey, look at you taking shit personally, like a child.
Posted by Greentea
I don't see anything wrong with what she said tbh...you scared her for a second, and meant that if you, weren't you, she would have hit you.You're taking it too personal.
That's understandable but after that she just continued to yell at me n try to treat me like a sidekick...I think its because I let her slide with that she just started ice skating
that's the problem, no boundaries. you can't let a virgo talk sheet to you. Stop that nonsense at the get.
caps too. i had to shut one down, now w'ere homiez. don't ever fuking disrespect me
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I like u...we on the same page...its real tho👌👌👌
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
N no...I'm usually the one there to listen to her complain about her life...always trying to make her feel good about herself n trying to teach her crybaby complaining ass the art of optimism...‘ ditch me— I don't give a rats ass but u will respect me for the simple fact that I been a good friend to umteen YRS...
lol you do all that and she'll be fuking your mind behind your back
no loyalty in these chicks. #1 person in their lives is themselves. Selfish !
man i love this thread
i love hating on virgos.
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Yep
Sounds to me like she was rough playing with you, and teasing you ... but, hey, look at you taking shit personally, like a child.
As I said before u had to be there to understand ...rough play my ass..we known each other too long to know that's not what we do...I'm guessing she was showing off after feeling threatened ...further more looks like she was being a hater
Posted by Darling
..tryna get me thrown back in jail 👎👎👎👎this + the topic title + other posts on dxp ....did you shank someone?
anyway, virgos have no patience for cancerian overblowing emotions and only being hypersensitive about their feelings in an argument.
hopefully she figures it out and ditches you.
N no...I'm usually the one there to listen to her complain about her life...always trying to make her feel good about herself n trying to teach her crybaby complaining ass the art of optimism...‘ ditch me— I don't give a rats ass but u will respect me for the simple fact that I been a good friend to umteen YRS...
lol you do all that and she'll be fuking your mind behind your back
no loyalty in these chicks. #1 person in their lives is themselves. Selfish !
man i love this thread
i love hating on virgos.
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And they have no one more loyal to them than Cancers...the irony. My virgo friend feels betrayed by everyone including her sister, when she starts with her nonsense, tell her then ignore. I forget my female Virgo friend for months, we get back, hang out, and poof...I'm off for months again. Cancers are emotional, yes but Virgos are hypersensitive...cant stand them for too long, love them though.
sounds like insecurity on her behalf. Shes acting hard cause she feels some way about something, but i cant possibly guess what
Sounds to me like she was rough playing with you, and teasing you ... but, hey, look at you taking shit personally, like a child.
+1
My best friend is a cancer and she can drive me mad ! If she's unhappy in life ( which seems to be always ) she really can be a downer. Whilst I'm loving , supportive and have her back in everything sometimes my frustration peaks to the point I have to say something to her . We generally don't do whingers very well .
Yeah...when I was in 5th grade.....a Virgal was so nice to me, webecame such good friends, but IDK what happened, after 2-3 months (we both were new to school), she started bullying me! Made fun of me, teased me, lied about me... argh, most of that one year felt like torture..but poor thing, my classfellows isolated her by the ed of that year and, my friends and some kids showed such sweet supportive friendship to me, when I was being targeted, it brings tears to my eyes. It was a very important thing, I learnt then how to not care about what anyone talks or thinks about me and just go on doing my thing 🙂
😄 sorry for the sentimental story
Don't care how she treats you. Just be nice to everyone. Distance yoursekf from toxic people. Do your work/thing, people can say when you are being unfairly treated too.
Don't care what anyone thinks!
Don't care why she/he is treating you like this/that....what will you do even if you get answers? So..just ignore such things..
Whether she is insecure or jealous...how does it matter what issues she has.. just distance yourself 🙂
Don't make them your issues ...just waste of your energy and time.
Boys get turned on by girls fighting .... well, any kind of touching each other, actually.
This girl was rough playing with you, for purposes of turning the boys on.
Look at you taking insignificant shit personally ... as if she is out to get you, and hate on you.
jfc ... you're a small person
One day, she will be thankful of what you did. who wants an alleged friend, who cannot even manage to let small slights roll off their back. you probably do all kinds of shit that annoys her, but, she lets it go because that's what grown ups do.
One day, I hope you look back on this to then feel like a fool.
Boys get turned on by girls fighting .... well, any kind of touching each other, actually.
This girl was rough playing with you, for purposes of turning the boys on.
Look at you taking insignificant shit personally ... as if she is out to get you, and hate on you.
jfc ... you're a small person
One day, she will be thankful of what you did. who wants an alleged friend, who cannot even manage to let small slights roll off their back. you probably do all kinds of shit that annoys her, but, she lets it go because that's what grown ups do.
One day, I hope you look back on this to then feel like a fool.
Bitch shut up...I stopped reading after u called me small ...just don't say nothing else cause u really going too far
Posted by Darling
What makes a Virgo female go from being one of the coolest friends you have to a loud- wanna be bully-stupid bitch...I thought I was safe to be my sweet fun loving self around her.. Now she tries to bully me and embarrass me in front of people— What causes a virgo chick to flip...I'm a cancer so I'm sensitive so I distanced myself but I may have to beat her fukin face in ...n I'm tryna be peaceful¢WHAT CAUSES THIS BULLSHIT!?!!
Untreated mental illness.
Seriously.
go take some jiu jitsu classes. next time she tells you she wants to slap you, encourage her to do so so you can chokehold her. you may become the most popular girl lmao
Boys get turned on by girls fighting .... well, any kind of touching each other, actually.
This girl was rough playing with you, for purposes of turning the boys on.
Look at you taking insignificant shit personally ... as if she is out to get you, and hate on you.
jfc ... you're a small person
One day, she will be thankful of what you did. who wants an alleged friend, who cannot even manage to let small slights roll off their back. you probably do all kinds of shit that annoys her, but, she lets it go because that's what grown ups do.
One day, I hope you look back on this to then feel like a fool.
crack is wack.
are all pisces this delusional and idiotic?
seriously you can't be this stupid?
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No, just p-gel.
And clearly she can.
But then she has to justify letting herself be pushed around
in this manner, and part of that is criticizing you for not
submitting to the same.
Posted by Goldigold
Is she tall and fat, that could be why. They are insecure and use their size to intimidate.
Very fat and not so attractive
I thought OP was stepping on her garden. Did I get it wrong?
I think OP is just surprised of her other face. Only because she has not seen it before. But the frame how and why it happened is not a thing. Try to find out later. Maybe somebody else has said something bad about OP to her. Nobody is an angel 24/7/365. It is wrong to assume such an angel. You'll be disappointed every time.
Also I could agree with Ariell about competing for the title of alpha female.
My initial reason for asking this question was trying to by pass her obvious jealousy and just wonder if it had anything to do with her zodiac sign cause I know as a cancer I'm sensitive so hurting my feeling would trigger anger so for Virgos what triggers the bull shit—
I deal with haters all the time but as I said it before she was never one to be that way soooo just tryna figure the situation out.
If I come straight out n ask her Wat the issue is it will probably end up in an argument
But oh well ..
Posted by DwellingOnMove
I thought OP was stepping on her garden. Did I get it wrong?I think OP is just surprised of her other face. Only because she has not seen it before. But the frame how and why it happened is not a thing. Try to find out later. Maybe somebody else has said something bad about her to OP. Nobody is an angel 24/7/365. It is wrong to assume such an angel. You'll be disappointed every time.
Also I could agree with Ariell about competing for the title of alpha female.
Exactly... I didn't think she would be feeling herself that much to try to show off on me ...of all people
Posted by inmercury
Look i'm a Cancer rising and a Virgo sun, I get it. people always walk over Cancers, because the Cancers always let them and then ask "Why? Why me?" You know why, you just can't emotionally register it. Kanye's a Cancer rising. So self defensive, he can do no wrong. You keep looking for flaws in the other person, what is it about the other person that makes her do this? BUTNO. What is it about YOU that makes this happen to you.
To be honest she's usually calm but since I got on probation she's superman now...don't get it twisted she use to come to me to scare off her bullies soooo no
Posted by inmercury
DIG DEEP AND FIGURE IT OUT. a virgo wants you to figure it out. she won't tell you.
Well its over now I already made up my mind to fuck her up if it happens again☺...I guess she wasn't the friend I thought she was
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N I usually love Virgos because they are so kind and down to earth ...