Whatever they say about us...

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by firebunny on Monday, July 21, 2014 and has 6 replies.

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@firebunny
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...will never make me feel insecure about our sign. I like that our sign can choose when and to whom we express our emotions. If you are one of the lucky few who we cry our hearts on, or laugh our hearts out with, that means you are special enough to be chosen to be part of our inner circle. We have emotions. It is true. But we are strong enough to withhold them whenever we like to. We rarely express emotions. That's a fact... but when we do, we say it so genuinely, you would feel as if the heavens just opened up for you.

If you pursue us, and we respond, just don't make conclusions yet. We are just friendly and can consider everyone as a friend... but it doesn't necessarily mean that we love you back. We know who we truly love and we express it as soon as we found them. If from the start, you don't hear us say sweet nothings to you, you are just a friend.

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so if a virgo compliments you often but subtly, and treats you different from your peers?

what if i say to a virgo "no matter what, i'll always love ya..."

and he responds with, "Love, (his name)"

I'm I in the friend zone or something else?

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@firebunny
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Can you give us an example of how he compliments you?

In my experience, my feelings for someone has always been consistent. If, from the start, I don't love you, that would never change. Likewise if I love you. However, I don't say "I love you" because I dont want to feel mushy or something. I do it in some other way. For example, if I talk to you all the time and I was usually the one who initiate the conversation, it means I like you and I might fall in love with you...

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by firebunny
Can you give us an example of how he compliments you?

In my experience, my feelings for someone has always been consistent. If, from the start, I don't love you, that would never change. Likewise if I love you. However, I don't say "I love you" because I dont want to feel mushy or something. I do it in some other way. For example, if I talk to you all the time and I was usually the one who initiate the conversation, it means I like you and I might fall in love with you...

This is BS , my ex does this, but nothing else...it's called stringing along.

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CC, we rarely say it, we spray it. Action speaks louder than words. 😄

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@firebunny
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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by firebunny
Can you give us an example of how he compliments you?

In my experience, my feelings for someone has always been consistent. If, from the start, I don't love you, that would never change. Likewise if I love you. However, I don't say "I love you" because I dont want to feel mushy or something. I do it in some other way. For example, if I talk to you all the time and I was usually the one who initiate the conversation, it means I like you and I might fall in love with you...

This is BS , my ex does this, but nothing else...it's called stringing along.

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Exactly as I did? Did he ask you if you can be his "girlfriend"? Did he write poems/songs to you?