will a virgo string you along? or just moving slow

I really get the feeling he is just moving slow, I'm just trying to give it time

Posted by j519oe
I really get the feeling he is just moving slow, I'm just trying to give it time

How old are you guys and what do you want out of this situation?

We kinda talk now, now hey how are you, etc but it's small talk. Things are cool I guess n everytime it's like this I come with all these questions, I think it's too soon right now to ask him. Cuz maybe he is working out his feelings.

Posted by j519oe
We kinda talk now, now hey how are you, etc but it's small talk. Things are cool I guess n everytime it's like this I come with all these questions, I think it's too soon right now to ask him. Cuz maybe he is working out his feelings.

Does he know that you and him are in a relationship? Meaning did he ask you to be his girlfriend?

Posted by j519oe

I don't want to chase him off.

He doesn't really like when I keep asking if he likes me.

So, this means you are smothering him. why the hell would you be pestering the fuck out of him when he doesn't want you doing that?

You're really insecure. How old are you exactly?

Posted by j519oe

It confuses me cuz it all sounds the same! I don't know the difference!

Seriously, how old ..... because people learn the difference between someone who wants to like you and someone who doesn't want to like you at very tender ages of around 4/5

Posted by j519oe

He is very simple minded, so all of this stuff I'm wondering, 9/10 if I ask him all he will say is "huh?"

Let me guess - you call him simple minded because you're so bombarding him with your constant harping on feelings that you drove him to utterances.

jfc ... shut the fuck up and leave the poor man alone

Posted by j519oe

When I get like this it's because I'm in temporary panic mode.

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So, you are so insecure that you can't handle your own goddam self and have no control in inflicting yourself on him, as if it's his duty to provide you with calm.

What the hell is up with all these kids that have coming to dxp this year?

People say it's summer .. that's not it. I've been here a long time, and suddenly this place is getting infested with 16 year olds.

It's obvious the OP here is a child.

We don't do well with insecure people. If you feel us out, good. If not, we'll not force you to/act in a way for you to get it.

You get it or you don't. We're simple people.

You can have any emotional expression or hypersensitivity you want..as long as you don't project it on us. You can be volatile, as long as you're always self-aware it's your feeling and it's not meant to project on your partner. If you do that, you aren't self aware and just looking for someone to carry the weight of your emotional well being. And we cannot do that.

It's actually a compliment from Virgos to allow you to be yourself and take control of your life but most people would rather be controlled, possessed, bullshitted every step of the way. It won't happen. The way we love lets you have your freedom, we don't do enabling.