when a guy has feelings

When a guy has feelings, how serious is it? Will they still see other people? N get the pleasure of other people? I know I have feelings n can't look at another guy but is it the same way around with him?

Posted by j519oe
When a guy has feelings, how serious is it? Will they still see other people? N get the pleasure of other people? I know I have feelings n can't look at another guy but is it the same way around with him?

If the guy is still seeing other people then it probably means he likes you but not enough to take things to the next level or he may not be ready for a serious committed relationship. If he really was feeling strongly for you then he would try to make things exclusive with you before risking you being scooped up by someone else.

I'm the same way, I can't look at other men when I have feelings for a guy. But I think it's a lack of respect and maturity. I personally don't think it's too serious if a man can deal with other woman when he truly care for someone, it just doesn't make any sense and should not be tolerated... Then again you have to ask yourself how serious you are to him?

See I kinda think he is avoiding me because I told him I'm in love with him, n I think he thinks I'm trying to enforce a relationship on him, but I'm not doing that. I know he is not ready, n I respect that but I wanted to know how serious he was about his feelings, cuz I'm pretty much assuming all this time he has probably had quite a few ppl over, but I want to know if he cares more about me than them

Give him some space since he's made it clear he's not ready you may end up pushing him away

Yes, give him some time to sort out his feelings. If he starts missing you and realizes that he wants you then he will make it known.