My Virgo coworker friend broke his leg over the weekend and is in hospital. Althought we haven't seen each othe outside of work, or talked over the phone, I left him a message yesterday when I heard about it. I would like to go visit him if I can. My question is would he mind me calling or visiting him? or would they feel bad because they are not in their best shape and actually dependent on others at the moment?
don't bother. i was in the hospital for a few weeks and just the thought of having co-workers visit me freaked me out. especially if you're not really that close, i'm sure he wouldn't want to be seen in that condition by anyone.
Thank you all for your message. Actually he did had an accident but fortunately wasn't in the hospital. Somehow one of the guys he works with assumed he was admitted, and that's how the rumor started.
As I said I left him a message that Mon evening on his cell, and them called him again the next day,Tue. He answered as if nothing has happened. So when I asked him he told me it was nothing serious, he is able to walk around, just limping a bit. And also assured me he was never in the hospital.
Came to work on Wed, was shy around me when I met him in the break room, but talked as normal. I don't think he was upset about me calling him. By Fri he was walking properly, and smiled and looked at me when someone said he is able to walk now.
I wasn't being nosy so I didn't ask him all the details about the accident, just inquiring about how he was doing. It wasn't until Fri afternoon he told me the details about the accident, and how it happened. I heard him telling others earlier in the week, but didn't bring it up in our conversation.
Also I put up my Christmas decorations on Fri at my cube, and later saw that he also put up holiday stocking I made for him last year. He said its just like new. So all is good for now, hope this way.
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My question is would he mind me calling or visiting him? or would they feel bad because they are not in their best shape and actually dependent on others at the moment?