libra08
@libra08
14 Years1,000+ Posts
Comments: 0 · Posts: 1451 · Topics: 31
when you got caught lying. .
Ask yourself first??_.
What makes people lies in the first place? Digging too much in their private lives? How did you find out he lied? Why did you stalking him to find the truth anyway?
Are you suffering from paranoia?
What this B.S. story of yours has anything to do with Virgoness..?
What makes people lies in the first place? Digging too much in their private lives? How did you find out he lied? Why did you stalking him to find the truth anyway?
Are you suffering from paranoia?
What this B.S. story of yours has anything to do with Virgoness..?
Posted by Qbone
Ask yourself first??_.
What makes people lies in the first place? Digging too much in their private lives? How did you find out he lied? Why did you stalking him to find the truth anyway?
Are you suffering from paranoia?
What this B.S. story of yours has anything to do with Virgoness..?
Lol
lol this is funny really and is such a walk down memory lane. Some Virgos do that and think that you don't know they have someone.
He is probably thinking what to do, how to say and what to say to you. And how to reverse things so that you are the bad guy. Of course this is not in any way supposed to say that ALL Virgos are like this.
He is probably thinking what to do, how to say and what to say to you. And how to reverse things so that you are the bad guy. Of course this is not in any way supposed to say that ALL Virgos are like this.
a liar is lair lol.
qbone . . Your name befits you. . If youre not a fucking bonehead you would have understood if a virgo eas caught lying would they admit it or not. Its stupid rude comments that could kill this forum. If youre angry and want to bash someone just go bash your head to the wall. If you cant give a solution or a helpful advice might as well shut up.
Every human being has their own privacy and apt to protecting it at any cost, when some try to break their (security) they will lie to protect their privacy!
Simple as that??_ you don't have to be rocket scientist to figure it out this vital concept in any kind of relationships, now, the OP is a goddamn stalker put her stupid nose into people matters and the accusing them for being liar!
I think actually he was very nice to her making (an excuse) to get rid of her stupid nosy habbit.
Case closed??_!
Simple as that??_ you don't have to be rocket scientist to figure it out this vital concept in any kind of relationships, now, the OP is a goddamn stalker put her stupid nose into people matters and the accusing them for being liar!
I think actually he was very nice to her making (an excuse) to get rid of her stupid nosy habbit.
Case closed??_!
@MrQbone,Mr25thdecan,MrLegendary:Gentlemen, if there wasn't such rage and "venom" from the female counterpart of the humanity,will you tell us the truth all the time,or just whtever could keep the peace at the house? / 🙂i'm joking/
Ever wondered why people lie? What is it that inspires or provokes them to lie? why people lie for no reason? Many human behavior analysts have different reasons for this. Let us try and understand why people lie psychology, in the next few paragraphs of this article.
if you look around, you will find many people who lie many times during the day. In fact, it is said that almost all people on this planet lie at some or other point of their life. It is believed that the circumstances prevailing at that moment compels the people to lie. In most of the cases, people lie to protect their personal interests. However, there are people who lie to deceive others while, some others are just addicted to lying. There are many who lie to avoid any sort of criticism from the society. Given in the next paragraphs are the reasons why people lie in relationships.
Why People Lie in Relationships?
It can be quite difficult to understand why people lie about themselves in relationships. The prime reason for this may be, that they fear that their partner would leave them if they open up their secrets. People lie in relationships to keep the negative aspects of their personality hidden from their partners. Many people do not admit about their past relationships or an extramarital affair, as they do not want their partner to interfere in their daily activities. The reason people lie and cheat in relationships is because they have an inferiority complex and would not want their partners to know about it. Fear in the minds is responsible for making the people lie. For example, a man may lie about his financial position, annual earnings and assets to keep his relationship stable with a woman. Here, the fear is of the woman walking out of the relationship, if she comes to know about the truth. The most amusing thing is that people lie even though they know that they will get exposed at some point of their life. However, the lie spoken gives temporary relief and a false sense of achievement and being smart, which these people enjoy.
Why People Lie at Work?
There are many reasons for the question - why do people lie at work. The cut to throat competition to complete the tasks and achieve the higher positions, often makes people tell a lie. A lie is also used by many people for bad mouthing the rival employees, to gain their position or get ahead of them. Giving false reasons for not completing the targets is observed in many places. People also lie at the work place.
if you look around, you will find many people who lie many times during the day. In fact, it is said that almost all people on this planet lie at some or other point of their life. It is believed that the circumstances prevailing at that moment compels the people to lie. In most of the cases, people lie to protect their personal interests. However, there are people who lie to deceive others while, some others are just addicted to lying. There are many who lie to avoid any sort of criticism from the society. Given in the next paragraphs are the reasons why people lie in relationships.
Why People Lie in Relationships?
It can be quite difficult to understand why people lie about themselves in relationships. The prime reason for this may be, that they fear that their partner would leave them if they open up their secrets. People lie in relationships to keep the negative aspects of their personality hidden from their partners. Many people do not admit about their past relationships or an extramarital affair, as they do not want their partner to interfere in their daily activities. The reason people lie and cheat in relationships is because they have an inferiority complex and would not want their partners to know about it. Fear in the minds is responsible for making the people lie. For example, a man may lie about his financial position, annual earnings and assets to keep his relationship stable with a woman. Here, the fear is of the woman walking out of the relationship, if she comes to know about the truth. The most amusing thing is that people lie even though they know that they will get exposed at some point of their life. However, the lie spoken gives temporary relief and a false sense of achievement and being smart, which these people enjoy.
Why People Lie at Work?
There are many reasons for the question - why do people lie at work. The cut to throat competition to complete the tasks and achieve the higher positions, often makes people tell a lie. A lie is also used by many people for bad mouthing the rival employees, to gain their position or get ahead of them. Giving false reasons for not completing the targets is observed in many places. People also lie at the work place.
Some More Reasons for Why People Lie
The reasons why people lie and manipulate may not be negative always. In some cases, a lie is spoken to ensure the well-being of a person. In many situations, one does not have the time to explain the entire situation to the opposite person and convince him that what is being done is right. In many cases, a lie can help to control a particular situation from worsening.
Thus, we conclude that understanding why people lie psychology, is very difficult. However, a lie spoken for a good purpose should not be looked upon as a dishonest behavior. Still, as far as possible, we should avoid lying as it creates a bad impression and makes it difficult for the other people to trust us.
@Legendaryvirgo:well,MrChairman of the Grand jury,what your verdict will be:plead guilty or not guilty? 🙂
Posted by quo vadis?
@Legendaryvirgo:well,MrChairman of the Grand jury,what your verdict will be:plead guilty or not guilty? 🙂
lmao
guilty a lair is still a lair.
the person can explain why they are a lair which it case they can be lying even more uhhhhhhhhhhh its just to much damn work for me to lie the mercury in libra and venus in libra for me always wants damn truth and justice lmao.
Honest truth, I'm just too lazy to lie, lol. That, and I'm too blunt--I'm very quick to tell people how I'm really feeling about something, so there's not even a chance to lie.
I think it takes so much hard work to construe a lie--you've got to keep it going, be careful of whom you told what, in same cases fake documents and made up people come into play...wouldn't that time be spent more constructively on things that would actually benefit your life?
Everyone tells white lies, but I'm talking about heavy duty lies. Also, I embarrass easily--the last thing I'd want is for some huge lie I went McGuyver on to be found out, and to have people laughing and pointing at me over it.
Nah, I'd rather just be honest.
I think it takes so much hard work to construe a lie--you've got to keep it going, be careful of whom you told what, in same cases fake documents and made up people come into play...wouldn't that time be spent more constructively on things that would actually benefit your life?
Everyone tells white lies, but I'm talking about heavy duty lies. Also, I embarrass easily--the last thing I'd want is for some huge lie I went McGuyver on to be found out, and to have people laughing and pointing at me over it.
Nah, I'd rather just be honest.
I think it's funny as shit that you said, "im guessing he's gonna reverse it by saying i did not respect his privacy" .... and then right on cue, less than hour later ... Boner enters stage
Posted by Chocokat
Liar liar pants on fire!
http://photobucket.com/images/pants% 20on% 20fire" target="_blank">
OMG LOL!!
Posted by 25thDecan
I agree with that. Example: I lied because I was primed to feel that that current gf would be wronged by me for still feeling that I loved my ex. I could not just a)not care about my ex b)hate my ex...it doesn't work that way. I was not romantically inclined to my ex...did that matter to that current SELFISH gf? No. Hence..I lied.
Now...did the guy tell another woman he loved her? That could be serious...but I thought you two were no longer in a relationship. If so, then this seems like anger and a way to take out your anger on him by finding fault. Clearly...what happened before this between you two was toxic. It hurt. These things ALWAYS hurt. Perhaps it is time for you to move on. I can assure you, just like I could not find my aries or taurus or scorp or capricorn exes and dissapointments in this forum, you will not find that toxic guy here. This was the point I made in the sexual stamina thread. What many of us have in common here...many we certainly do not. Beware the schtick vs the real pain. From what it's worth only YOU can validate what happened to listeners here but only YOU can step back out of confusion, anger and entitlement and see what you truly need to walk away from the turmoil you're feeling.
I think QBone is being extremely blunt because well....look at how many virgo bashing threads we get...of other zodiac signs ours is the one the "experts" are oft quoted on denying we are human. Surely the stars and our detractors must be wrong on that.....
we broke up but hes making an effort to make me come back to him he wants to ahve another chance. . i thought he was sincere this time but then this thing happened again. I just wanted to know how could he want a second chance and realized what we had was great but at the same time cant control his tendencies for playing with other females. the information i got by the way was given to me i didnt pry or anything. now i know for sure he doesnt deserve the time and effort i would give to someone important.
Posted by Qbone
Every human being has their own privacy and apt to protecting it at any cost, when some try to break their (security) they will lie to protect their privacy!
Simple as that??_ you don't have to be rocket scientist to figure it out this vital concept in any kind of relationships, now, the OP is a goddamn stalker put her stupid nose into people matters and the accusing them for being liar!
I think actually he was very nice to her making (an excuse) to get rid of her stupid nosy habbit.
Case closed??_!
i wasnt a stalker. i was in the process of moving on when he kept pushing on being close again. he told me he loves me and wants me back and then i got this email shit where he said some intimate things to a different girl recently. lying to protect your privacy is different to lying to not get caught from cheating or whatever the hell you call it.
Now you are speaking of something that you haven't mentioned in your OP..
Which one to believe is hard to tell. I am not defending the bub who cheated on you but lies are always has their own resources and valid excuses.
That?? email given to you?? comes from reliable source? Mutual friends..?
Which one to believe is hard to tell. I am not defending the bub who cheated on you but lies are always has their own resources and valid excuses.
That?? email given to you?? comes from reliable source? Mutual friends..?
To be frank and right to the point..
Libras are indecisive in general and that could easily be misinterpreted as (not being serious in relationship), so if I had this kind of relationship that would be inevitable to look around for alternatives. Libra is the sign of balance but most the time you have to drag the damn sword and fight for what is yours (changing the balance) do it and stand by it.
Again??_ Libras are LAZY keep that in mind and fight against it.
I don't know about your relationship. I don't know you and I don't know your guy, what has been said was based on you given information.
Again??_ look on the lies resources
Libras are indecisive in general and that could easily be misinterpreted as (not being serious in relationship), so if I had this kind of relationship that would be inevitable to look around for alternatives. Libra is the sign of balance but most the time you have to drag the damn sword and fight for what is yours (changing the balance) do it and stand by it.
Again??_ Libras are LAZY keep that in mind and fight against it.
I don't know about your relationship. I don't know you and I don't know your guy, what has been said was based on you given information.
Again??_ look on the lies resources
25thDecan
I don't blame her guy. For him she wasn't enough to cover his satisfactions both (physically and emotionally).
That's why he was looking for the alternatives (if he is Virgo).
I don't blame her guy. For him she wasn't enough to cover his satisfactions both (physically and emotionally).
That's why he was looking for the alternatives (if he is Virgo).
Posted by Qbone
25thDecan
I don't blame her guy. For him she wasn't enough to cover his satisfactions both (physically and emotionally).
That's why he was looking for the alternatives (if he is Virgo).
haha youre so like him. . . blame everyone but himself. seriously. what about his own flaws? if everyone would be like that no one in this earth would ever be loyal.
I guess it's more common than I thought for a Virgo to lie and to tell other women that he loves them without being true;(
There have been numerous women come in here throughout the years tesitfying to thier Virgo men being less than honest.
At work, there's two Virgo men and both of them are married, and both of them are the man-whores who try to get down everyone's pants. The other men (2 Gems, a Scorp and a Lib) are all gentlemen and remain loyal (at work) to thier SO's.
At work, there's two Virgo men and both of them are married, and both of them are the man-whores who try to get down everyone's pants. The other men (2 Gems, a Scorp and a Lib) are all gentlemen and remain loyal (at work) to thier SO's.
Posted by 25thDecan
Wth are you talkin about? It's common among MEN who do that. Is it more common among taurids to emotionally abuse their lovers/mates?
Seriously....if you like a virgo...go get to know the guy or at least have the decency to NOT have the poor shithead in limbo wondering if you like him back. THAT is why you women get PLAYED. Many of you never delve into anything...the younger you are, the more shallow you are about EVERYTHING...even reciprocity.
Decan I never said that all Virgo's are like that at all...I know for a fact you are one of the good ones...I believe Virgo's are the best!! Believe me when I say that😉 I love my Virgo with all my heart. Just hard situation with him right now..I apologize if I offended you in any way;(
So, then the thread you made which is now shut down by you ... was a lie by you, and this is why you had to close it?
You ran off at the mouth about him due to your feelings being whacked out at the moment and he didn't lie to you?
which is it?
did he do what you said in the thread or not?
If he did, then why would you tell Decan that you have the upmost respect for him ... if he didn't do it, then it means you lied about his character in that thread because you were having a moment which consisted of his character being targeted.
btw, once Decan showed himself in pics, he suddenly became one of the good ones .. while before people knew what he looked like, he was considered an asshole.
See if you are capable of getting what that ^^^^^^^^^^ means.
You ran off at the mouth about him due to your feelings being whacked out at the moment and he didn't lie to you?
which is it?
did he do what you said in the thread or not?
If he did, then why would you tell Decan that you have the upmost respect for him ... if he didn't do it, then it means you lied about his character in that thread because you were having a moment which consisted of his character being targeted.
btw, once Decan showed himself in pics, he suddenly became one of the good ones .. while before people knew what he looked like, he was considered an asshole.
See if you are capable of getting what that ^^^^^^^^^^ means.
@ P-Angel:
I wrote that message last night...and everything I said I felt was true.....He contacted me this morning and he explained...he said he loved me and it was all a misunderstanding...Maybe I was too quick to react and write what I wrote...I was hurt..I'm sure you can relate to that..we all can...He read it and he wanted me to know that he was coming for me and that he did love me and never lied...Its just a very complicated situation right now. I love him with all my heart and I will wait the time I need to.If you can read between the lines you could see that It was so not real that he would do that to me...My mistake for posting too quick. But he does deserve my respect because he is the man that I love and above all he is a great man!
As far as Decan goes .I have known Decan from the boards for many yrs and I have always known what he looks like...Very good looking guy...and if you really want to know his picture has nothing to do with him being a good guy. He has always given good advice. A true gentlemen.
I wrote that message last night...and everything I said I felt was true.....He contacted me this morning and he explained...he said he loved me and it was all a misunderstanding...Maybe I was too quick to react and write what I wrote...I was hurt..I'm sure you can relate to that..we all can...He read it and he wanted me to know that he was coming for me and that he did love me and never lied...Its just a very complicated situation right now. I love him with all my heart and I will wait the time I need to.If you can read between the lines you could see that It was so not real that he would do that to me...My mistake for posting too quick. But he does deserve my respect because he is the man that I love and above all he is a great man!
As far as Decan goes .I have known Decan from the boards for many yrs and I have always known what he looks like...Very good looking guy...and if you really want to know his picture has nothing to do with him being a good guy. He has always given good advice. A true gentlemen.
@P-Angel I have never read in any of the threads that Decan was an asshole! Those are your words....And you must be blind if you never knew what Decan looked like becaue he has always had his pic up...His looks have nothing to do with my comment about him being a good person...Hell I know many goodlooking guys and they are true bastards....so please dont put words into my mouth.
Posted by P-Angel
btw, once Decan showed himself in pics, he suddenly became one of the good ones .. while before people knew what he looked like, he was considered an asshole.
See if you are capable of getting what that ^^^^^^^^^^ means.
Posted by TaurusBadGirl
....so please dont put words into my mouth.
click to expand
Those words of mine didn't even suggest that they were yours .. what a dumb bitch.
I'm sure your boyfriend is very anxious, just waiting for you to have another emotional spike, which results in your uncontrolled slandering of him.
Looks like he's going to be spending a relationship with you being filled with following behind you with explanations to prove to you that he wants you. The thing is, you don't trust him, and that is what he will soon realize.
Oh yes, a woman who is quick to doubt, rather than trust .... doesn't get the Virgo in the end.
@P-Angel...your not even worth my time...Blocking you...Have a good life! 😉
Of course I'm not worth your time ... for I tell you the truth, and heaven forbide you have time for that.
I noticed though, that you did have time to create a thread in here to honor yourself for catching your Virgo in a lie, and made quite a stink about it in here, defaming his character.
Then you found out it wasn't the truth at all, and your creation of the thread was just you being out of control emotionally and in so doing .... you made sure to tell other people how bad of a person he is.
Yes, you had time for that, didn't you?
Again ..... once he realizes you can't be trusted to be loyal to him .... he'll be out.
Don't worry though, because you have me blocked ..... whew, now your saved. Now you won't have to hear any truth, and ahh, the bliss of ignorance is fantastic, innit?
I noticed though, that you did have time to create a thread in here to honor yourself for catching your Virgo in a lie, and made quite a stink about it in here, defaming his character.
Then you found out it wasn't the truth at all, and your creation of the thread was just you being out of control emotionally and in so doing .... you made sure to tell other people how bad of a person he is.
Yes, you had time for that, didn't you?
Again ..... once he realizes you can't be trusted to be loyal to him .... he'll be out.
Don't worry though, because you have me blocked ..... whew, now your saved. Now you won't have to hear any truth, and ahh, the bliss of ignorance is fantastic, innit?
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Is it just me, or all Virgo's the same way? In a relationship I will give my everything, and beyond sometimes. I will gi
Shut yo mouth! Marc Anthony (Sept 16th) This vid is pretty old but damn does this man blow me away. This is one ba
So I realise that he is still awesome and is a great guy but..I feel like Im running from him Im getting scared...I thin
Hi every one, i was just wandering if many of you were facebook friends with each other?. I would love to broaden my fri
After months and months of my bf telling me he loves me more than he's ever loved anybody, that he worships me, and te
so I joined dxp cause I never knew men like this existed ... I knew a couple of virgo men but they was rotten eggs ..but
3 years ago I was a summer intern at a typical office. This virguy immediately took me under his wing and has always tr
I am a pisces with a virgo friend. My other friend (a pisces too) who the virgo doesn't know was murdered earlier in 201
I'm currently seeing a Virgo man, I am a Sagittarius Female/ Venus Scorpio/ Moon Virgo/ Aqua Mars/ Cap Ascen :) It'
Is this the only Forum where things are still moving forward. Everywhere else is DEAD , Sun Sign that is! What is t
Hello friends! Hope you all had an wonderful Christmas :) All your suggestions, opinions, info's & explanations have
Since everyone seems to think Virgos as too nit-picky and fussy, we don't get any love :( We can't really help it.
This blows my mind. After a summer breakup, due to inability to let me in, my ex Virgo and I have been talking things ou
First: Finally....... LOBO has come back to the V I R G O F O R U M...........:) I'm gonna go play KOR rite now.. d
Has anyone ever dated or been in a relationship with a Virgo? and if so, how did things work out? I've read that these s
So I read a few things here and there, and then decided to go the the source about the following. Any of you Virgos h
Hi guys! i am a virgo/libra cusp (9/22/1987) whos been in a relationship with a virgo guy (9/03/1986)for 3 yrs. Everythi
Wants to hand this to EVERY guy that wants to date me. NOTE: This application will be incomplete and rejected unless
Virgos, do you give mixed signals? Do you change or hold back on your feelings? Serious relationship for 2yrs w/ a Virg
a virgo lied about having someone else. (well actually it was just like "i love you" internet thing but still) during the relationship. Anyways saw the evidence, but didn't tell him there's hard evidence. just casually asked about it first and said a straight no and lied. Called out on everything i knew and told him thatilts better yould tell me the trut now then lie to me again.
hasnt responded yet im guessing he's gonna reverse it by saying i did not respect his privacy but i already have my argument prepared and ready to go to court haha.
so yeah virgo babies, if you got caught already would you admit or not?