Which sign is best for a Virgo? (Page 2)

P-ANgel- She never came back period. Family, friends, me, her kid....

Until the time she flipped, I cherished her in so many ways. But the flip side of her dang near killed me.

"Wow, she said that? That's cool..."

YES SHE REALLY DID!!! I mean wow, oh, and I think the dumb content filter probably changed the keyword in that quote... it's the F word just for clarification.

And that was the first night I ever had a girl get impatient with me... I spent alot of time working on my stamina so I could please the ladies, and this one, ended up getting mad at me for it. (I doubt she was really mad, but she did seriously take control, as in, I had no say in anything after she took over)

Vpmoon,

What did you say before she said that?...after the ..."well, why don't you just f___ me then?" Btw, that's a common, but good thing for an aries gal when it comes to physical intimacy. We're impatient 🙂 I was asking in one of my other posts whether or not I should make the first move on this Virguy, cause he'll probably never get around to putting his thoughts into action, so I'll do it for him. But, I think I'm going to force myself to wait just a little bit, I'm going to wait until his birthday which isn't so long from now.

Well, it wasn't what I said, it was what I was doing... I was kissing her all over, then I was about to "go down" on her, that's when she stopped me and had the convo of whether or not I had protection, and then since I did, she, in that phrase above, basically said "skip the eating and get to the fucking!"

or wait, you're referring to after we started?... and before she got impatient?

Well, it's because every time she asked me if I was close, I said "No" or "Not even"... which was the truth.

Vpmoon,

I'm so envious...hope I don't have to wait too long. When you gonna see her again?

If I'm lucky, I'll see her this Sunday, if not in about a week...

My virguy works with me and we're scheduled all different shifts for the next two weeks, so I won't get to see him. But we do talk on the phone every night, so it eases the pain a little. Let me ask you for a little bit of your insight. We've been talking on the flippin' phone non-stop for the past3-4 months now, just about every night till about 3 or 4 in the morning, yet he's never mentioned anything about us, other than mild flirting. Why is that?

Anytime I have "us" conversations with anyone, I usually think I'm gonna scare her away... But I had my "us" conversation with this Aries gal hmmph, couple weeks ago, and yeah, it was an honest "us" conversation, told her I like her, that she's fun to be around, etc, etc, and that I just wasn't ready for it to get serious yet...

I really thought that was gonna tick her off or make her run, or slap me in the face and say never call again, but I went through with the conversation anyways, and so far, it's turned out better than I expected, she pretty much demanded that I call her whenever I'm in town, and other than that, was fine (as far as I know) with how things are at the moment.

Soooo, he thinks he's gonna scare me away? Oh lord, I guess I'm gonna have to really dig out the demanding side of me again. So, if I demand that he talk to me about us, or I start to talk about us first, it would help his insecurities a little?

If I were you I wouldn't demand it, you're gonna be talking about your feelings and expecting him to talk about his... phew... you gotta be considerate... Oh... fair warning, once you have the "us" talk he'll probably disappear for a few days to figure things out...

Maybe coax him into the "us" talk...

Coax? I've never learned how to do that. Thanks for the warning about the disappearing act soon to come. So, coaxing and in hinting?

correction...as in hinting?

yep, hint that you want to talk about it, maybe he'll pick up on it, then from there, who knows?