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Posted by neuroticvirgoPosted by SoInLOVE
Okay now here is this question... When virgos are in a bad mood and your SO gives you the space... He/She doesn't call or anything, but when the virgo decides to call and the virgo is still being cold, distant or even mean... How does one react to that? What should one say, because it would seem that the virgo still wants to talk to you, right?
You seem so afraid to say the wrong thing or ruffle his/her feathers. Don't be! What kind of relationship is that!? That kind of pressure would send me over the edge. He/she needs to understand that you have better things to do than be emotionally abused by him/her. Secretly he/she will at the very least respect you for having boundaries; I know I respect anyone who can stand up to my shyt. Sitting there taking it trying to find the perfect thing to say will not accomplish that. Don't be so afraid of losing him that you cease to be yourself. I try to accept that my personality might cause my SO to leave but I refuse to stop being me because of that. If he goes...he goes!click to expand
But see here is the thing... When it comes out of no where, you dont know how to handle it. You're caught off guard and you feel like you have to handle the situation with kid gloves because you care so much about their feelings. By the point the funky lil attitude starts and because it starts so abruptly, one cant help but take it personally. I dont think that if someone invests their feelings to a point of love, that is should be "Oh well... if you go... you go." Thats difficult to do. If I say I I love you and I care.... thats what I mean, so I cant help but care if you go.
If he's not behaving like your boyfriend what is holding you back from leaving? You know you can do better right?
I'm asking you these questions because it's important. Put yourself in his shoes? What if you were him, you were in the middle of a separation, you were struggling at work and what if your work was being affected by the separation and at risk for losing your job over the stress. Now how would you feel if you were in his shoes?
As for him saying " it's just me and him, that we don't date or sleep with other people, that he deletes every guy I text with from my phone."
Did you make it clear that if you were going to delete every man out of your life you expect him to not only be your boyfriend but make you a priority in his life.
Just because he said all that didn't mean he was going to live up to it. You have to negotiate/navigate terms about what's going to take place if you decide to delete every guy from your life before making that kind of commitment.
If he's not acting like your boyfriend then move on. You can whine, moan, initiate text messages as much as you want but after awhile you just start to look UNATTRACTIVE which pushes him further and further away from you. So instead of doing what doesn't work try taking care of yourself by doing what's in your own best interest without trying to manipulate his feelings/pressure him to give more to the relationship. Try "I'm not getting what I need out of this, bye".
I'm asking you these questions because it's important. Put yourself in his shoes? What if you were him, you were in the middle of a separation, you were struggling at work and what if your work was being affected by the separation and at risk for losing your job over the stress. Now how would you feel if you were in his shoes?
As for him saying " it's just me and him, that we don't date or sleep with other people, that he deletes every guy I text with from my phone."
Did you make it clear that if you were going to delete every man out of your life you expect him to not only be your boyfriend but make you a priority in his life.
Just because he said all that didn't mean he was going to live up to it. You have to negotiate/navigate terms about what's going to take place if you decide to delete every guy from your life before making that kind of commitment.
If he's not acting like your boyfriend then move on. You can whine, moan, initiate text messages as much as you want but after awhile you just start to look UNATTRACTIVE which pushes him further and further away from you. So instead of doing what doesn't work try taking care of yourself by doing what's in your own best interest without trying to manipulate his feelings/pressure him to give more to the relationship. Try "I'm not getting what I need out of this, bye".
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by neuroticvirgo
My bad @MMM
Sept 25th...that's technically a Libra hence all the communication. Your Sept 3rd Virgo is much more Virgo than your friend. Plus the Sept 1-12 Virgos are known to be the most serious of the the litter. (I'm the 9th and I can attest to that). But if you're sick of him and his mia crap cut your losses and find yourself a better guy! It's his loss.
im torn between following your pm advice which was awesome or cutting ties. you said how important the time thing is, a stopwatch lmao. i guess my whold thing is im not allowed mistakes with this person. i mean one mistake and im iced. unfortunately, i make a lot of mistakes as does everyone. i wish he would say im pissed you were late instead of the mia. i mean did they meet someone else are they dead are they looking at their phone and ignoring me, i mean the list goes on and on. i think its abusive imo.click to expand
I can understand your dilemma. I'd say if you're not totally ready to cut your losses then try to take some of your emotions out of the equation. Begin the process of moving on and not really concerning yourself with him and the "punishment" you feel he's dishing out. If he contacts you and you want to entertain him then do the things we PM'd about. Then after your time together is over attempt to not concern yourself with what comes next rather focus on your own life. At least this way you're slowly beginning to wean yourself off of him and him in your life becomes less of a big deal.
Remember you're totally allowed to make mistakes and if he makes you feel like you can't then ask yourself is he worth it. But also remember a Virgo views time a bit differently than other signs. So what you perceive as disappearing or punishment might just be him off doing his own thing. Maybe use this time to figure out which way you want to go with him. E-hugs!
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by neuroticvirgoPosted by kindleberryPosted by neuroticvirgo
My bad @MMM
Sept 25th...that's technically a Libra hence all the communication. Your Sept 3rd Virgo is much more Virgo than your friend. Plus the Sept 1-12 Virgos are known to be the most serious of the the litter. (I'm the 9th and I can attest to that). But if you're sick of him and his mia crap cut your losses and find yourself a better guy! It's his loss.
What about August Virgos? 🙂
They're supposed to be more relaxed and fun loving. I dated 1 and I found him to be more leo than Virgo. He now even claims to be a leo. They seem to be a lot less shy than the Sept Virgos and a lot less introverted as well.
sorry i actually meant aug 25 so def more leoclick to expand
It depends on the individual. Remember the Virgo friend I was telling you about? His birthday in 8/29 & it used to be hard to get a text or call out of him. Sometimes he wouldn't answer calls & or texts, but that infuriates me. It's just rude as hell & whenever someone does that to me, I assume they don't want to talk to me so I never contact them again until they do. That's when I start mirroring & people hate when it's done to them.
I don't ignore someone unless I'm pissed off at them or I don't like them, & they still continue to contact me. If I am stressed or having a hard time & my loved ones or "liked" ones, lol, contacts me I will not ignore them. I'll let them know I need some space & they usually back off. It's common courtesy, & it takes 2 minutes to send a damn text or call.
But see here is the thing... When it comes out of no where, you dont know how to handle it. You're caught off guard and you feel like you have to handle the situation with kid gloves because you care so much about their feelings. By the point the funky lil attitude starts and because it starts so abruptly, one cant help but take it personally. I dont think that if someone invests their feelings to a point of love, that is should be "Oh well... if you go... you go." Thats difficult to do. If I say I I love you and I care.... thats what I mean, so I cant help but care if you go.
I definitely care about my guys feelings but not to the point that I'm going to let him talk to me or treat me any kind way. Abrupt or not when the rudeness starts you get a timeout from me. It they start being rude and you just allow it; you're basically saying it's ok to treat me this way...when it's not. My guy told me on Friday that I "bust his ballz all the time" but I've never yelled or argued with him. I'm just very clear about how I will be treated and if you treat me in a way contrary to that I will not tolerate it. You don't need to get in a huff; be direct (you're in a mood, hit me back when you feel better) That's a clear way to let him know that his attitude is unacceptable and train him to realize he can't call you acting like an ass.
I love my guy to honey bunches of oats! But I constantly remind myself that it is unacceptable to be any less than myself to keep him. So yes I adopt the mentality that if he goes he goes. That doesn't mean I won't be hurt if he goes; but hurt goes away I've got to be with me for life. It just needs to be acceptable to you to not have him in your life so that you don't make the mistake of doing too much to keep him.
Soinlove I'm not sure if you're a guy or a girl dating a girl but I think in your case you made the wrong move by trying to fix her problems and subjugating yourself to her which reeked more of desperation than it did of help and to be honest it did come across as manipulative. You weren't helping her with her problems before right? You weren't telling her you care etc before? So it all smells kind of fake.
So with that being said, slow down and be honest, no more handling things with kid gloves. If she's being cold over the phone after initiating a call..BE HONEST. Tell her you don't feel comfortable, she called and she's being cold and you have to go, don't keep talking, just end the call.
If you're ever around her and she's venting, DO NOT HELP HER, act bored and disinterested, cut her off and tell her your bored and gotta go.
You seem to have a woman that only responds to being neglected and unless you are the neglectful kind you'd be moving along before you allow this woman to keep you down and control you.
She needs a heavy hand of neglect, for example hang the phone up in her face and do it again when she calls back, OMG she'll be in love again with you. Don't answer her emails, don't tell her how you feel, appear bored and disengaged, it drives women crazy and cause them to cling to you to get your approval/attention.
Look at all the women on the Virgo board staying with men that don't want them, absent men, they do stick around for neglect because of there own self esteem issues.
So with that being said, slow down and be honest, no more handling things with kid gloves. If she's being cold over the phone after initiating a call..BE HONEST. Tell her you don't feel comfortable, she called and she's being cold and you have to go, don't keep talking, just end the call.
If you're ever around her and she's venting, DO NOT HELP HER, act bored and disinterested, cut her off and tell her your bored and gotta go.
You seem to have a woman that only responds to being neglected and unless you are the neglectful kind you'd be moving along before you allow this woman to keep you down and control you.
She needs a heavy hand of neglect, for example hang the phone up in her face and do it again when she calls back, OMG she'll be in love again with you. Don't answer her emails, don't tell her how you feel, appear bored and disengaged, it drives women crazy and cause them to cling to you to get your approval/attention.
Look at all the women on the Virgo board staying with men that don't want them, absent men, they do stick around for neglect because of there own self esteem issues.
Soinlove you don't present a challenge. If you're perfect, there is no resistance coming from you and she has nothing to do like change, fix, mold, tame you then she's BORED so you have to stay in your lane and never deviate EVER.
Let her break her back trying to tame you, control you and she'll stick by your side to get a crumb. Women don't fall in love with a man GIVING himself up to her, not the immature women, the women that aren't ready to settle down ENJOY trying to tame a mans behavior, keeps her busy, gives her something to do, she eat and breathe trying to keep her man in the backyard. Notice she'll whine but she won't give up!
So if you stop allowing your emotions to tame you and instead be slightly out of reach she'll turn around and give more but first she has to feel she can't have you in order for her to become engaged in the relationship again so the next time she tell you to go, tell her you will and change your number...Watch the miracle happen.
Let her break her back trying to tame you, control you and she'll stick by your side to get a crumb. Women don't fall in love with a man GIVING himself up to her, not the immature women, the women that aren't ready to settle down ENJOY trying to tame a mans behavior, keeps her busy, gives her something to do, she eat and breathe trying to keep her man in the backyard. Notice she'll whine but she won't give up!
So if you stop allowing your emotions to tame you and instead be slightly out of reach she'll turn around and give more but first she has to feel she can't have you in order for her to become engaged in the relationship again so the next time she tell you to go, tell her you will and change your number...Watch the miracle happen.
"its so hard to present a challenge to someone your dying to be with. it feels like a game and your afraid of loosing them i find it very difficult."
See this right here is what I'm talking about! If you're too afraid to lose him/her you can't really play the "game". If you can find a way to accept that he may not be the one for you and be ok with the idea of losing him you will regain your confidence and be willing to be more of your challenging self. Don't be so afraid there's always another great guy or girl around the corner when you're ready to receive them.
See this right here is what I'm talking about! If you're too afraid to lose him/her you can't really play the "game". If you can find a way to accept that he may not be the one for you and be ok with the idea of losing him you will regain your confidence and be willing to be more of your challenging self. Don't be so afraid there's always another great guy or girl around the corner when you're ready to receive them.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
thats probably it. i cant play the game with someone i love and want to be with. better to just walk away.
What's your Venus sign?
"self esteem or just waiting for a change in a situation. problem is that once you let go of the virgo they always re-appear and the feeling creep back and confusion sets in . you want so bad to love them and finally have what youve wanted, a relationship and then they pull the same bs. there ks more than self esteem here. it seems to be better to cut all ties, change numbers whatever so the temptation to allow them back in for more of the same is not there."
A woman with self esteem (high self esteem) know her worth enough to never place herself in a powerless begging position. Basically she waits for no man because she's sure enough and confident enough he can be replaced easily. If he re-appear in her life she's not there. Men know when they snooze they lose so he won't be surprised that you've moved on because you're a great catch, of course some other man is going to show up and take you off the market, he'll just have to feel the loss, he caused it so yeah it's his problem not yours.
He can't pull the same BS if you're not available for it so don't be available for the BS. Instead of loving him so badly, put yourself first and love you more. Love yourself so much that you'd never allow yourself to endure more BS. Cutting all ties would be a great start. The bullshitter will have to shit on someone else's life but it won't be yours.
"its so hard to present a challenge to someone your dying to be with. it feels like a game and your afraid of loosing them i find it very difficult."
You should never be dying to be with a guy. You should be dying to hold onto yourself because you're losing it to a man that gives crumbs, that's scary. Be afraid more than anything that you're losing yourself for measly crumbs, that should scare you more than anything else.
"thats probably it. i cant play the game with someone i love and want to be with. better to just walk away."
It's not a game, it's human nature and if you don't know or have some awareness of how male energy works you're going to unnecessarily suffer. Waiting is never necessary, walking away is much more effective than waiting, nagging and begging.
A woman with self esteem (high self esteem) know her worth enough to never place herself in a powerless begging position. Basically she waits for no man because she's sure enough and confident enough he can be replaced easily. If he re-appear in her life she's not there. Men know when they snooze they lose so he won't be surprised that you've moved on because you're a great catch, of course some other man is going to show up and take you off the market, he'll just have to feel the loss, he caused it so yeah it's his problem not yours.
He can't pull the same BS if you're not available for it so don't be available for the BS. Instead of loving him so badly, put yourself first and love you more. Love yourself so much that you'd never allow yourself to endure more BS. Cutting all ties would be a great start. The bullshitter will have to shit on someone else's life but it won't be yours.
"its so hard to present a challenge to someone your dying to be with. it feels like a game and your afraid of loosing them i find it very difficult."
You should never be dying to be with a guy. You should be dying to hold onto yourself because you're losing it to a man that gives crumbs, that's scary. Be afraid more than anything that you're losing yourself for measly crumbs, that should scare you more than anything else.
"thats probably it. i cant play the game with someone i love and want to be with. better to just walk away."
It's not a game, it's human nature and if you don't know or have some awareness of how male energy works you're going to unnecessarily suffer. Waiting is never necessary, walking away is much more effective than waiting, nagging and begging.
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by RealTalkPosted by msmarilynmanson
thats probably it. i cant play the game with someone i love and want to be with. better to just walk away.
What's your Venus sign?
cancerclick to expand
Yeah. I kind of figured it was a water sign. Most Cancers have a hard time walking away, they tend to cling to things & live in the past. Of course the entire chart has to be factored in, along with the individual's personality, but it has some relevance to it. 2 of my exs had Venus in water signs, 1 Scorpio the other Cancer & both of them have a hard time letting go.
*had
You're all correct. I am throwing in the towel. I hope I say the right words.
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Posted by msmarilynmanson
got cut off. basically you do move on and you feel great and the ex shows up. you see him. your flooded with emotion and you realize you are not over him but he is not emotionally available for a relationship. how do u make it stop.
You know I'm going through something similar. Your love for him may not ever stop, but it's easier to move on if you know that he's emotionally unavailable to you & that's not what you want. I still love my ex gem (Venus in cancer) but I know I cannot be with him.
Do I think about him, yes but I physically had to let him go because it's not meant to be right now. I have no idea what the future holds, but my present simply cannot be bothered with him.
Posted by kindleberry
You're all correct. I am throwing in the towel. I hope I say the right words.
No "right" words to say if you're throwing in the towel. Just say what you feel, move on and DON'T let him/her come back and throw off your life in the future. If you're going to be done...be DONE! Good luck
Posted by neuroticvirgoPosted by kindleberry
You're all correct. I am throwing in the towel. I hope I say the right words.
No "right" words to say if you're throwing in the towel. Just say what you feel, move on and DON'T let him/her come back and throw off your life in the future. If you're going to be done...be DONE! Good luckclick to expand
Easier said than done. My mind is boiling. I've loved him for 8 years. I know I will never get over him. I wish he had just let me go all those other times I wanted him to and told him to.
Posted by kindleberryPosted by neuroticvirgoPosted by kindleberry
You're all correct. I am throwing in the towel. I hope I say the right words.
No "right" words to say if you're throwing in the towel. Just say what you feel, move on and DON'T let him/her come back and throw off your life in the future. If you're going to be done...be DONE! Good luck
Easier said than done. My mind is boiling. I've loved him for 8 years. I know I will never get over him. I wish he had just let me go all those other times I wanted him to and told him to.click to expand
Trust me I get it and I've been there before. There really is no easy way to get over someone you really love. You just have to resolve yourself to move on then make yourself do it no matter what the other person does. Realize that your leaving him alone will likely make him pursue you, but you just have to MAKE yourself stick to your decision for your own future happiness. Eventually it hurts less then not at all and you wonder how you put up with that person for so long.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
and soon as i let go and start dating and literally forget about him, there he is and then i feel weak. its something ive got to overcome.
It's nothing wrong with feeling weak. You're human. I'd bump into my ex & feel weak for him, but it's just a feeling that will eventually pass. I had to fight it & keep in mind what's best for me. I actually saw my ex about a month ago driving. He saw me & waited for me to turn in the middle of the road. When I turned he was signaling for me to pull over, even got out of the car to make sure I saw him. I ignored him.
I was driving behind him & he kept trying to get my attention, to no avail. He finally pulled over & I kept going. I wanted to stop so bad!!! But what held me back was knowing if I'd stop now, I'd never stop. If you get what I'm saying, so I kept it moving.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
got cut off. basically you do move on and you feel great and the ex shows up. you see him. your flooded with emotion and you realize you are not over him but he is not emotionally available for a relationship. how do u make it stop.
In what context is the ex showing up? Is he invading your life randomly? Are you bumping into one another?
If he's invading your life randomly and has no concrete intentions for you other than liking the way you make him feel about himself then it's pointless to continue on giving this man your heart only for him to slam it into the door on his way out.
Have you considered going no contact for a year? But maybe you enjoy the drama, I dunno. He can't show up unless your available.
Posted by kindleberryPosted by neuroticvirgoPosted by kindleberry
You're all correct. I am throwing in the towel. I hope I say the right words.
No "right" words to say if you're throwing in the towel. Just say what you feel, move on and DON'T let him/her come back and throw off your life in the future. If you're going to be done...be DONE! Good luck
Easier said than done. My mind is boiling. I've loved him for 8 years. I know I will never get over him. I wish he had just let me go all those other times I wanted him to and told him to.click to expand
8 years! He's been doling out crumbs for 8 years? No wonder you come across needy, he's emotionally starved you out of the relationship.
So you were dating him while he was married/involved with someone else? You mentioned he was going through a separation.
You don't have to leave, you've endured 8 years of his crap but if you ever want an opportunity to get married, have babies then you should really sit down and think about your situation with him and YOU decide for yourself to stay or go. you don't need his permission to be happy. You decide what's best for YOU and execute your plan to stay or go.
You can suggest relationship counseling to get through this with him but he has to be willing. Just take some time to figure things out for yourself, stop thinking about loving him, stop thinking about losing him. Do what's in best for you first.
If you want to stay then stay but you do have to accept the bad with the good, don't complain and endure it. Commit to staying and zip it up about the bad stuff.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
and soon as i let go and start dating and literally forget about him, there he is and then i feel weak. its something ive got to overcome.
Some people can be assholes, they don't want you but they don't want anyone else to have you, he want you to be his adoring fan for life...Wake up!
Wow MMM! That Virgo got you babe!! 😛 you gotta break the spell!!!
Posted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
Posted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.click to expand
Yes it was! It's lasted 8 yrs.
Mine and his charts are under "Virgo guy is unstable"
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by RealTalk
Wow MMM! That Virgo got you babe!! 😛 you gotta break the spell!!!
he did. staring into my eyes for hours. just laying there not moving. telling each other we were falling in love. it was a life changing experience. i felt completely vulnerable and exposed. all of the walls came down. it was insane. how do i break the spell? help.click to expand
That sounds like heaven but if you're in hell most of the time from his behavior, why would you allow someone to put you through so much pain? Don't you feel fucked up when he ignores you? He knows that you're always willing to drop everything for him, therefore he doesn't value you at all because he knows you will always be there.
It's VERY, VERY disrespectful to just ignore someone without a valid reason. I can see if he was hurt by you & needed time, or he had a dire situation & later explained this to you, but to just flat out ignore you because he can is fucked up.
Posted by kindleberry
Mine and his charts are under "Virgo guy is unstable"
Never mind I thought you said your venus was in cancer I don't see anything strong here, it would be better if I had your rising sign than we could see whats going on. All I see is that your venus is connected to his moon in Taurus. Women project there venus sign and men go in to relationships base on there moon sign.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aries 6.56
Moon Leo 21.38
Mercury Pisces 10.08
Venus Taurus 22.30
Mars Leo 26.29 R
Jupiter Virgo 1.36 R
Saturn Virgo 22.36 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.15 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.41 R
Pluto Libra 20.48 R
Lilith Virgo 29.08
Asc node Leo 28.47
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Keep the lust, have that but he's unavailable for a reason..He know it's lust, you just haven't figured that out yet. He's actually getting sex because you perceive the lust as love. I'm so not knocking you at all so please try not to take it like I'm coming at you side ways because I'm not.
He's in and out for a reason, he's emotionally unavailable for a reason and that reason is he's not feeling it like you but that doesn't mean he can't gain something from your feelings. Don't allow him to keep playing out like that.
Ask him. Ask him how he feels? Ask him why he keeps coming back if he's not going to stay? Ask him if he loves you and is in love with you? Ask him to commit? He'll be gone for a long ass time, it'll be awhile before he swing back to get some sex.
He's in and out for a reason, he's emotionally unavailable for a reason and that reason is he's not feeling it like you but that doesn't mean he can't gain something from your feelings. Don't allow him to keep playing out like that.
Ask him. Ask him how he feels? Ask him why he keeps coming back if he's not going to stay? Ask him if he loves you and is in love with you? Ask him to commit? He'll be gone for a long ass time, it'll be awhile before he swing back to get some sex.
Posted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine and his charts are under "Virgo guy is unstable"
Never mind I thought you said your venus was in cancer I don't see anything strong here, it would be better if I had your rising sign than we could see whats going on. All I see is that your venus is connected to his moon in Taurus. Women project there venus sign and men go in to relationships base on there moon sign.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aries 6.56
Moon Leo 21.38
Mercury Pisces 10.08
Venus Taurus 22.30
Mars Leo 26.29 R
Jupiter Virgo 1.36 R
Saturn Virgo 22.36 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.15 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.41 R
Pluto Libra 20.48 R
Lilith Virgo 29.08
Asc node Leo 28.47
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22click to expand
I believe it's Capricorn.
Posted by kindleberryPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine and his charts are under "Virgo guy is unstable"
Never mind I thought you said your venus was in cancer I don't see anything strong here, it would be better if I had your rising sign than we could see whats going on. All I see is that your venus is connected to his moon in Taurus. Women project there venus sign and men go in to relationships base on there moon sign.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Aries 6.56
Moon Leo 21.38
Mercury Pisces 10.08
Venus Taurus 22.30
Mars Leo 26.29 R
Jupiter Virgo 1.36 R
Saturn Virgo 22.36 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.15 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.41 R
Pluto Libra 20.48 R
Lilith Virgo 29.08
Asc node Leo 28.47
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
I believe it's Capricorn.click to expand
His north node is cap and his south is cancer your north is always the opposite sign.
From a virgo man perspective it looks like his d.i.ck is hard and he knows he can get some a.s.s from you I done this before in my past.
Posted by virgoking
From a virgo man perspective it looks like his d.i.ck is hard and he knows he can get some a.s.s from you I done this before in my past.
Lol who is this meant for?
btw - I don't understand what you wrote about the north and south node. I have zero clue to this reading.
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by virgoking
From a virgo man perspective it looks like his d.i.ck is hard and he knows he can get some a.s.s from you I done this before in my past.
he is sept 3 and so are you. he has no feelings at all?click to expand
Yeah that was for you sorry for the confusion lol and I don't have any feeling lol but rage j/k. Also little note charlie sheen shares my bday lol and I do random acts of kindness like him to lol like give a crack whore actress money. lmao
Posted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.click to expand
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.
Posted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.click to expand
Lol you think thats bad my mars,sun,venus,and mercury was in my ex libra south node lol plus her mars was in my north node I found out we were husband and wife in a past life and she was the husband lol.
Posted by msmarilynmanson
i need,to hear this virgoking,am i a blowup doll?
Sound like it to me if you can I would with hold from sex to see what he really wants.
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by RealTalk
It's VERY, VERY disrespectful to just ignore someone without a valid reason. I can see if he was hurt by you & needed time, or he had a dire situation & later explained this to you, but to just flat out ignore you because he can is fucked up.
exactly dead or in jail in the only excuse. i agree 100 percent.click to expand
That's pretty extreme! Lol. I mean sometimes things happen whereas the person cannot respond to you right away, if they respect you they will tell you what's been going on & will be apologetic.
But when it KEEPS happening that's a problem.
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by virgokingPosted by msmarilynmansonPosted by virgoking
From a virgo man perspective it looks like his d.i.ck is hard and he knows he can get some a.s.s from you I done this before in my past.
he is sept 3 and so are you. he has no feelings at all?
Yeah that was for you sorry for the confusion lol and I don't have any feeling lol but rage j/k. Also little note charlie sheen shares my bday lol and I do random acts of kindness like him to lol like give a crack whore actress money. lmao
im serious. no feeelings at all??click to expand
I mean I do but I have cap moon plus it's in my 3rd house which make me like robot lol with humor venus in 11. I would have to see the chart but there is a lot of players that are sep 3 I think they call us the adventures or something like that for virgos I'll find out hold on.
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by tiki33
Keep the lust, have that but he's unavailable for a reason..He know it's lust, you just haven't figured that out yet. He's actually getting sex because you perceive the lust as love. I'm so not knocking you at all so please try not to take it like I'm coming at you side ways because I'm not.
He's in and out for a reason, he's emotionally unavailable for a reason and that reason is he's not feeling it like you but that doesn't mean he can't gain something from your feelings. Don't allow him to keep playing out like that.
Ask him. Ask him how he feels? Ask him why he keeps coming back if he's not going to stay? Ask him if he loves you and is in love with you? Ask him to commit? He'll be gone for a long ass time, it'll be awhile before he swing back to get some sex.
lmao! ask him all those questions huh? hmmm that might be actually funny. ill end it with, see you in a couple of years! im serious i think im going to do it, it sounds liks a good idea and funny as well.click to expand
LOL! Ask him. You don't have shit to lose so why not go there unless...Unless you wanna keep the sex well then don't ask.
sep 3 people its mold breakers my bad link http://www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/report/?r=d00000903<BR>
Personality of The Day of the Mold Breakers
People born on September 3 are not always what they seem. Because others so often misread their nature and potentials, those born on this day may be forced to play roles in life which, although not always disagreeable, are not exactly what they want either. Though September 3 people are generally multi-talented, often one of their attributes is appreciated at the expense of the rest. Physical beauty in September 3 females is a case in point; because of good looks, their other fine qualities may go unrecognized. Men born on this day tend to be mistaken by others for an easy touch, or pigeonholed by career or family status.
Although they can impress others as quiet and tractable, no one who has ever tried to take advantage of a September 3 person will forget the result. Those born on this day have a steel-like armor that seals them off from all forms of flattery and vampirism. They may appear gentle, even a bit soft, but they will insist on being treated honorably and fairly, and vigorously resist efforts to push them around. Because their work is often of a visionary nature, exceptional people born on this day can be way ahead of their time, and must understand if others are sometimes slow to approve of their methods. Fortunately, most of these mold breakers display great patience, as well as confidence in the value of their work. Thus they are well-equipped to endure years without recognition while continuing on with their endeavors. Their path to wider acceptance can be made a bit smoother, however, if they take time to explain to others in everyday language what their objectives are and how they intend to get there.
Personality of The Day of the Mold Breakers
People born on September 3 are not always what they seem. Because others so often misread their nature and potentials, those born on this day may be forced to play roles in life which, although not always disagreeable, are not exactly what they want either. Though September 3 people are generally multi-talented, often one of their attributes is appreciated at the expense of the rest. Physical beauty in September 3 females is a case in point; because of good looks, their other fine qualities may go unrecognized. Men born on this day tend to be mistaken by others for an easy touch, or pigeonholed by career or family status.
Although they can impress others as quiet and tractable, no one who has ever tried to take advantage of a September 3 person will forget the result. Those born on this day have a steel-like armor that seals them off from all forms of flattery and vampirism. They may appear gentle, even a bit soft, but they will insist on being treated honorably and fairly, and vigorously resist efforts to push them around. Because their work is often of a visionary nature, exceptional people born on this day can be way ahead of their time, and must understand if others are sometimes slow to approve of their methods. Fortunately, most of these mold breakers display great patience, as well as confidence in the value of their work. Thus they are well-equipped to endure years without recognition while continuing on with their endeavors. Their path to wider acceptance can be made a bit smoother, however, if they take time to explain to others in everyday language what their objectives are and how they intend to get there.
Posted by virgokingPosted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.
Lol you think thats bad my mars,sun,venus,and mercury was in my ex libra south node lol plus her mars was in my north node I found out we were husband and wife in a past life and she was the husband lol.click to expand
Hahaha...whoa! I bet that was a morbidly intense connection, that was challenging to break. Maybe I was the man in the past life & he was the woman? Hell, IDK lol. The moment I met him I was immediately & strongly attracted to him. Next day we were together & I developed feelings that quickly.
Posted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.
Lol you think thats bad my mars,sun,venus,and mercury was in my ex libra south node lol plus her mars was in my north node I found out we were husband and wife in a past life and she was the husband lol.
Hahaha...whoa! I bet that was a morbidly intense connection, that was challenging to break. Maybe I was the man in the past life & he was the woman? Hell, IDK lol. The moment I met him I was immediately & strongly attracted to him. Next day we were together & I developed feelings that quickly.click to expand
Did you meet him by accident? And yeah very intense we can not be near each other or something will go down.
Posted by virgokingPosted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.
Lol you think thats bad my mars,sun,venus,and mercury was in my ex libra south node lol plus her mars was in my north node I found out we were husband and wife in a past life and she was the husband lol.click to expand
Do ever think the 2 of you will rekindle? Also do you know what the moon connection means? I'm also dating someone that has his North node in my Mars. Any insight there? I'm totally intrigued. 😄
Posted by msmarilynmansonPosted by virgoking
sep 3 people its mold breakers my bad link http://www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/report/?r=d00000903<BR>
Personality of The Day of the Mold Breakers
People born on September 3 are not always what they seem. Because others so often misread their nature and potentials, those born on this day may be forced to play roles in life which, although not always disagreeable, are not exactly what they want either. Though September 3 people are generally multi-talented, often one of their attributes is appreciated at the expense of the rest. Physical beauty in September 3 females is a case in point; because of good looks, their other fine qualities may go unrecognized. Men born on this day tend to be mistaken by others for an easy touch, or pigeonholed by career or family status.
Although they can impress others as quiet and tractable, no one who has ever tried to take advantage of a September 3 person will forget the result. Those born on this day have a steel-like armor that seals them off from all forms of flattery and vampirism. They may appear gentle, even a bit soft, but they will insist on being treated honorably and fairly, and vigorously resist efforts to push them around. Because their work is often of a visionary nature, exceptional people born on this day can be way ahead of their time, and must understand if others are sometimes slow to approve of their methods. Fortunately, most of these mold breakers display great patience, as well as confidence in the value of their work. Thus they are well-equipped to endure years without recognition while continuing on with their endeavors. Their path to wider acceptance can be made a bit smoother, however, if they take time to explain to others in everyday language what their objectives are and how they intend to get there.
ty. can sex ever turn to love with you?click to expand
Yeah it can i'm married now so it's possible.
Posted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by RealTalkPosted by virgokingPosted by kindleberry
Mine has Venus in Cancer too.
Sun Virgo 6.03
Moon Taurus 6.28
Mercury Leo 18.26
Venus Cancer 20.15
Mars Virgo 9.05
Jupiter Sagittarius 28.31
Saturn Gemini 19.32
Uranus Libra 16.07
Neptune Sagittarius 2.33
Pluto Libra 0.56
Lilith Scorpio 20.51
Asc node Capricorn 25.22
Your venus is connected to his south node thats a powerful connection plus indicates past life lovers. Was it instant attraction when you guys met.
What you described in the other thread regarding the Mars connection is so spot on it's scary. My Mars is in Cancer which fell in my ex gems south node & yes I was kind of violent towards the end of the relationship. Also his moon is in Pisces which falls in my south node.
Not sure about the moon placement but...I'm not 1 to believe in karmic ties/soul mates/twin souls, but it makes sense.
Lol you think thats bad my mars,sun,venus,and mercury was in my ex libra south node lol plus her mars was in my north node I found out we were husband and wife in a past life and she was the husband lol.
Do ever think the 2 of you will rekindle? Also do you know what the moon connection means? I'm also dating someone that has his North node in my Mars. Any insight there? I'm totally intrigued. 😄click to expand
Well no i'm married now but I do still think about her but I moved and it just can't be. For you the node person has more control whats his moon and your moon.
Oh yes VK, It was serendipitous I believe. I was supposed to the pharmacy but at that moment I changed my mind & went to the gas station first. We met there in the convenience store. Even our random run ins now are also the same way.
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