Why telling a Virgo your feelings closes them up.. (Page 3)

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Posted by virgoking
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@VK, more control! Oh hell no! Lol...but the gems moon is in Pisces, mine in Virgo, but his moon falls in my south node.

Oh ok that explains it he must really like you lol my wife has that her moon falls in my south node I just found out that it fades over time and thats she could have been my mother in past life ewwwwwwww lol.
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Oooooooh...does she act motherly toward you?
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@VK, more control! Oh hell no! Lol...but the gems moon is in Pisces, mine in Virgo, but his moon falls in my south node.

Oh ok that explains it he must really like you lol my wife has that her moon falls in my south node I just found out that it fades over time and thats she could have been my mother in past life ewwwwwwww lol.



Oooooooh...does she act motherly toward you?
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Yes my mom jokes and says thats your other mom lol
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Lol, look at us MMM, we're gang banging VK for insight 😛

I hope you get the understanding you're seeking to better deal with the headache *cough* Virgo!!! 🙂



ya makes sense. i fell in love with him and to him im a booty call #claps hands lol
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Awwwwww 😢

You have the power to change that. Break that spell girl!! Become a He-man & scream from the hills: "I HAVE THE POWER"! Hahaha. No but really...make him sweat.










































And I don't mean through sex! 😛
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On a side note women look at there Jupiter for a husband.



Is that so? My Jupiter is Leo. Ickkkkkkkk!!!! Me no likey Leos romantically. As friends yeah, but anything more than that, not happening.
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Well jupiter is consider the teacher sign or guru in astrology and women no matter what women say they want to look up to there man and learn something from him. Because yours is in leo, does not mean you will be with a leo. It means you will want your man to have some of those qualities. So you will look for a husband that is brave, loyal and is some what in the spot lite and someone you could admire. You may want him to teach you these things if you lack it. Women look at there mars sign for attraction for example my wife has virgo mars most of the guys she see on tv that she think are hot are virgo men or virgo risers.
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Oh wow. I do think guys date/marry women that remind them of their mother, but "to mother" your mate is another thing. Thanks for the insight!

I guess so but its funny my mom and my wife don't get along I have never seen my mom get jealous until I meet my wife even before we got married.




You're married and you are only 25, how is that possible?
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It happens I think my chart did say I would marry young sometimes you can see it in your chart.
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So he told me he needs to be left alone for a while. That I should stop reading into things. (He is going through a mid-life crisis I think) Family and work falling apart.

Was it harsh to say that I get it you don't need me. He then called me but I missed the call because my phone was on mute. 10 min later I wrote him back that I don't want to cause him any headache. And he can have all the space he wants.

I was just pissed because our conversations lately have been like pulling teeth.


I don't know what to say or do. So I said that.

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Posted by SoInLOVE
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Okay now here is this question... When virgos are in a bad mood and your SO gives you the space... He/She doesn't call or anything, but when the virgo decides to call and the virgo is still being cold, distant or even mean... How does one react to that? What should one say, because it would seem that the virgo still wants to talk to you, right?



You seem so afraid to say the wrong thing or ruffle his/her feathers. Don't be! What kind of relationship is that!? That kind of pressure would send me over the edge. He/she needs to understand that you have better things to do than be emotionally abused by him/her. Secretly he/she will at the very least respect you for having boundaries; I know I respect anyone who can stand up to my shyt. Sitting there taking it trying to find the perfect thing to say will not accomplish that. Don't be so afraid of losing him that you cease to be yourself. I try to accept that my personality might cause my SO to leave but I refuse to stop being me because of that. If he goes...he goes!



But see here is the thing... When it comes out of no where, you dont know how to handle it. You're caught off guard and you feel like you have to handle the situation with kid gloves because you care so much about their feelings. By the point the funky lil attitude starts and because it starts so abruptly, one cant help but take it personally. I dont think that if someone invests their feelings to a point of love, that is should be "Oh well... if you go... you go." Thats difficult to do. If I say I I love you and I care.... thats what I mean, so I cant help but care if you go.
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I think you need to stop giving your energy away, you are focusing on him, his feelings, his reactions to your mistakes, handling the situation with kid gloves.... STOP you have lost your center, you are all over the place, you need to get it back and the only way is treating yourself with respect and not allowing to spend every waking moment thinking on how get his attention back.
FEAR is a huge turn off, the sexual attraction is gone, Virgos like a woman that can take and understand the fact they need space, loose the fear and everything will change, you hav