Why virgos don't date ?

Is it because of our harshness ? Our shyness ? What is it that other signs don't date virgos much ?

I don't seem to meet very many Virgos, but that could be because they do tend to be shy, they don't usually talk much, and they're normally not social butterflies except within their established circle of friends. I'd love to meet more. lol.

I've always liked your take on things like dating, phoenix .Too bad i don't know much about it since i never went on a date before.

Really? Well, the way I met my current Virgo flame (that may or may not work out), was very simple, he was sitting outside a coffee shop and I just happened to be doing the same that night. So you don't necessarily have to do the crazy bar scene thing, you can go somewhere harmless and not pressured or chaotic, and you just may meet some cool ladies! And then you're in the perfect place to show her that you like her, you can be like, "let me buy you a coffee or some tea or something". If she's outgoing enough, you won't even have to work that hard. Good luck, don't stress, you'll find plenty of nice girls in places like that. 😉

Oh hey, I think I actually understand what you're asking now...lol, sorry, blonde moment I suppose 😉

Well, I don't feel like I've known enough Virgos closely enough to say what bugs me about them, but you know what? Perhaps that's the only thing that bugs me about them; they do tend to keep emotional intimacy at an arm's length. I wish I could meet more and get closer to them. But based on what I do know of this particular Virgo guy, I would say that his "I know what's best for you no matter what you say" attitude can grate on me a teensy bit, but it's really not too bad, because I have the type of personality that simply *won't* do something I don't want to do or can't do, regardless of whether someone else tells me I should or need to. But yeah, basically that and the emotional distance/coolness thing are the only two things that (for me) could potentially make me upset with a Virgo, or not pursue a relationship with one. As far as all your traditional so-called "negative traits", i.e, pickiness, fussiness, criticism, perfectionism, etc....I actually understand all of that and it's never bothered me (as long as it isn't in the EXTREME!!). I actually kind of like it when this particular Virgo fusses over me. lol. It's sweet, even if he sometimes does it in a cranky way. And as far as the occasional bout of bossiness I was describing earlier, at their best, a Virgo will give you very good advice, very thorough, detailed advice...so if you put a positive spin on the potential bossiness, it can be a good thing.