me a Capricorn with virgo rising been dating a virgo man with Capricorn rising for 3 months.
we lives 6 hours drive away from each other & we both are gay men. (him being not out)
everything was going amazing, till this week i felt distanced himself.
last night he contacts me saying sorry for being weird because he was trying to figure this out.
he decided to end it with me because his not out and coming out will be hard due to the fact his arab and comes from a strict Muslim family and the distance. he said stuff adds up..
he was in a very bad mood and kept saying how much i mean to him. im very special and begged me to stay in my life.
me being in love with him just want him to be happy, even without me (which is hard for me).
he said he wants us to continue to talk and even meet up here and there.
"but to say its a relationship, isnt fair for us because of our situation" (well mostly his being closet case).
Anyways, do i have a chance in the future with him if i keep him in my life.
me and him do have something special and he is just in a bad spot in his life right now.
do you all think maybe once his life changes and after us being closer (with time) he will want me again?
i asked him if it wasnt for our "situation" will we be together? he replied "probably".
If you think things are going to change for him? I've been in your shoes with a closeted ex and it was an incredibly draining experience. You'll set yourself up for a high risk and emotional challenge. And even if he comes out of the closet there might be a chance that he's going to hit his own "coming out puberty" and still won't be ready to commit to you. The "probably" can mean anything and nothing.
I'm also currently fighting with my own hope for someone to come around. So I feel you there. Take your time, take care of yourself primarily. I know it's hard.
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Anyways, do i have a chance in the future with him if i keep him in my life.
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