@CLCNY30
16 Years1,000+ Posts
I'll say a virgo or a leo those are the girls I seem to stay with the longest.
I've had 4 soul mates so far..... each have taught me something very valuable about myself and have taught me life lessons. There has been the scorpio. There was the capricorn. The Virgo. And now it's a cusper of capricorn and aqua that is teaching and encouraging me alot.
I don't believe in one soul mate.......
I hope and pray mine is a Taurus. The females that I've met I didn't get along with too well, but I always connect with the men of the sign--they're sexy as hell to me, and when they're not being hella-sarcastic (which I find sexy too ๐ ) they're sweet as hell. I can see a solid relationship with one, even though guys of other signs try to disuade me by saying they feel Taurus men are too stuffy, and boring. I don't see it though.
Posted by CLCNY30
I hope and pray mine is a Taurus. The females that I've met I didn't get along with too well, but I always connect with the men of the sign--they're sexy as hell to me, and when they're not being hella-sarcastic (which I find sexy too ๐ ) they're sweet as hell. I can see a solid relationship with one, even though guys of other signs try to disuade me by saying they feel Taurus men are too stuffy, and boring. I don't see it though.I love just about every taurus I've ever met in RL. So I know what you mean. My daddy's best friends were always tauruses (he's an Aqua) and they're like super loyal, get along super well, laughs & fun times/jokes. My grandpa is a taurus too, very grounded but oh man, so strict!! His word is like law, obstinate as hell, (hardly anyone could tell him anything, and he did things his way or no way!) but it's easy to get him to be persuaded with a dimpled smile ๐
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Awww!!
I will never forgive myself for losing the Taurus I now know I was destined to marry...
I was at a really messed up point my life--mid 20's, just had a lot going on. My father had just passed away, and all my siblings (older than me, but still so damn dependant on me! UGH!) made me administratrix of the estate, and between work, school, going to the lawyer's office, trying to take care of the estate, back and forth to court...I don't know how I survived.
He came along then, my cutiepie. He looks so much like Michael Buble it's scary. I cared about him, but felt he would feel neglected with all I had going on; when I decide to date someone, they have my undivided attention, or we won't date--I can't do that to someone.
Well, I pushed him away, and a few years later, when things started to really look up for me...he was married ๐ข
We recently got in touch with each other again, and there's still so much affection there...I damn near cried (and I NEVER cry!) They now have 2 little girls, and even though he's not happy he's not leaving, I know that. Taurus stays in for the long haul. I need to take my a.ss over to the Taurus section, lurk a bit. See what kind of guys are posting over there, lol.
I gotcha ๐ and thanks.
Yeah, he loves his little girls (they look just like him! oh man, melted my heart when I saw the pics) but if his wife scrwes up...I'll be there to scoop him up, lmfao. Apparently, she's holding out on sex for some reason. As he spoke to me about it, I wanted to say "sounds like she's seeing someone" as she's home all day, and he's at work until the evenings, but I just listened, and tried to assure him they'd work it out...he's not so sure though...
She'd better stop playing around; this guy was the best lover I ever had. Hands...down. She'd better not let him stray...
zomg, sex means more to him than food. I just thought he would tell me he wasn't getting it everyday, but he said maybe once every other week if he's lucky, and I was like (O_O)!!!!!! Yeah, no. If he were mine, morning/noon/night, he'd be drained dry. You know, I never even looked up what my Venus and Mars are in? I wonder if it's Scorp or something, because I sure as hell am very sexual, even if I'm not promiscuous...it just finds a way into my daydream, and I realize I'm tied to a bed twisting in agony while honey is being licked off me, when I was just wondering about where the nearest Lowe's is...it's pretty bad...
LOL
But yeah, he'd never want for anything.
My soulmate is another Cap who's Venus and Mars are in Scorpio. We have an uncanny connection and feel each other deeply... both of us tend to call the other when something is not quite right to check up on each other. Its kinda funny, when we're out together people think we are a couple just by the way we stand, touch and interact with each other despite being just friends.
^^^exactly! I was like "so...when do you...take care of the Little General?" He said he can't find time, because the kids are always popping into the bathroom when he's using it, and his showers are hurried.
I'm like "IN THE CAR, ON THE WAY TO/FROM WORK? DAMN MAN! YOU'RE MAKING ME WANT TO GO OVER THER AND SHAKE HER!"
Well, this is what he took on--he needs to find a way to make it work. I detect it's more than lack-of-sex though, but didn't want to press it. Yep, once kids come into the picture, you can't just leave.
Some of my most defining characteristics are a result of certain placements in my chart, rather than my sun sign, so I guess my absolute soul-mate is someone who has placements which are compatible with mine, rather than a specific sun sign.
My soulmate is a Scorpio Female.
It took me 35 years, but I finally found woman who truly understands this cranky old Virgo Man.
awww! ๐
My soulmate is a sagg...Really we couldn't be lovers, but as a friend I can't without him. He knows this Pisces as his pocket. I can try to hide my feelings but 1 look at me and he can tell what's wrong...Sometimes that's soooo annoying...actually he can be pretty a pain in the ass hard style , but thinking of loosing my dear friend, makes me so terribly sad it would shatter my heart in a million pieces.
A great second is my virguy, he can sense loads of things in me, even if I'm not yet aware there is something bothering me...It can be scary sometimes ๐
For some odd reason, I think my soulmate will either end of being a Leo or a Pisces. I just have this feeling, if I ever meet him.
There's a strong possiblity that it could be a Virgo too -- oh dear no lol.
OMG, what if my soulmate is a Scorpio man :/ :/ :/
Soul Mate...
Posted by Amandus
Soul Mate...
A "soulmate" or "soul mate" is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul โ which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join. However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.
^^^Wasn't sure if you were saying you don't believe in them, or trying to correct my spelling the term with one word, but that's what comes up from the Googled definition.
Posted by valeria25
^^ Cut off.
But it sounds like he's happy in his relationship. (Your ex Taur guy) Yep. They DO! They never leave their marriages. My grandpa stuck with my grandma through thick and thin even though they didnt always have the best "romantic" affair. It was like a business partnership more. (My grandma was a stern Cappie) Maybe there's a new one for you, you never know!! You really should go to the Taurus board and check it out. I posted some vids that were "How to Date a Taurus man" or "How to make one fall in love with you" LOL!! Mostly via stomach ๐ Be a good cook and be very sensuous!!
You are so cute with this. When your posts get cut off. ;o)
Posted by pasdedeux
Ugh---I think mine is a Pisces. I say ugh because he has driven me absolutely crazy for the last year and a half and I (we) have tried to walk away from each other numerous times but despite other responsibilities and relationships we just keep coming back to each other. It's been the bumpiest ride of my life but I can't seem to get off!!!!!
YAAAAY! Welcome to the Virgo section, Pas :*!!!
Glad you're back ๐!!
I read a book (lame of me) that the virgos born around my birthday true soul mate is the second decan leos...I find it to be quite true...
isn't it hot?? ๐
It's Virgo because I'm currently going out with one for more than 2 and a half years and still counting. He's also like my first real boyfriend. Since it's a Virgo-Virgo relationship, our arguments and fights are not very pleasant. We both wanna win. And I find his Venus in Leo a little bit annoying while mine is in Libra. Other than that, we share the same love and passion and that's what I like most about us.
So last night I asked the Cap, whom I believe to be my soulmate, why he wouldn't date me last year (he just stopped talking to me and found another girl)... he said he was scared of "us" :/
I am an Aries and I believe I have found my soulmate in my Scorpio soulmate.
We are in our 30s and have much to offer each other now, and know what we want.
I really have no idea... but I hope that I will find her someday.
Posted by Aquaguy7
I really have no idea... but I hope that I will find her someday.
awww, trust you will ๐
"I think we have more than one soulmate, and those four I'm ravenously greedy for."
That's just an Aqua excuse for inability to commit to one (boring!), and needing a harem instead of just one mate.
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