Dec 20th, the LOSER Cusp?

This is going to sound like such a jackass comment, however, in my life...
I've known 4 people with this birthday.
First one was a high school buddy, who came from a good family, and basically got addicted to alcohol, dropped out of high school, flunked community college, sold his real estate Dad to sending him to China to learn Chinese...and (drum roll) got sent him for failing grades from there. Apparently blew 5k of his father's money on hookers, and his generally been 'Mr. Gameplan' with no follow through since then.

The next person was a girl who slutted around, got cervical cancer at 18, then found God, slutted around some more and again, and is working food service, and who knows what else happened, I was never that close with her.

The other dude, is the ultimate idiot, who basically got hooked on drugs in high school, nearly deported for selling weed at school, uses his mom's finances to buy cars, has wrecked three of them, never holds down a job, been to jail, got hooked on heroin, and then tried to reinvent himself by joining the marines...and got rejected. He's now a busboy in his mid 20s.

The final person is a Prof at my old Uni, who got fired for being a snarky beetch, and that's about all I know.
And I know a December 21st guy, who is a total loser, who went to jail but...he's not December 20th.

I know December 20th people are going to be in an uproar, but I really don't know THAT many F ed up people, of the one's I know, a great plurality of them seem to be December 20th.

Is this perhaps, the boldness of the Sagitarrius gets hooked on the Stubbornness of the Capricorn, and they party and just won't stop? All these people are shameless and unrepentant, they could have failed at everything and are still so sure they are on a 'game plan' but never put any follow through on it. Never drop sweat.

My sister's fiance was born Dec 21st. He is a *wonderful* person. I rarely meet anyone with as good of manners and consideration for others as he has. He's also funny, though he doesn't really do anything radical (ie we went dancing on new years, it was all I could do to get 1 dance with him). The only thing is, he always seems so fake. Like, TOO nice. But, I trust my sister's judgement. So maybe its just that he SEEMS fake, and its actually not fake. I'm still trying to figure him out.

My mother was born on Dec 20 and is one of the best people I know.

It sounds like 3 of the 4 in your analysis are about the same age? Born from around 1984-1986?

That would put Neptune conjunct their natal sun.

Which would certainly explain some of the issues with drugs, alcohol, and prisons. Probably dreamers also, that never get the plan put into action, unless there is another planet that provides the motivation.

Not sure about your prof. I'm sure you can find a snarky a $ $ born any day of the year.

My classroom sitting buddy is a Dec 20th. He did flunk out of school and got into gangs and such. But he redeemed himself (by the grace of god, I guess). Now he's a PhD student winning multiple teaching awards.

i'm dating someone from Dec 21 - and he's absolutely fantastic! but then I'm a Gem so I like busy and that sort 😄. anyways, he's extremely considerate, very giving, very conscious of others, very driven, an overachiever - all the things a man should be.

I happen to be a December 21st Sag, but born in 1970....I have never been in to drugs, too smart for that...not really that in to alcohol either because I never know how I will react to it. One night I can have 2 drinks and puke my guts out and the next I can have 5 and barely feel anything. More often than not, it makes me feel like shit though so I stay away. I am college educated, have raised 3 great kids and have always been on the good side of life in demeanor and attitude. I think the fact that the majority of people you've met born around Dec 20/21st are losers is a bit of an odd coincidence and nothing more.

Posted by roamingfree
i'm dating someone from Dec 21 - and he's absolutely fantastic! but then I'm a Gem so I like busy and that sort 😄. anyways, he's extremely considerate, very giving, very conscious of others, very driven, an overachiever - all the things a man should be.

Ironic, I'm a Dec 21st'er and I have actually just started hanging with a Gem guy (my first interaction with a Gem guy too). Loads of fun and we had an instant connection from the get go, quite strange. As he put it "I feel so comfortable around you, like I could say anything" and that was our first date...Lol. But, I shall enjoy the ride while it lasts 🙂...any helpful insider info you can give this Sag girl about you Gems would be welcomed 😉

Posted by sikkario
This is going to sound like such a jackass comment, however, in my life...
I've known 4 people with this birthday.
First one was a high school buddy, who came from a good family, and basically got addicted to alcohol, dropped out of high school, flunked community college, sold his real estate Dad to sending him to China to learn Chinese...and (drum roll) got sent him for failing grades from there. Apparently blew 5k of his father's money on hookers, and his generally been 'Mr. Gameplan' with no follow through since then.

The next person was a girl who slutted around, got cervical cancer at 18, then found God, slutted around some more and again, and is working food service, and who knows what else happened, I was never that close with her.

The other dude, is the ultimate idiot, who basically got hooked on drugs in high school, nearly deported for selling weed at school, uses his mom's finances to buy cars, has wrecked three of them, never holds down a job, been to jail, got hooked on heroin, and then tried to reinvent himself by joining the marines...and got rejected. He's now a busboy in his mid 20s.

The final person is a Prof at my old Uni, who got fired for being a snarky beetch, and that's about all I know.
And I know a December 21st guy, who is a total loser, who went to jail but...he's not December 20th.

I know December 20th people are going to be in an uproar, but I really don't know THAT many F ed up people, of the one's I know, a great plurality of them seem to be December 20th.

Is this perhaps, the boldness of the Sagitarrius gets hooked on the Stubbornness of the Capricorn, and they party and just won't stop? All these people are shameless and unrepentant, they could have failed at everything and are still so sure they are on a 'game plan' but never put any follow through on it. Never drop sweat.

sounds like generalizing to me.

My grandfather was born December 21, 1921. He's completely the opposite of the ones you listed here. He graduated Valedictorian of his high school. He was also a college-graduate and was able to raise 7 highly-educated kids...