@SofiaV87
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You're an Aries sun and I'm an Aries moon. This could be why we hate being ignored, I'd guess. Aries enjoys being noticed.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,
same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
if it's someone close to you...
then you have to get the ROOT of the problem.
if it's just a bunch of co workers, acquiantances, ect you're like huh??
what'd I do?? *smh* they're probably observing you and you didn't even pay any mind to them.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,
Yea the Caps I know say they don't care either lol
I can't stand being ignored and will retaliate so that you never do it again.
Posted by Season
You're an Aries sun and I'm an Aries moon. This could be why we hate being ignored, I'd guess. Aries enjoys being noticed.
Yea but I'm not sure if it's because we like being noticed. Sometimes I truly don't want to be noticed. I've tried many times to not let it bother me but it does when I care for someone. When it's someone I don't care much for, it will bother me for a few minutes then I'm over it
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
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No it's not my responsibility to know every slight & yes it would be real heavy on me. I just don't like when I'm having contact with someone , especially when I ask a question, then it turns into being ignored or skipping over my question. Oh, that's another one- blatantly ignoring specific questions instead of saying "hey, I don't want to talk about that" which is very much acceptable in my eyes.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
maybe i care, i just would ignore them more and try to make them fail
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lol
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.if it's someone close to you...
then you have to get the ROOT of the problem.
if it's just a bunch of co workers, acquiantances, ect you're like huh??
what'd I do?? *smh* they're probably observing you and you didn't even pay any mind to them.
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Yea I agree about having to get to the root of the problem if it's someone close.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
maybe i care, i just would ignore them more and try to make them fail
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LOL you're such a Cap- at least the ones I know
Posted by Saggi212
When i am around people i am close to i cant stand being ignored.
Yes, it's the closeness that really gets me. Like why ignore me ? I give ppl space cuz I like my space but I can't stand being blatantly ignored
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
I can't stand being ignored and will retaliate so that you never do it again.
Damn, I feel that fire lol it's very frustrating !
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
No it's not my responsibility to know every slight & yes it would be real heavy on me. I just don't like when I'm having contact with someone , especially when I ask a question, then it turns into being ignored or skipping over my question. Oh, that's another one- blatantly ignoring specific questions instead of saying "hey, I don't want to talk about that" which is very much acceptable in my eyes.
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well then it's your responsibility to just say hey can you answer the question.and then move on...
I don't dwell on it.
i'm a very blunt person so I have to censor myself a lot even here. Thank god my husband loves my bluntness and is never offended. He's more blunt than I am.
we have to censor ourselves with even close family though, cause we just can't be "blunt" ....
even when his father, who has scorpio mercurcy couldn't take it anymore, a few times, at a party with family and friends.....he said stuff that is ....so MEAN. lol
but I LOLéd because it wasn't directed at me, but if it were ...it would be very very hurtful.
it's awful!! I only lol'ed because of the way he said it. and my mother in law would say, yeah he's always like that. can't censor himself.
but his Gemini wife loves it. lol while mother in law finds if OFFENSIVE. Gemini wife I think has Taurus mercury and is very blunt herself.
so it is all about compatibility.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,same.
I don't really care because I think to myself....if people are hurt by you in some way, and don't like your presence, then 'that's fine. No need to get hurt or feel pain. No one is hurting you anyway.
cause that's usually the cause of ignoring someone. is that they feel hurt by a slight or jealous/envy or something.
edit,
I mean is it your responsibility to know every slight? that would be really heavy on you, like you are just being yourself and then they are pissed off at you for something you don't know?? it's lame.
No it's not my responsibility to know every slight & yes it would be real heavy on me. I just don't like when I'm having contact with someone , especially when I ask a question, then it turns into being ignored or skipping over my question. Oh, that's another one- blatantly ignoring specific questions instead of saying "hey, I don't want to talk about that" which is very much acceptable in my eyes.
well then it's your responsibility to just say hey can you answer the question.and then move on...
I don't dwell on it.
i'm a very blunt person so I have to censor myself a lot even here. Thank god my husband loves my bluntness and is never offended. He's more blunt than I am.
we have to censor ourselves with even close family though, cause we just can't be "blunt" ....
even when his father, who has scorpio mercurcy couldn't take it anymore, a few times, at a party with family and friends.....he said stuff that is ....so MEAN. lol
but I LOLéd because it wasn't directed at me, but if it were ...it would be very very hurtful.
it's awful!! I only lol'ed because of the way he said it. and my mother in law would say, yeah he's always like that. can't censor himself.
but his Gemini wife loves it. lol while mother in law finds if OFFENSIVE. Gemini wife I think has Taurus mercury and is very blunt herself.
so it is all about compatibility.
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Most of the time I either ask the question again or ask them to answer the question. Then there's other times I have the fuck it's , laugh it off, don't bother asking them again & Won't harp on it. That took me many years to react like that when someone close is either ignoring me or ignoring a pinpointed question.
Posted by ParisianCappy
i dont care,
Prefer being ignored.
I have no issues with initiating if needs must, but letting things slide is a way of lyfe...
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I honestly don't care.
Even if it's someone close to u ? BFF , BF, Fam member ?
Posted by littlenanobyte
I like being ignored because I'm probably already accidentally unknowingly ignoring that person anyway.So this way I don't have to be given the third degree and defend myself later on down the line.
Win-win
Oh man , that's a different way to look at it lol
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
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Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
Posted by wagtail
Prefer being ignored.I have no issues with initiating if needs must, but letting things slide is a way of lyfe...
U prefer being ignored ?? Interesting
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
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lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I honestly don't care.Even if it's someone close to u ? BFF , BF, Fam member ?
They don't ever do that to me.
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Oh ok, well that's different. I've been ignored by an ex, an ex friend , fam member & even a current friend -hasn't happened recently though but it has happened enough to me & other ppl in my life to wonder
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.
Hi..
I'm the same. I hate being ignored. Especially with someone close to me. Or worse..In a relationship.
I'm a Capricorn and if I feel ignored it does bother me. That may be because I have Venus in Pisces so maybe it makes me more sensitive. It also bores me as well.
I have a massive problem with ignorance in my marriage but I won't go into it as I have done already on a couple of other different posts on here.
Posted by littlenanobyte
I've had passive aggressive friends and family members "ignore" me for months and I had no fuckin clue. Then message me and tell me that they "are done ignoring" me. And I think "huh?? You were ignoring me? What for now?" 😆
Ugh, the passive aggressiveness is so annoying. Saying they're "done ignoring you" seems very childish to me
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
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I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.Hi..
I'm the same. I hate being ignored. Especially with someone close to me. Or worse..In a relationship.
I'm a Capricorn and if I feel ignored it does bother me. That may be because I have Venus in Pisces so maybe it makes me more sensitive. It also bores me as well.
I have a massive problem with ignorance in my marriage but I won't go into it as I have done already on a couple of other different posts on here.
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Yea I like to be "in the know" about things. Don't ignore me, just speak up ! Lol .. I'm going to say it's your Venus in Pisces. One of my BFFs has that Venus , she's very sensitive & hates being ignored
Posted by Shadowcat
But even then, I would ignore them back. I don't have time for games lol
Oooo games, don't like them either . I rarely engage in games but when I do I play them well when I feel I was forced into the game haha
At the first I feel bad, but then I don't care at all
I forget about them completely.
You forget about them completely even if you are close to them ?
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
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lol the cap woman I was seeing did that to me I reached out and she just acted like I'm a effin nobody and she made me look bad in front of everyone we knew so guess what i mirrored it for a whole month and she said you don't care about me anymore lol
Posted by Arielle83
I'm Aries rising and fire dominant and I don't mind being ignored.I like to observe ppl and bring myself into attention rather than recieve it unsolicited.
Being ignored means I have more time with myself.
Ok, but this is solicited attention from someone that is close to u ..Yes, when you're ignored it does give u more time with yourself
Posted by VirgoGent
It hurts if the person ignoring me is someone I care about.
Yea no doubt
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
lol the cap woman I was seeing did that to me I reached out and she just acted like I'm a effin nobody and she made me look bad in front of everyone we knew so guess what i mirrored it for a whole month and she said you don't care about me anymore lol
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I would have done the same.
Posted by Arielle83
I'm Aries rising and fire dominant and I don't mind being ignored.I like to observe ppl and bring myself into attention rather than recieve it unsolicited.
Being ignored means I have more time with myself.
Ok, but this is solicited attention from someone that is close to u ..Yes, when you're ignored it does give u more time with yourself
I'd think they were busy in their own thoughts.
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Ahh I see..I would think this as well but still think it's rude lol that's just me
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
lol the cap woman I was seeing did that to me I reached out and she just acted like I'm a effin nobody and she made me look bad in front of everyone we knew so guess what i mirrored it for a whole month and she said you don't care about me anymore lol
It would have done the same.
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The thing is tho I don't like being ignored myself cause i think it's childish and it doesn't solve anything. I'm the type of person to always wanna reach out and find out the root of the problem regardiess of who's in the wrong you bet if I'm in the wrong I will the first to apologize.
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
lol the cap woman I was seeing did that to me I reached out and she just acted like I'm a effin nobody and she made me look bad in front of everyone we knew so guess what i mirrored it for a whole month and she said you don't care about me anymore lol
It would have done the same.
The thing is tho I don't like being ignored myself cause i think it's childish and it doesn't solve anything. I'm the type of person to always wanna reach out and find out the root of the problem regardiess of who's in the wrong you bet if I'm in the wrong I will the first to apologize.
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It is childish .. Yea if I'm in the wrong my ass will apologize but it doesn't mean I like it hahaha
Posted by SofiaV87
How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.It used to piss the shit outta me but now I'll just mirror the action.
Yes, I'm guilty of mirroring the ignoring but it doesn't mean I like it lol
lol I'm very good at ignoring but again now I prefer to talk it out but if it's the last resort then I will ignore that ass Like you don't exist.
I'm all about talking it out.. The last resort is def ignoring that ass . FUCK that
lol the cap woman I was seeing did that to me I reached out and she just acted like I'm a effin nobody and she made me look bad in front of everyone we knew so guess what i mirrored it for a whole month and she said you don't care about me anymore lol
It would have done the same.
The thing is tho I don't like being ignored myself cause i think it's childish and it doesn't solve anything. I'm the type of person to always wanna reach out and find out the root of the problem regardiess of who's in the wrong you bet if I'm in the wrong I will the first to apologize.
It is childish .. Yea if I'm in the wrong my ass will apologize but it doesn't mean I like it hahaha
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Lol I don't like it either cause it makes me weak but sometimes you gotta kiss the ass to get the booty ?
Posted by Arielle83
I'm Aries rising and fire dominant and I don't mind being ignored.I like to observe ppl and bring myself into attention rather than recieve it unsolicited.
Being ignored means I have more time with myself.
Ok, but this is solicited attention from someone that is close to u ..Yes, when you're ignored it does give u more time with yourself
I'd think they were busy in their own thoughts.
Ahh I see..I would think this as well but still think it's rude lol that's just me
Why is it rude when someone has their thoughts to deal with?
If someone demanded my attention that could be seen as rude too.
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It is rude if a person you're close to is blatantly ignoring u. Everyone is allowed & supposed to deal with their own thoughts- it's healthy. When your friend, significant other , fam member etc. Purposely doesn't answer questions or ignores u all together , I find it to be rude. I dont demand anyone's attention. I let ppl come to me, doesn't mean I like to be ignored & I express that when they finally do come to me. It's very simple to say " I'm in my own thoughts, will talk another time"
Posted by Virgofem
I don't mind because my best friend is my brain 🙂
I don't get it lol
hate it... i will cut a bitch. easiest way to get me into a rage
Posted by GC01
If someone ignores me I forget them. Out of sight out of mind.
What if it's someone that means something to u? Will u at least try to talk to them at first, Then forget them if they keep ignoring ?
Posted by EnochtheWise
I hate it. Breaks my tiny little heart.
Lmao
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
I can't stand being ignored and will retaliate so that you never do it again.
Damn right.
Depends who's ignoring me. If they matter I get mad and ignore back if they don't matter doesn't bother me I ignore who ignores me.
Posted by sagsagsag
hate it. I find it disrepectful..altho I'm kinda guilty for doing it sometimes ?
Yea me too but it's rare. Lol
Depends on who is ignoring me.
If its someone i dont care for, i will welcome that vacation.
If its someone i do care for, i am relentless with getting them to talk to me.
Posted by DMV
Depends on who is ignoring me.If its someone i dont care for, i will welcome that vacation.
If its someone i do care for, i am relentless with getting them to talk to me.
Yea that's what I'm saying .. The ppl we care for is when it bothers us. I won't be relentless. I'll try once or twice then it's on them. It will stay bothering me though on the DL for a while though
I hate being ignored and i don't do it. The only guy i ignored it was because he sent me 100 texts post break up and i was tired of repeating it's over.
I'm Taurus sun, aries moon and aries venus.
Posted by sagsagsag
hate it. I find it disrepectful..altho I'm kinda guilty for doing it sometimes ?
Yea me too but it's rare. Lol
hahahahaa blame it on our venus ?
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How do you feel/take being ignored? I don't like being ignored at all. I think it's rude as hell. I have ignored people in the past but not that many times & always for solid reasons. I've noticed it really bothers me when I'm being ignored, especially if it's someone that is close to me.