Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
I fucked up soooo
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Posted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?
Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?click to expand
Aww you’re so sweet after all my shade ive thrown at you over the years, I do appreciate it. If I put every detail on here it would be specific I’ll probably have to dm you some if it.
Posted by WarAngel
Gift basket with food. Drop off at the door, with a note and your name and phone number.
Simply write this: I'm sorry, call me.
the solution to most problems.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?
Aww you’re so sweet after all my shade ive thrown at you over the years, I do appreciate it. If I put every detail on here it would be specific I’ll probably have to dm you some if it.click to expand
i hold no grudges and if i can help, i'd like to.
Posted by WarAngel
Gift basket with food. Drop off at the door, with a note and your name and phone number.
Simply write this: I'm sorry, call me.
He’s across the country so I can’t do that, plus I don’t know his address and I’m currently blocked on 2 platforms. I only have one way of contacting him that he hasn’t blocked.
Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?
Aww you’re so sweet after all my shade ive thrown at you over the years, I do appreciate it. If I put every detail on here it would be specific I’ll probably have to dm you some if it.
i hold no grudges and if i can help, i'd like to.click to expand
I basically met the perfect guy for me and because of my issues I didn’t open up I didn’t reciprocate and pretty much pushed him all the way away and now he won’t respond to me or talk to me and he blocked me on 2 platforms. The only way I can contact him now is from my home phone and leave a message. I know how Taurus are with the cold shoulder, they are masters of it. I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight and talk which is why I started doing dumb shit.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?
Aww you’re so sweet after all my shade ive thrown at you over the years, I do appreciate it. If I put every detail on here it would be specific I’ll probably have to dm you some if it.
i hold no grudges and if i can help, i'd like to.
I basically met the perfect guy for me and because of my issues I didn’t open up I didn’t reciprocate and pretty much pushed him all the way away and now he won’t respond to me or talk to me and he blocked me on 2 platforms. The only way I can contact him now is from my home phone and leave a message. I know how Taurus are with the cold shoulder, they are masters of it. I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight and talk which is why I started doing dumb shit.click to expand
tell him exactly that. if you need to leave a message do it.
they are vulnerable to a heartfelt and genuine apology.
tell him the ways you are going to not repeat the same thing. if it's lets have a conversation and i will tell you everything you want to know then so be it.
tell him you are damaged, that you're asking for understanding and patience in his part and that you truly are sorry (you have to mean it though)
tell him that it may take him some time to forgive you and trust you again but you are willing to do what it takes to win his trust in you back.
tell him that you made a mistake and you realise you were unfair to him and that you are genuinely sorry for how you made him feel.
yes, you may have to grovel but if you think he is worth it and you are genuinely sorry and feel that you are at fault, then you might feel it's a small price to pay.
Posted by saggurl88
I don’t know why I acted dumb because I know these things, I really got shook because he was everything I’ve wanted, I didn’t know what to do with it
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88
I don’t know why I acted dumb because I know these things, I really got shook because he was everything I’ve wanted, I didn’t know what to do with itclick to expand
This sounds like a good start to say to him- It's romantic and honest
"I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight"
Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
i can try?
Aww you’re so sweet after all my shade ive thrown at you over the years, I do appreciate it. If I put every detail on here it would be specific I’ll probably have to dm you some if it.
i hold no grudges and if i can help, i'd like to.
I basically met the perfect guy for me and because of my issues I didn’t open up I didn’t reciprocate and pretty much pushed him all the way away and now he won’t respond to me or talk to me and he blocked me on 2 platforms. The only way I can contact him now is from my home phone and leave a message. I know how Taurus are with the cold shoulder, they are masters of it. I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight and talk which is why I started doing dumb shit.
tell him exactly that. if you need to leave a message do it.
they are vulnerable to a heartfelt and genuine apology.
tell him the ways you are going to not repeat the same thing. if it's lets have a conversation and i will tell you everything you want to know then so be it.
tell him you are damaged, that you're asking for understanding and patience in his part and that you truly are sorry (you have to mean it though)
tell him that it may take him some time to forgive you and trust you again but you are willing to do what it takes to win his trust in you back.
tell him that you made a mistake and you realise you were unfair to him and that you are genuinely sorry for how you made him feel.
yes, you may have to grovel but if you think he is worth it and you are genuinely sorry and feel that you are at fault, then you might feel it's a small price to pay.click to expand
Wow this is literally my thoughts in a nutshell I just didn’t know if I should keep pressing or let go. I’ve only ever been blocked by one other person who I didn’t care to chase. I’ve been really upset over the blocking because it seems so final I’m going to dm you more deets though. I don’t mind groveling at all at this point but now I’m scared to call again in fear that I’m blocked on that number too. I’m still going to dm you because I want you to have the clearest picture of what transpired.
Posted by WarAngelPosted by bkbella86Posted by WarAngel
Gift basket with food. Drop off at the door, with a note and your name and phone number.
Simply write this: I'm sorry, call me.
He’s across the country so I can’t do that, plus I don’t know his address and I’m currently blocked on 2 platforms. I only have one way of contacting him that he hasn’t blocked.
If you haven't let the situation cool down, you need to give it time and then use your only means of communication and let God and the universe do the rest.click to expand
Thanks I like this answer, I haven’t really let it cool.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88
I don’t know why I acted dumb because I know these things, I really got shook because he was everything I’ve wanted, I didn’t know what to do with it
This sounds like a good start to say to him- It's romantic and honest
"I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight"click to expand
Aww you guys showing up and giving me advice means a lot. Thanks
This is good too. I’m really trying to challenge myself to be more vulnerable in life in general it really holds me back.
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
Posted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
I think you would block me if I told you all the deets. I knew him a little over a month and a few weeks he booked a trip to come across the country to see me. Was consistent every single day, passed every little test I had for him in my head, he was perfect. Wanted the same things I wanted even though he didn’t really know what I wanted. But me I couldn’t reciprocate I could never show how excited I was or how much I liked him and when he came to town I only made it worse. He still has no clue how much I liked him, if anything he probably thinks I don’t.
Posted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.
Posted by cakePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
🤔click to expand
On the contrary to my own stance, I also encourage one to shamelessly dive themselves in with their heart on their sleeves to see where things go with their supposed perfect person. Lots of lessons to be learned once the bubbles burst and reality comes crashing down.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88
I don’t know why I acted dumb because I know these things, I really got shook because he was everything I’ve wanted, I didn’t know what to do with it
This sounds like a good start to say to him- It's romantic and honest
"I just want one more chance to be real with him this time. Like I literally felt it was love at first sight"
Aww you guys showing up and giving me advice means a lot. Thanks
This is good too. I’m really trying to challenge myself to be more vulnerable in life in general it really holds me back.click to expand
Jeane gave some great advise about being honest with how you handled things and asking for a fresh start.
Being damaging to a relationship is so much easier then being vulnerable. Which is a shame, since most men and women just want to be love and accepted.
The scary stuff for you, that's good to hear for the other person, is the stuff that is way more valuable and meaningful in relationships. At least you know you really tried, had courage and gave it your all.
Posted by jeanePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.click to expand
Knowing Taurus though do you think he wants to me grovel and fight for him? Or is he sending a clear pic that he doesn’t want to speak. I can’t tell.
My advice is don't do anything. He blocked you for a reason. Give him some space and this some time before you start sending fruit baskets and vm soliloquies.
Sounds like honesty is your best bet in this situation.
Posted by LadyNeptune
My advice is don't do anything. He blocked you for a reason. Give him some space and this some time before you start sending fruit baskets and vm soliloquies.
Nothing?! I feel like that would just confirm to him I don’t care.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.
Knowing Taurus though do you think he wants to me grovel and fight for him? Or is he sending a clear pic that he doesn’t want to speak. I can’t tell.click to expand
i don't think grovelling is required but a heartfelt apology and recognition that you fucked up would help.
i know from my own experience when i ran everything into the ditch early on and we stopped speaking for a while, a genuine apology got communication going again.
i think he cared about you. he probably feels disappointed in what has happened and would appreciate you saying sorry for how you behaved/things worked out.
i think you've nothing to lose at this point so some honesty can't hurt. if he doesn't come back well then lesson learned on your part.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
My advice is don't do anything. He blocked you for a reason. Give him some space and this some time before you start sending fruit baskets and vm soliloquies.
Nothing?! I feel like that would just confirm to him I don’t care.click to expand
Nothing rn. He just blocked you. The message there is he doesn't want to be contacted. So respect that and don't contact.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.
Knowing Taurus though do you think he wants to me grovel and fight for him? Or is he sending a clear pic that he doesn’t want to speak. I can’t tell.click to expand
Girl, you should just shoot your shot, say sorry and ask for a redo and then leave him alone for an indefinite amount of time. Let it be up to him.
If you messed up the situation, just be real, say sorry and see what happens.
Leave the ball in his court and just busy yourself with life while he thinks about it.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
I think you would block me if I told you all the deets. I knew him a little over a month and a few weeks he booked a trip to come across the country to see me. Was consistent every single day, passed every little test I had for him in my head, he was perfect. Wanted the same things I wanted even though he didn’t really know what I wanted. But me I couldn’t reciprocate I could never show how excited I was or how much I liked him and when he came to town I only made it worse. He still has no clue how much I liked him, if anything he probably thinks I don’t.click to expand
I've blocked people I've liked that I had strong feelings for when I was a teenager. Unblocked them and reached out over a year later and found out they also still had strong feelings for me. Since I think you feel like you have nothing to lose if you gave it your all with him, give him some space before reaching out again and pouring your feelings. He needs space to process things before even considering missing you. You wanna be able to swoop in and appear when he's feeling any slight feelings for you but that's gonna take some time for him to get back to again after being upset at you and all.
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by bkbella86Posted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
I think you would block me if I told you all the deets. I knew him a little over a month and a few weeks he booked a trip to come across the country to see me. Was consistent every single day, passed every little test I had for him in my head, he was perfect. Wanted the same things I wanted even though he didn’t really know what I wanted. But me I couldn’t reciprocate I could never show how excited I was or how much I liked him and when he came to town I only made it worse. He still has no clue how much I liked him, if anything he probably thinks I don’t.
I've blocked people I've liked that I had strong feelings for when I was a teenager. Unblocked them and reached out over a year later and found out they also still had strong feelings for me. Since I think you feel like you have nothing to lose if you gave it your all with him, give him some space before reaching out again and pouring your feelings. He needs space to process things before even considering missing you. You wanna be able to swoop in and appear when he's feeling any slight feelings for you but that's gonna take some time for him to get back to again after being upset at you and all.click to expand
Thank you!!! I get this
Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.
Knowing Taurus though do you think he wants to me grovel and fight for him? Or is he sending a clear pic that he doesn’t want to speak. I can’t tell.
i don't think grovelling is required but a heartfelt apology and recognition that you fucked up would help.
i know from my own experience when i ran everything into the ditch early on and we stopped speaking for a while, a genuine apology got communication going again.
i think he cared about you. he probably feels disappointed in what has happened and would appreciate you saying sorry for how you behaved/things worked out.
i think you've nothing to lose at this point so some honesty can't hurt. if he doesn't come back well then lesson learned on your part.click to expand
Thank you, I sent you a longgggg message with alll the details. I put paragraphs though lol
Posted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by jeanePosted by SassyKiwi
We both know deep down even after if throwing yourself on your knees for him works somehow it wouldn't last long. Save yourself a bigger heartbreak and work on yourself to be ready for the next best thing.
Grown adults blocking is a bigger deal vs teenagers blocking. Hold yourself to higher standards.
i don't know. yes blocking is stupid but if she is allowed to make mistakes, isn't he?
i think relationships force us to grow, change, improve. sometimes that comes from the support of your mate, sometimes it comes out of friction and the fights you have.
maybe she needed this to learn to be vulnerable. maybe he needs her not giving up to show him that blocking is not the way to handle this stuff in the future. none of us enter a relationship perfect people. there are nearly always stumbling blocks - especially at the start.
Knowing Taurus though do you think he wants to me grovel and fight for him? Or is he sending a clear pic that he doesn’t want to speak. I can’t tell.
i don't think grovelling is required but a heartfelt apology and recognition that you fucked up would help.
i know from my own experience when i ran everything into the ditch early on and we stopped speaking for a while, a genuine apology got communication going again.
i think he cared about you. he probably feels disappointed in what has happened and would appreciate you saying sorry for how you behaved/things worked out.
i think you've nothing to lose at this point so some honesty can't hurt. if he doesn't come back well then lesson learned on your part.
Thank you, I sent you a longgggg message with alll the details. I put paragraphs though lolclick to expand
ack! i don't think i got it. is it still in your outbox? can you resend please?
Posted by bmoon8Posted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
What happened?click to expand
I dm’s you
Posted by bmoon8Posted by bkbella86Posted by bmoon8Posted by bkbella86
Bad with this Taurus guy. I don’t want to bore anyone with the details but pleaseeeee I’m begging for some help. I will give more details if there’s any help out there
What happened?
I dm’s you
You are being too hard on yourself, really.
Just let it go and don’t try to contact him.click to expand
Dang like that? Just move on? I usually would but this guy is different, I don’t want to move on without trying again.
Hey y’all.
The Taurus came back after exactly 2 years. Neither of us tried to contact each other in that time. What could it mean? He started off by complimenting my pic and telling me I always look good and we been communicating since. He asked for my number again and we’re texting now and spoke on the phone little. Was supposed to ft but I fell asleep early. I did tell him I liked him back then and was surprised to hear from him. He also told me he was really feeling my back then.
Can Taurus really go 2 years with someone they liked? Neither of us tried contacting each other in those 2 years and I never imagined I’d hear from him again based on his last words. But now he’s downplaying his words and saying he wasnt as dismissive as I perceived he was. He said I’m making him sound so mean and he hopes I don’t see it that way.
I’m skeptical. But I was also skeptical back then which is why things went the way they went. He claims he didn’t date in 2 years lol first red flag and he never really gave me glaring ones before. He just seemed too perfect which set my alarms off.
The Taurus came back after exactly 2 years. Neither of us tried to contact each other in that time. What could it mean? He started off by complimenting my pic and telling me I always look good and we been communicating since. He asked for my number again and we’re texting now and spoke on the phone little. Was supposed to ft but I fell asleep early. I did tell him I liked him back then and was surprised to hear from him. He also told me he was really feeling my back then.
Can Taurus really go 2 years with someone they liked? Neither of us tried contacting each other in those 2 years and I never imagined I’d hear from him again based on his last words. But now he’s downplaying his words and saying he wasnt as dismissive as I perceived he was. He said I’m making him sound so mean and he hopes I don’t see it that way.
I’m skeptical. But I was also skeptical back then which is why things went the way they went. He claims he didn’t date in 2 years lol first red flag and he never really gave me glaring ones before. He just seemed too perfect which set my alarms off.
Usually men swing back around if the sex was good or they haven't had it yet.
Most men lie to get back in your good graces if they messed up.
It's easier to move forward, then to go back to a person who discarded or disrespected you.
New guys don't automatically assume you have no self respect, but a man who has treated you disrespectfully and is allowed to comes back, knows you don't.
Most men lie to get back in your good graces if they messed up.
It's easier to move forward, then to go back to a person who discarded or disrespected you.
New guys don't automatically assume you have no self respect, but a man who has treated you disrespectfully and is allowed to comes back, knows you don't.
Posted by saggurl88
Usually men swing back around if the sex was good or they haven't had it yet.
Most men lie to get back in your good graces if they messed up.
It's easier to move forward, then to go back to a person who discarded or disrespected you.
New guys don't automatically assume you have no self respect, but a man who has treated you disrespectfully and is allowed to comes back, knows you don't.
We had sex once. But he didn’t fuck up. I did. Then he ended it and told me we couldn’t work it out. I took him for his word and deleted every trace of him and really felt like I’d never hear from him again based on how mad he was. But here he is again. I doubt he’d be circling back for sex as we live across the country from each other lol. Idk what to make of it.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88
Usually men swing back around if the sex was good or they haven't had it yet.
Most men lie to get back in your good graces if they messed up.
It's easier to move forward, then to go back to a person who discarded or disrespected you.
New guys don't automatically assume you have no self respect, but a man who has treated you disrespectfully and is allowed to comes back, knows you don't.
We had sex once. But he didn’t fuck up. I did. Then he ended it and told me we couldn’t work it out. I took him for his word and deleted every trace of him and really felt like I’d never hear from him again based on how mad he was. But here he is again. I doubt he’d be circling back for sex as we live across the country from each other lol. Idk what to make of it.click to expand
Well then just treat him like the friend that he is now since you two live far apart. What more are you trying to make of it?
Taurus are stubborn. Are you confused cause you popped into his mind 2 years later?
Seems like overthinking a little. Why does there have to be a reason if you two don't have access to each other anyways? Either talk or block him again.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88
Usually men swing back around if the sex was good or they haven't had it yet.
Most men lie to get back in your good graces if they messed up.
It's easier to move forward, then to go back to a person who discarded or disrespected you.
New guys don't automatically assume you have no self respect, but a man who has treated you disrespectfully and is allowed to comes back, knows you don't.
We had sex once. But he didn’t fuck up. I did. Then he ended it and told me we couldn’t work it out. I took him for his word and deleted every trace of him and really felt like I’d never hear from him again based on how mad he was. But here he is again. I doubt he’d be circling back for sex as we live across the country from each other lol. Idk what to make of it.
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Well then just treat him like the friend that he is now since you two live far apart. What more are you trying to make of it?
Taurus are stubborn. Are you confused cause you popped into his mind 2 years later?
Seems like overthinking a little. Why does there have to be a reason if you two don't have access to each other anyways? Either talk or block him again.click to expand
I’m not trying to be his pen pal or friend. we never lived close to each other. He had flew to my city to see me. That weekend is where I fucked up. Prior to that we had an amazing connection and he was acting/talking like he wanted to be with me. I might be overthinking it, no denying that. But he seemed so special. I haven’t met any man like him since nor before him. I never blocked him though, I just deleted his number and his WhatsApp and our conversations. And never contacted him. I don’t expect anyone to know the real reason why he’s back in contact. Just some ideas. If he’s serious then we will have access to each other. we will talk and I’ll find out why he’s returned.
You have another chance so don’t mess it up this time, simple. You’re already kind of being suspicious of him and sounding a bit unhinged in your updated posts. Don’t actively go down that road again… be self aware and just chill
Posted by nanochip
You have another chance so don’t mess it up this time, simple. You’re already kind of being suspicious of him and sounding a bit unhinged in your updated posts. Don’t actively go down that road again… be self aware and just chill
Lol at unhinged! Is it because I’m suspicious? Thanks girl, I’m going to chill and calm my ass down.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by nanochip
You have another chance so don’t mess it up this time, simple. You’re already kind of being suspicious of him and sounding a bit unhinged in your updated posts. Don’t actively go down that road again… be self aware and just chill
Lol at unhinged! Is it because I’m suspicious? Thanks girl, I’m going to chill and calm my ass down.click to expand
Yea, I think the overthinking and assumptions and wondering his intentions/motivation might mess up a good thing here. Try to not get caught up in thinking about all those what-ifs and let him speak for himself, then you can decide if you believe him. Whatever you did before were you took a step back… worked! He came back, 2 long years later. Taurus smh
I've had guys circle back and I've been all, "sorry you missed your chance no longer available for all that. I wish you luck in life tho" mind you I was still single at the time lmao. My ego just can't stand feeling like these guys think we are waiting on a shelf for them to pick us up and play. Nope!
Posted by nanochipPosted by bkbella86Posted by nanochipLol at unhinged! Is it because I’m suspicious? Thanks girl, I’m going to chill and calm my ass down.
You have another chance so don’t mess it up this time, simple. You’re already kind of being suspicious of him and sounding a bit unhinged in your updated posts. Don’t actively go down that road again… be self aware and just chill
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Yea, I think the overthinking and assumptions and wondering his intentions/motivation might mess up a good thing here. Try to not get caught up in thinking about all those what-ifs and let him speak for himself, then you can decide if you believe him. Whatever you did before were you took a step back… worked! He came back, 2 long years later. Taurus smhclick to expand
Yea you’re right. I feel a more calm reading this. I can get carried away with my emotions. But I’m going to cool it. I’m going to talk to him in like an hour on ft. But yea, never in my life has a man circled back after 2 years. It’s either right away or not at all. I guess I’m shocked as hell lol.
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I've had guys circle back and I've been all, "sorry you missed your chance no longer available for all that. I wish you luck in life tho" mind you I was still single at the time lmao. My ego just can't stand feeling like these guys think we are waiting on a shelf for them to pick us up and play. Nope!
I’m technically single lol but actually talking to a few guys. One that I do have a nice connection with thus far but we aren’t committed. Hes a gemini though, I have to move really slow with that sign if I date them at all. But back to the Taurus, hmmm even if you felt like you were in the wrong you would feel this way?
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadyNeptune
I've had guys circle back and I've been all, "sorry you missed your chance no longer available for all that. I wish you luck in life tho" mind you I was still single at the time lmao. My ego just can't stand feeling like these guys think we are waiting on a shelf for them to pick us up and play. Nope!
I’m technically single lol but actually talking to a few guys. One that I do have a nice connection with thus far but we aren’t committed. Hes a gemini though, I have to move really slow with that sign if I date them at all. But back to the Taurus, hmmm even if you felt like you were in the wrong you would feel this way?click to expand
Yes I would still feel this way. Because the whole blocking you without even giving you a window of opportunity to apologize or explain... k thanks you are dead to me now. 5 min funeral and then moving on.
I make plenty of mistakes and am often in the wrong. The people who care about me give me the space to acknowledge and apologize and do better.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by nanochipPosted by bkbella86Yea, I think the overthinking and assumptions and wondering his intentions/motivation might mess up a good thing here. Try to not get caught up in thinking about all those what-ifs and let him speak for himself, then you can decide if you believe him. Whatever you did before were you took a step back… worked! He came back, 2 long years later. Taurus smhPosted by nanochip
You have another chance so don’t mess it up this time, simple. You’re already kind of being suspicious of him and sounding a bit unhinged in your updated posts. Don’t actively go down that road again… be self aware and just chill
Lol at unhinged! Is it because I’m suspicious? Thanks girl, I’m going to chill and calm my ass down.
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Apparently he fucked up with every girl in that town and remembered blackbella…click to expand
That's Brooklyn Bella. The bk is the initials for Brooklyn. Not black. She's from Brooklyn New York. See. You don't know America. You just in it just to be in it.
OP, have you done any work on yourself these past 2 years?
You’re aware you messed up, but you seem anxious. If you haven’t addressed any of the previous issues which led to this, then you’re doomed to repeat.
You’re aware you messed up, but you seem anxious. If you haven’t addressed any of the previous issues which led to this, then you’re doomed to repeat.
Damn, even I can't even decipher this behavior. I think he's lonely and he's like, "well, time to reach out to the only woman that gave me the time of day." 😂 I'm kind of kidding but it's curious indeed
Posted by Midnite_Riser
What specifically did you do?? I don't see any details on here. Explain.
Too specific to write in the thread I’m sorry. I can dm you.
Nothing happened here and I actually realized I wasn’t the only one who fucked up he did. He ghosted me again tho, personally I think because I wasn’t looking my best the last 2 years, I have been struggling with my health. Anyway I’m looking much better and feeling a little better and have met like 5 new Taurus since then. But still single tho. If I ever get into a relationship or married I’d be so shocked
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