Taurus Endgame

Classic Pisces Male with Taurus Female.

If you look at our past posts, she decided to move in, then after a few months, move out, and now most recently, claiming that I am ignoring her when she gets home from work because I am sitting infront of my laptop when we were chatting briefly and choosing a movie.

She has been causing a lot of fights for the last few weeks and I feel like she has always been a very angry person. When I met her, she seemed very shy and subservient and now I realize her whole family is very dramatic and don't get along well at all.

I feel like our relationship has reached an endgame. She would not allow me to see my friends or go anywhere on the weekends and was unemployed for long periods of time so I would pay for her at events, etc. Lately, she hasn't wanted to be intimate for the last 3-4 weeks and then would comment that we were drifting apart and that she was okay with it because she has been unhappy for so long. I find she thinks there is only one way to do things, such as washing the dishes the way her parents do, watching movies at home on the couch to be frugal, etc. She would get upset if we weren't having supper as soon as she gets home, etc. Very random things would upset her.

Anyways, her job is giving her very little work so I feel like that was the first thing that triggered negative emotions. That was beyond my control and she seemed to miss her cats at her parents. She has never lived away from home for more than a few days so I thought she was maturing by living with me during the week and going to work. Apparently that was making her unhappy because she it seems like she wanted to go out and socialize all the time. She doesn't drink so I'm pretty sure she isn't missing that. I have offered to go dancing with her in the past, which she enjoys, amongst other things.

We had a really good summer, concerts, a cruise, trips to local major cities, etc. (trying to be brief). IN the last week, she has suddenly more more guys and girls and suddenly moved out from my house, claiming none of her stuff is here (she could have brought more over, right?) and she wasn't happy. We then talked and she claims she said things she didn't mean and that I know that she still loves me deep down. Alright, sure, we are back on good terms, right? We had a really fun Thursday and Friday and then she had fun with her friends who were getting married yesterday while I saw my friends. Everything was perfect again.

Today, she is late to church and sits to be with her friend. I talk to her and she claims she wants to hangout with me but not commit 100% to me, likely because I am not 1000% into the religion she attends. I find it hard to believe she can still claim she is unhappy when she has been having a great time going out with me and then hanging out with her friends. We were only just kissing each other a lot Friday night... So how does she suddenly feel like a Pisces guy like myself isn't good for her?

I have been told she has her heart set on another guy and I am not totally unconvinced this is true. I do not wish to be in her life as a back-up boyfriend so something is going to have to give. She does not have the funds to attend university or to travel anywhere and as i wrote above, does not have the money to move out and live with someone else.

My bad. Forgot to write that suddenly her dad is leaving for a year and she is very close with him. Could that be making her think she should remain single and find someone new? It really seemed to trigger something within her.

She does NOT get along with her mother at all, so it's crazy to think she will be living there. Her mother has thrown her out 3 times now. Not a place to move back to...

Move on buddy. This pairing can work, but no one wants someone like that. Find you a healthy young lady and see what happens. I hate to hear about all of the dramatics. It probably has to do with a lot of immaturity on her part, which isnt attractive. Pisces needs a GROUNDED Taurus... that is the opposite. She isnt keeping your feelings a priority so its best to remove yourself and find your center. There are so many options nowadays there is no sense in staying in a situation like that. Go be happy. Another happy person will see your happiness and want to be along for the ride. You already know. You will feel awesome about it later on Im pretty sure.

Posted by piscesman707

My bad. Forgot to write that suddenly her dad is leaving for a year and she is very close with him. Could that be making her think she should remain single and find someone new? It really seemed to trigger something within her.

She does NOT get along with her mother at all, so it's crazy to think she will be living there. Her mother has thrown her out 3 times now. Not a place to move back to...

You gotta ask yourself... Do I want to be a part of this? What is the endgoal in this relationship? If we are together forever, can I deal with this the whole time?

I wouldnt want to. Sounds horribly draining....

Everytime I hear about fixed/mutable I always think of RiRi and Chris

Extreme possessiveness and obsession



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Posted by ELIGAB

Everytime I hear about fixed/mutable I always think of RiRi and Chris

Extreme possessiveness and obsession



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that's sad

Rob Kardashian just always comes to mind

We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.

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Posted by piscesman707

We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.

Are the two of you the same age? I hear some control issues in that, as in, you see her making mistakes and want to direct her in an attempt to help, but she sees it as interference and rebels.

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Not really from my end at all. She is very controlling in many areas, such as making a schedule for what /we/ are doing for a few days, asking whether I could wear something else at times, telling me I should not see my friends on the weekends, what movies we should be watching, what photos I took she approves/disapproves of, etc. She would refuse to do anything and become ugly and uncompromising after the first 6-12 months and it was a real shock for me. Instead of the appreciative, pleasant Taurus I thought she was, she turned into a real monster for no reason at all. Her parents said she would be mean for no reason but "she doesn't mean it". What?!

I know I am dating a Taurus but from what I read, they start to act more like Virgo's when they are seriously considering a mate for the long-term/marriage. I found once she started to be highly critical instead of the sweet, pleasant and cuddle-loving Taurus she used to be, life has gotten much harder for us both because it leads to fighting rather than affection. I had never dated a Taurus before and was very shocked at how insecure they seem to be after having Taurus guy-and-girl-friends who seemed so laid-back and pleasant.

Posted by piscesman707

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by piscesman707

We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.

Are the two of you the same age? I hear some control issues in that, as in, you see her making mistakes and want to direct her in an attempt to help, but she sees it as interference and rebels.

Not really from my end at all. She is very controlling in many areas, such as making a schedule for what /we/ are doing for a few days, asking whether I could wear something else at times, telling me I should not see my friends on the weekends, what movies we should be watching, what photos I took she approves/disapproves of, etc. She would refuse to do anything and become ugly and uncompromising after the first 6-12 months and it was a real shock for me. Instead of the appreciative, pleasant Taurus I thought she was, she turned into a real monster for no reason at all. Her parents said she would be mean for no reason but "she doesn't mean it". What?!

I know I am dating a Taurus but from what I read, they start to act more like Virgo's when they are seriously considering a mate for the long-term/marriage. I found once she started to be highly critical instead of the sweet, pleasant and cuddle-loving Taurus she used to be, life has gotten much harder for us both because it leads to fighting rather than affection. I had never dated a Taurus before and was very shocked at how insecure they seem to be after having Taurus guy-and-girl-friends who seemed so laid-back and pleasant.

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wow wtf you bringing up virgos for?

telling you what friends to see

controlling what photos you post

always picking what movie to watch

angry and dissatisfied with rob kardashian?

lol sounds like classic taurus to me

don't blame that on the House of Virgo

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Posted by piscesman707

We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.

stop whining gad

you need a water sign to listen to all that

taurus just need to be

let them

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imagine trying to worship god and somebody criticizing how you handle your finances

So if a Taurus is done, are they truly done? She has told me she has gone back to ex's in the past. I have heard other stories about how they miss the good times. We we first met up, she said she wanted me to wash away all of her bad memories from her past.

She said in the last two weeks that she wanted to start following her religion again so she was going to be chaste. We haven't slept together in weeks and I am surprised she hasn't had any urges to do so. We last kissed on Thursday evening and cuddled then. Friday I met her and she blew kisses but never gave me any.

i'm not sure what the question is. is the question will she come back?

Yes, I am curious to know how to convince her to focus on us and prevent herself from burning out Taurus take time to move in any directions. It seems that by showing them affection that I might convince her to change her course and be fully focused on us?

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Posted by thekiss

Posted by piscesman707

We are together because we both loved going on adventures around town. It has only been in the last 6-12 months when she has allowed other people to criticize me and the relationship and then started to become more and critical herself. I feel like she should not be allowing her parents to dictate how her relationship should be. Whenever they have been less than supportive, I have been there.

I feel like she puts a greater priority on other people's approval and what they would think and telling me how I should budget my funds than she should be doing, especially when she has finally graduated and isn't even earning enough money to buy enough groceries. Her parents need to be renovating their home and instead it seems like they are focused on road trips and other pass-times.

She has never lived on her own or been independent enough from either her parents or the church. She has almost 0 savings left to move or attend school or live away from her parents. She hasn't had many friends since she graduated from high school and I guess is keen on keeping casual acquaintances around when she should be listening to someone she has been through a lot with instead (me). I have tried to discuss things with her in a mature manner but today she was avoiding speaking to me at church so I just left and got a ride home with an elderly lady.

stop whining gad

you need a water sign to listen to all that

taurus just need to be

let them

imagine trying to worship god and somebody criticizing how you handle your finances

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Imagine giving to the church and not having money for groceries? 🤷‍♀️🙌

Posted by piscesman707

So if a Taurus is done, are they truly done? She has told me she has gone back to ex's in the past. I have heard other stories about how they miss the good times. We we first met up, she said she wanted me to wash away all of her bad memories from her past.

She said in the last two weeks that she wanted to start following her religion again so she was going to be chaste. We haven't slept together in weeks and I am surprised she hasn't had any urges to do so. We last kissed on Thursday evening and cuddled then. Friday I met her and she blew kisses but never gave me any.

She is already banging somebody after church!

Throw this bullshit out the door. You haven’t wiped her memory. She need lobotomy for that!

You foot the bill. She is good where she is at. You are easy to manipulate. She is free and in rships.

You let her. Man up but I don’t think you will...

Posted by piscesman707

Yes, I am curious to know how to convince her to focus on us and prevent herself from burning out Taurus take time to move in any directions. It seems that by showing them affection that I might convince her to change her course and be fully focused on us?

oh i see. yeah, she is not interested in you. you're flogging a dead horse here.

Posted by piscesman707

Yes, I am curious to know how to convince her to focus on us and prevent herself from burning out Taurus take time to move in any directions. It seems that by showing them affection that I might convince her to change her course and be fully focused on us?

You sounds very controlling.

Maybe relinquish some of those behaviors and she will be more into the relationship.

Why should she not do her religion and see her cats and family?

Why should she focus solely on the relationship?

The sounds extremely one sided, selfish and immature.

Let her be free...maybe you will see the relationship change in your favor...but probably not

Posted by piscesman707

So if a Taurus is done, are they truly done? She has told me she has gone back to ex's in the past. I have heard other stories about how they miss the good times. We we first met up, she said she wanted me to wash away all of her bad memories from her past.

She said in the last two weeks that she wanted to start following her religion again so she was going to be chaste. We haven't slept together in weeks and I am surprised she hasn't had any urges to do so. We last kissed on Thursday evening and cuddled then. Friday I met her and she blew kisses but never gave me any.

Yeah I don't think she's attracted to you anymore.

Or her interests are elsewhere.

Sorry.

She sounds like she's fazing the relationship out instead of breaking up with you

Making herself unavailable so you end it with her..

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Posted by piscesman707

So if a Taurus is done, are they truly done? She has told me she has gone back to ex's in the past. I have heard other stories about how they miss the good times. We we first met up, she said she wanted me to wash away all of her bad memories from her past.

She said in the last two weeks that she wanted to start following her religion again so she was going to be chaste. We haven't slept together in weeks and I am surprised she hasn't had any urges to do so. We last kissed on Thursday evening and cuddled then. Friday I met her and she blew kisses but never gave me any.

Yeah I don't think she's attracted to you anymore.

Or her interests are elsewhere.

Sorry.

She sounds like she's fazing the relationship pit instead of breaking up for you

Making herself unavailable so you end it with her..

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looks like a woman who would have left already had her options not been already so limited.

they are not sleeping together.

she criticises him.

they argue.

he says she "picks fights".

she has told him she is unhappy.

he has been told she is interested in someone else.

she won't even sit with him or be physically near to him.

this is a woman who doesn't even like him as a person.

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Posted by piscesman707

So if a Taurus is done, are they truly done? She has told me she has gone back to ex's in the past. I have heard other stories about how they miss the good times. We we first met up, she said she wanted me to wash away all of her bad memories from her past.

She said in the last two weeks that she wanted to start following her religion again so she was going to be chaste. We haven't slept together in weeks and I am surprised she hasn't had any urges to do so. We last kissed on Thursday evening and cuddled then. Friday I met her and she blew kisses but never gave me any.

Yeah I don't think she's attracted to you anymore.

Or her interests are elsewhere.

Sorry.

She sounds like she's fazing the relationship pit instead of breaking up for you

Making herself unavailable so you end it with her..

looks like a woman who would have left already had her options not been already so limited.

they are not sleeping together.

she criticises him.

they argue.

he says she "picks fights".

she has told him she is unhappy.

he has been told she is interested in someone else.

she won't even sit with him or be physically near to him.

this is a woman who doesn't even like him as a person.

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Yeah, definitely just holding on because maybe his place is the only stability she has?.

more of a roommate thing, certainly not a relationship.

She wants you to be the one to end things. But in the meantime will suffer your company to get free room and board, meals, and paid for outings.

Posted by LadyNeptune

She wants you to be the one to end things. But in the meantime will suffer your company to get free room and board, meals, and paid for outings.

Exactly...

Ashamed to say it, but when I was younger this is something similar that I would do.

So it is in the Taurus nature to do this.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She wants you to be the one to end things. But in the meantime will suffer your company to get free room and board, meals, and paid for outings.

Exactly...

Ashamed to say it, but when I was younger this is something similar that I would do.

So it is in the Taurus nature to do this.

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Tbf she sounds much younger than him. Freshly out of college, never lived on her own. Plus with family drama happening and this huge transition from student to job hunt...she prolly is finding some small comfort in him from a stability aspect.

But it does strike me that she’s over the romantic relationship but not ballsy enough to call it quits. Unfortunately Pisces tend to stay in things way longer then they should so I don’t see him breaking it off with her anytime soon.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She wants you to be the one to end things. But in the meantime will suffer your company to get free room and board, meals, and paid for outings.

Exactly...

Ashamed to say it, but when I was younger this is something similar that I would do.

So it is in the Taurus nature to do this.

Tbf she sounds much younger than him. Freshly out of college, never lived on her own. Plus with family drama happening and this huge transition from student to job hunt...she prolly is finding some small comfort in him from a stability aspect.

But it does strike me that she’s over the romantic relationship but not ballsy enough to call it quits. Unfortunately Pisces tend to stay in things way longer then they should so I don’t see him breaking it off with her anytime soon.

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So does taurus...

They will just burn all their bridges until there is nothing left...

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Posted by LadyNeptune

She wants you to be the one to end things. But in the meantime will suffer your company to get free room and board, meals, and paid for outings.

Exactly...

Ashamed to say it, but when I was younger this is something similar that I would do.

So it is in the Taurus nature to do this.

Tbf she sounds much younger than him. Freshly out of college, never lived on her own. Plus with family drama happening and this huge transition from student to job hunt...she prolly is finding some small comfort in him from a stability aspect.

But it does strike me that she’s over the romantic relationship but not ballsy enough to call it quits. Unfortunately Pisces tend to stay in things way longer then they should so I don’t see him breaking it off with her anytime soon.

She has a strategy steady plan. Hence she doesn't dare to call it quits. Kinda evil thing to do though that she's using him.

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Yes, not very nice

But I'm willing to bet she's young and hasn't matured yet.

Hopefully she evolves and just tells the guy bye and leaves.

She has told the guy basically she doesn't want to be in a relationship.

He is choosing to stay top though.

Have you broken up yet?

She isn't living there and/or getting free food.

She is still cuddling and kissing me and bought us supper last night.

This afternoon she missed me.

I dont think some of you are reading this accurately.

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Have you broken up yet?

Nope. She has tried to break up in the past and then came back wanting to continue the relationship after calming down.

No one else is buttering her butter. Lol.