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Posted by Cosmic9

Can u all help me understand whats in his mind?


Yep. You got married and he lost one of his fan club. Let me guess, you got married recently?

To answer your question: he wants validation from you. This is neither friendship (I do not really know how my friends taste, only lovers), neither love.

You were after him so many years, met another person, and here he is - a person who does not believe in relationships, practicing hot and cold behavior, manipulator...I guess, I did not miss anything?

I think, if you proceed with him that would be a bitter end. But also I would not recommend to cut off the contact abruptly, he sounds like a person who would send a revenge message to your husband. That must be played smart and careful.
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Noting that y'all are saying a taurus side hoe will ruin a marriage ✍️

A third person will always become the problem in every relationship. Period. I know some couple got a ruined marriage because of presence of the third person in their life.

Makes sense but a virgo wont. So if you're going to cheat, cheat with a virgo.
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No thanks, I'm a hermit
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Being fwb with a taurus is a bad idea. They're heartbreakers.

Its seem contradictory people getting hurt with fwb

But tbh fwb is just a pretending-we-are-doing-casual

I dont 100% believe in casual either

When i was 19yo i talked to a gemini sun/merc/venus/mars pisces moon girl who had a bf and told me she was into maybe knowing me better to maybe we get into fwb

I was dumber at that time and didnt even thought about how everything was wrong with this

Not only the cheating but we pretending everything was casual while you were texting each other 24/7, inevitably we got attached, but i would never trust her anything, so this situation only generated pain

Nowadays she doesnt have a bf and i still have her add on my gb/ig

After that experiences i woud never trust any gemini woman anything too lol

What does your chart look like? Dating the sign that comes after yours puts you at the disadvantage. Anyway, you're still young and probably one of those cute, emo tauruses still. I'm talking the more experienced, jaded ones lol. Is it just me or do tauruses slip into a weird psychosis when they've been betrayed by a love. Scariest shit I've ever seen *grabs baseball bat*
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🤔 Why does dating a sign after yours put you at a disadvantage?
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Noting that y'all are saying a taurus side hoe will ruin a marriage ✍️

She is probably just dickmatized

What she can do now tbh? say to her husband 'be as good or better in bed than my taurus side hoe? lol

I want to know her husbands sign now too.

What is your guess?

Which sign taurus usually cucks?

No clue. Probably all of them. We dont even know her sign. What do you think?

Yeah we would need to know her sign first
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She's probably the same girl from the previous thread (my guess from her similar username). Made tons of accounts just to post this and wait for days for her post to be visible.
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Noting that y'all are saying a taurus side hoe will ruin a marriage ✍️

She is probably just dickmatized

What she can do now tbh? say to her husband 'be as good or better in bed than my taurus side hoe? lol

I want to know her husbands sign now too.

What is your guess?

Which sign taurus usually cucks?

No clue. Probably all of them. We dont even know her sign. What do you think?

Yeah we would need to know her sign first

She's probably the same girl from the previous thread (my guess from her similar username). Made tons of account just to post this and wait for days for her post to be visible.

Who?
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You know, that cosmic girl said that she had an aspie, but idk maybe they're different person.
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Posted by PlowSeason

Noting that y'all are saying a taurus side hoe will ruin a marriage ✍️

She is probably just dickmatized

What she can do now tbh? say to her husband 'be as good or better in bed than my taurus side hoe? lol

I want to know her husbands sign now too.

What is your guess?

Which sign taurus usually cucks?

No clue. Probably all of them. We dont even know her sign. What do you think?

Yeah we would need to know her sign first

She's probably the same girl from the previous thread (my guess from her similar username). Made tons of accounts just to post this and wait for days for her post to be visible.
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Posted by saggurl88

My opinion-

He's getting exactly what he's told you about- He' not a relationship guy, just wants casual sex and you're not too clingy or demanding of him, like a typical relationship. And he doesn't have to worry too much about you wanting a relationship, since you are tied up in a marriage.

He prefers to be the side dude diccing you down.


This is so on point. But I never knew his ego won't be hurt by being this side dude. This is new side of this that Im knowing. But why can't he just let me go......he approached me all these days and now ghosting me
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Also this whole thing is his way of coping probably. He has to tell himself its temporary because you're married. Taurus men DO NOT like to share... they're fucking crazy. Whats his is his. Whats yours is his too. If it was the other way around and you were cheating on him, he'd probably murder you... he'd at least think about it.


Yes this is why I was being okay with how things were going. Because I thought maybe he must be hurting too or else he would have let me go long back....
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Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek

What are you wanting out of all this? You're married? You wanting your crush to become your BFF? You wanting a little side piece to call your own? You gonna divorce your husband and marry him?

Just take the GREAT SEX as a consolation prize and move on.. maybe tell your single friends about him so they too can finally experience great sex. Sharing is caring 💘


Ouch.
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My opinion-

He's getting exactly what he's told you about- He' not a relationship guy, just wants casual sex and you're not too clingy or demanding of him, like a typical relationship. And he doesn't have to worry too much about you wanting a relationship, since you are tied up in a marriage.

He prefers to be the side dude diccing you down.

This is so on point. But I never knew his ego won't be hurt by being this side dude. This is new side of this that Im knowing. But why can't he just let me go......he approached me all these days and now ghosting me
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He did let you go. That’s what ghosting is
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Can u all help me understand whats in his mind?

Yep. You got married and he lost one of his fan club. Let me guess, you got married recently?

To answer your question: he wants validation from you. This is neither friendship (I do not really know how my friends taste, only lovers), neither love.

You were after him so many years, met another person, and here he is - a person who does not believe in relationships, practicing hot and cold behavior, manipulator...I guess, I did not miss anything?

I think, if you proceed with him that would be a bitter end. But also I would not recommend to cut off the contact abruptly, he sounds like a person who would send a revenge message to your husband. That must be played smart and careful.
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It is a bitter end. I see it now. Thanks.
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I just want to know 2 things

What is your sign

And which sign you married to

I am Aries Sun and Taurus Moon

Correction I am Aries and my husband is Gemini

What's your husband placement?

Sun Moon Gemini
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Well then... what do you expect? Seems like he's hardly understand your Taurus Moon. But if you want to work it out with him It's not to late. But left the side guy alone, told him that you're still working out with your husband. Then we can have a deal with. I thought it would be better for your man to have a Cap moon.
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My opinion-

He's getting exactly what he's told you about- He' not a relationship guy, just wants casual sex and you're not too clingy or demanding of him, like a typical relationship. And he doesn't have to worry too much about you wanting a relationship, since you are tied up in a marriage.

He prefers to be the side dude diccing you down.

This is so on point. But I never knew his ego won't be hurt by being this side dude. This is new side of this that Im knowing. But why can't he just let me go......he approached me all these days and now ghosting me
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Why can't he let you go and ghosting you is contradictory.

Are you bugging him for some dick and he doesn't want to deal with the attachment and responsibility of it?

It's fun for him to come and go when HE wants it, not when you do. He isn't worried about being hurt if he started to chase once you were tied to another person, maybe he's done this before.

There are plenty of men and women who love being side pieces and thinking they have a higher value by being chosen because they insert themselves into a marriage. - This is what drives their ego and makes them feel important, which is sad because usually the married person is the only one who benefits.

The side pieces usually just stay broken from being used sexually, having no self worth, and being under valued. But you get what you attract. He wants to cheat, so he got someone willing to.
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Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek

You is lucky.. Aries are too much for taurus man simpletons. Yes, their dicks are made of gold, and yes much like Jesus those who have never seen an orgasm will be shown the light with a Taurus man, HALLELUJAH!!

You should stick with air sign man... and just talk about sex.. less STDs when you just talk.

Bless you, child.

Didn't you read the part with her husband? He's a Gem and the sex between them is boring.
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You is lucky.. Aries are too much for taurus man simpletons. Yes, their dicks are made of gold, and yes much like Jesus those who have never seen an orgasm will be shown the light with a Taurus man, HALLELUJAH!!

You should stick with air sign man... and just talk about sex.. less STDs when you just talk.

Bless you, child.

Hadn't you read the part with her husband? He's a Gem and the sex between them is boring.

Bless you, child... and congratulations on your peen. Mozel Tov 🍻
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I have a lot of better things to pay much more rather than something in my underwear
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Also this whole thing is his way of coping probably. He has to tell himself its temporary because you're married. Taurus men DO NOT like to share... they're fucking crazy. Whats his is his. Whats yours is his too. If it was the other way around and you were cheating on him, he'd probably murder you... he'd at least think about it.

Yes this is why I was being okay with how things were going. Because I thought maybe he must be hurting too or else he would have let me go long back....

I think you misunderstood me. I doubt he's hurting. You dont get taurus men yet. They're fucking brutal when it comes to fwb. You wont survive. You'd have to be a dead inside earth sign to hang in there lol. I meant that shit like when they're in a relationship. He's not letting himself feel for you. Honestly maybe I dont get them. I have no idea. Nevermind lol.
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Haha. I think I am already dead 😭 honestly even I don't get them...he is been my friend since 7 yes and yet he is so unpredictable in terms of what they are thinking about everything.

Btw he msged me yesterday some not so funny joke. So I reacted. Then I sent something to him today for he saw the msg but didn't react. As a friend I just kinda said its just polite to say something or react. And then he said "I am not obliged to 😛"

I got furious. Now I feel im gonna block him. Thats him being so mean for not reason...
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My message was dont read into it. Take whatever he says and roll with that.

So basically I need to be cool with everything and not be serious. But thats what he wants. I feel we were better off as friends atleast he used to msg me everyday 😢(
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What exactly are you serious about, while being married?

This is the difference between men and women when they cheat. Men can have sex on the side and know they won't leave their wives.

Women want to start investing feelings into a man, once they get good sex.

Start thinking with your vagina and not your heart, if you want to continue to cheat.

Side pieces are not good for real relationships, they like being used and abused and don't know how to be wife or husband material. They will always be at a low vibration level. You got pulled into his lower vibration, so use him for the good sex or leave him alone. he told you he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship, let alone a marriage.
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My message was dont read into it. Take whatever he says and roll with that.

So basically I need to be cool with everything and not be serious. But thats what he wants. I feel we were better off as friends atleast he used to msg me everyday 😢(

What exactly are you serious about, while being married?

This is the difference between men and women when they cheat. Men can have sex on the side and know they won't leave their wives.

Women want to start investing feelings into a man, once they get good sex.

Start thinking with your vagina and not your heart, if you want to continue to cheat.

Side pieces are not good for real relationships, they like being used and abused and don't know how to be wife or husband material. They will always be at a low vibration level. You got pulled into his lower vibration, so use him for the good sex or leave him alone. he told you he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship, let alone a marriage.
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I needed to hear that. I was being an honest person to him showing him that I care for him. But i guess I shouldn't actually care because no point.
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My message was dont read into it. Take whatever he says and roll with that.

So basically I need to be cool with everything and not be serious. But thats what he wants. I feel we were better off as friends atleast he used to msg me everyday 😢(

What exactly are you serious about, while being married?

This is the difference between men and women when they cheat. Men can have sex on the side and know they won't leave their wives.

Women want to start investing feelings into a man, once they get good sex.

Start thinking with your vagina and not your heart, if you want to continue to cheat.

Side pieces are not good for real relationships, they like being used and abused and don't know how to be wife or husband material. They will always be at a low vibration level. You got pulled into his lower vibration, so use him for the good sex or leave him alone. he told you he doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship, let alone a marriage.

I needed to hear that. I was being an honest person to him showing him that I care for him. But i guess I shouldn't actually care because no point.
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Treat your husband like you care, the Taurus wants sex and a friend.

Don't be needy
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Also this whole thing is his way of coping probably. He has to tell himself its temporary because you're married. Taurus men DO NOT like to share... they're fucking crazy. Whats his is his. Whats yours is his too. If it was the other way around and you were cheating on him, he'd probably murder you... he'd at least think about it.

Yes this is why I was being okay with how things were going. Because I thought maybe he must be hurting too or else he would have let me go long back....

I think you misunderstood me. I doubt he's hurting. You dont get taurus men yet. They're fucking brutal when it comes to fwb. You wont survive. You'd have to be a dead inside earth sign to hang in there lol. I meant that shit like when they're in a relationship. He's not letting himself feel for you. Honestly maybe I dont get them. I have no idea. Nevermind lol.

Haha. I think I am already dead 😭 honestly even I don't get them...he is been my friend since 7 yes and yet he is so unpredictable in terms of what they are thinking about everything.

Btw he msged me yesterday some not so funny joke. So I reacted. Then I sent something to him today for he saw the msg but didn't react. As a friend I just kinda said its just polite to say something or react. And then he said "I am not obliged to 😛"

I got furious. Now I feel im gonna block him. Thats him being so mean for not reason...

I think he is being a drama queen

Just mad cuz you got married and he got too confortable in the fwbzone while you wanted something more solid and he was too slow to move to that, How old are you both?
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I am 30 and he is 28
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.


Maybe she wants a husband and a boyfriend? 😄

Two different titles, two different men.

Isn't sex supposed to go out the window after marriage? 😏
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.


My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.
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"Likes you" in what way?

You aren't thinking of him as "just a friend" if you need to know this, you have feelings now, maybe that's why he's backing off.

You're probably treating him differently and aren't as laid back as you were as a friend.

Him sending the message telling you he's not obliged to do anything is letting you know, he doesn't owe you shit- which is true.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

"Likes you" in what way?

You aren't thinking of him as "just a friend" if you need to know this, you have feelings now, maybe that's why he's backing off.

You're probably treating him differently and aren't as laid back as you were as a friend.

Him sending the message telling you he's not obliged to do anything is letting you know, he doesn't owe you shit- which is true.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.
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Yes I am gonna do that.
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After this thread what is the actual worth of gemini men?

Make you laugh? Bed talk?

Now that you say like that....that is what I have wanted after all those toxic relationships..the cuddle, the humour, bed talks....

I think im crazy.

Oh so air Men are healers

But what happens after you heal completly?
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They heal and then they feel everything is going fine.
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See I know y'all will be judging me for cheating and I am ready to take that because I know it. But I am also in a situation where even my husband is not in the good books. I didn't mention that coz the post is about the taurus guy and me 😆 anyways i hope u all understand....love is crazy

Cheating is just spotlighted now more in social media and not as hidden. Marriage can end just like any relationship. But you have to figure out if this guy will even want you once you are free.

By the way he's acting, he wont.

You are bringing the toxicity in your marriage. He isn't, he's being himself. he didn't want you before you were married and is still showing you he won't want you when you are invested in him. BELEIVE HIM
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.

Do you think he did It just as a friendship favor or something?

Sexy
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I don't know. It's new pussy for him. He didn't want it when she was single lol

Things are more exciting when it's taboo and off limits.

Side pieces get a sick satisfaction of breaking a persons vows, since they are supposed to be sacred.

But that is all, which it's why a married person should recognize that you can't form a relationship with a side dude acting like this Taurus. He wants the fun and pussy every once in a while- that is all. Either give it up or leave him alone. Let the dog go to someone else's front yard and bark for attention.

And thanks for calling me sexy 😄

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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

"Likes you" in what way?

You aren't thinking of him as "just a friend" if you need to know this, you have feelings now, maybe that's why he's backing off.

You're probably treating him differently and aren't as laid back as you were as a friend.

Him sending the message telling you he's not obliged to do anything is letting you know, he doesn't owe you shit- which is true.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.
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But if he just wants sex, he already knew that I might start getting feelings coz I told him before too...and he is very hot so gets women easily. But he literally hugged me and slept. Plus why would he arrange everything like food, music, and all fhe sweet talks. I wasn't expecting it coz I thought it was just casual. He wants to lure me in, fall for him and then what.....is this some kind of revenge 😯
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

"Likes you" in what way?

You aren't thinking of him as "just a friend" if you need to know this, you have feelings now, maybe that's why he's backing off.

You're probably treating him differently and aren't as laid back as you were as a friend.

Him sending the message telling you he's not obliged to do anything is letting you know, he doesn't owe you shit- which is true.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.

But if he just wants sex, he already knew that I might start getting feelings coz I told him before too...and he is very hot so gets women easily. But he literally hugged me and slept. Plus why would he arrange everything like food, music, and all fhe sweet talks. I wasn't expecting it coz I thought it was just casual. He wants to lure me in, fall for him and then what.....is this some kind of revenge 😯
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You're the one creating the fantasy.

He's showing you that he wants to be a side dude only and he doesn't want the importance that you are trying to give him.

He may just be like that intimately, but it still doesn't mean anything, as he has told you.

Some men are naturally romantic- Taurus is Venusian, but like you said, he likes options and you are just one of them. Let that sink in. He likes his autotonomy.

Edited to add- He wanted some pussy, what does he care about the feelings of a married women. That's not his problem, he got what he came for.
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What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.

Do you think he did It just as a friendship favor or something?

Sexy

I don't know. It's new p**sy for him. He didn't want it when she was single lol

Idk maybe there some story missing gere

She can tell us more

Arent you curious? I am curious, i am the one who bump It this hidden thread anyway lol
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Seems pretty cut and dry to me, but I'm not that imaginative.

He seems like a typical man that's never been in a serious relationship and prefers to cheat with married or taken women because he doesn't have a responsibility to them.

Fairly common and boring.

Edited to add- What had you curious? What are you thinking?
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Posted by Snippet

What’s the point of this thread? You’re married. Either you want the marriage or not. Either you want to try things with the Taurus or not, and if you choose the Taurus, don’t expect much more than you’re getting right now. Manage your expectations accordingly.

My only point is we were just doing fine being friends. He started this thing and now chickening out and ghosting me. He is ready to ruin so many yrs of friendship just for sex? I just want to know if he really likes me. I will be at peace.

If you want the friendship back, cut out the sex and act normal again.

Do you think he did It just as a friendship favor or something?

Sexy

I don't know. It's new p**sy for him. He didn't want it when she was single lol

Idk maybe there some story missing gere

She can tell us more

Arent you curious? I am curious, i am the one who bump It this hidden thread anyway lol

Seems pretty cut and dry to me, but I'm not that imaginative.

He seems like a typical man that's never been in a serious relationship and prefers to cheat with married or taken women because he doesn't have a responsibility to them.

Fairly common and boring.

Edited to add- What had you curious? What are you thinking?

Nothing lol

Just wanted to go deep throught the rabbit hole

This aries-taurus sparks excite me a bit (actually a lot)
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Aren't both controlling? I don't understand it. But I don't understand a lot 😛
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