When busy do you prefer...

Hello! simple one really. I know you like to focus on what you’re doing when working but when you are busy do you like to be left alone and contact them when you’re ready or do you still like to hear from you Love interest?

The bull I’m dealing with is very accommodating but has been extremely busy lately. I do sometimes feel bad if I find I’ve disturbed him a lot but he never gets angry which is nice but I just thought I would ask generally.

The Bull I'm talking to, runs 2 jobs. He is never bothered with me texting him. He'll read, he'll say if he's at work or replies when he has more time. Not once has he told me or gave me the impression that it wasnt welcome cause he's busy.

Just ease.... text when needed when you know he's busy with work, dont expect reply quickly or expect a short reply. If it bothers him, he'll say it. That much I do know about the Bull.

My bull is alwaya busy at work and he works with his hand all day so very rarely will he text me back immediately, but he alwaya does when he finds the time.

He never minds if its nothing important. But if it is, he perfers to deal with it when he isn't working and face to face.

Which can sometimes be difficult for me, beacaue wheb i think of aomething i being it up then. I forget rather quickly. Lol.

He sends me a heart every morning before work a d he usually calls me when he leaves work on his commute home. But rarely do i hear from him for the 7 hrs hes at work.

We had a funny blunder yesterday. He sent me a picture of a "4" pipe" ( that was what he captioned it) and i replied "only 4"? 😉 "

He wasn't amused by it becasue he was at work. Lolol.

Those are unwanted diatractions. He loves playful talks, but not when he has to focus on what he doing. Lol

Oh and i guess ill answer this as a Taurus myself.

Im never as "busy" or focused on work.

My job right now has a lot of downtime. And im constantly on my phone with clients/my installers so im reachable all day.

If im not and I see my bf has called, ill call him back when i can.

I think the key is to not panic.

Don't send 1000 messages with "??" "Hello?" If you havent heard from them.

I think thats when it becomes unwanted and annoying.

Which is common sense i think

Posted by Boots1313

Oh and i guess ill answer this as a Taurus myself.

Im never as "busy" or focused on work.

My job right now has a lot of downtime. And im constantly on my phone with clients/my installers so im reachable all day.

If im not and I see my bf has called, ill call him back when i can.

I think the key is to not panic.

Don't send 1000 messages with "??" "Hello?" If you havent heard from them.

I think thats when it becomes unwanted and annoying.

Which is common sense i think

I get that! I definitely don’t panic anymore. I’ve become accustomed to his ways. Sometimes he forgets and if I call maybe the next day to ask again he just answers without an issue. I feel like saying he is just really reliable I guess. He seems so cool with everything but doesn’t suggest anything which I’ve slowly gotten used to. They work a bit different from other signs.

Posted by 2LoV3

Posted by Boots1313

Oh and i guess ill answer this as a Taurus myself.

Im never as "busy" or focused on work.

My job right now has a lot of downtime. And im constantly on my phone with clients/my installers so im reachable all day.

If im not and I see my bf has called, ill call him back when i can.

I think the key is to not panic.

Don't send 1000 messages with "??" "Hello?" If you havent heard from them.

I think thats when it becomes unwanted and annoying.

Which is common sense i think

I get that! I definitely don’t panic anymore. I’ve become accustomed to his ways. Sometimes he forgets and if I call maybe the next day to ask again he just answers without an issue. I feel like saying he is just really reliable I guess. He seems so cool with everything but doesn’t suggest anything which I’ve slowly gotten used to. They work a bit different from other signs.

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Yeah once you learn to slow down and go with the flow of their pace-things get better.

You cant resist. And im not staing be a lish ovee but thats part of understanding them and connecting with them.

As a taurus myself i even struggled when i first got with my bull to understand his pace.

But i love that he has slowed me down and i appreciate all the growth i have made since being with him.

I was with a scorpio prior,- a lot more intentisity. Emotions and manipulation/game playing.

So i was confused when none of that was present in this relationship.

in the beginning it is easy to fret over the small things. just chill out, be yourself. he is with you because he likes you. just be you.

i know that easier said than done but if you are together long enough, you are going to get to the point where all the facades drop and you can exhale.

my bull is very busy. i text him when i want. ring if it needs an immediate answer. sometimes i will text him and he will tell me to call him. he can get back to me immediately (within a minute) or when he has a chance.

i realise i am further down the track in my relationship and i spent months worrying about the kinds of things you are worrying about but it's really pointless to spend too much energy on it. it all comes out in the wash eventually.

Posted by Boots1313

As a taurus myself i even struggled when i first got with my bull to understand his pace.

But i love that he has slowed me down and i appreciate all the growth i have made since being with him.

I was with a scorpio prior,- a lot more intentisity. Emotions and manipulation/game playing.

So i was confused when none of that was present in this relationship.

My ex was Scorpio too!! Maybe that’s why it almost feels surreal. They are so emotional and intense 100mph and my bull feels like 10 comparatively. It’s so calm that at first I would wonder what twilight zone I was in but not as much now. He is very good a telling his schedule. Is kind of exciting because things start to cement a bit slower so you can enjoy. Where as the Scorpio....that happened really fast!!