Capricorn obsession or addiction?

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I'm obsessive. With lots of things.

Would you be willing to share? If you do or don’t, what do you think is the root cause?

Root cause is I like things too much

Do you like things for novelty or because you genuinely like them?

Both. I also don't like not attaining what I want and that can drive obsession.
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Do you still want it once you get it?
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Posted by PuzzlePieces

What’s the definition of obsession? Never giving up perhaps 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Never letting go, or forgiving?


I feel like I would use the definition of obsession as an unhealthy fixation. I watch the one stay fixated on unhealthy things and won’t walk away from toxic people. The other one literally told me they get obsessed, so that definition may differ from what I consider obsessive.
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They’re usually more logical than obsessive, but I’ve known quite a few that had issues with addiction. Whether it was addiction to gambling, porn, drugs/alcohol, cheating/sex, etc.

And I've known quite a few women who were addicted to consumerism, and overdosing on dumb romantic/Disney films and esoteric claptrap. You know, the typical things most humans invest their spare time in, to fill the empty void within themselves.
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What’s the definition of obsession? Never giving up perhaps 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Never letting go, or forgiving?

I feel like I would use the definition of obsession as an unhealthy fixation. I watch the one stay fixated on unhealthy things and won’t walk away from toxic people. The other one literally told me they get obsessed, so that definition may differ from what I consider obsessive.
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I asked because people seem to use the word differently. My ex bf has a letting go problem. When I think about it so did my dad. Of emotions.. and of people. I am not sure if that is what OP is getting at or not. I had to block my ex Cap because he just kept coming back every 2 months for years saying we were going to end up together even though I kept saying NO!!!!!! It’s been almost a year & so nice and quiet.
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What’s the definition of obsession? Never giving up perhaps 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Never letting go, or forgiving?

I feel like I would use the definition of obsession as an unhealthy fixation. I watch the one stay fixated on unhealthy things and won’t walk away from toxic people. The other one literally told me they get obsessed, so that definition may differ from what I consider obsessive.

I asked because people seem to use the word differently. My ex bf has a letting go problem. When I think about it so did my dad. Of emotions.. and of people. I am not sure if that is what OP is getting at or not. I had to block my ex Cap because he just kept coming back every 2 months for years saying we were going to end up together even though I kept saying NO!!!!!! It’s been almost a year & so nice and quiet.

so does men love harder ?
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My father perhaps. He did not forgive she left him in 40 years. But really he did not deal with his part in it. Stubbornness?

The Cap broke my heart & left me. went to someone else & then realized his mistake. But yet couldn’t commit again for 3 years like he had when we were together. I’m not sure it’s love but needing me to take care of him so he doesn’t fuck things up. He makes bad decisions. Who knows, but I don’t believe him anymore. It’s just words.
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my cap ex was an alcoholic and a hoe

Coincidentally I’m watching Cheers clips. Sam is played by a cap and Diane is played by a Virgo Leo cusp Virgo rising. Sam is alcoholic hoe and Diane is bookworm.

I like Christie alley better for him
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Wasn’t her character digging for that old guy with money? She was also played by a cap in the interest for this thread.