@Shy_Taurus
7 YearsTaurus
Could use some advice on this cap.
Sorry didn’t mean to hide. Shown now.
A comment even though she disappeared.
Women in this situation are being encouraged to go for it if you wish. It is your right to decide for yourself. I agree. From what I have read a younger woman can appreciate an older mans experience and maturity.
Women are telling men in this situation they should not have a relationship with her. It will just hurt her and she will regret it later. Sometimes, maybe, I don't know. Is she going to thank the man for not sleeping with her?
I would be absolutely fine with an FWB situation. I suppose I am ok with any kind of situation as long as I know what’s happening. Just like being around him.
this is not short this is hurting my eyes and i love to read. so it's a boss, it's tricky, tho is dependant on the job.
Lol my apologies. It’s not really a big deal as far as our jobs are concerned
Is he married
I am excited for you... don't pressure him... play cat and mouse game more... he loves the build up yes... make him beg for you (not the other way around) . He is watching you and observing you, probably all the time.
Throw that attitude that "I am ur lady you need to court me" when it comes to sex. Have you guys at least kissed? You can show him your desperation through one really passionate kiss then he will be yours, he will chase you and you will get what you want.
Also he wants to see your smartness, how you take sarcastic comments and criticism. I was able to win his heart by impressing him through my smart answers which made his mouth shut.
Is he goofy around you? Cap boys are pretty serious in life but when they are goofy around you, you are winning them.
You showed him you care, he just want to see how deeply you care. If he is trying to help you, take it with open arms. They show they care through helping.
All the best! 🙂
Is he married
No
Dont say "I'm okay with being friends"
No one likes that mixed message bs and you wont get what you want.
Thank you for advice.
I am excited for you... don't pressure him... play cat and mouse game more... he loves the build up yes... make him beg for you (not the other way around) . He is watching you and observing you, probably all the time.
Throw that attitude that "I am ur lady you need to court me" when it comes to sex. Have you guys at least kissed? You can show him your desperation through one really passionate kiss then he will be yours, he will chase you and you will get what you want.
Also he wants to see your smartness, how you take sarcastic comments and criticism. I was able to win his heart by impressing him through my smart answers which made his mouth shut.
Is he goofy around you? Cap boys are pretty serious in life but when they are goofy around you, you are winning them.
You showed him you care, he just want to see how deeply you care. If he is trying to help you, take it with open arms. They show they care through helping.
All the best! 🙂
Thank you dear. He and I joke constantly lol. And he helps me with it all. I’ll stay on track.
I hope you are still this close when you both are unemployed.
I’m sure that won’t happen, lol.
Is he married
No
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If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
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Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
I hope you are still this close when you both are unemployed.
I’m sure that won’t happen, lol.
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Maybe, but he will have to report the relationship to his superiors. Therefore, next time when he gets sacked, you will not be able to make others dismiss the evidence.
Btw, he may still be sacked, if they found out that you, the person who came to his rescue, has been dined and wined by him during that time.
Dont do it. Because if it dosent work out between you. Not to scare you or anything but your job could be on the line. The best thing you can do in this situation is just keep communication open between you two about what it is you both want.
Why don't you try teasing him? Play offence and then be like "You can't have this!".
Clearly he's competitive so he'll like that.. and then try to prove you wrong.
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
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I dont know why people are hating...and jobs/companies can always be replaced but love is hard to find 😉.
Also that's coming from a fear-mindset... abundance is everywhere both in work and in love.
I hope you are still this close when you both are unemployed.
I’m sure that won’t happen, lol.
Maybe, but he will have to report the relationship to his superiors. Therefore, next time when he gets sacked, you will not be able to make others dismiss the evidence.
Btw, he may still be sacked, if they found out that you, the person who came to his rescue, has been dined and wined by him during that time.
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We work in a company in which many locations have had similar relationships, owner of company doesn’t mind and has already questioned us. We denied it because we technically are friends and haven’t done a thing.
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
I dont know why people are hating...and jobs/companies can always be replaced but love is hard to find 😉.
Also that's coming from a fear-mindset... abundance is everywhere both in work and in love.
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That’s what I feel.
Why don't you try teasing him? Play offence and then be like "You can't have this!".
Clearly he's competitive so he'll like that.. and then try to prove you wrong.
Hehe. There’s an idea.
I hope you are still this close when you both are unemployed.
I’m sure that won’t happen, lol.
Maybe, but he will have to report the relationship to his superiors. Therefore, next time when he gets sacked, you will not be able to make others dismiss the evidence.
Btw, he may still be sacked, if they found out that you, the person who came to his rescue, has been dined and wined by him during that time.
We work in a company in which many locations have had similar relationships, owner of company doesn’t mind and has already questioned us. We denied it because we technically are friends and haven’t done a thing.
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You haven't done a thing?! You did everything that is called dating, except you didn't screw! You didn't screw because he turned it down!
And then you acted as a witness to rescue him from firing, after you lied that you two don't have a relationship outside your work relationship!
You don't realize how naive you are! You barely know him, and yet you lied to your superiors and acted as a witness to counteract someone else's evidence! Did he manipulate you in doing that? Actually, what you told here IS manipulation!
It only takes someone to see you together, re-open the case, and get both of you fired! You may not care too much for losing your job, but he would care for losing his, since it's 10 x more difficult to get a position like his, than yours. He would probably throw you under the bus to keep his job, if he has to.
You are acting and thinking extremely immature for your age.
Why don't you try teasing him? Play offence and then be like "You can't have this!".
Clearly he's competitive so he'll like that.. and then try to prove you wrong.
Hehe. There’s an idea.
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haha try it! And let us know how it goes 😉
I hope you are still this close when you both are unemployed.
I’m sure that won’t happen, lol.
Maybe, but he will have to report the relationship to his superiors. Therefore, next time when he gets sacked, you will not be able to make others dismiss the evidence.
Btw, he may still be sacked, if they found out that you, the person who came to his rescue, has been dined and wined by him during that time.
We work in a company in which many locations have had similar relationships, owner of company doesn’t mind and has already questioned us. We denied it because we technically are friends and haven’t done a thing.
You haven't done a thing?! You did everything that is called dating, except you didn't screw! You didn't screw because he turned it down!
And then you acted as a witness to rescue him from firing, after you lied that you two don't have a relationship outside your work relationship!
You don't realize how naive you are! You barely know him, and yet you lied to your superiors and acted as a witness to counteract someone else's evidence! Did he manipulate you in doing that? Actually, what you told here IS manipulation!
It only takes someone to see you together, re-open the case, and get both of you fired! You may not care too much for losing your job, but he would care for losing his, since it's 10 x more difficult to get a position like his, than yours. He would probably throw you under the bus to keep his job, if he has to.
You are acting and thinking extremely immature for your age.
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Ok
where is geminati saying x percent of marriages come from work?... well i think he is just enjoy this stage of the pursuit... other people would call it hunt... idk why you wanna hurry anything up... its probably your cap moon... which makes me think hes probably an imposter cap moon... which would make you the person to actually pursue him.. which doesn't make any since to me because both of you are supposedly cap moons
Haha I feel like we both be pursuing each other different times. Odd situations
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
I dont know why people are hating...and jobs/companies can always be replaced but love is hard to find 😉.
Also that's coming from a fear-mindset... abundance is everywhere both in work and in love.
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I need an escape route in my relationships (mutable mindset?) so I could never bring myself to date a coworker, fellow student, someone within the friends group, etc.
The idea of having to face them frequently after the breakup is way too awkward. Avoid avoid.
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
I dont know why people are hating...and jobs/companies can always be replaced but love is hard to find 😉.
Also that's coming from a fear-mindset... abundance is everywhere both in work and in love.
I need an escape route in my relationships (mutable mindset?) so I could never bring myself to date a coworker, fellow student, someone within the friends group, etc.
The idea of having to face them frequently after the breakup is way too awkward. Avoid avoid.
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I can understand your concern, ladyneptune.
But I have dated coworkers before. The situation isn’t too daunting to me. I also have many connections to change my location if it got to a point that was difficult. I suppose I’m more of a social risk taker in that regard. Though admittedly not anywhere else in my life.
caps take forever
24 days of me not cheating and still not getting laid
but yeah cap energy spoils you
i feel extra bratty coz of one
Is he married
No
If he’s single, your single, and you both are consenting adults I don’t see what the problem is.
Check into the company’s policy on dating coworkers. He’s been in trouble before, don’t want to jeopardize his position again...
Personally I wouldn’t shit where I eat...but to each their own.
Oh yes. I would never pursue or want a married man.
I’ve looked into it... no such policy exists.
Thank you for your input.
I dont know why people are hating...and jobs/companies can always be replaced but love is hard to find 😉.
Also that's coming from a fear-mindset... abundance is everywhere both in work and in love.
I need an escape route in my relationships (mutable mindset?) so I could never bring myself to date a coworker, fellow student, someone within the friends group, etc.
The idea of having to face them frequently after the breakup is way too awkward. Avoid avoid.
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I get that... i also have that fear. The more boxes we create for ourselves the less chances we have at finding happiness in unexpected places.
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A comment even though she disappeared.
Women in this situation are being encouraged to go for it if you wish. It is your right to decide for yourself. I agree. From what I have read a younger woman can appreciate an older mans experience and maturity.
Women are telling men in this situation they should not have a relationship with her. It will just hurt her and she will regret it later. Sometimes, maybe, I don't know. Is she going to thank the man for not sleeping with her?