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other placements:
pisces moon
capricorn mercury
aquarius venus
sagittarius mars
they go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
Posted by MesquiteI'm kind of half Capricorn, so that being said, when I was younger I was very shy and reserved.
Now, I pull out my dick and fun ensues rather quickly because I mellowed out.
The older the Capricorn - the more chill they are about certain things.
he's 29 yrs old and i'm 26 but he thinks he's old for his age
he's always talking about the future and how we need to rush ourselves into it
we haven't had sex yet but i discovered recently that he likes biting (is that a cap thing?)
though we almost had sex in the car one time but lol he does have an old person vibe
Posted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
Posted by Araujo97Ime even the most shy female caps initiate
so they'd rather initiate.... must be cardinal thing
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
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ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
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lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
Posted by Araujo97Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Araujo97Ime even the most shy female caps initiate
so they'd rather initiate.... must be cardinal thing
Yeah, with exception of cancer, they want to feel like a housewife or something
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wait who wants to feel that way?
capricorn?
he wants to do work from what i've gathered but he likes that i'm working too
Make him go at your pace. If your ready, go for it. If not, go slow.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
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nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
https://s5.gifyu.com/images/Death-Bounty.gif
it sounds stressful but he makes me wanna do better, be better
and for someone who rushes the way he does with all his serious plans,
he;s also extremely sentimental like he'd literally wanna spend the whole day with me, maybe sleep for 3 hours at the most and he'd even skip work just to hangout lol like how are we ever gonna get things done?
one time i left my phone at home and i got 14 notifs from him lol
is this just at the start or is it his combination?
With that fire mars he should rip off your clothes and bend you over as soon as he walks in the door. Speaking from experience 😈
Posted by LadyNeptuneWith that fire mars he should rip off your clothes and bend you over as soon as he walks in the door. Speaking from experience 😈
lol do people have obligatory sex on february?
is that a thing?
i feel like rebelling against the system coz it's so cheesy
ohh and he said: "i just want everything to be perfect"
right after making out with me and then stopped and got me to my doorstep
i'm just gonna go with the flow lol
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneWith that fire mars he should rip off your clothes and bend you over as soon as he walks in the door. Speaking from experience 😈
lol do people have obligatory sex on february?
is that a thing?
i feel like rebelling against the system coz it's so cheesy
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Cause of vday? Lol I have no idea. We always fuck before dinner cause after a heavy meal + drinks + desert we are only good for cuddles once we get home.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneWith that fire mars he should rip off your clothes and bend you over as soon as he walks in the door. Speaking from experience 😈
lol do people have obligatory sex on february?
is that a thing?
i feel like rebelling against the system coz it's so cheesy
Cause of vday? Lol I have no idea. We always fuck before dinner cause after a heavy meal + drinks + desert we are only good for cuddles once we get home.
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most people go to the same picturesque places on v-day
but anyway yeah, sex on a full stomach is a nope
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
he;s also extremely sentimental like he'd literally wanna spend the whole day with me, maybe sleep for 3 hours at the most and he'd even skip work just to hangout lol like how are we ever gonna get things done?
one time i left my phone at home and i got 14 notifs from him lol
is this just at the start or is it his combination?
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sentimental do rhyme with pisces moon Imho I try to avoid water moons most of the time, but they are good people.
is mostly at the start, they all chill out a bit after a while, getting the balance is hard at first but is always doable, but a sag mars will message you every time he gets bored, so don't be suprised about those notifications.
Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
he;s also extremely sentimental like he'd literally wanna spend the whole day with me, maybe sleep for 3 hours at the most and he'd even skip work just to hangout lol like how are we ever gonna get things done?
one time i left my phone at home and i got 14 notifs from him lol
is this just at the start or is it his combination?
sentimental do rhyme with pisces moon Imho I try to avoid water moons most of the time, but they are good people.
is mostly at the start, they all chill out a bit after a while, getting the balance is hard at first but is always doable, but a sag mars will message you every time he gets bored, so don't be suprised about those notifications.
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he's messaging so much and everything has a suffix of 'my love' lol it was cringey at first but i gotta get used to it
but i'm cheesy too so now i'm planning to make him some meals then bring them to his workplace lol
Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
Posted by Nightcap-Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
he's been wanting to visit me at home (lately, i'm always out)
he says my mom needs to get used to his face
but he did hint he wants to spend vday in my place
his cousins are always in his place and they are too rowdy
so i guess you're saying it's best to hook up with him soon?
guess i have to get started on that 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Nightcap-Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
he's been wanting to visit me at home (lately, i'm always out)
he says my mom needs to get used to his face
but he did hint he wants to spend vday in my place
his cousins are always in his place and they are too rowdy
so i guess you're saying it's best to hook up with him soon?
guess i have to get started on that 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
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I'm not saying that at all. I'm surprised he hasn't initiated if these other things are true. It may be a true love at first sight connection but this is also how someone acts when they're with someone they think is too good for them. They need to tie the other person down in a whirlwind before the other person realizes. When something is rushed and almost too good to be true, it usually is. I'm just saying be careful and patient enough so that things are as they appear to be.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
he;s also extremely sentimental like he'd literally wanna spend the whole day with me, maybe sleep for 3 hours at the most and he'd even skip work just to hangout lol like how are we ever gonna get things done?
one time i left my phone at home and i got 14 notifs from him lol
is this just at the start or is it his combination?
sentimental do rhyme with pisces moon Imho I try to avoid water moons most of the time, but they are good people.
is mostly at the start, they all chill out a bit after a while, getting the balance is hard at first but is always doable, but a sag mars will message you every time he gets bored, so don't be suprised about those notifications.
he's messaging so much and everything has a suffix of 'my love' lol it was cringey at first but i gotta get used to it
but i'm cheesy too so now i'm planning to make him some meals then bring them to his workplace lol
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I still want to see that synastry btw
Posted by Nightcap-Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Nightcap-Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
he's been wanting to visit me at home (lately, i'm always out)
he says my mom needs to get used to his face
but he did hint he wants to spend vday in my place
his cousins are always in his place and they are too rowdy
so i guess you're saying it's best to hook up with him soon?
guess i have to get started on that 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I'm not saying that at all. I'm surprised he hasn't initiated if these other things are true. It may be a true love at first sight connection but this is also how someone acts when they're with someone they think is too good for them. They need to tie the other person down in a whirlwind before the other person realizes. When something is rushed and almost too good to be true, it usually is. I'm just saying be careful and patient enough so that things are as they appear to be.click to expand
tbh with you, i don't really feel like having sex with him anytime soon coz that would just feel like an obligatory holiday thing. and if you've only seen the way he looks at me. there are men who've liked me, claimed to love me even or fantasized about me but he's something else. he tells me this story (and i believe he's sincere in everything he says and does, i don't know how i know but i just know). he tells me that after his ex cheated on him, that should he meet another love that by god he would love her. sometimes i get insecure.... that maybe it's coz he thinks that i'm that prayer sent and that's why he's being like this and that maybe he's not really all that attracted to me, just maybe the idea of the prayer. but the way he looks at me.... he has all these visions, these dreams of things he wants to build and he looks at me in this way too like i am a dream.
like i wanna make all his dreams come true.
i want things to progress on the speed that he wants.
hell i'll sign anything at this point.
Posted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by EndlessPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Endlessthey go slow but steady.
I'm never sure if they are gentlemanly or just plain shy, but they won't say no to a good offer, so just ask if you want the D.
just makes me think.
he rushes everything coz he think he's 'too old' (he's 29) and i just think sometimes it's ridiculous like why do we have to rush into meeting each other's family or marriage. they say caps are supposed to be cautious and reserved but the man's always acting like he's running against time.
ah, my cap moon/stellun can understand that.
sometimes I literally think I'm in my 30s, then I remenber that's just my weird head needing to overarchive, cap energy is all about material security, if he's old schooled, that's a wife, a good income.... and yada yada, and generally, for some reason, that's expected when one's hit 30s, he's probably feeling he need all that before the next year LMAO
damn I need that before a couple of year WTF!!!
lol omg that's exactly how he is
i felt so overwhelmed about him wanting everything ALL AT ONCE
like i even asked him: "all these in ONE YEAR?!"
now i always feel like i have homework or i need to shape up or improve myself
nah, don't be so overwhelmed, is not 100% literal, it just a "vibe", most caps are pessimistic enough to expect not to achieve what they want, the way they want it, or when they want it.
but ofc the cold and sober way a cap will put it, will make other sign think they are 100% into it.
that's why we always get along, and I hate them so much, we can always feel it when we get together, the lost seconds of human life piling like a bounty for a delighted reaper.
he;s also extremely sentimental like he'd literally wanna spend the whole day with me, maybe sleep for 3 hours at the most and he'd even skip work just to hangout lol like how are we ever gonna get things done?
one time i left my phone at home and i got 14 notifs from him lol
is this just at the start or is it his combination?
sentimental do rhyme with pisces moon Imho I try to avoid water moons most of the time, but they are good people.
is mostly at the start, they all chill out a bit after a while, getting the balance is hard at first but is always doable, but a sag mars will message you every time he gets bored, so don't be suprised about those notifications.
he's messaging so much and everything has a suffix of 'my love' lol it was cringey at first but i gotta get used to it
but i'm cheesy too so now i'm planning to make him some meals then bring them to his workplace lol
I still want to see that synastry btw
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will post soon when i get his exact birth time
coz i just go on the date and place right now
Posted by idontlikeyouWhat the hell this guy sounds crazy
not to me, he's a sweetheart
i'm in love with him
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Nightcap-Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Nightcap-Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
he's been wanting to visit me at home (lately, i'm always out)
he says my mom needs to get used to his face
but he did hint he wants to spend vday in my place
his cousins are always in his place and they are too rowdy
so i guess you're saying it's best to hook up with him soon?
guess i have to get started on that 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I'm not saying that at all. I'm surprised he hasn't initiated if these other things are true. It may be a true love at first sight connection but this is also how someone acts when they're with someone they think is too good for them. They need to tie the other person down in a whirlwind before the other person realizes. When something is rushed and almost too good to be true, it usually is. I'm just saying be careful and patient enough so that things are as they appear to be.
tbh with you, i don't really feel like having sex with him anytime soon coz that would just feel like an obligatory holiday thing. and if you've only seen the way he looks at me. there are men who've liked me, claimed to love me even or fantasized about me but he's something else. he tells me this story (and i believe he's sincere in everything he says and does, i don't know how i know but i just know). he tells me that after his ex cheated on him, that should he meet another love that by god he would love her. sometimes i get insecure.... that maybe it's coz he thinks that i'm that prayer sent and that's why he's being like this and that maybe he's not really all that attracted to me, just maybe the idea of the prayer. but the way he looks at me.... he has all these visions, these dreams of things he wants to build and he looks at me in this way too like i am a dream.
i want things to progress on the speed that he wants.
hell i'll sign anything at this point.
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Ok, well I hope it works out for you. Good luck 🙂
In my experience, I never had to worry about a cap initiating, it just happens.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesIn my experience, I never had to worry about a cap initiating, it just happens.
he initiates everything
but i don't wanna look like i'm not returning the interest
Posted by AntiphatesThey are usually quite proactive due to the internal pressure they feel about most things.
I have the same Venus Mercury and Mars and tend to be quite pushy but will never go beyond the initial stage if I don't get the okay signal from the other side.
oh wait he's actually an aqua venus
but meh close enough
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by AntiphatesThey are usually quite proactive due to the internal pressure they feel about most things.
I have the same Venus Mercury and Mars and tend to be quite pushy but will never go beyond the initial stage if I don't get the okay signal from the other side.
oh wait he's actually an aqua venus
but meh close enough
Isn't that even better for you?
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yes omg my venus is in the 11th
which explains why i only have aqua friends left in life lol
Posted by LadyNeptuneWith that fire mars he should rip off your clothes and bend you over as soon as he walks in the door. Speaking from experience 😈
Nice. My capricorn boy has Mars in Sag hehe. I think he takes it as a sport. He is not ashamed to give the toughest level of tease that I beg him to please do it now. And only then he shows he needs it more than I do.
Posted by MothToFlameI've dated two Caps, and I had to initiate with both of them. Lol. They courted me and were very gentlemanlike, but when it came down to the first kiss, I was the one who made it happen. After that, they didn't have any problems initating anything else.
i initiated holding hands but he initiated kissing
i''ll just roll with it
I dont know if thats true for all of us. I mean sometimes i think about the future but most of the times i sit and think about whether the stars are alive or not.
Posted by maidenOP-
can confirm little to no sexual initiation (my experience was also cap w cap merc)
can also confirm into biting.
would also confidently venture that he might be into a little bit of kink and he might not know it yet. just throwin it out there.
based on the rest of your thread, if a cap is giving you his TIME that is like the grand-daddy of telltale signs a cap is into you.
especially if he is skipping WORK for you (and,based on your thread, MOST especially if he seems rushed and talking about marriage already and so)
my thoughts:
check out his venus... I think you listed his placements but after reading I forget what they are. But it sounds like his venus has completely taken over so read about that venus placement and also that sun sign in love cos it's essentially the same thing.
second thing he DOES sound into you but he also sounds ANXIOUS..and that would give me reason to pause..someone mentioned he may think you're out of his league...nothin wrong with that.. but could be something else and I'd just be inclined to wait and see..
finally t might be the pluto in me but I'd have to see this guy NOT in a good place and see the other side of his personality.. when he's defeated or super tired or sick or pissed off at something.. you know.. it's all real soon, his best foot i still forward..if he's talking about all this stuff already I need to see some dirt, something real, something raw. etc... and then assess.
but I'm the type to also create a situation like that so......take w a grain of salt 😄
i'm only his 2nd gf and he was supposed to marry last march but.... she cheated.
anyway, he spent the whole day with me today over at my place and we mostly took naps but we made out a lot and almost had sex but he kept stopping himself coz he says he didn't want me to remember our first time being here but somewhere else. it seems he has something planned but he's so sentimental lol like this guy planned kissing me on top of the ferris wheel (which actually was our first kiss). he's ridiculous tbh and hopelessly romantic.
Posted by maidenoh sidenote-- some cap placements really (some ubconsciously) prefer to skip the whole courting episode and go straight to living together. sex or no. when they know they know I guess and they're just kinda like, let's expedite this. it's practical.
if he has these inclintations, but in his past or upbringing there are all these "rules" involved (i.e. gotta be married before you live together, gotta have xyz before you're married, people in the 1800s were married at 21 and 22 and Im already 29 holllllyffff..) stuff like that... might be some of that goin on too
sometimes i feel like he wants to do things backwards with me.
he even lets me keep fractions of his money (and we haven't joined our accounts yet coz i moved the date of agreement to end of february) but he keeps telling me he'd rather have me hold money, manage our money since we're getting married anyway.
he's really rushing coz he feels old even though he's like 30 yrs old that he's always imagined himself married and all settled by now.
tbh i think he's crazy sometimes but he had our couple portrait made the other day (which he was overcharged for coz his enthusiasm made people think he's a tourist lol) and he just doesn't care coz he says it's best to have something to hand down to our future children.
i mean if i were a dude, it's almost like i have a crazy gf i should run from.
but i can't coz he's got this look in his eyes that makes me think the sun shines out of my azz plus he spoils the crap outta me.
can’t believe you actually took one for the team and are dating a Capricorn
Posted by virghostcan’t believe you actually took one for the team and are dating a Capricorn
I'M IN LOVE OKAY?!
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Posted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
IME it depends...lol.
-Some have been very forward with verbally telling you how they feel about you. Saying things that would make one blush but the say it very as-a-matter-of-factly. These types aren't very shy to start touching and getting physical either... and they throw lots of rules out the window, very daring.
-Then I’ve come across the type that is very touchy. A grab could make you melt... amazing energy in their hands/arms 😍. But, shy to express their desires towards you. Almost waiting on you to be much more obvious and/or be aggressive. Dreamy types. The two I dated were the same type of Caps and were also baseball players... huh, how funny🤔.
-The last I’ve encountered are very determined, professional and organized. They will take their sweet time to find the right moment to ask you out. Very proactive in asking out for dates, telling you how they feel about you and planning for the future. That part is very assertive... but they feel very nervous/awkward about the physical... even holding hands was a big deal. In these cases, I made all the physical first moves.
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he is always making plans for the future
but it's probably gonna take another week for us to get more intimate
he's so dreamy 😍😍
Posted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
IME it depends...lol.
-Some have been very forward with verbally telling you how they feel about you. Saying things that would make one blush but the say it very as-a-matter-of-factly. These types aren't very shy to start touching and getting physical either... and they throw lots of rules out the window, very daring.
-Then I’ve come across the type that is very touchy. A grab could make you melt... amazing energy in their hands/arms 😍. But, shy to express their desires towards you. Almost waiting on you to be much more obvious and/or be aggressive. Dreamy types. The two I dated were the same type of Caps and were also baseball players... huh, how funny🤔.
-The last I’ve encountered are very determined, professional and organized. They will take their sweet time to find the right moment to ask you out. Very proactive in asking out for dates, telling you how they feel about you and planning for the future. That part is very assertive... but they feel very nervous/awkward about the physical... even holding hands was a big deal. In these cases, I made all the physical first moves.
he is always making plans for the future
but it's probably gonna take another week for us to get more intimate
he's do dreamy 😍😍
Does he sound like my third type?
My third type was a VP and worked long hours... I wouldn’t hear from him during the week. Well, just on occasion and very random because he planned something...lol.
He was very social... knew a lot of people and was loved by many. I cared about him a lot and it was mostly because of what I would hear others say about him, he had a HUGE heart.
But DAAAAAAAMN.... he was SLOOOOOOWWWW getting physical 😑😰😤🥵.... I made all the moves. The only reason I kept making all the moves was because he liked it and didn’t push it away. Had he done so, I only would have initiated once... and then no more.
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he was with a pisces girl for 11 years but she cheated on him
i'm only his 2nd gf ever (and 2nd sexual experience) when we do have sex
he's really romantic though and spoils me
@MareInfame he was supposed to be married last march but.... yeah
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
IME it depends...lol.
-Some have been very forward with verbally telling you how they feel about you. Saying things that would make one blush but the say it very as-a-matter-of-factly. These types aren't very shy to start touching and getting physical either... and they throw lots of rules out the window, very daring.
-Then I’ve come across the type that is very touchy. A grab could make you melt... amazing energy in their hands/arms 😍. But, shy to express their desires towards you. Almost waiting on you to be much more obvious and/or be aggressive. Dreamy types. The two I dated were the same type of Caps and were also baseball players... huh, how funny🤔.
-The last I’ve encountered are very determined, professional and organized. They will take their sweet time to find the right moment to ask you out. Very proactive in asking out for dates, telling you how they feel about you and planning for the future. That part is very assertive... but they feel very nervous/awkward about the physical... even holding hands was a big deal. In these cases, I made all the physical first moves.
he is always making plans for the future
but it's probably gonna take another week for us to get more intimate
he's do dreamy 😍😍
Does he sound like my third type?
My third type was a VP and worked long hours... I wouldn’t hear from him during the week. Well, just on occasion and very random because he planned something...lol.
He was very social... knew a lot of people and was loved by many. I cared about him a lot and it was mostly because of what I would hear others say about him, he had a HUGE heart.
But DAAAAAAAMN.... he was SLOOOOOOWWWW getting physical 😑😰😤🥵.... I made all the moves. The only reason I kept making all the moves was because he liked it and didn’t push it away. Had he done so, I only would have initiated once... and then no more.
he was with a pisces girl for 11 years but she cheated on him
i'm only his 2nd gf ever (and 2nd sexual experience) when we do have sex
he's really romantic though and spoils me
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Don’t show kittens this. He needs to believe in his Pisces princess 😂
Ever had the thought that his ex cheated on him cause he has a small peen and no dick game? Try the merchandise before you buy.
Posted by LadyNeptuneEver had the thought that his ex cheated on him cause he has a small peen and no dick game? Try the merchandise before you buy.
from what i could gather of what he's told me, he's always crazy busy at work and there are times when he'd even go outside the country coz of his family business. even now he tells me that he might have to go outside the country again soon to run some errands. and lately i can feel he's been immersing himself at work again. he's spoiled me so much the first 3 weeks but now he's back to being his busy self again. he admitted that he might've let her feel neglected. and whenever he's working and stressed out, i do feel the distance.
but when he does have time for me, he's just amazing and he's got these eyes.... and this sounds crazy but if he does go out the country, i'd totally follow him. we've talked about it and it's not like we can't go back and forth from time to time. though if i'm being realistic, moving away would be isolating for both of us. we'll have nothing but each other when we do. and he tells me these things so matter-of-factly.
i'm starting to think.... he is my saturn return L O L.
though i don't understand why she was needlessly cruel to him
(gotta look at her past to secure my future lol)
not only did she break up with him over technology but she told him straight up that she had sex with some other guy, that they were living together all the last months he thought they were still together (he's always too tired to keep up communication with her) and i don't want that to happen to us like i'm so scared that it will happen so i can't not follow him
he got so depressed that he thought about killing himself august
so now i'm thinking what he could've done to deserve it.... maybe the neglect was too much for her?
but even now he believes the guy must've 'brainwashed her'
Posted by smolPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
IME it depends...lol.
-Some have been very forward with verbally telling you how they feel about you. Saying things that would make one blush but the say it very as-a-matter-of-factly. These types aren't very shy to start touching and getting physical either... and they throw lots of rules out the window, very daring.
-Then I’ve come across the type that is very touchy. A grab could make you melt... amazing energy in their hands/arms 😍. But, shy to express their desires towards you. Almost waiting on you to be much more obvious and/or be aggressive. Dreamy types. The two I dated were the same type of Caps and were also baseball players... huh, how funny🤔.
-The last I’ve encountered are very determined, professional and organized. They will take their sweet time to find the right moment to ask you out. Very proactive in asking out for dates, telling you how they feel about you and planning for the future. That part is very assertive... but they feel very nervous/awkward about the physical... even holding hands was a big deal. In these cases, I made all the physical first moves.
he is always making plans for the future
but it's probably gonna take another week for us to get more intimate
he's do dreamy 😍😍
Does he sound like my third type?
My third type was a VP and worked long hours... I wouldn’t hear from him during the week. Well, just on occasion and very random because he planned something...lol.
He was very social... knew a lot of people and was loved by many. I cared about him a lot and it was mostly because of what I would hear others say about him, he had a HUGE heart.
But DAAAAAAAMN.... he was SLOOOOOOWWWW getting physical 😑😰😤🥵.... I made all the moves. The only reason I kept making all the moves was because he liked it and didn’t push it away. Had he done so, I only would have initiated once... and then no more.
he was with a pisces girl for 11 years but she cheated on him
i'm only his 2nd gf ever (and 2nd sexual experience) when we do have sex
he's really romantic though and spoils me
Don’t show kittens this. He needs to believe in his Pisces princess 😂
she is one of those cheater-Scorpio woman who pretending to be a Pisces.Thats the only explanation. https://i.imgur.com/staRnia.jpg
/DEAD
but they were supposed to marry march (coz her birth month!)
Posted by LadyNeptuneEver had the thought that his ex cheated on him cause he has a small peen and no dick game? Try the merchandise before you buy.
She never answered your question speaks volumes. Lol oh so funny
Posted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
We seem conservatives, you need to ignited us...but once the gate has opened 😉 Because seriously if i am even bothering with you in the first place(because i need no one to be happy) and i am inviting you over for dinner...That enough there.(After having getting to know you first obviously ).
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by smolPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MareInfamePosted by virgoOPPPinitiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?
IME it depends...lol.
-Some have been very forward with verbally telling you how they feel about you. Saying things that would make one blush but the say it very as-a-matter-of-factly. These types aren't very shy to start touching and getting physical either... and they throw lots of rules out the window, very daring.
-Then I’ve come across the type that is very touchy. A grab could make you melt... amazing energy in their hands/arms 😍. But, shy to express their desires towards you. Almost waiting on you to be much more obvious and/or be aggressive. Dreamy types. The two I dated were the same type of Caps and were also baseball players... huh, how funny🤔.
-The last I’ve encountered are very determined, professional and organized. They will take their sweet time to find the right moment to ask you out. Very proactive in asking out for dates, telling you how they feel about you and planning for the future. That part is very assertive... but they feel very nervous/awkward about the physical... even holding hands was a big deal. In these cases, I made all the physical first moves.
he is always making plans for the future
but it's probably gonna take another week for us to get more intimate
he's do dreamy 😍😍
Does he sound like my third type?
My third type was a VP and worked long hours... I wouldn’t hear from him during the week. Well, just on occasion and very random because he planned something...lol.
He was very social... knew a lot of people and was loved by many. I cared about him a lot and it was mostly because of what I would hear others say about him, he had a HUGE heart.
But DAAAAAAAMN.... he was SLOOOOOOWWWW getting physical 😑😰😤🥵.... I made all the moves. The only reason I kept making all the moves was because he liked it and didn’t push it away. Had he done so, I only would have initiated once... and then no more.
he was with a pisces girl for 11 years but she cheated on him
i'm only his 2nd gf ever (and 2nd sexual experience) when we do have sex
he's really romantic though and spoils me
Don’t show kittens this. He needs to believe in his Pisces princess 😂
she is one of those cheater-Scorpio woman who pretending to be a Pisces.Thats the only explanation.
/DEAD
but they were supposed to marry march (coz her birth month!)
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She had to break it off before he found out her real DOB and got mad 😄
The lover was just an invention. Who on their right mind cheats on a Cap 🥱 ??
Posted by Nightcap-Sounds rushed. How are you talking marriage, joint accounts, and joint businesses and you haven't even hooked up yet? 'Everything perfect' is boring (not seeing the forest for the trees) and unrealistic. I'd slow the train and see how that plays. If those things he professess are true, then a little time won't make a great difference and will ensure some clarity.
Thank god. Someone with some fucking realistic reasoning
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initiate physically/sexually or do they prefer that you're more proactive?
do they just seem extremely conservative?