I miss you (Page 2)

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Posted by LadyNeptune

No its not you.

Someone who claims to 'miss you' and then doesn't follow up by taking steps to meet up isn't genuine.

Next time tho, instead of responding to his 'miss you' with your own 'miss you', volley that ball back into his court. Example... "I miss you as well. I'm free next on (insert day) lets link up".

This way its on him to follow through and solidify the plan.

Thank you for your reply. I have read through all 300+ pages on Capricorn forum and hoping you will comment. Yay! I dunno why I’m so happy but I am 🥰

As per the Capricorn, I still can’t stop blaming myself, I finally managed to have 6 hours sleep tonight and still woke up at wee hours crying. One side of me telling me to reach out and see, but the other side said the action speaks for itself already. Since now I’m blaming myself, the anger and sadness towards him had disappeared, I wanted to apologise but this will only making myself a doormat and he MIGHT walk away with my dignity...

Is it true that men will lost interest if a woman doesn’t initiate as she did before?

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You have nothing to apologize for.

Just take this an a lesson not to get super emotionally involved in the beginning.

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Posted by holy_moo

Posted by LadyNeptune

No its not you.

Someone who claims to 'miss you' and then doesn't follow up by taking steps to meet up isn't genuine.

Next time tho, instead of responding to his 'miss you' with your own 'miss you', volley that ball back into his court. Example... "I miss you as well. I'm free next on (insert day) lets link up".

This way its on him to follow through and solidify the plan.

Thank you for your reply. I have read through all 300+ pages on Capricorn forum and hoping you will comment. Yay! I dunno why I’m so happy but I am 🥰

As per the Capricorn, I still can’t stop blaming myself, I finally managed to have 6 hours sleep tonight and still woke up at wee hours crying. One side of me telling me to reach out and see, but the other side said the action speaks for itself already. Since now I’m blaming myself, the anger and sadness towards him had disappeared, I wanted to apologise but this will only making myself a doormat and he MIGHT walk away with my dignity...

Is it true that men will lost interest if a woman doesn’t initiate as she did before?

You have nothing to apologize for.

Just take this an a lesson not to get super emotionally involved in the beginning.

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Lesson learnt for sure and I’m watching movies on Netflix now enjoying my quiet night in 😊 try to do things I enjoy again and forget about all these in order to move on ❤️

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Posted by Jalent99

Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

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Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

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Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

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If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

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For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

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Caps are a bit different, we will love ppl who are into us.....but if we r not into u, u can tell, we r cold and curt......

Ok soo for taurus, if u think its done u will come out to say it?

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Posted by Jalent99

Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

Caps are a bit different, we will love ppl who are into us.....but if we r not into u, u can tell, we r cold and curt......

Ok soo for taurus, if u think its done u will come out to say it?

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I would, I have told people in the past please don’t get in touch and tell them why I feel this way. Usually it’ll be a fight as they won’t accept it but eventually they will back down and agree. Soon they will return and try in on thats when I completely ignore leaving messages unread. I’m sorry I rather be brutally honest but that just me. One of my ex that toxic bull he won’t even talk, he went dead, dead cold, dead dead 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

Caps are a bit different, we will love ppl who are into us.....but if we r not into u, u can tell, we r cold and curt......

Ok soo for taurus, if u think its done u will come out to say it?

I would, I have told people in the past please don’t get in touch and tell them why I feel this way. Usually it’ll be a fight as they won’t accept it but eventually they will back down and agree. Soon they will return and try in on thats when I completely ignore leaving messages unread. I’m sorry I rather be brutally honest but that just me. One of my ex that toxic bull he won’t even talk, he went dead, dead cold, dead dead 🤦🏻‍♀️

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I see, and when things are going fine and u suddenly ignore them.....?

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

Caps are a bit different, we will love ppl who are into us.....but if we r not into u, u can tell, we r cold and curt......

Ok soo for taurus, if u think its done u will come out to say it?

I would, I have told people in the past please don’t get in touch and tell them why I feel this way. Usually it’ll be a fight as they won’t accept it but eventually they will back down and agree. Soon they will return and try in on thats when I completely ignore leaving messages unread. I’m sorry I rather be brutally honest but that just me. One of my ex that toxic bull he won’t even talk, he went dead, dead cold, dead dead 🤦🏻‍♀️

I see, and when things are going fine and u suddenly ignore them.....?

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For me (just purely my own point of view), I’m extremely sensitive...even when things are well if I sense a slightest change, I get really guarded up. I will turn stone cold and start observing and at times I will tell the other person what’s bothering me. If he/she starting getting crazy, I will shut down hot headed i know but I calmed down fairly quickly. Until then I won’t approach until they reach out first. My pride got the best of me 🤦🏻‍♀️ I would say leave him to it for now 🙏🏻

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Lol i wouldnt know how to response to u too!!!

Tell him abt ur week and weekend!!!

You mean from his point of view he won’t know how to respond to my reply? I didn’t tell him my week and he didn’t reply to my second text either so that’s my answer I reckon 😅

Yup, give him a little more details for him to continue the conversation

Sorry been extremely down not just because of him but life just got me down so much lately 😢 I did and no reply at all 🤷🏻‍♀️ ah well just need a good cry to let all the rubbish feeling out then I should be fine ❤️❤️ How about yourself @Jalent99?

If i your text is say a comment/statement and i feel that it might not require a reply, i might just not reply....

Well i havent heard frm my taurus since end march.....i m not too hopeful, i sent a msg back then that was asking hows his week and about something i felt regarding a matter.....anyway, i read that taurus if they leave u on read, thats done?

And taurus would likely have made up his mind abt the matter before deciding to not reply......

Its totally weird cause the day before he stopped replying, he sounded quite sweet and caring. Oh well, maybe u can give me some insights.....

For me, I wouldn’t reply if I still need to gather my thoughts. Personally If I have to do something, I either do it properly or even perfect if possible or simply won’t do it. It’s not in between. The ball is on his court now, don’t get in touch anymore. As a bull, one of my ex was bull as well, he will take that for granted as he thinks you’ll stick around for them. I won’t take side even I’m a bull, but don’t let him enjoy that part for sure.

My problem is I don’t wanna initiate as the coldness would make me even more depressed, so I am keeping myself as busy as possible in order to move on xx

Caps are a bit different, we will love ppl who are into us.....but if we r not into u, u can tell, we r cold and curt......

Ok soo for taurus, if u think its done u will come out to say it?

I would, I have told people in the past please don’t get in touch and tell them why I feel this way. Usually it’ll be a fight as they won’t accept it but eventually they will back down and agree. Soon they will return and try in on thats when I completely ignore leaving messages unread. I’m sorry I rather be brutally honest but that just me. One of my ex that toxic bull he won’t even talk, he went dead, dead cold, dead dead 🤦🏻‍♀️

I see, and when things are going fine and u suddenly ignore them.....?

For me (just purely my own point of view), I’m extremely sensitive...even when things are well if I sense a slightest change, I get really guarded up. I will turn stone cold and start observing and at times I will tell the other person what’s bothering me. If he/she starting getting crazy, I will shut down hot headed i know but I calmed down fairly quickly. Until then I won’t approach until they reach out first. My pride got the best of me 🤦🏻‍♀️ I would say leave him to it for now 🙏🏻

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I am able to do that.....just wait 😉 i reached out after his last msgs end mar to say i do care and am leaving it as that. At least i know i did what i can, i like having no regrets in whatever i do.....

Good girl! Yeh I learnt one thing now is called self respect when it comes to love, you tried once, twice and third time is to walk away. I reached out he replied with a bunch of ‘😘‘ and telling me it’s tiring day and hope I’m doing better. (Awhile ago I told him I’m not myself recently and lack of communications, he said it’s okay no worries) and I replied but nothing since again hahaha May be just see it as friendship for now and see how things go when we meet (if that day ever comes). Stay strong lovely, I’m only a message away sorry I was a lil stressed because of my new manager and didn’t wanna reply while I was fuming with other things 😓 sorry about my late reply reply 🙏🏻

Thats really sweet, his reply.......

Well i know that.....i mean in the forum i think i sound like a headless chicken, but in real life i m quite calm and collected.....its nice to have someone to talk to....or i will drive myself crazy 😂

Hope ur new manager treats u better next week 😉

You got this girl you’ll be fine I know you will 🙂 and guess what? My new manager is also Capricorn lol one day apart from this cap man’s birthday lol oh the joy may be I can get used to her and practise the way of communication with her so I can get things better with this cap man lol

Ohhhh haha i used to be a terrible manager, i got better through the years and yes communication is just not the easiest for me.

Hopefully your new manager is much better than I am at it. I think u will get along though, we (taurus & cap) have similar work ethics.....

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Ohhhh haha i used to be a terrible manager, i got better through the years and yes communication is just not the easiest for me.

Hopefully your new manager is much better than I am at it. I think u will get along though, we (taurus & cap) have similar work ethics.....

I totally agree with you on work ethic, the main problem I encountered is that we had communication difficulties lol I must say I’m a retard when it comes to express myself, I’m a practical person so words are extremely hard for me. I ended up dragging it and going round in circles while my manager or Capricorn in general(?) they are straight to the point short answer too...my manager makes me nervous even when we only talk about no work related topics! No wonder I can’t be myself with that Cappy man I’m dealing with cuz I’m nervous and worrying I might say something stupid to make him run away/turn off! 😂😂😂

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Ohhhh haha i used to be a terrible manager, i got better through the years and yes communication is just not the easiest for me.

Hopefully your new manager is much better than I am at it. I think u will get along though, we (taurus & cap) have similar work ethics.....

I totally agree with you on work ethic, the main problem I encountered is that we had communication difficulties lol I must say I’m a retard when it comes to express myself, I’m a practical person so words are extremely hard for me. I ended up dragging it and going round in circles while my manager or Capricorn in general(?) they are straight to the point short answer too...my manager makes me nervous even when we only talk about no work related topics! No wonder I can’t be myself with that Cappy man I’m dealing with cuz I’m nervous and worrying I might say something stupid to make him run away/turn off! 😂😂😂

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I am actually doing the mark mason course on anxiety.....i think its what gets to me when communicating......i need to be better to attract the right ppl 😝

Amazing! Good on you girl! Last couple of days I couldn’t stop overthinking and I’m killing myself with my own thoughts....not good

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Amazing! Good on you girl! Last couple of days I couldn’t stop overthinking and I’m killing myself with my own thoughts....not good

Its never easy 😉 i have to talk myself out of overthinking.....and as time passes i stop thinking that much.....

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Amazing! Good on you girl! Last couple of days I couldn’t stop overthinking and I’m killing myself with my own thoughts....not good

Its never easy 😉 i have to talk myself out of overthinking.....and as time passes i stop thinking that much.....

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I’ll give it time and there’s one thing I still can’t do please shed some lights if you don’t mind?

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Amazing! Good on you girl! Last couple of days I couldn’t stop overthinking and I’m killing myself with my own thoughts....not good

Its never easy 😉 i have to talk myself out of overthinking.....and as time passes i stop thinking that much.....

I’ll give it time and there’s one thing I still can’t do please shed some lights if you don’t mind?

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Sure!

I wonder if I can send you DM? Xx

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I wonder if I can send you DM? Xx

I am not sure how to do that, happy to reply u via dm

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I wonder if I can send you DM? Xx

I am not sure how to do that, happy to reply u via dm

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Done 🙂 thank you so much xx