queeneemy
@queeneemy
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Should I be worried about him not texting?
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How long is he silent? 2 days?
Still too long to read.
Posted by BathHouseCulture
Sounds like @dazed would know what to do
He’s also deluded about relationships and has creepy stalking tendencies with those he loves.
Hmmm...I’ve missed ‘Dazed loving somebody’ day!
Was it recently? Was his love name mentioned?
Was it ‘hydorah’? 🤔
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Still too long to read.
Like if you have better things to do!
Be hahahahaha...😂😂😂...
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
Posted by BathHouseCulture
Sounds like @dazed would know what to do
He’s also deluded about relationships and has creepy stalking tendencies with those he loves.
Haha thanks 😊
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Still too long to read.
Sorry, I really made it the shortest possible but there are a few details that I really had to include 😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by Gemitati
How long is he silent? 2 days?
Exactly a week 😅click to expand
He must be in pain and knocked off by drugs.
Are you sure they know how to work on teeth where he is?
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Posted by queeneemyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Still too long to read.
Sorry, I really made it the shortest possible but there are a few details that I really had to include 😅click to expand
Never mind it. People here are pretending they don’t have time to read so others think they have better things to do...it’s a game.
Posted by HearttofTopazz
“He told me he only wanted to be friends but we were basically acting like a couple (except for the sex part).”
Gem men blow your phone up. He’ll probably find another chick once his teeth are fixed. He doesn’t sound like he’s over his ex either.
Believe me when I say that he has zero Gemini traits. I've dated 3 geminis and my best guy friend is a Gemini. I would know how to deal with him if he had any Gemini in him 😅
I don't think he'll find someone else because he's coming back here for work. It's already settled. He's really just there to fix his teeth, so I don't think he would find someone there only to leave a couple of weeks later.
Also, about his ex, I don't think he would go back to her even if he still has feelings for her. Her mother is trying to get money from him because police is after her to pay some sort of fine for beating someone up. Also, the girl cheated on him... so... 😅
Posted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅
Posted by GemitatiPosted by queeneemyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Still too long to read.
Sorry, I really made it the shortest possible but there are a few details that I really had to include 😅
Never mind it. People here are pretending they don’t have time to read so others think they have better things to do...it’s a game.click to expand
I never once say I don't have time to read long posts. My attention span is just short. I can have all the the in the world and still refuse to read long posts.
And since you talking about me claiming I dont have time. What's your excuse for trolling?
Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅click to expand
Its about you, dang it!! 😂😂
Put your Virgo ego aside and just text him. Tell him that you've been thinking about him, that you miss him and that you hope the treatments to his mouth arent too rough on him and let him know that you are there for him. Sometimes a guy needs to hear these things too. He's obviously missing you. I know Virgo's can he stubborn about texting first ect but in this case, set aside your ego and just text him. This is the time to be semi clingy. He's going thru a rough spot and he needs to know that you'll be there for him. The lovely stuff comes from his Taurus venus but Taurus, like Caps and Virgo are the type to wait it out with texting, to see if the other cares enough... this isnt that time to wait it out Miss Virgo 😉 Libra's however, are lowkey romantics but they have a funny way of going about it, its almost like playing Charades...
Just text him ...!
Posted by HearttofTopazzPosted by queeneemyPosted by HearttofTopazz
“He told me he only wanted to be friends but we were basically acting like a couple (except for the sex part).”
Gem men blow your phone up. He’ll probably find another chick once his teeth are fixed. He doesn’t sound like he’s over his ex either.
Believe me when I say that he has zero Gemini traits. I've dated 3 geminis and my best guy friend is a Gemini. I would know how to deal with him if he had any Gemini in him 😅
I don't think he'll find someone else because he's coming back here for work. It's already settled. He's really just there to fix his teeth, so I don't think he would find someone there only to leave a couple of weeks later.
Also, about his ex, I don't think he would go back to her even if he still has feelings for her. Her mother is trying to get money from him because police is after her to pay some sort of fine for beating someone up. Also, the girl cheated on him... so... 😅
What about the part where he said he just wanted to be friends?click to expand
Trust me, we were everything but friends 😅 I mean, do you cuddle your friends while watching TV? Do you take naps with your friends while cuddling? Do you tell your friends they drive you crazy? Do you tell your friends "I might steal a kiss from you one day"? I talked to him about a family problem that I am about to have and that I would have to go to our home country to solve it and he said "Just tell me when you go, I'll pick you up at the airport, we'll go there, talk to your sister and sort it out. And you can stay in my place". He lives with his parents. Now, my entire family lives there, I don't really need to stay in his place, do I? And why would he want to get involved in my family stuff? Also, if we're just friends, why hide it from our common friends? We had a lot of misunderstandings because of our common friends in the beginning that's why we started to pretend we didn't know each other in front of them. If we were just friends, it wouldn't matter, right? I think he wanted to take the time to get to know me without everyone interfering in our relationship. Also, he's a mechanic and he loves it. And he told me once "You wanna learn mechanics? I've always said my girlfriend would have to learn mechanics". He also once said these exact same words "I swear to you, I never thought I would come here and find someone". So, my guess is he wanted us to stay friends until he comes back. That would give us time to get to know each other more, build something solid between us and not get into a LDR, because, clearly, his last LDR failed 😅
no, you shouldn't be worried, i could go more time without texting, if there's nothing interesting to report, and considering he can't do shit while on treatment, he's stuck posting memes.
I would worry about him telling you the "only friends" thing, you seem to care way more than that, Idk much about aquas moons but my mind goes to fixed feelings, and I think, he doesn't feel like you're the partner to match for the long run, he might have told you to become a couple otherwise.
although Idk about that first try to date, you say it was external factors thay ruined it, can't say for sure.
I would worry about him telling you the "only friends" thing, you seem to care way more than that, Idk much about aquas moons but my mind goes to fixed feelings, and I think, he doesn't feel like you're the partner to match for the long run, he might have told you to become a couple otherwise.
although Idk about that first try to date, you say it was external factors thay ruined it, can't say for sure.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by queeneemyPosted by Gemitati
How long is he silent? 2 days?
Exactly a week 😅
He must be in pain and knocked off by drugs.
Are you sure they know how to work on teeth where he is?click to expand
I know he must be in pain but still... 😅 I think it should be alright for the dentist. There are good doctors and bad ones but the one he goes to is pretty busy, so I think she's good 😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by HearttofTopazzPosted by queeneemyPosted by HearttofTopazz
“He told me he only wanted to be friends but we were basically acting like a couple (except for the sex part).”
Gem men blow your phone up. He’ll probably find another chick once his teeth are fixed. He doesn’t sound like he’s over his ex either.
Believe me when I say that he has zero Gemini traits. I've dated 3 geminis and my best guy friend is a Gemini. I would know how to deal with him if he had any Gemini in him 😅
I don't think he'll find someone else because he's coming back here for work. It's already settled. He's really just there to fix his teeth, so I don't think he would find someone there only to leave a couple of weeks later.
Also, about his ex, I don't think he would go back to her even if he still has feelings for her. Her mother is trying to get money from him because police is after her to pay some sort of fine for beating someone up. Also, the girl cheated on him... so... 😅
What about the part where he said he just wanted to be friends?
Trust me, we were everything but friends 😅 I mean, do you cuddle your friends while watching TV? Do you take naps with your friends while cuddling? Do you tell your friends they drive you crazy? Do you tell your friends "I might steal a kiss from you one day"? I talked to him about a family problem that I am about to have and that I would have to go to our home country to solve it and he said "Just tell me when you go, I'll pick you up at the airport, we'll go there, talk to your sister and sort it out. And you can stay in my place". He lives with his parents. Now, my entire family lives there, I don't really need to stay in his place, do I? And why would he want to get involved in my family stuff? Also, if we're just friends, why hide it from our common friends? We had a lot of misunderstandings because of our common friends in the beginning that's why we started to pretend we didn't know each other in front of them. If we were just friends, it wouldn't matter, right? I think he wanted to take the time to get to know me without everyone interfering in our relationship. Also, he's a mechanic and he loves it. And he told me once "You wanna learn mechanics? I've always said my girlfriend would have to learn mechanics". He also once said these exact same words "I swear to you, I never thought I would come here and find someone". So, my guess is he wanted us to stay friends until he comes back. That would give us time to get to know each other more, build something solid between us and not get into a LDR, because, clearly, his last LDR failed 😅click to expand
@Endless here I explain the friends part 😅
Also, the external factors, our friends started saying things to me that were very exaggerated versions of the truth and did the same to him. Everyone was getting their noses up in our business. And it caused misunderstandings between us, that we later cleared up and decided to hide from them that we were talking again. He even said to me "Our life is not their business". And yes, he said "our life" 😅
Posted by saggurl88
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Trust me, we're not friends 😅 I'm willing to wait for him to text. The only thing I'm worried about is that, like I said, he has very little Gemini traits. He so much more like a cap or taurus. Really. Trust me, I know geminis way too well. 😅 And I've read that capricorns like to test people's loyalty. I can't help thinking this is what he's trying to do. He knows I like him. He already knew before he started acting like my boyfriend (and that was after he told me the friend thing). Maybe he's trying to see if I will move on or wait for him?
Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅
Its about you, dang it!! 😂😂
Put your Virgo ego aside and just text him. Tell him that you've been thinking about him, that you miss him and that you hope the treatments to his mouth arent too rough on him and let him know that you are there for him. Sometimes a guy needs to hear these things too. He's obviously missing you. I know Virgo's can he stubborn about texting first ect but in this case, set aside your ego and just text him. This is the time to be semi clingy. He's going thru a rough spot and he needs to know that you'll be there for him. The lovely stuff comes from his Taurus venus but Taurus, like Caps and Virgo are the type to wait it out with texting, to see if the other cares enough... this isnt that time to wait it out Miss Virgo 😉 Libra's however, are lowkey romantics but they have a funny way of going about it, its almost like playing Charades...
Just text him ...!click to expand
Well, I do know he puts this tough and strong mask on but he's a little kid at heart and loves affection. I know that by the way he held me when we cuddled 😍 And I did put my ego aside a couple of times tho. There was this time that we kind of "fought" a month after we started talking because of something he said. I told him to delete my number and I actually deleted his number. Then I realised he wanted some kind of reaction from me 'cause I noticed a couple of times that he was trying to make me jealous and "confirm" my feelings for him but I kept my cool so he went for something stronger. So, I put my ego aside and texted him first through fb after that. And he then said it was a joke 😅 So he was really just looking for a reaction. After he left, I texted him first a couple of times too. I told him he could call me if he wanted and he called a couple of times but then started saying he would call but didn't call.
I know caps need time for themselves and he's told me that too. He also said he doesn't like to text and talk to people on the phone but there were a few exceptions and I was one of then and could call him whenever I wanted. But him being so cold makes me wonder if he just wants to be left alone for a while. I also know caps like to test people's loyalty so I don't know if he just wants to be alone or if, like you said, he's trying to see if I really care or if I just move on if he starts acting like this.
But I miss him like crazy so, I know I will end up texting him eventually. I just don't want to cause any damage by coming off as too clingy or pushy 😢
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Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Trust me, we're not friends 😅 I'm willing to wait for him to text. The only thing I'm worried about is that, like I said, he has very little Gemini traits. He so much more like a cap or taurus. Really. Trust me, I know geminis way too well. 😅 And I've read that capricorns like to test people's loyalty. I can't help thinking this is what he's trying to do. He knows I like him. He already knew before he started acting like my boyfriend (and that was after he told me the friend thing). Maybe he's trying to see if I will move on or wait for him?click to expand
Are you a Gemini as well? It seems like it.
Just wait it out then. Nothing left to do at this point. It’s been a week, which is nothing, really.
You sure you didn’t get him upset about anything, right? Seems odd he would act like a boyfriend then switch up and do the friend thing.
I just want to point out that yes, men have no problem cuddling, kissing, or fuc king their friends.
Women use the friend zone to deny men sex.
Men use the friend zone to deny women relationships.
Women use the friend zone to deny men sex.
Men use the friend zone to deny women relationships.
Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅
Its about you, dang it!! 😂😂
Put your Virgo ego aside and just text him. Tell him that you've been thinking about him, that you miss him and that you hope the treatments to his mouth arent too rough on him and let him know that you are there for him. Sometimes a guy needs to hear these things too. He's obviously missing you. I know Virgo's can he stubborn about texting first ect but in this case, set aside your ego and just text him. This is the time to be semi clingy. He's going thru a rough spot and he needs to know that you'll be there for him. The lovely stuff comes from his Taurus venus but Taurus, like Caps and Virgo are the type to wait it out with texting, to see if the other cares enough... this isnt that time to wait it out Miss Virgo 😉 Libra's however, are lowkey romantics but they have a funny way of going about it, its almost like playing Charades...
Just text him ...!
Well, I do know he puts this tough and strong mask on but he's a little kid at heart and loves affection. I know that by the way he held me when we cuddled 😍 And I did put my ego aside a couple of times tho. There was this time that we kind of "fought" a month after we started talking because of something he said. I told him to delete my number and I actually deleted his number. Then I realised he wanted some kind of reaction from me 'cause I noticed a couple of times that he was trying to make me jealous and "confirm" my feelings for him but I kept my cool so he went for something stronger. So, I put my ego aside and texted him first through fb after that. And he then said it was a joke 😅 So he was really just looking for a reaction. After he left, I texted him first a couple of times too. I told him he could call me if he wanted and he called a couple of times but then started saying he would call but didn't call.
I know caps need time for themselves and he's told me that too. He also said he doesn't like to text and talk to people on the phone but there were a few exceptions and I was one of then and could call him whenever I wanted. But him being so cold makes me wonder if he just wants to be left alone for a while. I also know caps like to test people's loyalty so I don't know if he just wants to be alone or if, like you said, he's trying to see if I really care or if I just move on if he starts acting like this.
But I miss him like crazy so, I know I will end up texting him eventually. I just don't want to cause any damage by coming off as too clingy or pushy 😢click to expand
He's going thru a rough spot with his dental work. It can really put people under the weather.
I totally get what you are saying as appearing clingy but it wont he the case now. Its you showing that you care and missing him.
Text something light like... "hey you! I miss you and I've been thinking about you. I hope you are doing ok? Call me, would love to hear your voice 😉 ..."
Men often dont realise that we women go crazy when we dont hear from them and they'll be oblivious to the whole situation 🙈
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Trust me, we're not friends 😅 I'm willing to wait for him to text. The only thing I'm worried about is that, like I said, he has very little Gemini traits. He so much more like a cap or taurus. Really. Trust me, I know geminis way too well. 😅 And I've read that capricorns like to test people's loyalty. I can't help thinking this is what he's trying to do. He knows I like him. He already knew before he started acting like my boyfriend (and that was after he told me the friend thing). Maybe he's trying to see if I will move on or wait for him?
Are you a Gemini as well? It seems like it.
Just wait it out then. Nothing left to do at this point. It’s been a week, which is nothing, really.
You sure you didn’t get him upset about anything, right? Seems odd he would act like a boyfriend then switch up and do the friend thing.click to expand
I'm a virgo 😅 I listed my placements at the end of the thread 😅
I don't know if I upset him. He did get a little bit jealous of something I sent him the other day but we already talked after that so I figured everything was alright.
And the last time he texted I was already asleep and the next day it took me a while to reply because I was at work. Do you think that might be it?
Posted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅
Its about you, dang it!! 😂😂
Put your Virgo ego aside and just text him. Tell him that you've been thinking about him, that you miss him and that you hope the treatments to his mouth arent too rough on him and let him know that you are there for him. Sometimes a guy needs to hear these things too. He's obviously missing you. I know Virgo's can he stubborn about texting first ect but in this case, set aside your ego and just text him. This is the time to be semi clingy. He's going thru a rough spot and he needs to know that you'll be there for him. The lovely stuff comes from his Taurus venus but Taurus, like Caps and Virgo are the type to wait it out with texting, to see if the other cares enough... this isnt that time to wait it out Miss Virgo 😉 Libra's however, are lowkey romantics but they have a funny way of going about it, its almost like playing Charades...
Just text him ...!
Well, I do know he puts this tough and strong mask on but he's a little kid at heart and loves affection. I know that by the way he held me when we cuddled 😍 And I did put my ego aside a couple of times tho. There was this time that we kind of "fought" a month after we started talking because of something he said. I told him to delete my number and I actually deleted his number. Then I realised he wanted some kind of reaction from me 'cause I noticed a couple of times that he was trying to make me jealous and "confirm" my feelings for him but I kept my cool so he went for something stronger. So, I put my ego aside and texted him first through fb after that. And he then said it was a joke 😅 So he was really just looking for a reaction. After he left, I texted him first a couple of times too. I told him he could call me if he wanted and he called a couple of times but then started saying he would call but didn't call.
I know caps need time for themselves and he's told me that too. He also said he doesn't like to text and talk to people on the phone but there were a few exceptions and I was one of then and could call him whenever I wanted. But him being so cold makes me wonder if he just wants to be left alone for a while. I also know caps like to test people's loyalty so I don't know if he just wants to be alone or if, like you said, he's trying to see if I really care or if I just move on if he starts acting like this.
But I miss him like crazy so, I know I will end up texting him eventually. I just don't want to cause any damage by coming off as too clingy or pushy 😢
He's going thru a rough spot with his dental work. It can really put people under the weather.
I totally get what you are saying as appearing clingy but it wont he the case now. Its you showing that you care and missing him.
Text something light like... "hey you! I miss you and I've been thinking about you. I hope you are doing ok? Call me, would love to hear your voice 😉 ..."
Men often dont realise that we women go crazy when we dont hear from them and they'll be oblivious to the whole situation 🙈click to expand
Okay, you convinced me 😅 I'm going to text him tonight when I get off from work 😅 Thank you 🙏🏻
Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76Posted by queeneemyPosted by PiscesGal76
Ohhhh just text him already! Ask him how he is holding up during his treatments and such. He's probably feeling a tad under the weather with his mouth works and doesnt want to appear weak and clingy towards you. Text him, to let him know you are there for him and thinking of him. Obviously those posts are about you and for you.
I'm dying to text him, really. But the thing is that before I went silent, he was texting me first and then when I texted back he would leave me on read for hours and eventually stop texting. He even did as much as texting me 'hi', I texted back with 'hi' and that was it 😅 Also, he usually texts in the evening so he can't be THAT busy in the evening, right?
At first I thought those songs were about his ex but then I realised they were probably about me 😅 Well, he's really missing someone... not sure who that is tho. But his ex is in our home country, he can just go and see her but the songs he's been posting are about wanting to see someone but not being able to and wanting to call someone and stuff like that 😅
Its about you, dang it!! 😂😂
Put your Virgo ego aside and just text him. Tell him that you've been thinking about him, that you miss him and that you hope the treatments to his mouth arent too rough on him and let him know that you are there for him. Sometimes a guy needs to hear these things too. He's obviously missing you. I know Virgo's can he stubborn about texting first ect but in this case, set aside your ego and just text him. This is the time to be semi clingy. He's going thru a rough spot and he needs to know that you'll be there for him. The lovely stuff comes from his Taurus venus but Taurus, like Caps and Virgo are the type to wait it out with texting, to see if the other cares enough... this isnt that time to wait it out Miss Virgo 😉 Libra's however, are lowkey romantics but they have a funny way of going about it, its almost like playing Charades...
Just text him ...!
Well, I do know he puts this tough and strong mask on but he's a little kid at heart and loves affection. I know that by the way he held me when we cuddled 😍 And I did put my ego aside a couple of times tho. There was this time that we kind of "fought" a month after we started talking because of something he said. I told him to delete my number and I actually deleted his number. Then I realised he wanted some kind of reaction from me 'cause I noticed a couple of times that he was trying to make me jealous and "confirm" my feelings for him but I kept my cool so he went for something stronger. So, I put my ego aside and texted him first through fb after that. And he then said it was a joke 😅 So he was really just looking for a reaction. After he left, I texted him first a couple of times too. I told him he could call me if he wanted and he called a couple of times but then started saying he would call but didn't call.
I know caps need time for themselves and he's told me that too. He also said he doesn't like to text and talk to people on the phone but there were a few exceptions and I was one of then and could call him whenever I wanted. But him being so cold makes me wonder if he just wants to be left alone for a while. I also know caps like to test people's loyalty so I don't know if he just wants to be alone or if, like you said, he's trying to see if I really care or if I just move on if he starts acting like this.
But I miss him like crazy so, I know I will end up texting him eventually. I just don't want to cause any damage by coming off as too clingy or pushy 😢
He's going thru a rough spot with his dental work. It can really put people under the weather.
I totally get what you are saying as appearing clingy but it wont he the case now. Its you showing that you care and missing him.
Text something light like... "hey you! I miss you and I've been thinking about you. I hope you are doing ok? Call me, would love to hear your voice 😉 ..."
Men often dont realise that we women go crazy when we dont hear from them and they'll be oblivious to the whole situation 🙈
Okay, you convinced me 😅 I'm going to text him tonight when I get off from work 😅 Thank you 🙏🏻click to expand
You're welcome!
I truly hope he is doing fine...
Dentalwork can be a pain in the arse really.
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Trust me, we're not friends 😅 I'm willing to wait for him to text. The only thing I'm worried about is that, like I said, he has very little Gemini traits. He so much more like a cap or taurus. Really. Trust me, I know geminis way too well. 😅 And I've read that capricorns like to test people's loyalty. I can't help thinking this is what he's trying to do. He knows I like him. He already knew before he started acting like my boyfriend (and that was after he told me the friend thing). Maybe he's trying to see if I will move on or wait for him?
Are you a Gemini as well? It seems like it.
Just wait it out then. Nothing left to do at this point. It’s been a week, which is nothing, really.
You sure you didn’t get him upset about anything, right? Seems odd he would act like a boyfriend then switch up and do the friend thing.
I'm a virgo 😅 I listed my placements at the end of the thread 😅
I don't know if I upset him. He did get a little bit jealous of something I sent him the other day but we already talked after that so I figured everything was alright.
And the last time he texted I was already asleep and the next day it took me a while to reply because I was at work. Do you think that might be it?click to expand
I don't know. You Virgos are a mess! 😛
If he likes you then he will be back, if you ignore his messages then he will lose interest. It's pretty cut and dry with them.
Capricorn moons can talk about their problems extremely well. They practically have diarrhea of the mouth when they have issues. So it may not be his Cap moon. Just give him some space and find out. He has fixed Venus and Mars, so if he loves you, he's not going anywhere.
@queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
Posted by Arielle83
What if he comes back and still says you’re “friends”?
You still gonna cuddle?
Well, I actually never thought about that. 😅 But in theory, I won't. I will be honest with him, tell him I was expecting more than a friendship (which he already knows tbh) and ask him to have proper friend behaviour. 'Cause if we're really just friends and I find someone else, I don't think my boyfriend will appreciate me cuddling with my male friends 😅
I know myself well, so I know that when he comes back, if he still says we're friends, it will be hard for me move on and I probably won't move on that quickly, but eventually I will. 😅
Posted by Arielle83Posted by HearttofTopazzPosted by queeneemyPosted by HearttofTopazz
“He told me he only wanted to be friends but we were basically acting like a couple (except for the sex part).”
Gem men blow your phone up. He’ll probably find another chick once his teeth are fixed. He doesn’t sound like he’s over his ex either.
Believe me when I say that he has zero Gemini traits. I've dated 3 geminis and my best guy friend is a Gemini. I would know how to deal with him if he had any Gemini in him 😅
I don't think he'll find someone else because he's coming back here for work. It's already settled. He's really just there to fix his teeth, so I don't think he would find someone there only to leave a couple of weeks later.
Also, about his ex, I don't think he would go back to her even if he still has feelings for her. Her mother is trying to get money from him because police is after her to pay some sort of fine for beating someone up. Also, the girl cheated on him... so... 😅
What about the part where he said he just wanted to be friends?
That’s irrelevant, because she thinks they’re playing “couple”, so she deserves the eventual commitment. He needs to text more, not less.click to expand
Ikr? Well, it's not that I think we were playing couple, we actually were 😅
He even paid for my mom's coffee one time we were all at our friend's restaurant 😅 And he was very keen on making a good impression on my mom... Why would he do that? 😅
And he knows I wanted more than friendship 'cause I told him that the night before he left. I also told him not to worry 'cause it would go away and he was like "why would it go away?" This conversation was through text so I didn't get to see his reaction, unfortunately. And also, the first few times he texted after he left he was like calling me beautiful and all that stuff. So, if he knows my intentions and still acts like that... He seems to genuinely care about me. So, if we were really just friends he wouldn't keep on giving me all those "signs" knowing I wanted something else right?
Or maybe I'm just too naive 😅
Posted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
You should wait for him to text. Both his sun and moon are good at communicating. He probably thinks of you as just a friend. I currently talk to a Gemini in another country. Distance doesn’t matter. They bug you and text a lot when they like you.
Let him come back and take it from there if he does.
Trust me, we're not friends 😅 I'm willing to wait for him to text. The only thing I'm worried about is that, like I said, he has very little Gemini traits. He so much more like a cap or taurus. Really. Trust me, I know geminis way too well. 😅 And I've read that capricorns like to test people's loyalty. I can't help thinking this is what he's trying to do. He knows I like him. He already knew before he started acting like my boyfriend (and that was after he told me the friend thing). Maybe he's trying to see if I will move on or wait for him?
Are you a Gemini as well? It seems like it.
Just wait it out then. Nothing left to do at this point. It’s been a week, which is nothing, really.
You sure you didn’t get him upset about anything, right? Seems odd he would act like a boyfriend then switch up and do the friend thing.
I'm a virgo 😅 I listed my placements at the end of the thread 😅
I don't know if I upset him. He did get a little bit jealous of something I sent him the other day but we already talked after that so I figured everything was alright.
And the last time he texted I was already asleep and the next day it took me a while to reply because I was at work. Do you think that might be it?
I don't know. You Virgos are a mess! 😛
If he likes you then he will be back, if you ignore his messages then he will lose interest. It's pretty cut and dry with them.
Capricorn moons can talk about their problems extremely well. They practically have diarrhea of the mouth when they have issues. So it may not be his Cap moon. Just give him some space and find out. He has fixed Venus and Mars, so if he loves you, he's not going anywhere.click to expand
Well, I know he doesn't trust people very easily. He can go on and on and talk about things and all but he's very careful about what he tells people. He doesn't reveal too much about himself. That's why I was so happy when he started opening up to me about his childhood, problems he had with his mother, the day his grandmother died and those personal stuff. I'm pretty sure he told me stuff not many people know about.
But I really hope you're right and that he ends up coming back, 'cause I really care about this guy. 😊
Posted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83
What if he comes back and still says you’re “friends”?
You still gonna cuddle?
Well, I actually never thought about that. 😅 But in theory, I won't. I will be honest with him, tell him I was expecting more than a friendship (which he already knows tbh) and ask him to have proper friend behaviour. 'Cause if we're really just friends and I find someone else, I don't think my boyfriend will appreciate me cuddling with my male friends 😅
I know myself well, so I know that when he comes back, if he still says we're friends, it will be hard for me move on and I probably won't move on that quickly, but eventually I will. 😅
But you are aware that you were cuddling, as a “friend” as well?
I mean when he said “friend”, did you say “no I want no friends, just you as my bf”.
Or did you agree to “friends”, and think that you cuddling and doing “couple” things would lead you to boyfriend?click to expand
I was well aware of our "friendship" the whole time. And I agreed to it because I knew it wasn't true. I knew he was up to something. I tested that out. There was this time when we were talking for about a month and a half that he asked me to introduce him to my friends. He said that in a very vulgar way so I got really mad at him and told him to delete my number and that I would do the same. We went two weeks without talking to each other and during those two weeks we would see each other at his cousin's restaurant (his cousin is also one of my best friends). I had gone to a concert a few days earlier and there was a regular costumer at the restaurant and he was asking me about the concert and I was showing him pictures and we were talking and all and because I was fangirling about the group I went to see, eventually my friend's boyfriend started making jokes telling the costumer I needed a man, suggesting him trying something with me. Well, "my" guy didn't really like those jokes and literally stormed off of the restaurant. During those two weeks I also caught him several times staring at me and stuff like that. So, eventually I reached out to him through fb and that's how we started talking again and he told me "I'm about to leave and you haven't introduced me to your friends". That's when I was sure that talk was to get a reaction out of me and my friend's boyfriend (who's his close friend) told me to tell him that I was interested in him and I was like "Why? Doesn't he know that already?" And he said "Apparently not". So that's what I did. We saw each other a couple of times and one day we were texting and that's when he told me he only wanted to be friends and he didn't want me to think he only wanted to take advantage of me. I was cool with that and told him "So, I'm going to a party with my friends next week, I can introduce you to them if you want" and he said "No... that was only a joke". After that he immediately started to flirt with me. I was totally acting like a friend and testing our "friendship" and he was still flirting with me. So, I didn't even have the time to consider believing that were just friends. The next day he came to my place and started acting like my boyfriend.
I wasn't really expecting the couple behaviour to lead us into something, I was just following his lead. All the couple stuff was initiated by him.
Also, there was this day that I gave him a massage because he had been asking me that for days, because he suffers from back pain and when the massage was over we got up to smoke a cigarette and when I turned the lights on, I looked at him and he was looking at me and the first thing that came to my mind was "Omg! He fell in love". I know this sounds stupid but I never had a guy looking at me that way... It was really weird. 😅
I also thought about the possibility of him wanting us to be fwb, but there was at least one time that he actually got a boner and he only told me that when he got home. If that was really his intention, he would have tried to have sex with me that one time. Or when I gave him the massage. But then, having sex with me and then going back to our home country as being "friends" would only make him look like a jerk. If he cares that much, he's actually thinking about when he comes back right? He also already made plans to when he comes back and stuff like that, so...
I'm sorry, this turned out way too long. I got carried out in the details 😅😅
And...have you sent him a text yet?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemitati
And...have you sent him a text yet?
You didn't respond!!!
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To what?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by Gemitati
And...have you sent him a text yet?
You didn't respond!!!
To what?click to expand
The text I sent you, silly!
Posted by Gemitati
And...have you sent him a text yet?
No, not yet... I'm having second thoughts and a big lack of courage right now 😅 Also, a male friend told me not to text him and wait because he did that with his current gf and it totally worked 😅 But that's also playing games and I hate games
Posted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.click to expand
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅click to expand
What's your mercury?
Posted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅click to expand
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by Gemitati
And...have you sent him a text yet?
You didn't respond!!!
To what?
The text I sent you, silly!
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What text?
You are confusing me gurl!
Posted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
See all of the above of what you wrote is why some people say “friend”. They don’t want to be responsible for your feelings or your need for his attention. He’s tapered off because you aren’t his gf.
You’re acting like a jealous gf with a relationship going on in your head.
Sorry I don’t think his interest matches up.
When you find out, you will no doubt vilify him like most ppl do when they expect something and not delivered from their love object.click to expand
I totally understand what you're saying. I've done that before 😅 I know people lie to get what they want, I'm not that stupid 😅
I can't explain why I like him. It's not that I want a bf. When he first texted me... Like, when I got that one text from a number I didn't know, I knew it was him and I literally went "oh no". I knew it was him because a few days earlier we had seen each other at the restaurant and I could see he was interested. But I wasn't interested in him at all. I was even angry at my friend's boyfriend for giving him my number. I texted him back like almost 24 hours later just out of politeness. I even wrote a text saying that he shouldn't expect anything from me because I was not in a place where I wanted to be romantically involved with anyone. I just didn't hit that send button and trust me, I regret it. I should have sent him that text. I really was in a place where I didn't want to even think about love or men. I even wear a ring on my ring finger to pretend that I have a boyfriend so that my customers don't flirt with me 😅 But I made the mistake of not sending that text and I started being interested in him and next thing I knew, I was smiling like an idiot whenever I got a text from him.
However, I really don't think he only wanted sex. Really. He obviously also wanted to have sex with me but there is more than that. I told him a million times that I wouldn't hook up with him nor with any guy at all. Not only did I tell him that, I also showed him that. I was VERY clear about that from the beginning.
I've seen many fuckboys, I've had a boyfriend completely obsessed with me, none of them ever looked at me the way he did that moment. It wasn't lust, trust me in this one at least.
And tbh, when he told me that friend thing, we knew each other for about 2 months. He can say whatever he wants about our amazing friendship, you don't actually become friends with someone in 2 months. If he really just wanted sex, why didn't he try? 'Cause I told him I wouldn't do it? I could be lying to make myself look "hard to get". 'Cause he didn't want to ruin our friendship? I mean, we were laying on my couch, he was horny and I'm just a chick he knew for two months and a half. Plus, he was going to leave the country two weeks later. Why would he even care? What did he have to lose? A friend? 😅
I mean, really? He took me to his aunt's place knowing very well what she would think by seeing us together. Why get his family involved if he only wanted sex? I can understand why he would get my mother involved, but his family? If he just wanted to have coffee with his aunt he could've gone to her place and then come see me afterwards.
Doesn't it make sense what I'm saying? 😅
My friend's boyfriend, who remember, is very close to him, told my mother that we were both stupid and we both liked each other but non of us would admit it. My mother told me this the other day. Why would one of his closest friends say that to my mother?
I'm trying my best to stay grounded here, I really am. Even if it doesn't look like it 😅
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄click to expand
Wait... I'm confused 😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅click to expand
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
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So, given the fact that he was going to leave the country and his big insecurity about his mouth, I figured he wanted us to stay friends until he comes back and that would also give us even more time to get to know each other, etc.
It's been a month since he left, the first two weeks he was texting every two days or so, he called a couple of times, he said he missed me and that he wanted to come back here. Then he started texting less and now it's been a week since I last heard from him. Should I be worried or is this normal cap behaviour? It's not the first time he goes cold but this time I'm worried because he's so far away.
He's been posting a lot romantic stuff on fb and songs about missing someone and he even posted a video that we watched together once. And I clearly remember us talking about that video, so it's still weird. Also, I haven't been reaching out to him and he posted a quote saying something along the lines "When a woman is quiet, she's like a gun with a silencer."
I don't think he found another woman because he's literally in the middle of the treatment and he sent me a photo of his teeth, I bet it hurts like crazy and it looks terrible. I doubt he would go around trying to flirt with women like that 😅 There's also his ex, but she cheated on him and is engaged to another guy and before leaving he looked me in the eyes and told me it would be difficult for him to forgive her and wouldn't go back to her.
So, how should I react to this? Should wait for him to text? Should I text him? Do you think he lost interest in me? Is he testing me? What do you think is happening here? I'm willing to wait for him 'cause I really like this guy and I know he was serious about me. But I would just like to understand a little bit better what is happening.
My placements are sun in virgo, moon in aquarius, mercury in libra, venus in scorpio, mars in cancer and aries rising sign.
Thanks in advance.