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Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by Gemitati
And...have you sent him a text yet?
You didn't respond!!!
To what?
The text I sent you, silly!
What text?
You are confusing me gurl!
I was just bull shitting LMAO!!!click to expand
I don’t know if I understand them...tham...FUCK!
😂😂😂
Posted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
See all of the above of what you wrote is why some people say “friend”. They don’t want to be responsible for your feelings or your need for his attention. He’s tapered off because you aren’t his gf.
You’re acting like a jealous gf with a relationship going on in your head.
Sorry I don’t think his interest matches up.
When you find out, you will no doubt vilify him like most ppl do when they expect something and not delivered from their love object.
I totally understand what you're saying. I've done that before 😅 I know people lie to get what they want, I'm not that stupid 😅
I can't explain why I like him. It's not that I want a bf. When he first texted me... Like, when I got that one text from a number I didn't know, I knew it was him and I literally went "oh no". I knew it was him because a few days earlier we had seen each other at the restaurant and I could see he was interested. But I wasn't interested in him at all. I was even angry at my friend's boyfriend for giving him my number. I texted him back like almost 24 hours later just out of politeness. I even wrote a text saying that he shouldn't expect anything from me because I was not in a place where I wanted to be romantically involved with anyone. I just didn't hit that send button and trust me, I regret it. I should have sent him that text. I really was in a place where I didn't want to even think about love or men. I even wear a ring on my ring finger to pretend that I have a boyfriend so that my customers don't flirt with me 😅 But I made the mistake of not sending that text and I started being interested in him and next thing I knew, I was smiling like an idiot whenever I got a text from him.
However, I really don't think he only wanted sex. Really. He obviously also wanted to have sex with me but there is more than that. I told him a million times that I wouldn't hook up with him nor with any guy at all. Not only did I tell him that, I also showed him that. I was VERY clear about that from the beginning.
I've seen many fuckboys, I've had a boyfriend completely obsessed with me, none of them ever looked at me the way he did that moment. It wasn't lust, trust me in this one at least.
And tbh, when he told me that friend thing, we knew each other for about 2 months. He can say whatever he wants about our amazing friendship, you don't actually become friends with someone in 2 months. If he really just wanted sex, why didn't he try? 'Cause I told him I wouldn't do it? I could be lying to make myself look "hard to get". 'Cause he didn't want to ruin our friendship? I mean, we were laying on my couch, he was horny and I'm just a chick he knew for two months and a half. Plus, he was going to leave the country two weeks later. Why would he even care? What did he have to lose? A friend? 😅
I mean, really? He took me to his aunt's place knowing very well what she would think by seeing us together. Why get his family involved if he only wanted sex? I can understand why he would get my mother involved, but his family? If he just wanted to have coffee with his aunt he could've gone to her place and then come see me afterwards.
Doesn't it make sense what I'm saying? 😅
My friend's boyfriend, who remember, is very close to him, told my mother that we were both stupid and we both liked each other but non of us would admit it. My mother told me this the other day. Why would one of his closest friends say that to my mother?
I'm trying my best to stay grounded here, I really am. Even if it doesn't look like it 😅
You kept saying u didn’t want to have sex, so he won’t go there unless you go there.
Do you want him to ignore what you say and push for it?
Anyways if he doesn’t want a relationship, you’re moving faster than him.click to expand
Well, quite honestly, he wouldn't be the first one to do that 😅 And I'm not talking about him forcing me to do it but at least try to kiss me or make some kind of clear move instead of just cuddling while watching TV 😅
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
https://media1.giphy.com/media/BsQAVgY6ksvIY/giphy.gif
Does he like you too?
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?click to expand
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
What's your mercury?click to expand
You thought she was a Gemini because both signs (Virgo and Gemini) are ruled by Mercury.
Posted by Ram416Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
What's your mercury?
You thought she was a Gemini because both signs (Virgo and Gemini) are ruled by Mercury.click to expand
She comes off a little hyper and goofy- ish. With all the emojis too. Lol. The fun loving type. Not serious, like a Virgo. 🙃🙂
Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂click to expand
Oh I'm sorry to hear that 😢 Well, I've read many times that virgo men are one of the most complicated of the zodiac. Even more than virgo women. I already think I'm complicated af, imagine being more complicated then me 😅😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂
Oh I'm sorry to hear that 😢 Well, I've read many times that virgo men are one of the most complicated of the zodiac. Even more than virgo women. I already think I'm complicated af, imagine being more complicated then me 😅😅click to expand
Well I don't know what he's doing. He's out of town right now. I'll figure it out once he decides to come back around, so I can slap him 🙂
Posted by xoxflutePosted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂
Oh I'm sorry to hear that 😢 Well, I've read many times that virgo men are one of the most complicated of the zodiac. Even more than virgo women. I already think I'm complicated af, imagine being more complicated then me 😅😅
Thank you! I’ve been looking for an explanation as to why I get along with Virgo women but don’t understand some Virgo men lol.click to expand
Probably the feelings of love mess everything up. It's so much easier to deal with in friendships. There's no pressure for anything.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Ram416Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
What's your mercury?
You thought she was a Gemini because both signs (Virgo and Gemini) are ruled by Mercury.
She comes off a little hyper and goofy- ish. With all the emojis too. Lol. The fun loving type. Not serious, like a Virgo. 🙃🙂click to expand
Hahaha thank you 😅 I learned to use a lot of emojis because when I write something I usually come off as more serious than I intend to and people misunderstand me and think I'm mean or too full of myself 😅 Even when I text, I have to use a lot of emojis to avoid misunderstandings 😅
I do laugh a lot in real life too tho 😅
Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by Ram416Posted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by Arielle83Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88 @queeneemy
I didn't read all the other stuff going on, seems like he's been busy so a text would probably be good.
I do know he keeps himself busy. He loved to tell me stories about how he would work on his cars and motorbikes until 3 or 4am. And when he sent me the picture of his teeth I could see his hands and they were "dirty" from work so, I know he's been working on his cars at least. 😅 But what is worrying me is that I'm busy too and I would still find the time to talk to him because he's someone that matters to me. But he's not really making that effort for me. That is my concern right now. 😅
If you expect people to act like you, and get upset when they don’t, you will be giving expectations on how you want him to act.
And right now you’re acting like you should be his one priority, just because you have made him yours.
I'm not upset about it 😅 I'm just worried and somehow insecure. Aside from those two weeks when we didn't talk, this is the longest he's gone without talking to me and it happens when he's in another country. I'm really trying to keep my cool, I really am, I swear 😅 But I can't help to imagine all these scenarios in my head. It's not that I want to be his one priority, really. But tbh, just a little call wouldn't take that much out of his time... Even as friends... That's what friends do... They call each other to keep up with things. I have friends in my home country with whom I speak nearly everyday 😅
What's your mercury?
You thought she was a Gemini because both signs (Virgo and Gemini) are ruled by Mercury.
She comes off a little hyper and goofy- ish. With all the emojis too. Lol. The fun loving type. Not serious, like a Virgo. 🙃🙂
Hahaha thank you 😅 I learned to use a lot of emojis because when I write something I usually come off as more serious than I intend to and people misunderstand me and think I'm mean or too full of myself 😅 Even when I text, I have to use a lot of emojis to avoid misunderstandings 😅
I do laugh a lot in real life too tho 😅click to expand
Well then your intentions work! 🙂 I come off cold too. Maybe I should use more emojis lol
Posted by xoxflutePosted by saggurl88Posted by xoxflutePosted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂
Oh I'm sorry to hear that 😢 Well, I've read many times that virgo men are one of the most complicated of the zodiac. Even more than virgo women. I already think I'm complicated af, imagine being more complicated then me 😅😅
Thank you! I’ve been looking for an explanation as to why I get along with Virgo women but don’t understand some Virgo men lol.
Probably the feelings of love mess everything up. It's so much easier to deal with in friendships. There's no pressure for anything.
Maybe. I don’t think I was ever attracted to one though...click to expand
Something about them attracts me but I don't know what it is. They are difficult. I ignore one, he's practically sending marriage proposals. I pay attention to the other one and he bounces out.
I can't win!
Posted by xoxflutePosted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88Posted by queeneemyPosted by saggurl88
Just wanted to point out that I told you it would be a good idea to wait!
Ahaha I know... I'm starting to think I should follow your advice 😅
My mercury is libra 😅
Oh. I go weeks without talking to The Virgo I like. Guess that's not so good 😄
Wait... I'm confused 😅
I like a Virgo and he has a Libra Mercury but I can go weeks without talking/texting to him. You said in a friendship, daily, is good.
Does he like you too?
Probably not any more. He plays a lot of games. Most Virgos do, and I don't know how to play 🙂
Oh I'm sorry to hear that 😢 Well, I've read many times that virgo men are one of the most complicated of the zodiac. Even more than virgo women. I already think I'm complicated af, imagine being more complicated then me 😅😅
Thank you! I’ve been looking for an explanation as to why I get along with Virgo women but don’t understand some Virgo men lol.click to expand
Ahaha you're welcome 😅
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