what to do?

this cap sun/pisces moon had been distant these past few days. turns out he's been waiting for some deal to go through and well, seems that things didn't go well. and we were supposed to go out today but he.... fell asleep in the middle of the afternoon btw (one of his cousins vacationing over his placed picked up his phone when i called him and turned on the video so i can see the capricorn in bed still in his work clothes). no other word to call it but: 'heartbroken.' does he think beating himself up over it is gonna fix anything? it's just money. and he had this maniacal panic over it the other day then radio silence which i confronted him about. and now this- curled up in bed. he's always in panic over the future and he's like 30. and hell i'm a virgo but even i don't get this worked up. you know what's more important than money? ironing your bedsheets. and he's going to meet female family members of mine this weekend like damn he's gonna be even more stressed out.

but what helps you caps relax?

and another thing i'm really uncomfortable with. he feels the need to always get me stuff. i appreciate these things and adore him for it but his absolute need to pay for everything is now getting ridiculous to me. if it's not obvious by now, i like to buy stuff for people i like. i get personal enjoyment out of it. like just relax and let me pay for things sometimes.

EDIT: oh wait he woke up alright later bye gotta go, will report back.

"i can see the capricorn in bed still in his work clothes"

Nothing cuter than a Cap asleep! Go there and give him cuddles, then jump up and down on his bed, more cuddles, sing nah-na-na-na-nah into his year, pinch his cheeks, do some more jumping, slap his face, rip off his clothes and whisper in his ear that you'll buy him better work clothes...

Simples 😄

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but what helps you caps relax?

weed

Posted by Undine "i can see the capricorn in bed still in his work clothes"

Nothing cuter than a Cap asleep! Go there and give him cuddles, then jump up and down on his bed, more cuddles, sing nah-na-na-na-nah into his year, pinch his cheeks, do some more jumping, slap his face, rip off his clothes and whisper in his ear that you'll buy him better work clothes...

Simples 😄

Lol or maybe I should just give him space

I may have to agree with the Pisces ^ up there but a less aggressive version. Maybe give him some space first but then make him or buy him (but I think making him may be more thoughtful) something and bring it over to him. And if hes still in a mood when you go over, a nice cuddle or a soft hug should do the trick.

It works with my Virgo so I’m gonna assume all earth men are the same lol

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Posted by Undine "i can see the capricorn in bed still in his work clothes"

Nothing cuter than a Cap asleep! Go there and give him cuddles, then jump up and down on his bed, more cuddles, sing nah-na-na-na-nah into his year, pinch his cheeks, do some more jumping, slap his face, rip off his clothes and whisper in his ear that you'll buy him better work clothes...

Simples 😄

Lol or maybe I should just give him space

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Space...?!

Aqua placements need space to find out how happy they could be without you in their life.

Cap placements need space to find out how miserable they still are, despite having you in their life.

Yeah, give him space 😄

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Undine "i can see the capricorn in bed still in his work clothes"

Nothing cuter than a Cap asleep! Go there and give him cuddles, then jump up and down on his bed, more cuddles, sing nah-na-na-na-nah into his year, pinch his cheeks, do some more jumping, slap his face, rip off his clothes and whisper in his ear that you'll buy him better work clothes...

Simples 😄

Lol or maybe I should just give him space

Space...?!

Aqua placements need space to find out how happy they could be without you in their life.

Cap placements need space to find out how miserable they still are, despite having you in their life.

Yeah, give him space 😄

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well he is aqua venus

and my venus is in the 11th

😄

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Where'd you meet this guy?

my aunt

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Posted by FactCheck

Where'd you meet this guy?

my aunt

Your aunt is a matchmaker. Can she find me one?

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lol i guess she is

we've finally met just couple hours ago

he likes to hide problems from me but i lose my patience and confront him about it and he can tell it's coz i feel wounded about it

i think it's the combination of capricorn (trying to hide problems) and pisces (recognizing immediately my reaction to it)