Aries sun with scorpio rising girl / Scorpio man

Hello everyone,

First, thanks for taking the time to read this. I just wanted a honest opinion from anonymous Scorpios 🙂 I do know that it takes more than just a sun sign to trace a part of a person's profile. My sun sign is a fire one, but my rising is in Scorpio.

So... I have been friends with this person for more than one year now and we started talking and hanging out alone.

Things started to evolve romantically about 3/4 months ago. We are both attracted to each other, he already verbalized it, but the thing between us is more of a friend with benefits thing/grey area “situationship”. In between, I started to develop feelings for him  and whenever I try to ask him if he feels the same, without being too direct or pushy, I feel frightened.

We see each other every 2 weeks, sometimes once a week and most of those "dates" are just to hang out, talk, and do activities together. We text often, for many days in a row, but not daily. He is able to grab my hand in public and demonstrate affection with hugs & kisses but does not want to label anything. I do not know any of his friends and so far have not attempted to introduce him to mine, although I would not mind to do it.

I already approached him, when I had the chance, with a talk about this situation. He says he likes things as they are and says that from his experience a commitment into a relationship is the same as conditioning his freedom. I get that, as I also believe that a couple should have time to spend by themselves. However, the grey area is killing me... I do not know how to react or what to do, I do not want to be pushy and I respect him and his freedom.

We are nothing; I may be investing my time and emotions into someone that simply demonstrates he does not like me enough to take things further and could potentially be seeing other girls at the same time.

I like him and I want to break it off now. I am terrified of going on with this because I do not want to get hurt...

Thanks.

Posted by chocolatepancake

Hello everyone,

First, thanks for taking the time to read this. I just wanted a honest opinion from anonymous Scorpios 🙂 I do know that it takes more than just a sun sign to trace a part of a person's profile. My sun sign is a fire one, but my rising is in Scorpio.

So... I have been friends with this person for more than one year now and we started talking and hanging out alone.

Things started to evolve romantically about 3/4 months ago. We are both attracted to each other, he already verbalized it, but the thing between us is more of a friend with benefits thing/grey area “situationship”. In between, I started to develop feelings for him  and whenever I try to ask him if he feels the same, without being too direct or pushy, I feel frightened.

We see each other every 2 weeks, sometimes once a week and most of those "dates" are just to hang out, talk, and do activities together. We text often, for many days in a row, but not daily. He is able to grab my hand in public and demonstrate affection with hugs & kisses but does not want to label anything. I do not know any of his friends and so far have not attempted to introduce him to mine, although I would not mind to do it.

I already approached him, when I had the chance, with a talk about this situation. He says he likes things as they are and says that from his experience a commitment into a relationship is the same as conditioning his freedom. I get that, as I also believe that a couple should have time to spend by themselves. However, the grey area is killing me... I do not know how to react or what to do, I do not want to be pushy and I respect him and his freedom.

We are nothing; I may be investing my time and emotions into someone that simply demonstrates he does not like me enough to take things further and could potentially be seeing other girls at the same time.

I like him and I want to break it off now. I am terrified of going on with this because I do not want to get hurt...

Thanks.

He's probably testing you...to see if you are pushy or if you are going to date other guys.

Come to think of it, you guys JUST started this romantic phase. Aries, don't be pushy - its hard, I know, but you have to go with the flow or you will lose him. No one likes to be pushed.

He likes you very much but he's going slow and he's being cautious. Enjoy it. It's a beautiful phase.

Please be patient. Scorpios take that time to trust people. Do the things in a right way and I am sure your Scorpio will show you it was worth the wait.

Relax and take it easy!