Started dating a scorpio man(I’m an Aries women)

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Shayna8888 on Thursday, January 16, 2020 and has 17 replies.

Understanding Scorpio and Aries Dating Dynamics

Scorpio men may take time to reach out after intimacy due to their reserved nature. As an Aries woman, expressing your interest gently can encourage communication. Avoid overthinking and give him space, but if you want clarity, a simple and honest message can help. Patience and open communication are key to building trust between Scorpio and Aries.

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@Shayna8888
6 Years

I started talking to a Scorpio man before Christmas time we decided to meet up! It went great conversation flowed nicely and he wanted to go out again. We were texting all day everyday like usual. Come a few days later he came over we watched a movie and he ended up staying the night.

We ended up sleeping together it was wonderful. He snuggled with me all night. The next morning I started getting ready for work he was getting ready to leave and he said text me later and let me know how your doing... for some reason I never ended up texting him... figuring he would text me first. But he never did that was Saturday and now it’s Thursday and we still haven’t talked. Who’s ghosting who? Should I say something and if I do what? I don’t want to come off as a you know what. I really like him. I’m not sure if he didn’t text me bc I was working or if he ghosted next or both. Help me what should I do?

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

What? He told you "text me later and let me know how you're doing". What is it you didn't understand about that statement? He more than likely thinks you didn't like the dick and moved on. This is your fault not his.

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@Shayna8888
6 Years

Lol your not wrong. I’d love to shoot him a text but at this point I have no clue what to say 😂

Posted by DonnaLibra

What? He told you "text me later and let me know how you're doing". What is it you didn't understand about that statement? He more than likely thinks you didn't like the dick and moved on. This is your fault not his.

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@Shayna8888
6 Years

I am blowing it. I do feel like if he cares though he text me by now. And I’d love to text him but at this point I have no clue what to even say lol

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Posted by Shayna8888

I started talking to a Scorpio man before Christmas time we decided to meet up! It went great conversation flowed nicely and he wanted to go out again. We were texting all day everyday like usual. Come a few days later he came over we watched a movie and he ended up staying the night.

We ended up sleeping together it was wonderful. He snuggled with me all night. The next morning I started getting ready for work he was getting ready to leave and he said text me later and let me know how your doing... for some reason I never ended up texting him... figuring he would text me first. But he never did that was Saturday and now it’s Thursday and we still haven’t talked. Who’s ghosting who? Should I say something and if I do what? I don’t want to come off as a you know what. I really like him. I’m not sure if he didn’t text me bc I was working or if he ghosted next or both. Help me what should I do?

Omg just call him already! Why does he have to call first? You blowing it...

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@Endless
8 Years1,000+ Posts

just go like, hey I'm free this weekend, wanna do some netflix and chill.

he might feel a little used, but he probably show up anyway, you can get romantic after.

could be worse though, you could be an aqua girl LMAO.

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@Queenofthepheasantfairies
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Shayna8888

Lol your not wrong. I’d love to shoot him a text but at this point I have no clue what to say 😂

Posted by DonnaLibra

What? He told you "text me later and let me know how you're doing". What is it you didn't understand about that statement? He more than likely thinks you didn't like the dick and moved on. This is your fault not his.

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You tell him the truth. Exactly what you told us happened, you forgot and now you both ghosting but not on purpose lol.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Shayna8888

Lol your not wrong. I’d love to shoot him a text but at this point I have no clue what to say 😂

Posted by DonnaLibra

What? He told you "text me later and let me know how you're doing". What is it you didn't understand about that statement? He more than likely thinks you didn't like the dick and moved on. This is your fault not his.

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Just pick up where you left off.

“Omg, work is crazy. I’ve been so busy here, all week. How have you been? I’ve been wondering about you”

And then wait for however long his response will be.

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

"Text me later and let me know how you're doing." You failed to follow through so....why be confused and blame him for ghosting? SMH

If he has ghosted you, it's because you initiated it by not following through with his simple and friendly request.

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@DonnaLibra
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Shayna8888

Lol your not wrong. I’d love to shoot him a text but at this point I have no clue what to say 😂

Posted by DonnaLibra

What? He told you "text me later and let me know how you're doing". What is it you didn't understand about that statement? He more than likely thinks you didn't like the dick and moved on. This is your fault not his.

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Text him and tell him you've been thinking about what he did to you last time you were together. Ask if he wants to meet. When he asks why you didn't text tell him "you said text you later and let you know how I'm doing." Then say, "well it's later and I'm not doing well because I need to see you."

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@Nightcap-
8 Years1,000+ Posts

I see it as the opposite. If he was really interested and motivated, he would have taken the initiative not put it on the girl. He gets to take the easy way out and act like you never texted.

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@VenusAquarius
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Posted by skyisclear

lol i accidentally did this last month. Had a great time with a sexy latin demigod scorpio... but i get so awkward and nervous after the sex part and as i was leaving i rushed the "ok textu okbye" like a dumbass nerd. in my head this man is so beautiful and can have any woman he wants so i never texted him.

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Gurl....that hurt to read, lol.

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

Hey.. I disagree with a lot of comments on here. Scorpio very well known for playing mind games, Aries women very well known for showing masculine energy.

It is 100% definitely his turn to message you.. he is the man.. not you.. and I hope your Aries masculine energy doesn’t take over. Aries and Scorpio are not exactly a good match. You also have to take into consideration, what if he doesn’t message you back.. and what if he leaves you hanging. You, as the women, have the right to take as long as you want to text back.

Trust me, he will cave in before you do.. so think of it as a game, you want to win don’t you?

And plus.. what if he doesn’t message you... well if he can’t message you, then he was a waste of time.. not messaging him now saves you a lot of time. You should be testing him, not giving in. Women test men to save time, you don’t want to be left with hard work.