DeeLovesRed
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3RD HOUSE?!!!
I’m a 3rd houser but don’t understand it. I’ll be following this thread for some insight though! 🤓
Posted by bumboklatt
My best friend is 3rd house sun. Its geminis house. Has to do with communication
Mercury and venus in 3rd. Mars in 9th
Are you a highly sexual person with many partners or has had many partners?
Currently the shop is closed... but I’m definitely a highly sexually person that has had a good amount of partners....
My motto is “Imma die sexually satisfied” lol but seriously
Posted by bumboklatt
My best friend is 3rd house sun. Its geminis house. Has to do with communication
Mercury and venus in 3rd. Mars in 9th
Are you a highly sexual person with many partners or has had many partners?
Oh wow! My stellium is in 3rd house in Sagittarius. And you’re telling me that is ruled by GEMINI!! I had no clue!
I guess that is pretty balancing, right?
whoever you're checking is either a genius or a madman, maybe both 😄
the third house is the house of communication, intelligence and "low-level" knowledge (trades and hand skills) so any placement involving the 3rd will impact in that aspect of someone's life.
I'm 3rd house dominant myself so I know how it works, I'm not a native english speaker, yet I learnt it by myself with pure exposition, I have a natural affinity to teach (although my mom is a teacher so that obviously helped) I enjoy talking with people, even randoms on the street, and most people would describe me as charming or very interesting to listen to, all traits of communication, I'm a natural geek too, so technology and I actually work in trades as an electronic engineer. so you have it, a full on 3rd houser.
merc conj uranus is interesting, uranus is the ruler of high-level knowledge, basically philosophy, so both will naturally turn into a lot of mental energy, the ability to think about new ideas and possibilities naturally, but theres a catch, mental boredom and jump to conclusions could be a problem.
marc opposite mars, thats a sharp tongue for sure LMAO, impatience is probably a thing too, need to work on that, people words and way of communication could create a lot of anger or annoyance, like people speaking too fast or too slow, need to be careful with not speaking out of frustration and saying the wrong things, after overcoming that they will become great debater and public speakers.
merc conj venus, talking about public speakers, these are the one made for that, quite the silver tongue there, good charmer and negotiator, people enjoy listening to these aspects, but need to avoid overindulgence as the mars opposition will affect this aspect too and make people feel they are being manipulated by the chart holder.
someone with those aspect could develop a nice writing skill too, with a sharp mind that let them talk and communicate to public without problem, the uranus in the 3rd can be a little bit weird but in a progressive kind of way, so depending on that they might or might not feel alienate of the mainstream, but is all cuz they have a fast mind.
the third house is the house of communication, intelligence and "low-level" knowledge (trades and hand skills) so any placement involving the 3rd will impact in that aspect of someone's life.
I'm 3rd house dominant myself so I know how it works, I'm not a native english speaker, yet I learnt it by myself with pure exposition, I have a natural affinity to teach (although my mom is a teacher so that obviously helped) I enjoy talking with people, even randoms on the street, and most people would describe me as charming or very interesting to listen to, all traits of communication, I'm a natural geek too, so technology and I actually work in trades as an electronic engineer. so you have it, a full on 3rd houser.
merc conj uranus is interesting, uranus is the ruler of high-level knowledge, basically philosophy, so both will naturally turn into a lot of mental energy, the ability to think about new ideas and possibilities naturally, but theres a catch, mental boredom and jump to conclusions could be a problem.
marc opposite mars, thats a sharp tongue for sure LMAO, impatience is probably a thing too, need to work on that, people words and way of communication could create a lot of anger or annoyance, like people speaking too fast or too slow, need to be careful with not speaking out of frustration and saying the wrong things, after overcoming that they will become great debater and public speakers.
merc conj venus, talking about public speakers, these are the one made for that, quite the silver tongue there, good charmer and negotiator, people enjoy listening to these aspects, but need to avoid overindulgence as the mars opposition will affect this aspect too and make people feel they are being manipulated by the chart holder.
someone with those aspect could develop a nice writing skill too, with a sharp mind that let them talk and communicate to public without problem, the uranus in the 3rd can be a little bit weird but in a progressive kind of way, so depending on that they might or might not feel alienate of the mainstream, but is all cuz they have a fast mind.
Posted by bumboklattPosted by saggurl88Posted by bumboklatt
My best friend is 3rd house sun. Its geminis house. Has to do with communication
Mercury and venus in 3rd. Mars in 9th
Are you a highly sexual person with many partners or has had many partners?
Oh wow! My stellium is in 3rd house in Sagittarius. And you’re telling me that is ruled by GEMINI!! I had no clue!
I guess that is pretty balancing, right?
Yeah that balanced but can be a little frustrating because you can see things others will never understand
My sun is in opposites house too and i identify with leo as much as i do with aquariusclick to expand
Yes I’m aware that I’m psycho- I mean psychic 🤓🤪
Posted by bumboklattPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by bumboklatt
My best friend is 3rd house sun. Its geminis house. Has to do with communication
Mercury and venus in 3rd. Mars in 9th
Are you a highly sexual person with many partners or has had many partners?
Currently the shop is closed... but I’m definitely a highly sexually person that has had a good amount of partners....
My motto is “Imma die sexually satisfied” lol but seriously
Yeah my buddy has had lots of partners and can literally hook up with random girls he meets on the street. He is a bullshitter haha cause his sun is aqua coupled with 3rd house he can get far just talking
I know your pisces but what house is your sun in?click to expand
Hahahaha... sounds very similar to me... I travel a lot and I had a few hookups on the road lol if you know what I mean.
As for my sun, it’s conjunction my Saturn in 4th house
Posted by Endless
whoever you're checking is either a genius or a madman, maybe both 😄
the third house is the house of communication, intelligence and "low-level" knowledge (trades and hand skills) so any placement involving the 3rd will impact in that aspect of someone's life.
I'm 3rd house dominant myself so I know how it works, I'm not a native english speaker, yet I learnt it by myself with pure exposition, I have a natural affinity to teach (although my mom is a teacher so that obviously helped) I enjoy talking with people, even randoms on the street, and most people would describe me as charming or very interesting to listen to, all traits of communication, I'm a natural geek too, so technology and I actually work in trades as an electronic engineer. so you have it, a full on 3rd houser.
merc conj uranus is interesting, uranus is the ruler of high-level knowledge, basically philosophy, so both will naturally turn into a lot of mental energy, the ability to think about new ideas and possibilities naturally, but theres a catch, mental boredom and jump to conclusions could be a problem.
marc opposite mars, thats a sharp tongue for sure LMAO, impatience is probably a thing too, need to work on that, people words and way of communication could create a lot of anger or annoyance, like people speaking too fast or too slow, need to be careful with not speaking out of frustration and saying the wrong things, after overcoming that they will become great debater and public speakers.
merc conj venus, talking about public speakers, these are the one made for that, quite the silver tongue there, good charmer and negotiator, people enjoy listening to these aspects, but need to avoid overindulgence as the mars opposition will affect this aspect too and make people feel they are being manipulated by the chart holder.
someone with those aspect could develop a nice writing skill too, with a sharp mind that let them talk and communicate to public without problem, the uranus in the 3rd can be a little bit weird but in a progressive kind of way, so depending on that they might or might not feel alienate of the mainstream, but is all cuz they have a fast mind.
Wow, you’ve pretty much given me more info than I’ve found on google lol... I’m actually looking into these placement because they’re my natal aspects....
It’s sooo interesting how you mentioned language... because I’ve learned other languages such as Spanish, Korean & now taking a try at Japanese. However, I’ve lived and taught outside of the USA, which I think I can thank my mom as well. By the way she’s a Gemini and growing up she was a teacher ,before she switched into the medical field.
I loved how you mentioned mental boredom. The accuracy that’s all over that sentence. Also, some may say my words are a bit harsh and critical. But I swear if I’m not angry, my intentions are always pure... it’s just the delivery that sucks... sorry Mars in Leo
Hmmm, now I’m wondering... do people feel manipulated by me?? 🤔🤔🤔
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Endless
whoever you're checking is either a genius or a madman, maybe both 😄
the third house is the house of communication, intelligence and "low-level" knowledge (trades and hand skills) so any placement involving the 3rd will impact in that aspect of someone's life.
I'm 3rd house dominant myself so I know how it works, I'm not a native english speaker, yet I learnt it by myself with pure exposition, I have a natural affinity to teach (although my mom is a teacher so that obviously helped) I enjoy talking with people, even randoms on the street, and most people would describe me as charming or very interesting to listen to, all traits of communication, I'm a natural geek too, so technology and I actually work in trades as an electronic engineer. so you have it, a full on 3rd houser.
merc conj uranus is interesting, uranus is the ruler of high-level knowledge, basically philosophy, so both will naturally turn into a lot of mental energy, the ability to think about new ideas and possibilities naturally, but theres a catch, mental boredom and jump to conclusions could be a problem.
marc opposite mars, thats a sharp tongue for sure LMAO, impatience is probably a thing too, need to work on that, people words and way of communication could create a lot of anger or annoyance, like people speaking too fast or too slow, need to be careful with not speaking out of frustration and saying the wrong things, after overcoming that they will become great debater and public speakers.
merc conj venus, talking about public speakers, these are the one made for that, quite the silver tongue there, good charmer and negotiator, people enjoy listening to these aspects, but need to avoid overindulgence as the mars opposition will affect this aspect too and make people feel they are being manipulated by the chart holder.
someone with those aspect could develop a nice writing skill too, with a sharp mind that let them talk and communicate to public without problem, the uranus in the 3rd can be a little bit weird but in a progressive kind of way, so depending on that they might or might not feel alienate of the mainstream, but is all cuz they have a fast mind.
Wow, you’ve pretty much given me more info than I’ve found on google lol... I’m actually looking into these placement because they’re my natal aspects....
It’s sooo interesting how you mentioned language... because I’ve learned other languages such as Spanish, Korean & now taking a try at Japanese. However, I’ve lived and taught outside of the USA, which I think I can thank my mom as well. By the way she’s a Gemini and growing up she was a teacher ,before she switched into the medical field.
I loved how you mentioned mental boredom. The accuracy that’s all over that sentence. Also, some may say my words are a bit harsh and critical. But I swear if I’m not angry, my intentions are always pure... it’s just the delivery that sucks... sorry Mars in Leo
Hmmm, now I’m wondering... do people feel manipulated by me?? 🤔🤔🤔click to expand
the ability and natural interest in languages are staple of mercury and venus in the 3rd, is a stereotype at this point 😆
you coming accross as harsh is the mars opposite your merc, is what a sharp tongue is about LMAO, for some people it can be an aggressive way of communication, moving hand and speaking fast, that can be threatening for some, but if your mind is moving fast, thats only natural, patience, thats all whats needed, to think how to say things before going all out on people faces, specially shy people that will be steamrolled by your tongue.
people wont feel manipulated by you cuz your mars opposition is expressed by going more aggressive on others, a fire mars is not exactly the one to be subtle anyway, they probably think you're bossy.
both manipulation/being bossy, is just about mars trying to get his way, with a opposition it will be through words, so basically 2 sides of the same coin.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
@endless as a 3rd houser.... have you settled down romantically?
If not, do you think you will?
oh boy....
no, but I don't think that's because of my 3rd house, I have a virgo venus, and that's a different beast to deal with, that venus square my gemini mars. so there's also that.
I think I will, I either need to find someone grounded yet exciting enough, which I dont think I will, or what I feel is more probably, I will date more interesting people right now, and later I just settle with someone more laid back and predictable. I think that's the easier way, but you know, life is unpredictable.
Posted by bumboklattPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by bumboklattPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by bumboklatt
My best friend is 3rd house sun. Its geminis house. Has to do with communication
Mercury and venus in 3rd. Mars in 9th
Are you a highly sexual person with many partners or has had many partners?
Currently the shop is closed... but I’m definitely a highly sexually person that has had a good amount of partners....
My motto is “Imma die sexually satisfied” lol but seriously
Yeah my buddy has had lots of partners and can literally hook up with random girls he meets on the street. He is a bullshitter haha cause his sun is aqua coupled with 3rd house he can get far just talking
I know your pisces but what house is your sun in?
Hahahaha... sounds very similar to me... I travel a lot and I had a few hookups on the road lol if you know what I mean.
As for my sun, it’s conjunction my Saturn in 4th house
Lol. Ah ok so that sun tones it down a bit. I have saturn 4th house in cap very toughclick to expand
Yea I have periods where I wanna be outgoing, flirtatious, nomadic etc then there’s moods where I disappear off the face of the earth and push people away....
So I could imagine how your home was growing up. Did you face restrictions and a lot of criticism?
Posted by EndlessPosted by DeeLovesRed
@endless as a 3rd houser.... have you settled down romantically?
If not, do you think you will?
oh boy....
no, but I don't think that's because of my 3rd house, I have a virgo venus, and that's a different beast to deal with, that venus square my gemini mars. so there's also that.
I think I will, I either need to find someone grounded yet exciting enough, which I dont think I will, or what I feel is more probably, I will date more interesting people right now, and later I just settle with someone more laid back and predictable. I think that's the easier way, but you know, life is unpredictable.click to expand
Hmmm.... picky picky I see, but life is unpredictable you’ll never know. I believe I’m going to a loner, because I prefer friendships over romantic ones.... some of my friends were old sexual partners anyways 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
But, do you feel like you’re dating and not settling because you want to see the available variety... and not just “skip out” and settle for what you might feel is “good” at the moment?
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by EndlessPosted by DeeLovesRed
@endless as a 3rd houser.... have you settled down romantically?
If not, do you think you will?
oh boy....
no, but I don't think that's because of my 3rd house, I have a virgo venus, and that's a different beast to deal with, that venus square my gemini mars. so there's also that.
I think I will, I either need to find someone grounded yet exciting enough, which I dont think I will, or what I feel is more probably, I will date more interesting people right now, and later I just settle with someone more laid back and predictable. I think that's the easier way, but you know, life is unpredictable.
Hmmm.... picky picky I see, but life is unpredictable you’ll never know. I believe I’m going to a loner, because I prefer friendships over romantic ones.... some of my friends were old sexual partners anyways 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
But, do you feel like you’re dating and not settling because you want to see the available variety... and not just “skip out” and settle for what you might feel is “good” at the moment?click to expand
I think you have to check what is that attracted you from those old partners in the first place, was it physical? or was it mental? I doubt you could just settle with someone for the physical thing without feeling trapped, and in my experience I had great mental connection with uranus dominant people that sadly ended up drifting away to the friend zone, so that's also a thing.
and oh no, not variety 😂 my virgo venus would never hahaha, also a empty 5th house is of no help at all, is more of me realizing is not gonna work in the long run and ghosting them after a while, I feel like you don't have a lot of earth in your chart, is that correct?
I think in a way I ended at the opposite conclusion, I don't think there's a good "settle down" thing for most people, I feel that due to astrology I have an idea of who could match with me in general, and that person will feel good at the moment until I change and grow, then the relationship might weight me down, so it only matter what I want from the relationship and if it will deliver, I have seen people getting divorce at their 50s, they were so in love in their 20s but now they cant stand each other, I think when we are younger we want more excitement, someone different, the literal opposite in our chart, but when we grow older then is actually annoying and we want someone more like us, something easier to live with, and that's why people end up in separation after the years, is not the people that change, is what we want in a relationship that change.
Idk how where your past relationship that you feel you need "variety", like I have deep and meaningful friendships that are just missing sex to be considered a relationship 🤣 so what variety would I want? I imagine you have more aspect with uranus, are you the kind that feel a relationship is a restriction? I know someone like that, you have any aquarius placement?
Posted by EndlessPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by EndlessPosted by DeeLovesRed
@endless as a 3rd houser.... have you settled down romantically?
If not, do you think you will?
oh boy....
no, but I don't think that's because of my 3rd house, I have a virgo venus, and that's a different beast to deal with, that venus square my gemini mars. so there's also that.
I think I will, I either need to find someone grounded yet exciting enough, which I dont think I will, or what I feel is more probably, I will date more interesting people right now, and later I just settle with someone more laid back and predictable. I think that's the easier way, but you know, life is unpredictable.
Hmmm.... picky picky I see, but life is unpredictable you’ll never know. I believe I’m going to a loner, because I prefer friendships over romantic ones.... some of my friends were old sexual partners anyways 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
But, do you feel like you’re dating and not settling because you want to see the available variety... and not just “skip out” and settle for what you might feel is “good” at the moment?
I think you have to check what is that attracted you from those old partners in the first place, was it physical? or was it mental? I doubt you could just settle with someone for the physical thing without feeling trapped, and in my experience I had great mental connection with uranus dominant people that sadly ended up drifting away to the friend zone, so that's also a thing.
and oh no, not variety 😂 my virgo venus would never hahaha, also a empty 5th house is of no help at all, is more of me realizing is not gonna work in the long run and ghosting them after a while, I feel like you don't have a lot of earth in your chart, is that correct?
I think in a way I ended at the opposite conclusion, I don't think there's a good "settle down" thing for most people, I feel that due to astrology I have an idea of who could match with me in general, and that person will feel good at the moment until I change and grow, then the relationship might weight me down, so it only matter what I want from the relationship and if it will deliver, I have seen people getting divorce at their 50s, they were so in love in their 20s but now they cant stand each other, I think when we are younger we want more excitement, someone different, the literal opposite in our chart, but when we grow older then is actually annoying and we want someone more like us, something easier to live with, and that's why people end up in separation after the years, is not the people that change, is what we want in a relationship that change.
Idk how where your past relationship that you feel you need "variety", like I have deep and meaningful friendships that are just missing sex to be considered a relationship 🤣 so what variety would I want? I imagine you have more aspect with uranus, are you the kind that feel a relationship is a restriction? I know someone like that, you have any aquarius placement?click to expand
Yes, I have more Uranus aspects... Venus&Merc is in Aquarius..
I don’t have much earth in my chart but I do have a Sun conjunct Saturn aspect... and my moon is in 6th house—Virgo house lol those are the only “earth-like” placements in my chart. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hmmmm... Understandable!
However, when I used the word ”variety” I meant like gain experience & seeing what’s potentially out there....before making a decision to “settle.” I believe dating is cool, getting to know people overall is cool. Also.... figuring out ”what you’re attracted to,” okay that’s cool too. Seeing how you mesh with people in different relationships (b/c every relationship is different).... all of that is you gaining experience & seeing what’s all out there first. Then make a choice, so of course when you settle down it’ll be with someone you can “stand,” can do dumb&quirky stuff with, laugh with ( I love laughing and making jokes), build with, travel with etc.... so you won’t feel like you want to get a divorce in a future or even separate from...
And as for my friendships, Im pretty cool with a few former sexual partners. I always was great friends with them we just had sexual relations a few times. However, I value my friendships, most people don’t understand “friendship before relationships” and they rush into relationships.... so again I shall be a happy loner lol...
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