@RollergirlOrc
12 Years1,000+ Posts
Both devil and saint
It's a human thing to get distracted. It's a human thing to get upset if someone is not paying attention to you. I don't think this one single even has anything to do with your sign.
That being said, there seems to be underlying issues here. You're upset that your partner is not pulling their weight and not appreciating all that you do. This is why you snapped.
Normally, if one is not paying attention a simple: "Sorry hun. I missed that. I was distracted." ...will suffice.
Were you perhaps cleaning while they were barking?
Were they barking at you to throw something away that you didn't want to throw away? Or did you throw away something that they thought you shouldn't have? I'm just saying people who are good at cleaning sometimes get rid of clutter more easily than some. 😉
Seems like you are putting up with too much and you are frustrated. Feel free to complain/vent. Get it all out.
tell xe xir needs to chill out
@Pisces_Hominis, I think you hit the nail on the head. Man, how does pisces do that. Yes, I am/ was mad that he isn't pulling his own weight. He's been unemployed for over a year and well, quarantine happened and now everything's pressed into a breathless vise.
He just snapped and I usually let it go but then I snapped back even harder. I think he's scared of me now. I feel awful. Most people wouldn't forgive or forget. But... well, I guess thats the first step isn't it. How is the sea...
Sounds like your snapping cause of pent up resentment from having to do all the cleaning. Communicate your frustration and if he doesn’t want to help, hire a weekly or bi monthly cleaning service
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Anyone ever feel like this? I do. Just now. I snapped at my partner over something petty. They snapped at me for "not listening " to them barking at me to throw something away. (I was distracted ok?). And so I fume and yell at them for attempting to punish my not paying attention. And now I feel like the devil. Is this normal among Capricorns or for people with Mars in scorpio. I feel like I do put up with a lot. Two people in my household but only one person does the cleaning, yes, I'm complaining.