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Posted by victoria-sakuraPosted by MidAtBestPosted by victoria-sakuraI love sun, mercury and Venus there; moon and mars for both, no. The emotional/passion planets lol. Both moons are pretty cruel, Virgo moons are hypocritical and judgmental, Taurus moons will make fun of how no one cares what I have to sayPosted by MidAtBest1/5 - taurus mercury ftw ... the singular green flag I have 😁
Green flags: sun & mercury in pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, capricorn. Moon in aqua, Aries, cancer, Capricorn. Venus in Scorpio, sag or Aqua, sun in libra or sag. Scorpio mars
Red flags: sun & mercury in leo, Aries, gemini. Moon in Scorpio, gemini, sag, leo, Taurus, Virgo, libra. Venus in libra, Virgo, Aries, Leo, pisces, gemini. Mars in gemini, pisces, libra, Leo, Virgo sag
Because I like people who are loyal and passive
Surprised to see taurus moon and virgo moon in red flags tho. I'm under the impression that people tend to like earth suns and earth moons.
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Cap moons are definitely neutral, they truly dont engage w who they dont want to, and sometimes not w who they do want to
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Ah I see. I have a hard time with the level of detachment that Cap Moons can exhibit. Once I had called capinc (Quad Cap - Sun Moon Merc Rising) an ice wall once because it got to a point where his detachment was eroding my composure like crazy. I think I'd like this Moon a lot more if I can just get past that detachment.click to expand


Posted by JayTheFantastic
Mercury in Aries only if there’s earth energy in their chart, I’ve noticed people with this combo tend to point out other people’s flaws sometimes implusively.

Posted by MidAtBestPosted by JayTheFantastic
Mercury in Aries only if there’s earth energy in their chart, I’ve noticed people with this combo tend to point out other people’s flaws sometimes implusively.
real. its hard to witness. I saw Logan and Jake Paul interview Danielle bregoli a long time ago & first thing she said was "Logan's the better looking brother". people don't empathize with the Pauls lol but that shit was uncomfortable. esp since Logan had recently fucked Alissa Violet when she was dating Jake
I asked my gyno yesterday if she thinks I'm fat and she said "no you're just a little soft, muscle is what you lack." I'm like are you blind xD she was an overweight older hispanic. definitely fire/aries placements lmao. ill look her up real quick
ok she was born on a Tuesday (mars day) cap sun, libra moon, sag mercury-venus, scorpio Mars. Pluto in 1st, Mars in 3rd, sun in 4th lmao. (according to my timeanddate ASC method). That moon that moon!click to expand
Posted by serenidadPosted by PolyannananaPosted by serenidadThis is what I had to put up with when I had a Cancer bf 😂 No personal space. I had to go to my parents house for a vacation from him sometimes 😛Posted by Argusi was hiding in the bathroom (watching some YouTube on my phone) after a quick shower.Posted by serenidadThe undeveloped, immature ones who choose to keep horse blinders on, for sure! Hope springs eternal though...Posted by Argusthey’re not aware of it and even if they were, they most likely don’t care lol they still want what they want at the expense of your sanity lol 😂
I'm typically not inclined to participate in ragging on specific signs parties, but my finding cancer energy challenging to say the least is no secret either. Their pervasive need or desire for other people's complete & utter emotional surrender & vulnerability while maintaining walls around their own hearts is frustrating at best. Mistrusting of anything good, they deploy manipulative tactics in order to elicits (desired) responses. Should a person dare see throguh said tactics & responds by emotionally shutting down as a defence mechanism, cancer energy perceives that as proof positive that they were right all along! It creates resentment on both ends which then turns into a self-fullfiling proficy. Shit just schoudnt be so damn hard! Your heart isn't any more precious than mine, ppl!
When they are good, they are like panacea for all ailments. But when they go sours, well...
Out of all placements, I must confess, I find cancer Mercury the most frustrating & I'm sure feelings are very much mutual.
Sources: several cancer sun's who chose me as their bff and if i dared to hang out with other friends, there was always a seething jealously on their end.. Sufice it to say none of those lasted long. Couple of Gem sun's with prominent cancer placements & my ex Leo (cancer cusp), Scorp moon, Merc, Venus, Mars in cancer.... I don't mind occasional jelously &/or possessiveness in smaller doses, but the shadow side if not managed properly ultimately leads to toxic environment yet, oddly, I don't think they are even aware of it!
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i was in there for no more than 20 minutes.
and this dude literally comes and opens the bathroom door fully knowing i’m in there and goes “oh. i was wondering where you went”
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They can make it up to you by cooking for you or doing lots of favours for you though 😀 You should ask him for help around the house, you're missing out on their motherly love !
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that’s crazy that you had to escape to your parents house in order to get some alone time lol 😂 i think this sign (cancer) worries more than other signs. and perhaps that worry/anxiety leads to unnecessary “invading of personal space/clingy behavior”. i’m not quite sure but yeah.
and yeah my issue is i don’t ask for help lol
also yeah, i’ve been hearing cancers are supposed to be “helpful” around the house but this dude barely does anything lol 😂
right now, i’m having to wake him up every morning like a mom cuz he can’t seem to set a freaking alarm clock and wake up on his own lol
i gotta call him into the kitchen/dining room once breakfast/lunch/dinner is ready like a mom telling her teenage son to come down stairs before the food gets cold lol 😂
i do his laundry, i clean up his mess, i run errands for him (like, he’s even fussy about toothpaste flavors. i had to go find a grape flavored one cuz he didn’t like mint 😂) and many other incidents like that, even remind him to shower 😂 i gotta explain to him i can’t be in front of him all the time entertaining him cuz i got stuff to do lol
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Posted by PolyannananaPosted by serenidadPosted by PolyannananaPosted by serenidadThis is what I had to put up with when I had a Cancer bf 😂 No personal space. I had to go to my parents house for a vacation from him sometimes 😛Posted by Argusi was hiding in the bathroom (watching some YouTube on my phone) after a quick shower.Posted by serenidadThe undeveloped, immature ones who choose to keep horse blinders on, for sure! Hope springs eternal though...Posted by Argusthey’re not aware of it and even if they were, they most likely don’t care lol they still want what they want at the expense of your sanity lol 😂
I'm typically not inclined to participate in ragging on specific signs parties, but my finding cancer energy challenging to say the least is no secret either. Their pervasive need or desire for other people's complete & utter emotional surrender & vulnerability while maintaining walls around their own hearts is frustrating at best. Mistrusting of anything good, they deploy manipulative tactics in order to elicits (desired) responses. Should a person dare see throguh said tactics & responds by emotionally shutting down as a defence mechanism, cancer energy perceives that as proof positive that they were right all along! It creates resentment on both ends which then turns into a self-fullfiling proficy. Shit just schoudnt be so damn hard! Your heart isn't any more precious than mine, ppl!
When they are good, they are like panacea for all ailments. But when they go sours, well...
Out of all placements, I must confess, I find cancer Mercury the most frustrating & I'm sure feelings are very much mutual.
Sources: several cancer sun's who chose me as their bff and if i dared to hang out with other friends, there was always a seething jealously on their end.. Sufice it to say none of those lasted long. Couple of Gem sun's with prominent cancer placements & my ex Leo (cancer cusp), Scorp moon, Merc, Venus, Mars in cancer.... I don't mind occasional jelously &/or possessiveness in smaller doses, but the shadow side if not managed properly ultimately leads to toxic environment yet, oddly, I don't think they are even aware of it!
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i was in there for no more than 20 minutes.
and this dude literally comes and opens the bathroom door fully knowing i’m in there and goes “oh. i was wondering where you went”
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They can make it up to you by cooking for you or doing lots of favours for you though 😀 You should ask him for help around the house, you're missing out on their motherly love !
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that’s crazy that you had to escape to your parents house in order to get some alone time lol 😂 i think this sign (cancer) worries more than other signs. and perhaps that worry/anxiety leads to unnecessary “invading of personal space/clingy behavior”. i’m not quite sure but yeah.
and yeah my issue is i don’t ask for help lol
also yeah, i’ve been hearing cancers are supposed to be “helpful” around the house but this dude barely does anything lol 😂
right now, i’m having to wake him up every morning like a mom cuz he can’t seem to set a freaking alarm clock and wake up on his own lol
i gotta call him into the kitchen/dining room once breakfast/lunch/dinner is ready like a mom telling her teenage son to come down stairs before the food gets cold lol 😂
i do his laundry, i clean up his mess, i run errands for him (like, he’s even fussy about toothpaste flavors. i had to go find a grape flavored one cuz he didn’t like mint 😂) and many other incidents like that, even remind him to shower 😂 i gotta explain to him i can’t be in front of him all the time entertaining him cuz i got stuff to do lol
but yeah i gotta start asking him to at least help me set the table or something when we eat at home lol
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He probably has gem venus too like my ex 😂
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Posted by ThatWomanAgain11
I don't mesh well with Aries suns, they are sweet and all but their martian energy is too excessive for me imo.
Aries mars the same thing, too energetic for me that needs peace more than anything.
Scorpio suns so far the most understanding ones despite the gloomy vibes. Generally, when they say something it usually creates realization.
Pisces suns are great to an extent, they have keen knowledge of things but the way they like to drown people is the problem.
I think Leo suns are chill and relaxed. Not afraid to show everything. But that's about it, nothing more, I had a leo sun ex and the relationship was okay.
Taurus is the best! Period.
Geminis are very engaging to me but I may bore the hell out of them lol
Cancer suns (depending on other charts each person has) usually understand me more than I understand myself so it's really good to have around.
I find Aquarius suns to be interesting, funny yet very kind but their control is too burdening. Lol I tried my best with them but I seem to end up disappointing them.
Capricorn is very good to me, actually. I understand them and I never sense they to be harming anyone and I appreciate that. They mostly mind their own business.
Libras are nice to have, I like libra energy. It's light and it makes me feel lighthearted.
Sagittariuses are awesome imo. I never find them judging anyone but I find them too selfish at times and they like to hunt information be in the front or behind my back.
Like my scorp in 12th dont allow it to happen lol
Virgos are cool! They can get crazy but they are lazer sharp and I like it!

Posted by hollywoodpunk123Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by victoria-sakuraPosted by Enfant-Terrible-II
Leo moon
Big babies. Love to get reactions out of people and provoke for the sake of provocation. Ask them not to poke the bear and they'll actively poke that bear cuz you told them not to. They love to joke on other people's expence but their ego bruises easily when the joke's on them. Can dish it out but can't take it -type. Somewhat on the martyr side over shit they themselves stirred up.
Their humor is kind of lame and tryhard (Ands excluded) , their jokes and comebacks have too much exposition to hit the right spots and I normally just end up cringing inside.
Like sad clowns They also seem to use humor as coping mechanism which can come off as disrespectful and inappropriate at times. But in order to be sad clowns they'd have to have an inner life of some sort, while it actually mostly seems to revolve around how they are percieved by others.
Thank you for giving me this opportunity to vent. 🙃
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So i recently did my chart online and i really don’t understand it. I was hoping someone could interpret it for me or give me some insight.
What kind of personality do my placements give me, or traits?
Sun: Taurus 23°
Moon: Aries 26°
Rising: Sagittarius 6°
Mercury: Gemini 7°
Venus: Cancer 7°
Mars: Pisces 29°
Jupiter: Sagittarius 17° (Retrospect)
Saturn: Leo 18°
Uranus: Pisces 18°
Neptune: Aquarius 22°
Pluto: Sagittarius 28° (Retrospect)
Lilith: Libra 23°
North Node: Pisces: 13°
(This is Placidus not Whole Sign)
II Capricorn 12°26'
III Aquarius 27°32'
IV Aries 5°33'
V Taurus 1°58'
VI Taurus 21°13'
VII Gemini 6°57'
VIII Cancer 12°26'
IX Leo 27°32'
X MC Libra 5°33'
XI Scorpio 1°58'
XII Scorpio 21°13'
In Placidus my Aries moon is apparently in 4th house but in Whole Sign it’s in the 5th.
Would love to know if any of my placements are good in general and how they impact me. Thanks a lot!click to expand

Posted by JayTheFantasticPosted by MidAtBestPosted by JayTheFantasticreal. its hard to witness. I saw Logan and Jake Paul interview Danielle bregoli a long time ago & first thing she said was "Logan's the better looking brother". people don't empathize with the Pauls lol but that shit was uncomfortable. esp since Logan had recently fucked Alissa Violet when she was dating Jake
Mercury in Aries only if there’s earth energy in their chart, I’ve noticed people with this combo tend to point out other people’s flaws sometimes implusively.
I asked my gyno yesterday if she thinks I'm fat and she said "no you're just a little soft, muscle is what you lack." I'm like are you blind xD she was an overweight older hispanic. definitely fire/aries placements lmao. ill look her up real quick
ok she was born on a Tuesday (mars day) cap sun, libra moon, sag mercury-venus, scorpio Mars. Pluto in 1st, Mars in 3rd, sun in 4th lmao. (according to my timeanddate ASC method). That moon that moon!
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I’m telling you I love my Aries people but that Mercury in Aries is a MF especially if they have a lot of earth in their chart lol I used to dislike my Mercury sign but now I like it people with that placement are creative with their words now I’ll still tell it like it is but we have the ability to choose when, it’s almost like Mercury in Aries can’t help but say negative things impulsively. This is the reason I love Aries women with Mercury in pisces they’re so smooth with it I get into a lot of arguments with Mercury in Aries people mostly cause they said something I feel was unnecessary. Like we’ll be cool then they’ll say something to ruin the vibe. I used to mess with this Taurus girl she had a Mercury in Aries and mars in Aries she used to criticize me so much to the point that whenever we was talking on the phone I had to brace myself and tell myself calm down you know she’s gonna say something to rile you up don’t let her. She was one the few that could really push my buttons like make me explosively mad. I ain’t gonna lie tho I feel like since you’re a gemini and sag moon you might handle it better than me since yall less emotional. Fire and Water is not a nice combo when reacting to things.click to expand



Posted by JayTheFantasticPosted by MidAtBestPosted by JayTheFantasticreal. its hard to witness. I saw Logan and Jake Paul interview Danielle bregoli a long time ago & first thing she said was "Logan's the better looking brother". people don't empathize with the Pauls lol but that shit was uncomfortable. esp since Logan had recently fucked Alissa Violet when she was dating Jake
Mercury in Aries only if there’s earth energy in their chart, I’ve noticed people with this combo tend to point out other people’s flaws sometimes implusively.
I asked my gyno yesterday if she thinks I'm fat and she said "no you're just a little soft, muscle is what you lack." I'm like are you blind xD she was an overweight older hispanic. definitely fire/aries placements lmao. ill look her up real quick
ok she was born on a Tuesday (mars day) cap sun, libra moon, sag mercury-venus, scorpio Mars. Pluto in 1st, Mars in 3rd, sun in 4th lmao. (according to my timeanddate ASC method). That moon that moon!
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I’m telling you I love my Aries people but that Mercury in Aries is a MF especially if they have a lot of earth in their chart lol I used to dislike my Mercury sign but now I like it people with that placement are creative with their words now I’ll still tell it like it is but we have the ability to choose when, it’s almost like Mercury in Aries can’t help but say negative things impulsively. This is the reason I love Aries women with Mercury in pisces they’re so smooth with it I get into a lot of arguments with Mercury in Aries people mostly cause they said something I feel was unnecessary. Like we’ll be cool then they’ll say something to ruin the vibe. I used to mess with this Taurus girl she had a Mercury in Aries and mars in Aries she used to criticize me so much to the point that whenever we was talking on the phone I had to brace myself and tell myself calm down you know she’s gonna say something to rile you up don’t let her. She was one the few that could really push my buttons like make me explosively mad. I ain’t gonna lie tho I feel like since you’re a gemini and sag moon you might handle it better than me since yall less emotional. Fire and Water is not a nice combo when reacting to things.click to expand


Posted by goddessofthesunPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Aries
Simply put. Their energy is a bit too much for this laid back guy. My all time hateful sign
They're very childish and throw temper tantrums half the time. I can't stand them, especially the men.click to expand

Posted by Bluemoon86Posted by goddessofthesunPosted by Jumpin_JupiterThey're very childish and throw temper tantrums half the time. I can't stand them, especially the men.
Aries
Simply put. Their energy is a bit too much for this laid back guy. My all time hateful sign
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Anyone who hates an Aries that much does not like the truth being known. They hate honesty and realness. They hate when an Aries holds a mirror up to them to make them look at themselves.
There are only 2 warriors in the zodiac. Aries and Scorpio. An Aries is a fearless leader. 😊click to expand

Posted by Lulufer
All signs have their own flaws, but something about Cancer sun or any major Cancer placement’s shadow side just makes me want to distance myself from them as far as possible
Childlike/dependent behaviour as a way to manipulate acceptance, forming alliances with people instead of having their own strong personality, worst of all drawing personal information out of someone for the sake of later exploitation… like weaponizing and framing it against them

Posted by HaveATourmalinePosted by MidAtBest
Green flags: sun & mercury in pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, capricorn. Moon in aqua, Aries, cancer, Capricorn. Venus in Scorpio, sag or Aqua, sun in libra or sag. Scorpio mars
Red flags: sun & mercury in leo, Aries, gemini. Moon in Scorpio, gemini, sag, leo, Taurus, Virgo, libra. Venus in libra, Virgo, Aries, Leo, pisces, gemini. Mars in gemini, pisces, libra, Leo, Virgo sag
Because I like people who are loyal and passive
I can see you want to play golf.. there are a lot of flags when you play it. All red though..click to expand

Posted by HaveATourmalinePosted by MidAtBestPosted by HaveATourmalinePosted by MidAtBest
Green flags: sun & mercury in pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, capricorn. Moon in aqua, Aries, cancer, Capricorn. Venus in Scorpio, sag or Aqua, sun in libra or sag. Scorpio mars
Red flags: sun & mercury in leo, Aries, gemini. Moon in Scorpio, gemini, sag, leo, Taurus, Virgo, libra. Venus in libra, Virgo, Aries, Leo, pisces, gemini. Mars in gemini, pisces, libra, Leo, Virgo sag
Because I like people who are loyal and passive
I can see you want to play golf.. there are a lot of flags when you play it. All red though..
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Im phobic of golf balls
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Posted by MidAtBestPosted by HaveATourmalinePosted by MidAtBestPosted by HaveATourmalinePosted by MidAtBest
Green flags: sun & mercury in pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, capricorn. Moon in aqua, Aries, cancer, Capricorn. Venus in Scorpio, sag or Aqua, sun in libra or sag. Scorpio mars
Red flags: sun & mercury in leo, Aries, gemini. Moon in Scorpio, gemini, sag, leo, Taurus, Virgo, libra. Venus in libra, Virgo, Aries, Leo, pisces, gemini. Mars in gemini, pisces, libra, Leo, Virgo sag
Because I like people who are loyal and passive
I can see you want to play golf.. there are a lot of flags when you play it. All red though..
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Im phobic of golf balls
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Is it because they are hard?
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Posted by BlackPearlPosted by Lulufer
All signs have their own flaws, but something about Cancer sun or any major Cancer placement’s shadow side just makes me want to distance myself from them as far as possible
Childlike/dependent behaviour as a way to manipulate acceptance, forming alliances with people instead of having their own strong personality, worst of all drawing personal information out of someone for the sake of later exploitation… like weaponizing and framing it against them
What are your big 3?
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Posted by goddessofthesun
I'm bored.

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I'm bored.

Posted by goddessofthesunPosted by BlackPearlPosted by Lulufer
All signs have their own flaws, but something about Cancer sun or any major Cancer placement’s shadow side just makes me want to distance myself from them as far as possible
Childlike/dependent behaviour as a way to manipulate acceptance, forming alliances with people instead of having their own strong personality, worst of all drawing personal information out of someone for the sake of later exploitation… like weaponizing and framing it against them
What are your big 3?
I quite like Cancer placements. I find them to be therapeutic
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Ah I see. I have a hard time with the level of detachment that Cap Moons can exhibit. Once I had called capinc (Quad Cap - Sun Moon Merc Rising) an ice wall once because it got to a point where his detachment was eroding my composure like crazy. I think I'd like this Moon a lot more if I can just get past that detachment.