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If you read about 8th house traits and relate that to the wounding process it will make sense. This can include control and power issues, transformation, intimacy, sexuality, vulnerability etc.

This may help?

Chiron in Aries - Transiting the 8th house

(Probably for Virgo Rising Sign)

Chiron transiting the 8th house stirs up your vulnerability with very strong passions or emotions. Traumatic events may trigger the most unconscious or hidden psychological conflicts or bring up unresolved issues from your early life. Sensitivity is heightened, and you feel more vulnerable. Every exchange with another human being or the life circumstances can seem like a life threat.

It's very possible that you undergo spiritual experiences that take you into a profound transformational process dealing with inner insecurities. Those events can show a financial face. For instance, there might be conflicts involving shared resources or assets that take you into a very stressful 'all or nothing' mode of insecurity. Either merging or not merging resources becomes the end of the world. A tendency to avoid the feeling of uncertainty can feed obsessions or possessiveness.

Other transformational experiences can show the face of sexual relationships, which involves the energy merge with another person. One may have a hard time overcoming feelings of vulnerability in order to surrender to the sexual act or intimate exchange. From the polarity of the 2d house, we may not feel comfortable being seen naked (physically or emotionally) because of our insecurities. Therefore, sexuality can become a traumatic experience. In this case, we may develop strong passionate feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, obsession with the object of our affection. Projecting insecurities onto the 'other', intimate relationships can arouse our low-self esteem.

Generally speaking, Chiron transiting the 8th house helps us learn how to appropriately manage our own power and energies when we attempt to share them with another person. We may feel a strong drive to control or overpower others, or on the contrary we may let others have power over us. Becoming too intensely possessive, can provoke others to reject us or cheat on us. Not giving enough power in a relationship can provoke the other to abandon us.

With this Chiron transit, one may feel that life has become cloudy and dark, like a weather ready for a storm. Our moods can be constantly drawn down to the shadow side of life, preoccupied with serious matters, especially with an underlying fear of death. We may approach daily life with an earnest intense attitude that may attract those who suffer profound crisis. People may perceive us as someone who knows how to deal with suffering, which gives us opportunities to play the healer's role.