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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!

The signs you have listed are hard work, and it’s takes a while with them. Would I ever wait around for them no, but some women want a challenge. So they think they are being clever by scoping out their birth-chart and unravelling them, it speaks more about the person who is pursuing them... not the subject.

The fact you mentioned Virgo men, how you don’t know anything about them tells me your not the brightest of spark.

I agree going after those signs require an acquired taste but in general life is too short to figure out their bullshit.

Dang what’s with your disdain for Virgo men? Who hurt you? I barely know any Virgos in real life and anyone discussing about them on dxp is like nonexistent. I could care less if that statement of mine makes you think I’m not the ‘brightest of spark’ 😂 Your posts are helping show the petty Cancer men side. Btw it’s “you’re” not “your”.
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For sure, that’s why I said I would never wait around for that. But each to their own.

I don’t dislike any signs, absolutely nothing wrong with Virgos. Thanks for fixing the autocorrect, you get a gold star
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1<div class="bqfade">click to expand


Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
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Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
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Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
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Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.
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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!
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People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.

That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.
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Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.
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You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣
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As far as good traits for Taurus: gentle natured, family man, hard working when they set their minds to it, homebodies (if you are too, thats a major plus!), often cleanfreaks, loves the finer, quality things in life, very caring in their own way. They arent fast in commiting to you or to tell you that they love you but you'll sure know in their ways and behaviours, things they'll do for you. Great apetite for sex!

Good traits for Scorpio: hard working family man, rather workaholic, doesnt hesitate to help you with whatever help you need, hates conflicts, great humor, explosive but good natured, awesome sex!

Good traits for Cancer: gentle, loving, would give the coat off his back to help someone, would suffer for you just to see you happy, very clingy and possesive when they love you (you can take that as a good thing or a bad thing), great with kids! Not materialistic, rather is in nature than in a fancy hotel.

These are my good experiences with the 3 signs.
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I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!

People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.

That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.
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What baffles me the most is those who come to ask about their partners on dxp are mostly grown ass adults who have a lot of relationship experience under their belt yet still manage to post threads seeking advice on the most absurd things. Am I honestly the only one appalled by it? It’s things you’d expect teenagers to troll about except on here it’s actual dumbfounded grown ass adults from their 30s. If you have a bunch of grown ass adult women complaining about Cancer men leaving them for instance, surely there must be something to look into about them? Either that or I just severely underestimate how mentally challenged people are.
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.

😈

I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏











You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣
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Whatever helps make your day brighter ❤️
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.

😈

I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏











You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣

Whatever helps make your day brighter ❤️
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Isn’t that purpose of dxp, did you think I take this place seriously 😆 for a second there I thought you’ll come up with coping and crabs 🤣🤣

Good night Neno, I tried to keep your dead thread alive 😘
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Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

I think same sign relationship doesn’t work out often even though I think people deserve to get a taste of their own medicine. I have a close Pisces friend who was in a serious relationship with another Pisces and they were literally on the road to getting married until my Pisces friend (male) got too overwhelmed with her and completely shut it down.
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As far as good traits for Taurus: gentle natured, family man, hard working when they set their minds to it, homebodies (if you are too, thats a major plus!), often cleanfreaks, loves the finer, quality things in life, very caring in their own way. They arent fast in commiting to you or to tell you that they love you but you'll sure know in their ways and behaviours, things they'll do for you. Great apetite for sex!

Good traits for Scorpio: hard working family man, rather workaholic, doesnt hesitate to help you with whatever help you need, hates conflicts, great humor, explosive but good natured, awesome sex!

Good traits for Cancer: gentle, loving, would give the coat off his back to help someone, would suffer for you just to see you happy, very clingy and possesive when they love you (you can take that as a good thing or a bad thing), great with kids! Not materialistic, rather is in nature than in a fancy hotel.

These are my good experiences with the 3 signs.

You’ve been in a long-term relationship with all 3?
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Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.

Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.

Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.

Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1

Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂

Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.

Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.

More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.

Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.

😈

I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏











You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣

Whatever helps make your day brighter ❤️

Isn’t that purpose of dxp, did you think I take this place seriously 😆 for a second there I thought you’ll come up with coping and crabs 🤣🤣

Good night Neno, I tried to keep your dead thread alive 😘
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Uh huh, nighty night!
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Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.

I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.

Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.

Were there any other signs that stood out? And what about when it came to any female abusers?

Not quite. I mainly picked Taurus because it's the only pattern where I realized their patterns/MO were consistent with other Taureans. Pisces men could be a runner up though.

Where the toxic version of taurus men use accusations, possessions and guilt-tripping, toxic pisces men will play mind games and emotional manipulation to keep the partner stranded in their small world.

For women, I'd say Scorpio or Cancer.

Cancer when toxic, is the worst perpetrator. Cancer will do shitty things and gaslight the fuck out of the partner and try to convince the partner that they (the cancer) have been the only victim.

Scorpio is only mentioned because I do not agree with the type of partner that expects everything and only wants to offer crumbs on the trust spectrum, while often playing games to constantly testing the partner. It's far from as damaging as other forms of abuse, but it's still abusive.
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scorpio sun/moon/dominants always feel entitled to information

but share very little of themselves
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i'm scared of cancer and taurus men

What about them specifically scares you?
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the stories online and from what i've seen in actual life. they make themselves seem like people who are nurturing, looking out for you and overall pure-intentioned but they're really just being selfish. even the ones i've thought were decent turned out to be abusive/cheaters.

taurus men mainly coz of all the domestic abuse instances. and sometimes (though i'm okay with it at first), they act wayyyy too familiar. there's friendliness but then sooner or later, i'd feel overwhelmed. you can maybe criticize me playfully or tease me a bit.... but if you do it too much, i just get offended.
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The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.

I’m sure it is sweetie

Why the condescending attitude?

It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way

Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch

The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.
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No one knows anyone's progress in relationship struggles with themselves for certain. I'm not gonna call the pot black, especially people here I exchange comments with almost every other day.
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i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!

So the years I been on dxp it’s been crazy to see how many Taurus cheating/harem threads there has been. You sure your bull doesn’t have a secret harem? Haha. As someone else had mentioned, they are extremely wonderful at mingling with others and picking up friends/acquaintances from anywhere. They can be charming, but it comes at a cost :p

So what kind of bull do you have yourself and how long have you two been together?
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ha we joke that he has a harem (ie a different woman for every day) and i'll admit he is very popular with the ladies (plus has gem merc so would chat to a lamp post) but no, no harem. to be frank, i don't know where he would find the time to have a string of women. plus he is a little clueless when it comes to women flirting with him. i had to basically throw myself at him for him to take notice and even them he didn't believe me that my interest was genuine. from knowing him he just doesn't have that killer pua in him.

i don't know maybe because we have such a strong friendship and i know that is important to him to maintain so neither of us wants to do anything that puts that in jeopardy.

we've been together 6 years.

i can't explain the large number of complaint threads taurus gets. if i were to guess i think it's partly because taurus can be difficult to pin down. they are not very forthcoming and they are very particular about what they are seeking. other signs also have expectations that just aren't realistic when it comes to taurus. it an be very frustrating. yes, they can be slow to act or make up their mind. yes, they aren't the best communicators of their feelings. yes, their caution and need to be protective/private can make you feel like you are in it alone.

and yes, they can be cheaters but i suppose everyone has that potential.
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I think it’s all in compatibility and synastry. For example, plenty of people find Gemini men challenging, but place Aqua or Libra with Gem sun men and you will not hear complaints. Similarly, Cancers and Scorpios belong with water element. Air and fire signs will be annoyed with water signs in the long run because they do not communicate; whereas air signs rule communication. We can talk about everything under the sun.
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If sex isn't important, you're not having it the right way. Meaning, you're not soul connecting. You're just physically moving body parts. You're supposed to make love in everything you do. Speaking to each other. Mental stimulation and foreplay. Laughing and playing together. Reading to each other, naked in the tub. Connecting. Not just mashing the physical together. No wonder why no one seems to last.
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Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.


you ever read 'love in the time of cholera?'

i look at the lead guy and think he's a pisces

lo and behold the author's born march 6
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but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.

do i owe my mother this info?

why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?

What kind of pills are you abusing/addicted to?
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Posted by virgoOPPP

but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.

do i owe my mother this info?

why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?

What kind of pills are you abusing/addicted to?
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black screen you owe info to
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Posted by virgoOPPP

but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.

do i owe my mother this info?

why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?

What kind of pills are you abusing/addicted to?

black screen you owe info to
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You cannot give a clear answer because you are probably high right now.
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Posted by PiscesGal76

Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

you ever read 'love in the time of cholera?'

i look at the lead guy and think he's a pisces

lo and behold the author's born march 6
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I havent...
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Posted by PiscesGal76

Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!

So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

I think same sign relationship doesn’t work out often even though I think people deserve to get a taste of their own medicine. I have a close Pisces friend who was in a serious relationship with another Pisces and they were literally on the road to getting married until my Pisces friend (male) got too overwhelmed with her and completely shut it down.
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Some people do deserve that, yes I agree...

I'm nowhere near like those Pisces guys tho.
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Posted by jeane

i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!

So the years I been on dxp it’s been crazy to see how many Taurus cheating/harem threads there has been. You sure your bull doesn’t have a secret harem? Haha. As someone else had mentioned, they are extremely wonderful at mingling with others and picking up friends/acquaintances from anywhere. They can be charming, but it comes at a cost :p

So what kind of bull do you have yourself and how long have you two been together?
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Please look up confirmation bias and I think you'll find your answers.
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Posted by Isolde

I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.

Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!

People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.

That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.

Either that or I just severely underestimate how mentally challenged people are.
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This.