
Isolde
@Isolde
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Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.

Posted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.click to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!click to expand


Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.click to expand


Posted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!
People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.
That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.click to expand

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.
😈
I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏
You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.
😈
I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏
You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣
Whatever helps make your day brighter ❤️click to expand

Posted by PiscesGal76
Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!
So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.

Posted by PiscesGal76
As far as good traits for Taurus: gentle natured, family man, hard working when they set their minds to it, homebodies (if you are too, thats a major plus!), often cleanfreaks, loves the finer, quality things in life, very caring in their own way. They arent fast in commiting to you or to tell you that they love you but you'll sure know in their ways and behaviours, things they'll do for you. Great apetite for sex!
Good traits for Scorpio: hard working family man, rather workaholic, doesnt hesitate to help you with whatever help you need, hates conflicts, great humor, explosive but good natured, awesome sex!
Good traits for Cancer: gentle, loving, would give the coat off his back to help someone, would suffer for you just to see you happy, very clingy and possesive when they love you (you can take that as a good thing or a bad thing), great with kids! Not materialistic, rather is in nature than in a fancy hotel.
These are my good experiences with the 3 signs.

Posted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by IsoldePosted by SassyKiwi
@IsoldePosted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
Cancer's often have a hard time finding themselves. Until then all you get is a Crab literally.
Not to mention high susceptibility to issues concerning their self image and nothing being good enough. Becomes real tiresome sometimes.
Also very very very very very salty. At least we don't have thyroid problems.
Interesting insight I just came across on Cancer men, makes so much sense.
Isolde, why haven’t you posted in this Cancer man help thread? Go forth and give your blessings:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-personality-14210324/?checkpg=1
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, I think CG11 has already answered it quite aptly 😂
Really? I never saw astrology paint them as “perfect sweeties”. Always saw them painted more as emotionally vulnerable and entangled.
Clever editing there, first sentence would’ve suffice. As you’ve spent a bit of time on here you would be an expert on threads v reality v astrology books.
More than happy to listen to your take on it, after all this is your thread on toxicity.
Engaging in a conversation with you is just me gauging out more insight on the Cancer male. I find it interesting how your responses are always more prideful than another Cancer male, BETYOURLIFEONIT, who seems to be more humble and forthcoming about the Cancer sun shortcomings. It must be his Aries moon vs your Aqua moon. That has now piqued my interest on understanding the Aries moon further.
😈
I’m glad you’ve finally figured it out 👏
You still don’t realise I’m trolling you Neno 🤣🤣🤣
Whatever helps make your day brighter ❤️
Isn’t that purpose of dxp, did you think I take this place seriously 😆 for a second there I thought you’ll come up with coping and crabs 🤣🤣
Good night Neno, I tried to keep your dead thread alive 😘click to expand

Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Agree with Taurus. As much as I like some of them, they're absolute horrors in relationships by my experience. The worst case was a Taurus in the forces that my bestie met on the rebound. This guy was so controlling that he nearly raged out when a friend and I were playing ping pong "the wrong way", despite the fact that we were on a binge weekend doing whatever we wanted and only invited him as courtesy of having been alongside our friend.
I had to warn her that I was very likely to kill him in the near future, if she started going off the radar due to his wishes.
Also noticed that a lot of the domestic abuse cases I've had to review at work had Taurus men as the perpetrator.
Were there any other signs that stood out? And what about when it came to any female abusers?
Not quite. I mainly picked Taurus because it's the only pattern where I realized their patterns/MO were consistent with other Taureans. Pisces men could be a runner up though.
Where the toxic version of taurus men use accusations, possessions and guilt-tripping, toxic pisces men will play mind games and emotional manipulation to keep the partner stranded in their small world.
For women, I'd say Scorpio or Cancer.
Cancer when toxic, is the worst perpetrator. Cancer will do shitty things and gaslight the fuck out of the partner and try to convince the partner that they (the cancer) have been the only victim.
Scorpio is only mentioned because I do not agree with the type of partner that expects everything and only wants to offer crumbs on the trust spectrum, while often playing games to constantly testing the partner. It's far from as damaging as other forms of abuse, but it's still abusive.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by virgoOPPP
i'm scared of cancer and taurus men
What about them specifically scares you?click to expand
Posted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by _Dazed
The relationship I have with myself is pretty healthy.
I’m sure it is sweetie
Why the condescending attitude?
It’s only condescending if you choose to take it that way
Either that or it’s just people in your dxp ‘inner circle’ only allowed to respond to you in a joking or sarcastic humorous tone without your panties getting in a bunch
The point of my comment is that before you can have a healthy relationship with anyone else, regardless of sign.. you must first have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is something most dxp users don't have.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by jeane
i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!
So the years I been on dxp it’s been crazy to see how many Taurus cheating/harem threads there has been. You sure your bull doesn’t have a secret harem? Haha. As someone else had mentioned, they are extremely wonderful at mingling with others and picking up friends/acquaintances from anywhere. They can be charming, but it comes at a cost :p
So what kind of bull do you have yourself and how long have you two been together?click to expand

Posted by MikeNYNYC
Capricorn and Virgo get special recognition; although not toxic, they can be hard for some to please/deal with.



Posted by PiscesGal76
Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!
So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.


Posted by virgoOPPP
but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.
do i owe my mother this info?
why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?

Posted by black773Posted by virgoOPPP
but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.
do i owe my mother this info?
why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?
What kind of pills are you abusing/addicted to?click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by black773Posted by virgoOPPP
but i like scorpios (even if sometimes annoying). they have a parental energy i like that. kinda like mom asking why i've got so many condoms in my purse. and i can't bring myself to tell her that it's coz my bf and i don't use any.
do i owe my mother this info?
why can't i leave her with the thrill of this mystery?
What kind of pills are you abusing/addicted to?
black screen you owe info toclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by PiscesGal76
Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!
So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.
you ever read 'love in the time of cholera?'
i look at the lead guy and think he's a pisces
lo and behold the author's born march 6click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by PiscesGal76
Most toxic goes to Pisces men to be honest. I tried with 2, both were toxic as hell. Seeking attention from the ladies, trying to portrait themselves as very helpful, undrrstanding and true people but in fact, all they want to do is get into your pants! First Pisces still holds a grudge after 9 years cause I caught him cheating and called him on it. I broke it off and he couldnt handle that. Second Pisces was just recently, started out as friends, totally unexpected, he appeared very supportive, understanding, focused, the whole nine yards,... we met up for icecream, had a 2 hour chat and had a great time. A few weeks after, with many texts, phonecalls ect, he asked me out for dinner. I said yes but I also said to not have expectations of any kind. Well, we met up 2nd time and half hour in... he told me he likes me more than just liking me. He hadnt said it a second ago and he was all over me, kissing, touching, trying to crawl inside me basically. Right on the spot I said that I'm not at the same feelings as him. He was ok with that... but still didnt keep hands to himself. Ugh... I ended up going home early as I didnt feel safe at all. And I was fully dressed but felt very naked and vulnerable! I ended our contact all together. He also had other traits that I did not like. When I spoke with the waitress, he wouldnt let me finish my sentences and would start his own conversation. He did that at home aswell when we were together. Also, if I would tell him something, he would talk about himself and tried to outdo me. Very annoying!
So yeah, for me, Pisces men are most toxic.
I think same sign relationship doesn’t work out often even though I think people deserve to get a taste of their own medicine. I have a close Pisces friend who was in a serious relationship with another Pisces and they were literally on the road to getting married until my Pisces friend (male) got too overwhelmed with her and completely shut it down.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by jeane
i like to think i have a positive and healthy relationship with a taurus. they are not all bad!
So the years I been on dxp it’s been crazy to see how many Taurus cheating/harem threads there has been. You sure your bull doesn’t have a secret harem? Haha. As someone else had mentioned, they are extremely wonderful at mingling with others and picking up friends/acquaintances from anywhere. They can be charming, but it comes at a cost :p
So what kind of bull do you have yourself and how long have you two been together?click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by _DazedPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by Isolde
I don’t think any of those signs are toxic. People pursuing them don’t understand them hence the many threads.
Something must definitely be wrong with them if they’re not able to be understood in a big number. Did the “Cancer man left me” thread get deleted?!
People are inherently selfish, so it could just as easily be said that those that are misunderstood.. just weren't given the time of day by their partners to be understood.
That makes sense given that folks would rather come to dxp to ask others about their partners, than actually taking the time to get to know their partners personally.
Either that or I just severely underestimate how mentally challenged people are.click to expand

Posted by SassyKiwi
Most occurrence of these sign men based on the toxic relationship threads on here. Anyone like to share any POSITIVE, HEALTHY relationship experiences with the sign of these men?


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For sure, that’s why I said I would never wait around for that. But each to their own.
I don’t dislike any signs, absolutely nothing wrong with Virgos. Thanks for fixing the autocorrect, you get a gold star