Observing - does it annoy you?

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Posted by blvckphvse

You mean when others do it to me??

I am quite an observer myself and I don't tend to mind being observed by others.. depends on what they are observing though I guess.. If it's work related or something related to a skill I have, that's fine.. But if by observing you mean molesting you with their eyes.. Not so down with that..

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Not molesting lol but just watching. Some people make the assumption that means you are judging something about you. For me, it’s like fitting a puzzle together. But, some people ( perhaps insecure ones), make the assumption you are thinking negative things about them.

Was wondering if there is a difference astrology wise.. or if it’s more about insecurities.
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I observe a lot. You can find out so much by letting the other person speak, listening, being patient and keeping your mouth shut.

People will let you see a lot when you sit back and just observe. I love it and I also like someone observing me. They get a true sense of who I am, instead of some of the bull shit that comes from my mouth 🙂

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Moon Cancer

Venus Scorpio
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Posted by saggurl88

I observe a lot. You can find out so much by letting the other person speak, listening, being patient and keeping your mouth shut.

People will let you see a lot when you sit back and just observe. I love it and I also like someone observing me. They get a true sense of who I am, instead of some of the bull shit that comes from my mouth 🙂


Totally agreed!
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It makes me nervous when my love interest is doing it on me.

Sun Leo

Moon Cancer

Venus Virgo

What does it make you feel like? Besides nervous.

I just automatically assume they're judging/criticizing me and trying to pry into my subconscious and that just scares me into getting all self-conscious and worried that they don't like what they see.
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That is exactly what happened with the Libra last summer. He is Cancer mars but I always thought it was his Scorpio moon. Interesting

I’m dating or hanging out whatever it is with a new Libra who is Virgo Venus.. sometimes he seems nervous.. not exactly sure why but I hope I’m not doing that to him. I will need to observe myself lol
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It makes me nervous when my love interest is doing it on me.

Sun Leo

Moon Cancer

Venus Virgo

What does it make you feel like? Besides nervous.

I just automatically assume they're judging/criticizing me and trying to pry into my subconscious and that just scares me into getting all self-conscious and worried that they don't like what they see.

That is exactly what happened with the Libra last summer. He is Cancer mars but I always thought it was his Scorpio moon. Interesting

I’m dating or hanging out whatever it is with a new Libra who is Virgo Venus.. sometimes he seems nervous.. not exactly sure why but I hope I’m not doing that to him. I will need to observe myself lol

Damn, lol you love Libras, don't you? 😂

I think Cancer and Virgo energy are naturally kind of anxiety-ridden... I'm just speaking for myself and some others I've observed who have personal planets in those signs.
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Lol I’ve dated a few Libras in the last year and a half but never before that. So weird.

But true on the anxiety. Virgo energy seems to be something I like too lol.
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Posted by GC08
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I HATE when people try to figure me out on their own accord...drives me mad.

If I do not open up to someone naturally, then it just feels uncomfortable when they prod and pry into my shell. 🦀🦀🦀

Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Leo Venus

Ahh so it is the cancer placements!

Probably.

When ppl with cancer placements do feel cozy or connected to someone they will naturally open up & have a ton to say. 🗣🗣🗣

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I know 🙂 I think he got freaked out after he opened up.. but he was trying to mold me and yeah that’s not happening. So I shut up & observed.. but it was not what he thought it was about as it turned out.