Loving an aqua

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Aquarius3189 on Sunday, August 18, 2019 and has 10 replies.

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@Aquarius3189
9 Years1,000+ Posts

they need a lot of fcking space!!

isnt 13 years in a relationship enough to prove ourselves that we wont go astray and love you from the bottom of our hypothalamus?

why ya’all need validation?isnt out loyalty enough?the time we spent with you isnt it enough?why!!!—?? yes we value our time so if we chat you,message you in any form we fcking love or like you

you know why?we get bored easily and if you dont make sense we wont spend an hour with you but fcking hell some people just dont get that we Hate when someone is controlling us

do you know what controling someone means?

its when your pushing what you want for them(because you think its the best for them and you love them)and not just suggesting something in any form

ok im calm now

please if you love someone especially an aqua,love them for how unique they are,not your funny and special but i know i can change you so lets have a relationship so you can be perfect when i start with you

im in pieces right now because i’ve fallen for someone who wants to change me and i cant leave her because i’ve fallen in love with her too much to let her go,im in too deep and its too late

i’ve created this post to be an eye opener not to insult someone,sometimes we love someone too much that we dont realize how we are affecting the ones we love by making them the best

it hurts that what made that someone fall inlove with me in the first place is the very reason that made her feel that she needs to change me😢😢

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@Deedee75
13 Years

This is sweet.

I would never want to change my aqua. His quirks are what I love about him.

But we all need to be validated sometimes. Deep down, we may know that you love us, but it is still nice to hear sometimes.

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Posted by Sjess

Thanks for this post.

I’m dating an aqua now and I have to remember all this. I ain’t his momma.

Being with someone who wants to change you is not a good time.

Hang in there.


thank you,we just wanna be loved by someone who see us just the way we are,your aqua may need you to correct him when his wrong(we dont like doormats too)so be in the middle make him better but dont push too much,say your piece then make him decide

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Posted by Deedee75

This is sweet.

I would never want to change my aqua. His quirks are what I love about him.

But we all need to be validated sometimes. Deep down, we may know that you love us, but it is still nice to hear sometimes.


might be great if you tell him now and then that you would like to hear it sometimes,we are airheads for a reason we dont realize you need to hear it because in our mind we are already showing you,we thought its enough,but if its not just be honest