@DMV
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Serious Question…Would you entertain someone
Should You Answer His Phone Call After Being Humiliated?
Deciding whether to answer his call depends on your healing process and boundaries. If it risks reopening emotional wounds or enabling manipulation, ignoring may be best. Focus on your well-being and moving forward. Trust your instincts to determine if a conversation would benefit your growth or hinder your progress.
Are you kidding?
He’d only have to humiliate me once and that would be it!
How is it a serious question
The serious question should be how does someone not have the smallest amount of self respect to even entertain the idea of answering the dudes phone call
Did this happen to you?
Posted by MysteriousHeart
No, I would not entertain someone like that. I’ve been down that road before and it just left me feeling worthless. Told myself never again.
I’d not tolerate that passed the first time…men that do that have serious issues and rarely, if ever change
eww why are exes popping back up lately?
mine called me 5 times and texted me he missed me. good thing I never answer calls unless i get a text beforehand to get a clue.
like dude we both have our own families now kids and all, it's so over.
No.
Posted by virgoOPPP
eww why are exes popping back up lately?mine called me 5 times and texted me he missed me. good thing I never answer calls unless i get a text beforehand to get a clue.
like dude we both have our own families now kids and all, it's so over.
I think some men wait till they’re married with a family to do this lol. Seen it so many times.
How’s baby, you and daddy? ❤️
What a small insecure person to put others down in order to feel better about themselves. I would just write that person out from my life and those so called friends too. Surround yourself with people who love and appreciates you. Life is too short and precious to deal with shit like this.
Posted by virgoOPPP
eww why are exes popping back up lately?mine called me 5 times and texted me he missed me. good thing I never answer calls unless i get a text beforehand to get a clue.
like dude we both have our own families now kids and all, it's so over.
I think some men wait till they’re married with a family to do this lol. Seen it so many times.
How’s baby, you and daddy? ❤️
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eww i feel bad for his babymama coz all she ever posts about (yes we're friends, isn't that weird?) is her with the kids and quotes about being ignored by him. like I have no idea how she can raise them alone. i'm so lucky for dodging that bullet.
oh and my boys are asleep 😴😴 but the little one cries to be fed every now and then so i'm just waiting for him to do that lol coz daddy's so tired that I try to stay awake around this time to make sure they both stay asleep. we barely get any sleep so i don't even try anymore 😂😂
Posted by virgoOPPP
eww why are exes popping back up lately?mine called me 5 times and texted me he missed me. good thing I never answer calls unless i get a text beforehand to get a clue.
like dude we both have our own families now kids and all, it's so over.
I think some men wait till they’re married with a family to do this lol. Seen it so many times.
How’s baby, you and daddy? ❤️
click to expandeww i feel bad for his babymama coz all she ever posts about (yes we're friends, isn't that weird?) is her with the kids and quotes about being ignored by him. like I have no idea how she can raise them alone. i'm so lucky for dodging that bullet.
oh and my boys are asleep 😴😴 but the little one cries to be fed every now and then so i'm just waiting for him to do that lol coz daddy's so tired that I try to stay awake around this time to make sure they both stay asleep. we barely get any sleep so i don't even try anymore 😂😂
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Yes weird does she know he contacts you?
The sleep deprivation when they’re small
is crazy. Our lad woke up so much and we were always wrecked. It’s funny because he’s still hyper and finds it hard to relax whereas as a baby I’d sleep so much and as an adult I’m
really chilled.
Yes this is about me…
I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
To do with him
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
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She's seeking revenge. Her dad would probably beat the crap out of him but I doubt the guy would ever have the curious to say what he said to her dad.
Posted by virgoOPPP
eww why are exes popping back up lately?mine called me 5 times and texted me he missed me. good thing I never answer calls unless i get a text beforehand to get a clue.
like dude we both have our own families now kids and all, it's so over.
I think some men wait till they’re married with a family to do this lol. Seen it so many times.
How’s baby, you and daddy? ❤️
click to expandeww i feel bad for his babymama coz all she ever posts about (yes we're friends, isn't that weird?) is her with the kids and quotes about being ignored by him. like I have no idea how she can raise them alone. i'm so lucky for dodging that bullet.
oh and my boys are asleep 😴😴 but the little one cries to be fed every now and then so i'm just waiting for him to do that lol coz daddy's so tired that I try to stay awake around this time to make sure they both stay asleep. we barely get any sleep so i don't even try anymore 😂😂
Yes weird does she know he contacts you?
The sleep deprivation when they’re small
is crazy. Our lad woke up so much and we were always wrecked. It’s funny because he’s still hyper and finds it hard to relax whereas as a baby I’d sleep so much and as an adult I’m
really chilled.
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i used to tell her about times he'd contact me now i don't even care to coz i don't think it would change anything and we both know i've got a son I'm busy feeding, that i'm getting married soon. if she didn't live so far, i'd even invite her.
and first time i warned her she didn't believe me. he prob told her i'm crazy obsessed with him or whatever. then later on she tells me how she regrets not listening to me when i told her all about him. like what am i gaining here hello? 🤷🤷 I am with the better man 🏋️🏋️
also first week with the baby made me wonder when we'd ever 'really sleep' again. we were tired and panicked over every little thing like is he hiccuping too long? is he too cold/warm? etc.
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
She's seeking revenge. Her dad would probably beat the crap out of him but I doubt the guy would ever have the curious to say what he said to her dad.
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Not worth it ….
Best way to hurt him is to totally blank him
Tbh just let it go. It's just a waste of your energy dealing with miserable people. Let him be miserable with other miserable people and remove yourself from that sphere because his toxicity will only affect you in a bad way.
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
She's seeking revenge. Her dad would probably beat the crap out of him but I doubt the guy would ever have the curious to say what he said to her dad.
Not worth it ….
Best way to hurt him is to totally blank him
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I agree.
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
She's seeking revenge. Her dad would probably beat the crap out of him but I doubt the guy would ever have the curious to say what he said to her dad.
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Courage* not curious. 😅
Posted by ATGR
You know the answer to this. I’d also f*** off the friends that didn’t defend you.
That's exactly why it's best to not have so call friends to rely on. Fuck em. I go alone and carry a big stick.
Posted by ATGR
You know the answer to this. I’d also f*** off the friends that didn’t defend you.
Absolutely!
Who needs friends like that? 👎🏻
Ppl will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If a guy and your "friends" have no respect for you, you need to cut them off immediately. How are you even entertaining him after the first time he humiliated you?
Serious question: How in the hell is his # not blocked?
I don’t talk to any of these people
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
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I’m not going to talk to him but it would be fun to hear a jerk explain his bad behavior to my dad lol. Even then, why subject my father to a mad man.
The term “serious question “ was me being facetious.
You’ve already read the type of advice I give here.
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
click to expandShe's seeking revenge. Her dad would probably beat the crap out of him but I doubt the guy would ever have the curious to say what he said to her dad.
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Exactly my point
Posted by Timone
Tbh just let it go. It's just a waste of your energy dealing with miserable people. Let him be miserable with other miserable people and remove yourself from that sphere because his toxicity will only affect you in a bad way.
Did y’all even read the post?
I DONT TALK TO THESE PEOPLE
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
I’m not going to talk to him but it would be fun to hear a jerk explain his bad behavior to my dad lol. Even then, why subject my father to a mad man.
The term “serious question “ was me being facetious.
You’ve already read the type of advice I give here.
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Yes don’t subject dad to that
How long was he humiliating you for?
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.
I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
Posted by Timone
Tbh just let it go. It's just a waste of your energy dealing with miserable people. Let him be miserable with other miserable people and remove yourself from that sphere because his toxicity will only affect you in a bad way.Did y’all even read the post?
I DONT TALK TO THESE PEOPLE
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Your question was "would you entertain someone who..." and "would you answer his phone call" and I replied to that. 🤔
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
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It doesn't really work like that for me. If I get to a point where I consider a person is worthy of my revenge, then they are already dead to me so what they did no longer affects me as much.
So most of the time I'm not avenging the current effects of what they've done since they are dead to me, I'm avenging what happened in the past and the pain or sting I felt a particular point in time.
And I find that if I don't do anything or justice isn't served in any way, then that's when they really get under my skin.
I cannot stand injustices or unpaid debts/transgressions. When I decide I will exact revenge, my mind is at ease because I am confident in my ability to achieve that goal. So I'm happy because I know their time is coming. And I geniunely enjoy the process of planning, strategizing someone's downfall or future woes.
Once I decide I will exact a revenge on someone there is a process of dehumanization and detachment that takes place... regarding my target. Yes, I'm normally mighty twisted and sadistic in my approach to revenge but that doesn't mean I'm not being as cold-blooded as a psychopath when serving revenge. That's just giving myself permission (it's open season) to spit out the excess of spitefulness and vitriol I have inside, which has nothing to do with my target person. Something I don't normally use on people that I still consider people and have empathy for.
So to me revenge is like a special occasion. It's just as exciting as planning a vacation, like playing a video game, something done for sport, something to gets my blood pumping and my creative juices and imagination flowing, something delicious like savoring a scrumptious dessert. Or like a drug, a high from which I derive immense pleasure and have no guilt afterwards but a lasting sense of pride and satisfaction.
Besides, revenge can be so positively cathartic and empowering, and it's such an ego boost when you finally succeed! Not to mention the immense pleasure of seeing your enemies defeated and humiliated.
I am PRO-REVENGE and idc what DXP says or thinks about my life choices. 😆
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
click to expandIt doesn't really work like that for me. If I get to a point where I consider a person is worthy of my revenge, then they are already dead to me so what they did no longer affects me as much.
So most of the time I'm not avenging the current effects of what they've done since they are dead to me, I'm avenging what happened in the past and the pain or sting I felt a particular point in time.
And I find that if I don't do anything or justice isn't served in any way, then that's when they really get under my skin.
I cannot stand injustices or unpaid debts/transgressions. When I decide I will exact revenge, my mind is at ease because I am confident in my ability to achieve that goal. So I'm happy because I know their time is coming. And I geniunely enjoy the process of planning, strategizing someone's downfall or future woes.
Once I decide I will exact a revenge on someone there is a process of dehumanization and detachment that takes place... regarding my target. Yes, I'm normally mighty twisted and sadistic in my approach to revenge but that doesn't mean I'm not being as cold-blooded as a psychopath when serving revenge. That's just giving myself permission (it's open season) to spit out the excess of spitefulness and vitriol I have inside, which has nothing to do with my target person. Something I don't normally use on people that I still consider people and have empathy for.
So to me revenge is like a special occasion. It's just as exciting as planning a vacation, like playing a video game, something done for sport, something to gets my blood pumping and my creative juices and imagination flowing, something delicious like savoring a scrumptious dessert. Or like a drug, a high from which I derive immense pleasure and have no guilt afterwards but a lasting sense of pride and satisfaction.
Besides, revenge can be so positively cathartic and empowering, and it's such an ego boost when you finally succeed! Not to mention the immense pleasure of seeing your enemies defeated and humiliated.
I am PRO-REVENGE and idc what DXP says or thinks about my life choices.
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Scorpio moon in all her gloriously revengeful
“fall”
😂🥴
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
I’m not going to talk to him but it would be fun to hear a jerk explain his bad behavior to my dad lol. Even then, why subject my father to a mad man.
The term “serious question “ was me being facetious.
You’ve already read the type of advice I give here.
click to expandYes don’t subject dad to that
How long was he humiliating you for?
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A year before I threw in the towel and just blocked myself.
I decided I was better off solo, no friends either, and that decision couldn’t have been better.
When someone showed me the post, I immediately went to the comments section to see who would have defended me.
NOT ONE PERSON
So I knew then, that the friendship circle was nothing but.
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
I really want to give him a piece of my mind but I feel like what girl hasn’t?! And he still acts like a dirtbag. What effect would my words have? Very little.
I feel like any type of reaction from me is like bees to honey with him. Like he would just jump at the opportunity to play another game simply out of boredom. No response is the plan.
I’ve learned that my cancer rising can seem like an easy pushover and target
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
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Exactly
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
click to expandIt doesn't really work like that for me. If I get to a point where I consider a person is worthy of my revenge, then they are already dead to me so what they did no longer affects me as much.
So most of the time I'm not avenging the current effects of what they've done since they are dead to me, I'm avenging what happened in the past and the pain or sting I felt a particular point in time.
And I find that if I don't do anything or justice isn't served in any way, then that's when they really get under my skin.
I cannot stand injustices or unpaid debts/transgressions. When I decide I will exact revenge, my mind is at ease because I am confident in my ability to achieve that goal. So I'm happy because I know their time is coming. And I geniunely enjoy the process of planning, strategizing someone's downfall or future woes.
Once I decide I will exact a revenge on someone there is a process of dehumanization and detachment that takes place... regarding my target. Yes, I'm normally mighty twisted and sadistic in my approach to revenge but that doesn't mean I'm not being as cold-blooded as a psychopath when serving revenge. That's just giving myself permission (it's open season) to spit out the excess of spitefulness and vitriol I have inside, which has nothing to do with my target person. Something I don't normally use on people that I still consider people and have empathy for.
So to me revenge is like a special occasion. It's just as exciting as planning a vacation, like playing a video game, something done for sport, something to gets my blood pumping and my creative juices and imagination flowing, something delicious like savoring a scrumptious dessert. Or like a drug, a high from which I derive immense pleasure and have no guilt afterwards but a lasting sense of pride and satisfaction.
Besides, revenge can be so positively cathartic and empowering, and it's such an ego boost when you finally succeed! Not to mention the immense pleasure of seeing your enemies defeated and humiliated.
I am PRO-REVENGE and idc what DXP says or thinks about my life choices.
click to expandI am a fan of revenge sprinkled here and there.
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I’d love to see him one day standing outside the club and can’t get in.
I’d love to see him “LEFT OUT”
Posted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
Risk your father catching a case because you didn't know how to defend yourself and still dont. Where the fuck is feminism yall like to mouth off about now 😂
I feel like men need to check other men to really change their behavior.
Is women can only do so much.
Imo, a lot of men don’t respect women, hell don’t even like women. Just hole between our legs.
I’ve seen women check men and eh, the reaction is lackluster.
But I’ve seen men check other men and it is glorious
Posted by Timone
Tbh just let it go. It's just a waste of your energy dealing with miserable people. Let him be miserable with other miserable people and remove yourself from that sphere because his toxicity will only affect you in a bad way.Did y’all even read the post?
I DONT TALK TO THESE PEOPLE
click to expandYour question was "would you entertain someone who..." and "would you answer his phone call" and I replied to that. 🤔
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Sarcasm can be hard to ascertain through written language
Posted by Timone
Tbh just let it go. It's just a waste of your energy dealing with miserable people. Let him be miserable with other miserable people and remove yourself from that sphere because his toxicity will only affect you in a bad way.Did y’all even read the post?
I DONT TALK TO THESE PEOPLE
click to expandI get it. You’re mostly questioning the audacity.
People think you’re asking for real advice but you’re kind of just saying “do you believe this shit?!”
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Yassssss
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
click to expandIt doesn't really work like that for me. If I get to a point where I consider a person is worthy of my revenge, then they are already dead to me so what they did no longer affects me as much.
So most of the time I'm not avenging the current effects of what they've done since they are dead to me, I'm avenging what happened in the past and the pain or sting I felt a particular point in time.
And I find that if I don't do anything or justice isn't served in any way, then that's when they really get under my skin.
I cannot stand injustices or unpaid debts/transgressions. When I decide I will exact revenge, my mind is at ease because I am confident in my ability to achieve that goal. So I'm happy because I know their time is coming. And I geniunely enjoy the process of planning, strategizing someone's downfall or future woes.
Once I decide I will exact a revenge on someone there is a process of dehumanization and detachment that takes place... regarding my target. Yes, I'm normally mighty twisted and sadistic in my approach to revenge but that doesn't mean I'm not being as cold-blooded as a psychopath when serving revenge. That's just giving myself permission (it's open season) to spit out the excess of spitefulness and vitriol I have inside, which has nothing to do with my target person. Something I don't normally use on people that I still consider people and have empathy for.
So to me revenge is like a special occasion. It's just as exciting as planning a vacation, like playing a video game, something done for sport, something to gets my blood pumping and my creative juices and imagination flowing, something delicious like savoring a scrumptious dessert. Or like a drug, a high from which I derive immense pleasure and have no guilt afterwards but a lasting sense of pride and satisfaction.
Besides, revenge can be so positively cathartic and empowering, and it's such an ego boost when you finally succeed! Not to mention the immense pleasure of seeing your enemies defeated and humiliated.
I am PRO-REVENGE and idc what DXP says or thinks about my life choices.
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It is exhilarating to setup all the players to do the work for me and I just sit back and smile without lifting a finger.
Posted by Dastard2020
Entertain with an ulterior motive? You can bet I would lmao.I have a penchant for revenge.
When they go low, I go lower.
Then they know you’re still invested in them, that they’re still getting under your skin …
Exactly
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Nothing worse for an abuser/troll than to
to be ignored ….
Posted by DMV
Yes this is about me…I’m growing and trying to resist the urge to seek revenge even through a conversation. I mean what do I get out of dragging myself back to a depressed /triggered state of mind? What do I get out cursing someone out?!
I should let him talk to my dad first. Tell my Father everything you’re about to tell me. And see what my dad has to say.
I’m kind of shocked tbh D. Why do
you want him to talk to your Dad? Why would you even think of having anything to do with you after the way he’s treated you?
I always thought of you as a warrior type of woman 💪
I’m not going to talk to him but it would be fun to hear a jerk explain his bad behavior to my dad lol. Even then, why subject my father to a mad man.
The term “serious question “ was me being facetious.
You’ve already read the type of advice I give here.
click to expandYes don’t subject dad to that
How long was he humiliating you for?
A year before I threw in the towel and just blocked myself.
I decided I was better off solo, no friends either, and that decision couldn’t have been better.
When someone showed me the post, I immediately went to the comments section to see who would have defended me.
NOT ONE PERSON
So I knew then, that the friendship circle was nothing but.
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Wow weak flaky people
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Who publicly humiliated, embarrassed and harassed you every chance he got?!
So much so that you decided to walk away from friendship circle just to regain your sanity?
This man blocked you but still continued to posts demeaning posts comparing your looks to a monkey to said friendship circle where no one even defended you because they were to cowardly themselves. They didn’t want the smoke from him either.
Yeah you may have had a short love affair but you weren’t overly concerned with a relationship because you knew he wasn’t serious. He was a player enjoying himself and tbh you were enjoy yourself outside too.
So you knew “the deal.” You knew what it was.
But still he would play mind games and it would upset you and he’d tell you to just get over it. Making you colder and colder as colder towards men, sheesh people in general. Vowing to yourself that you will always be #1 in your life.
Would you even answer his phone call?!