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The chillest zodiac sign
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Sags
Gemini men.
Leo with an earthy chart.
Aqua
Posted by alexscariesVirgo men are cool, but they can be critical.
Agree with Timone sag men are usually non-clingy and funny.
The virgo men I’ve been with have never been critical but I’ve encountered a lot of couples where the guy is a virgo and they always make low key shady comments about how their partner looks or dresses
Sag men make me laugh the most and I think we would hit it off instantly but they’re hard to find
Posted by SomGemini men.
Hmm maybe… but the ones I’ve met have tried too hard which makes me cringe
Posted by borednbeautifulLeo with an earthy chart.
Aqua
Aqua men seem a bit like doormats 👀
But I agree they are chilled
Posted by alexscariesIf you're virgo. Aries men? It's questionable how chill they are, some people say nothing fazes me.
Cap can be detached, maybe not the same as chilled though.
I’ve only ever dated one Aries guy, he was actually really laid-back but kind of an a-hole and he got way too drunk on our first date
I like Aries guys vibes and would be down to date one again if we hit it off
Cap men are very detached but not chill, I’m usually not romantically attracted to them, there’s only been one cap who I had a crazy I wanna rip ur clothes off vibe with but we were both off limits
Posted by fakeflakeYou a Virgo, you need a Libra
I love Libras and my ex is one but I only ever seem to have a fwb relationship with them
They’re good in bed though
Definitely Sagittarius Men.
Pisces mars.
never really gets mad at me and always seems to know my intentions which prevents misunderstandings.
this my fave placement too.
Whatever sign chilly Willy is 🤔 
Posted by GenericUsernameDefinitely Sagittarius Men.
Guess I gotta find myself a sag man then since that’s the most popular answer
Posted by twinkletwinklebishAqua men in my experience. Sag women. Taurus women. And some Scorpios I know irl are very chill.
I agree with everything except Taurus women, they seem very naggy
Posted by virgoOPPPPisces mars.
never really gets mad at me and always seems to know my intentions which prevents misunderstandings.
this my fave placement too.
I don’t think I’ve ever dated someone with Pisces mars 🤔
Posted by cerseiVirgos are husband material. And I mean the virgo moons as well, maybe even more so. Im very fond of Virgo moon men ☺️
But based if you’re looking for a man that is chill but takes initiative that may be a bit more complicated because usually chill guys are not ones to take initiative much. They just go with the flow.
So Id say maybe try Cancer, although they can be quite prickly but they are usually chill but still responsible and take initiative.
Based on the virgos I’ve been with they definitely are except the one I’m currently with I’m convinced he’s a pathological liar and a gaslighter, but normally I get along with them so effortlessly, I gotta start checking what their moons are tho
I’ve never been with a Cancer romantically, might have to give it a shot
Posted by Midnite_RiserIf you run into a Sagittarius man or Aries man with a Mars in fire sign, put on the rubber, chances are that guy has been around the block.
lmaoo I’ll keep that in mind 😂
Update: it’s definitely an Aries man with a Scorpio moon and an Aqua mars. chef’s kiss
Watery Fire signs or Fiery Water signs.
That steam just sizzles and sputters- All bark, no bite- Can confirm! 😉
Posted by SomGemini men.
As a chill laid back Gemini who gets enjoyment by kicking back and unwind I can most definitely vouch for this. But not all Gemini men are laid back and chill. Tbh it's very rare to find a laid back chill Gemini man. You'll come across an elephant laying in your bed first before you find a laid back chill Gemini man.
Posted by GeminiJimGeminis are chilled
So chilled they won't actually care lol but you might have fun for a while
Yeah some geminis can be fun. Like this Gemini dude I know, he's cool but he talks too much. A lot of times I avoid him like when I see him I quickly turn around the other way just to avoid talking to him. People don't know I don't be feeling like socializing.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by alexscariesIf you're virgo. Aries men? It's questionable how chill they are, some people say nothing fazes me.
Cap can be detached, maybe not the same as chilled though.
caps are fake calm ppl,
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I agree
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Anais__Update: it’s definitely an Aries man with a Scorpio moon and an Aqua mars. chef’s kiss
Same placements as me except I'm scorpio mars.
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I love their energy
Taurus. You wont find much that will ruffle their feathers. Unless they are really hungry and you're keeping them from going on their way to the kitchen or ordering food.
I had a topic about them and had enough supporters of my idea there, so 🗿🗿🗿
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterAs a chill laid back Gemini who gets enjoyment by kicking back and unwind I can most definitely vouch for this. But not all Gemini men are laid back and chill. Tbh it's very rare to find a laid back chill Gemini man. You'll come across an elephant laying in your bed first before you find a laid back chill Gemini man.
No, you Libras are psychos.
Posted by Midnite_RiserWe Libras are the most chill. I am a Libra man myself and at my best, I can be the most likeable person.
Posted by SomNo, you Libras are psychos.
Posted by Midnite_RiserWe Libras are the most chill. I am a Libra man myself and at my best, I can be the most likeable person.
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Right. They are anything but chill.
I'd say Gemini
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Watery Fire signs or Fiery Water signs.
That steam just sizzles and sputters- All bark, no bite- Can confirm! 😉
I think it depends if you can match with that energy. It's confusing to have those placements natally
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These are my placements.
What is the confusing part, in your opinion?
Chillest would say is Sag and Aqua. They know how to laugh but also maintain some space.
Libra seem to have lots of humorous outbursts.. but they're still outbursts, so not that chill.
Virgo seem chill at first until they start getting comfortable to speak their mind, then there's at least 1 thing wrong with everything
Posted by BLVCKisBVCKPosted by Anais__I wanna know which zodiac sign or placement in ur opinion is the chillest so I can go after them cause I need myself a chilled and laidback man
So far imo it’s Libra men but I feel like they don’t have the personality to keep me hooked so idk
Virgo men have the potential and they’re not cringey but the lack of initiative is killing me
Leos seem like the least chill to me
Really? I always find Leos the most chill
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Tbh I haven’t met enough Leo men to say that, just the ones that I have they’ve come off a bit arrogant
Posted by RollergirlOrcTaurus. You wont find much that will ruffle their feathers. Unless they are really hungry and you're keeping them from going on their way to the kitchen or ordering food.
My mum is a Taurus tbf and she only loses her chill when she’s hungry, other than that she’s the chillest person around
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by LoyalEvolved Pisces.
That's true. Rare to find but the enlightened Pisces will be like Dalai Lama but chiller, Dalai Lama is sketch btw
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The one I was with must’ve not been an enlightened one then cause he was way too needy 😬
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Watery Fire signs or Fiery Water signs.
That steam just sizzles and sputters- All bark, no bite- Can confirm! 😉
I think it depends if you can match with that energy. It's confusing to have those placements natally
These are my placements.
What is the confusing part, in your opinion?
Mine too. If fire is about action and arguably aggressiveness; water is about thought and arguably passivenesss - that's the confusing contradiction.
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Oh I see, that makes sense. It takes a lot for me to get pissed. But once I am ...
Sometimes I prefer to be passive aggressive so I can be left alone and ignored. Saves me the trouble of getting angry. I can be lazy in that way.
Gems and Aquas
Posted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
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I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
Posted by cerseiVirgos are husband material. And I mean the virgo moons as well, maybe even more so. Im very fond of Virgo moon men ☺️
But based if you’re looking for a man that is chill but takes initiative that may be a bit more complicated because usually chill guys are not ones to take initiative much. They just go with the flow.
So Id say maybe try Cancer, although they can be quite prickly but they are usually chill but still responsible and take initiative.
I'm a virgo moon female and I agree with this hahaha I don't know what it is. Must be the need to make things perfect even though perfection doesn't really exist lol
Posted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
My brother is virgo sun, leo moon - angry man some of the time. I'm Aries sun, I'm not loud. I'm don't think I'm chilled, but most shit doesn't bother me; I'm also less judgemental than people seem to think. I am in people's face if I've got something to put in their mouths.
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You're the opposite of my aries boss lololol most shit bothers him. Always up for criticising people 🤣 I think because I have weak fire in my chart apart from a couple of 9th house and my rising sign being sag, in general, I have a hard time with the intensity of fire signs. I often find myself wondering why fire looooves to draw attention to themselves. Like in my team, they rent the top performers but they sure are the loudest in meetings or even non meetings. Listening to them makes me so exhausted. I have yet to meet a fire sign that likes to keep to themselves or at least know when not to speak or be sensitive towards people around them lol
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
My brother is virgo sun, leo moon - angry man some of the time. I'm Aries sun, I'm not loud. I'm don't think I'm chilled, but most shit doesn't bother me; I'm also less judgemental than people seem to think. I am in people's face if I've got something to put in their mouths.
You're the opposite of my aries boss lololol most shit bothers him. Always up for criticising people 🤣 I think because I have weak fire in my chart apart from a couple of 9th house and my rising sign being sag, in general, I have a hard time with the intensity of fire signs. I often find myself wondering why fire looooves to draw attention to themselves. Like in my team, they arent the top performers but they sure are the loudest in meetings or even non meetings. Listening to them makes me so exhausted. I have yet to meet a fire sign that likes to keep to themselves or at least know when not to speak or be sensitive towards people around them lol
I don't think fire necessarily loves to draw attention. I think fire like to entertain and can be oblivious.
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I agree they can be oblivious. Not saying they are bad people but for introverts, they can be a bit overwhelming and possibly exhausting to be around.
Air signs as well. For example, all Libras I know are introverts, although they are communicating, party animals, etc.
Posted by alexscariesFire signs aren't always extrovert.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by poppyflowerPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
My brother is virgo sun, leo moon - angry man some of the time. I'm Aries sun, I'm not loud. I'm don't think I'm chilled, but most shit doesn't bother me; I'm also less judgemental than people seem to think. I am in people's face if I've got something to put in their mouths.
You're the opposite of my aries boss lololol most shit bothers him. Always up for criticising people 🤣 I think because I have weak fire in my chart apart from a couple of 9th house and my rising sign being sag, in general, I have a hard time with the intensity of fire signs. I often find myself wondering why fire looooves to draw attention to themselves. Like in my team, they arent the top performers but they sure are the loudest in meetings or even non meetings. Listening to them makes me so exhausted. I have yet to meet a fire sign that likes to keep to themselves or at least know when not to speak or be sensitive towards people around them lol
I don't think fire necessarily loves to draw attention. I think fire like to entertain and can be oblivious.
I agree they can be oblivious. Not saying they are bad people but for introverts, they can be a bit overwhelming and possibly exhausting to be around.
Fire signs aren't always extrovert.
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No they're not. I'm just yet to meet one who is introverted. That will really change my generalisation 😅 when I find out someone is a fire sign I feel like I'm expecting the worst already 🤣 not a good thing to have bias but my experience with them have not been the best in comparison to earth, water and air signs.
Posted by SomAir signs as well. For example, all Libras I know are introverts, although they are communicating, party animals, etc.
Posted by alexscariesFire signs aren't always extrovert.
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I'm an introvert gemini. Mostly keep to myself.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by poppyflowerPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
My brother is virgo sun, leo moon - angry man some of the time. I'm Aries sun, I'm not loud. I'm don't think I'm chilled, but most shit doesn't bother me; I'm also less judgemental than people seem to think. I am in people's face if I've got something to put in their mouths.
You're the opposite of my aries boss lololol most shit bothers him. Always up for criticising people 🤣 I think because I have weak fire in my chart apart from a couple of 9th house and my rising sign being sag, in general, I have a hard time with the intensity of fire signs. I often find myself wondering why fire looooves to draw attention to themselves. Like in my team, they arent the top performers but they sure are the loudest in meetings or even non meetings. Listening to them makes me so exhausted. I have yet to meet a fire sign that likes to keep to themselves or at least know when not to speak or be sensitive towards people around them lol
I don't think fire necessarily loves to draw attention. I think fire like to entertain and can be oblivious.
I agree they can be oblivious. Not saying they are bad people but for introverts, they can be a bit overwhelming and possibly exhausting to be around.
Fire signs aren't always extrovert.
No they're not. I'm just yet to meet one who is introverted. That will really change my generalisation 😅 when I find out someone is a fire sign I feel like I'm expecting the worst already 🤣 not a good thing to have bias but my experience with them have not been the best in comparison to earth, water and air signs.
Aren't you a leo moon though or am I thinking of someone else?
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Nah. I've got virgo moon. My chart is mostly earth, water and air.
Posted by SomAir signs as well. For example, all Libras I know are introverts, although they are communicating, party animals, etc.
Posted by alexscariesFire signs aren't always extrovert.
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Libra introvert here. 🙋
Posted by Saphire01Sagittarius. Honorable mentions to Cancer and Gemini.
Weirdly enough I agree, Cancers can actually be pretty chilled in relationships as in they don’t come on too strong
Posted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
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I kinda agree, they can be in your face loud, and most of them are very talkative
This aries guy I’m seeing can be a little much at times when he gets carried away, but he’s still cute cause he’s so easygoing and relaxed at the same time
Posted by LoyalPosted by Anais__Posted by BumboklaatPosted by LoyalEvolved Pisces.
That's true. Rare to find but the enlightened Pisces will be like Dalai Lama but chiller, Dalai Lama is sketch btw
The one I was with must’ve not been an enlightened one then cause he was way too needy 😬
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The only thing he was addicted to were self help books
Posted by Anais__Posted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
I kinda agree, they can be in your face loud, and most of them are very talkative
This aries guy I’m seeing can be a little much at times when he gets carried away, but he’s still cute cause he’s so easygoing and relaxed at the same time
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Yeah haha. I think for some people they find that type interesting or fun. But because of my personality, I get overwhelmed to the point that I can't relax around them. It's noisy in my head already and outside noise just really makes me lose it wahahahahaha
Posted by BaeMaxxPosted by Anais__Posted by BaeMaxxPosted by alexscariesPosted by BaeMaxxGems and Aquas
I think both can be quick to move on. I've met aquas who are complete psychos and my old male gem boss was an angry man. It was great though because any problems and I would get him to do the bidding. Still got love for both signs though.
I find both less intense. Not perfect or likable all the time. Just less intense. I've been around Virgos (my son is one and he has aries moon) and at 2 yo, I can already see how intense he is lol and drum roll.... Fire signs. For some reason I don't find them chill at all. Haha. Almost every fire sign around me is always the loud, in your face type. I don't know how much of what they say, they actually mean. But rest assured you will know they are there because they will make sure you heard them lol
I kinda agree, they can be in your face loud, and most of them are very talkative
This aries guy I’m seeing can be a little much at times when he gets carried away, but he’s still cute cause he’s so easygoing and relaxed at the same time
Yeah haha. I think for some people they find that type interesting or fun. But because of my personality, I get overwhelmed to the point that I can't relax around them. It's noisy in my head already and outside noise just really makes me lose it wahahahahaha
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Yeah I get that
They’re the perfect people to go out with and have fun, I feel like we bounce off each other, but if I’m in a low mood, the constant talking would just annoy the heck out of me
How come nobody mentions taurus? We get shit on for being boring and lazy. So we are the chillest !
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I wanna know which zodiac sign or placement in ur opinion is the chillest so I can go after them cause I need myself a chilled and laidback man
So far imo it’s Libra men but I feel like they don’t have the personality to keep me hooked so idk
Virgo men have the potential and they’re not cringey but the lack of initiative is killing me
Leos seem like the least chill to me