Venus in the 12th House Synastry

What has been your experiences when someone puts their Venus in your 12th house or vice versa?

I've read about the fog and affairs deal but wanna hear real life stories....

The last Virgo had his Sun/Venus/Mars and Mercury -all Virgo-in my 12th. It seemed like I couldn't trust him and that he was a liar. I was, and still am super nonchalant and not too caring, cause I can't shake the feeling he's a sneaky bastard. I feel bad sometimes,but still don't care to change cause he accepts my behavior. I used to ask him stuff and he would deflect a lot and wonder what my reasoning was behind it.- Which made me even more suspicious.

This current Virgo just has his Mars and Sun, but he seems pretty transparent and doesn't give a fuck. Which makes me care and I like it better. He doesn't seem sneaky at all for some reason, I ask and he tells without hesitation. Things are difficult, but I have no clue what his perception of me is, you already know what my stance is with him though 🙂

Posted by saggurl88

The last Virgo had his Sun/Venus/Mars and Mercury -all Virgo-in my 12th. It seemed like I couldn't trust him and that he was a liar. I was, and still am super nonchalant and not too caring, cause I can't shake the feeling he's a sneaky bastard. I feel bad sometimes,but still don't care to change cause he accepts my behavior. I used to ask him stuff and he would deflect a lot and wonder what my reasoning was behind it.- Which made me even more suspicious.

This current Virgo just has his Mars and Sun, but he seems pretty transparent and doesn't give a fuck. Which makes me care and I like it better. He doesn't seem sneaky at all for some reason, I ask and he tells without hesitation. Things are difficult, but I have no clue what his perception of me is, you already know what my stance is with him though 🙂

Damn that's a lot of planets in your 12th house. I can totally see why you felt that way. I'm not a fan of having someone sun there for sure...the Scorp I dated sun was in my 12th a long with his Pluto. I didn't not trust him but I did think he just wanted a relationship with anybody to have a family...like that's cool and all but damn, I don't want to be just anybody. I don't want to settle. I could see right thru him too...but I think it's cause I can see scorps period. We also had sun/moon square dw and my moon square his Pluto (which is tough in and of itself but I didn't feel the way I do with the Sag or my ex Pisces).

My ex Pisces moon fell in my 12th....I've had dreams of things happening to him when they were happening to him, dreams of his death beforehand....felt like I knew him for forever. I still feel very much attached to him...which makes sense given the circumstances. I wish I knew exactly how he felt...like I know but at the same time to actually hear the words would be nice.

My Merc falls in the Leo's 12th and it always seems like he doesn't believe anything I say...always skeptical which was annoying but now I see why. The Sag has his Merc along with Venus and Pluto in my 12th...and I'm always wondering if he means what he says...except I don't say anything unless I have proof. With Venus there....I love him but idk how or why I do...I just have this gut feeling. I can feel his moods, when he's thinking about me, feels like we've know each other forever. Before we actually started talking...when he made a comment on my post...I of course stalk his profile and he looked so familiar and I thought to myself...damn, he's it. I looked a couple more times and just kept shaking my head but went and got ready for my date with another Sag lol. He ended up messaging me while on my date saying he thought he saw me on TV etc. and the rest is what it is...him telling me he loves me, wants to marry me, be his kid's mom, I'm the one etc. He talks like we've know each other for 10+ yrs., He ain't going anywhere and all that bs. No idea if this is why or the other stuff going on in our Synastry...I just find it fascinating.

Ah ok...so you may be blinded by his actions to an extent? Makes things confusing. Idk enough about Mars being there but that's kinda what it would seem like.

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

Is this the same Cap that comes and goes? Yeah, it's a weird house to have someone's planets in for sure. With venus there....It's a different type of feeling or knowing...and it's just so hard to explain but it reminds me of my ex who had his moon there except he kept his feelings completely (besides saying I love you...he never said much else) hidden but I still knew how he felt. Where Venus has been very very verbal about it and even tho he's saying these words and I feel it too..and like you, I'm all like what??! Like how is that possible etc lol.

Reading other people's experiences of having someone Venus there has been the same too. That's why I wanted to hear more stories about it.

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

He’s still hanging around Roo?

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

He’s still hanging around Roo?

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Yes.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

Is this the same Cap that comes and goes? Yeah, it's a weird house to have someone's planets in for sure. With venus there....It's a different type of feeling or knowing...and it's just so hard to explain but it reminds me of my ex who had his moon there except he kept his feelings completely (besides saying I love you...he never said much else) hidden but I still knew how he felt. Where Venus has been very very verbal about it and even tho he's saying these words and I feel it too..and like you, I'm all like what??! Like how is that possible etc lol.

Reading other people's experiences of having someone Venus there has been the same too. That's why I wanted to hear more stories about it.

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Yes the same guy. Oh god the whole thing is so complicated. This year we have had a lot of back and forth, both grown a lot and done that separately after everything I would address, challenge him on what he said, and bitch about how he hurt me.. he took it all cuz he knew he deserved it and grew from it. I look at the whole thing now & it’s impossible to deny what’s been happening. He’s told me he loves me, wants to marry me, and be together forever and then disappears. Then hides, won’t tell me how he’s feeling until he can’t stand it anymore. I just say screw you, if you can’t stay and work through it, this will never work. But the truth is we have been working through it through all of this. I had my own stuff to work through. In the last couple months I’ve decided I’m done bitching. I have communicated everything and he understands and took responsibility. He told me the other day he always thinks of me, can’t get me out of his head, and misses me. I’m like how am I supposed to know that? I mean I do. But I don’t. Cuz I needed him to just stay. I just didn’t believe he would after all this.

astrologywise it’s interesting. These planets in the 12th house, plus we have many Pluto aspects in synastry including Pluto trine Venus. He’s a Virgo moon, I’m aqua moon.. both good at hiding lol. Both cap merc & Venus ( both having trouble trusting but learning to?) and then then an aspect that explains the dynamic of the disappearing Uranus square mars.

I don’t even know which thing Is responsible but we keep trying even through all the shit. His Pluto is my 8th house too.. plus my pluto is there. I also have 12th house planets:sun and mars. I’m finally listening and we are finally communicating. A year together in a serious way and a year and a half of working through things in the back and forth? It’s been a total of 3 1/2 years actually since we met. .Now I’m just kinda ok let’s take it day by day and see what happens. But I’m not hurt anymore, and he’s acting more relationship like again. Very strange. I’m observing lol

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Posted by saggurl88

The last Virgo had his Sun/Venus/Mars and Mercury -all Virgo-in my 12th. It seemed like I couldn't trust him and that he was a liar. I was, and still am super nonchalant and not too caring, cause I can't shake the feeling he's a sneaky bastard. I feel bad sometimes,but still don't care to change cause he accepts my behavior. I used to ask him stuff and he would deflect a lot and wonder what my reasoning was behind it.- Which made me even more suspicious.

This current Virgo just has his Mars and Sun, but he seems pretty transparent and doesn't give a fuck. Which makes me care and I like it better. He doesn't seem sneaky at all for some reason, I ask and he tells without hesitation. Things are difficult, but I have no clue what his perception of me is, you already know what my stance is with him though 🙂

Damn that's a lot of planets in your 12th house. I can totally see why you felt that way. I'm not a fan of having someone sun there for sure...the Scorp I dated sun was in my 12th a long with his Pluto. I didn't not trust him but I did think he just wanted a relationship with anybody to have a family...like that's cool and all but damn, I don't want to be just anybody. I don't want to settle. I could see right thru him too...but I think it's cause I can see scorps period. We also had sun/moon square dw and my moon square his Pluto (which is tough in and of itself but I didn't feel the way I do with the Sag or my ex Pisces).

My ex Pisces moon fell in my 12th....I've had dreams of things happening to him when they were happening to him, dreams of his death beforehand....felt like I knew him for forever. I still feel very much attached to him...which makes sense given the circumstances. I wish I knew exactly how he felt...like I know but at the same time to actually hear the words would be nice.

My Merc falls in the Leo's 12th and it always seems like he doesn't believe anything I say...always skeptical which was annoying but now I see why. The Sag has his Merc along with Venus and Pluto in my 12th...and I'm always wondering if he means what he says...except I don't say anything unless I have proof. With Venus there....I love him but idk how or why I do...I just have this gut feeling. I can feel his moods, when he's thinking about me, feels like we've know each other forever. Before we actually started talking...when he made a comment on my post...I of course stalk his profile and he looked so familiar and I thought to myself...damn, he's it. I looked a couple more times and just kept shaking my head but went and got ready for my date with another Sag lol. He ended up messaging me while on my date saying he thought he saw me on TV etc. and the rest is what it is...him telling me he loves me, wants to marry me, be his kid's mom, I'm the one etc. He talks like we've know each other for 10+ yrs., He ain't going anywhere and all that bs. No idea if this is why or the other stuff going on in our Synastry...I just find it fascinating.

Ah ok...so you may be blinded by his actions to an extent? Makes things confusing. Idk enough about Mars being there but that's kinda what it would seem like.

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I’m just seeing this -

Actually it’s more about how you perceive things.

I think the Virgo does the same thing to me. But he doesn’t really know me.

I’m sure he can tell how I am and feel how I am to an extent but I haven’t said a word to him. I told him that I take things day by day.

So even if he can tell that I’m stable or that I care, it shouldn’t make a difference at all because we aren’t in a relationship.

This is what I don’t understand about Virgos. (Not you, just venting)

It’s seriously like they create a whole scenario for how the other person thinks/wants/feels based on how the Virgo is treated.

But sag switch things up so much and do things by how they feel in that moment.

Virgos box them in and practically make it law.

I know you spent a lot of time talking with your Sag, so you probably knew him well. But for me, I feel like I’m not getting understood at all.

It’s like Virgos put pressure on themselves for no reason just because they can tell how the other person is. I’m stable, loyal, affectionate and loving at my core, but this doesn’t mean that I’m trying to trap someone or box someone in. I still need to see if the person is right for me, since I don’t settle.

It’s frustrating but shows me what the issue is as well.

But back to the topic. I don’t pay too much attention to the 12th house placements. The only thing I like is the psychic connection usually associated with it and that they usually can’t hide much.

I use it as an advantage. I don’t have anything to hide so I don’t mind if some can “see through” me. I wish more could and that they were understanding instead of judging and holding it against me.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

He’s still hanging around Roo?

Yes.

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Oh hell...

Is he due to run away again soon?

😬

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Oh my. Just ran my synastry chart with the Cap and his Venus and sun are in my 12th. He is confusing! He hides his feelings a lot, until he doesn’t.... funny he’s saying the whole I’m going to marry you thing too & im like wth are you talking about? Lol

He’s still hanging around Roo?

Yes.

Oh hell...

Is he due to run away again soon?



😬

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Only time will tell of course🙃 Things seem different & we both need to figure this out one way or another so that’s what’s happening.