Cancer Woman Gemini Male need advice

Hey I’m new to this forum but I was hoping y’all could give me some advice.

I’ve been dating a Gemini male for about 3 years now. I have gotten better with understanding him but lately it’s crazy it’s like he will be annoyed with me for listening to something he told me. Does that make sense?

Here recently for example he told me that he loves me and wants me in his life but he has felt like I’ve been putting too much pressure on him because I told him what kind of rings (engagement rings) I like.

Here’s the kicker...

HE is the one who asked me!

I never brought up rings it was all him I was just responding to what HE asked ME!

It’s like he will be so lovey dovey and if I’m continuing on with the lovey dovey vibe he acts like I’m being clingy

I’m the type of person that doesn’t like to feel like I’m bothering someone so him communicating this to me is helpful but I mirror his actions if started talking about rings or whatever it’s bc he started it or atleast his Gemini twin started it

So is this something Gemini’s do? How should I proceed with him? I love him he’s a great man he has never disrespected me we are both in our early 30s I plan on backing off and sure as hell never mentioning anything about engagement rings ever again not even if he brings it up bc I really feel I’m damned if I do damned if I don’t

I wish I had some advice for you. I am a Gemini and although I think iI fit being a Gemini pretty well, I don’t really see a lot of Gemini in this guy. And just like I think there is a huge difference between cancer women and cancer men, I think there is a difference with Gemini men and Gemini women.

For general advice, I would let him come to his own conclusion for engagement. I had pressured my ex husband many moons ago and boy did that marriage bite me in the ass. Let him be the one to decide when. But at the same time, I would put a timeframe in your mind. You don’t want to be waiting 5+ years.