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Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I doubt it
the potential obstacles are very clear of why something serious couldn't happen between us......
-10 year age difference
- it's our last year of college..and we don't know where we will be going for grad school
etc..
-plus I think she's straight...aka sees herself with being with guys only.
I know she's definitely down and open to having physical relationships with girls though.
she recently kissed one of her girlfriends as well as indicated she's only been physically attracted to women lately at our university.we established this the first time we hung out a little over a month ago.
Oh. Okay, never mind me. I don't understand this type of relationship. Like, why? lol
I always attract "the straight ones".
they want to experiment with me lol.
this time I'm actually down
Haha, okay.
I must sound like such a stick in the mud, but I never had any interest in exploring "just for now" stuff, not even while listening to songs with those lyrics exactly (por ejemplo, Last by NIN).click to expand
lol it's super common nowadays...especially in college.
college apparently is a very gay time for a lot of people lol
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself đ
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lol
smh, you seem to want to be talked out of it instead of encouraged lol You gave it your all. The note is still a bad idea đ
so should I tell her sometime before I leave for Spain next week?
we are hanging out with another friend of hers this Saturday.
we are all going to another library at another university and getting some work done.
You should have a chat with her by yourself, not in a group setting. Go grab a coffee or something together after the meet up. And throw it out there then, casually. Being non chalant and confident in this type of situation helps a lot.click to expand
I'm confident in my ability to please... but not so much in the delivery.
I'm only masculine presenting aka tomboyish.....
I'm not exactly assertive when it comes to hitting on someone.
she seems to want to dominate me actually
so it may be one of the things I have going for me.
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How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself đ
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lol
smh, you seem to want to be talked out of it instead of encouraged lol You gave it your all. The note is still a bad idea đ
so should I tell her sometime before I leave for Spain next week?
we are hanging out with another friend of hers this Saturday.
we are all going to another library at another university and getting some work done.
You should have a chat with her by yourself, not in a group setting. Go grab a coffee or something together after the meet up. And throw it out there then, casually. Being non chalant and confident in this type of situation helps a lot.
I'm confident in my ability to please... but not so much in the delivery.
I'm only masculine presenting aka tomboyish.....
I'm not exactly assertive when it comes to hitting on someone.
she seems to want to dominate me actually
so it may be one of the things I have going for me.click to expand
I get it. But someone needs to make a first move. It sounds like she is very flirty and your not because youâre unsure of what sheâs doing.
That doesnât help much with either one of you.
And sorry to put my opinion in on Geminiâs. Iâm just trying to help since I have a pretty good idea about them.
Posted by Sunmoonrising
What makes you think she wants to be fwb? I'd be offended to be asked that and secondly for it to be given in a note....I'd Just think shallow and player.
she says she doesn't see herself ending up with a female
but has been finding females attractive exclusively as of lately.
I asked her I think in the same conversation If she would ever consider an fwb relationship in general and if she had that with her ex.
she said she had considered it but quickly thought it was a bad idea with him because of the history....
but she would consider it with someone else
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by saggurl88Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! đ She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.
That's good. Start sending kissy emojis now đ
Edited- Actually I'm just teasing you now lol Don't do that.
lol she seemed to go cold when I started being "flirty" via text.
I said she was cute.
she didn't acknowledge it.
and then acted like I was just another one of her buddies that same day.
the next day was when she was flirty with me in the library.
I mean I'm getting mixed messages here lol
You honestly just need to bite the bullet and be direct. Even asking a simple question like âare you flirting with me?â while smiling, when you think she is, could help. She wonât say no if she is. Especially with all this stalling that you too are doing.click to expand
I do regret this!!!
there were a couple of times I really wanted to ask her.......
but I started giggling...like I am now.
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Hmm. So, what happens if you manage to land her and she has feelings and wants more than FWB? It amazes me that someone would put in so much stress and work for a FWB.
I know, she thinks she's fooling someone! đ She's gonna end up in a serious friend zone if she does that and the Gemini is actually liking her.
I want to encourage and help, and then I see she's not sure what she wants from the Gemini, and I'm like, hmm, are you gonna break this Gemini's heart with our help? What's going on here? lol
Exactly. I don't understand why people take Geminis to be so carefree, nonchalant and playful, when it comes to relationships and love. This is why people lose with Geminis and can't see them as consistent.
If they only knew how lovely you all were if they stuck around and didn't play games with Geminis, you guys are the most loving and consistent sign there is in relationships. I think you guys are the most consistent out of mutables.
. First sign of danger, and the bitch is engaged.
I don't get by what you mean by this
She means that Geminis become bitches when you play with their feelings. Which is when they start playing games and being inconsistent. This is why it's best to be very consistent, reciprocal and accepting of a Gemini's affections. Then it's in the bag. You get them very easily.
I think I'm consistent.
I never outright ignore her.
That's good. Start sending kissy emojis now đ
Edited- Actually I'm just teasing you now lol Don't do that.
lol she seemed to go cold when I started being "flirty" via text.
I said she was cute.
she didn't acknowledge it.
and then acted like I was just another one of her buddies that same day.
the next day was when she was flirty with me in the library.
I mean I'm getting mixed messages here lol
You honestly just need to bite the bullet and be direct. Even asking a simple question like âare you flirting with me?â while smiling, when you think she is, could help. She wonât say no if she is. Especially with all this stalling that you too are doing.
I do regret this!!!
there were a couple of times I really wanted to ask her.......
but I started giggling...like I am now.click to expand
Lol.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by saggurl88
How do you usually get women? Do they have to come on to you? I know Pisces have the innocence thing going for them but damn! You seem so shy.
What's need for you to be comfortable enough to move forward? The risk of not seeing her again since class is ending, isn't even enough, huh?
You two have spent plenty of time together outside of class right?
hmm I'm just myself.
they come to me .
if it's someone who is attracted to me but is passive they just try to occupy my space as much as possible...aka always being around/ in my perimeter for no reason..as so I've been told by others who have told me that I don't notice these things.
aggressive types like fire and some ai signs have directly hit on me/asked for physical affection.
I usually have no clue until lips are coming towards me lol
Yeah I can tell, or you have a clue and still just wait. This is gonna get you and the Gemini to do a super slow dance. She will end up losing interest if she is sticking around without any moves being made. Your idea of saying something to get it started is a good thing. Don't back out now and second guess yourself đ
maybe she's already lost interest?
I don't know it seemed liked she friend zoned me last week...and then things were a little weird between us afterwards.
she also said she was in a bad mood lol 'so I just gave her space.
the energy was alright between us last night.
pretty light/semi playful like it is usually
You sure are trying to weasel yourself out of making a move. It's your love life lol
If she said she was in a bad mood then she was. Last night was good, so take it for what it is. If she lost interest you wouldn't see her at all.
I mean she has to kind of see me once a week because she's auditing the same class as me haha.
and one of her current mentors is one of my current professors.lol
smh, you seem to want to be talked out of it instead of encouraged lol You gave it your all. The note is still a bad idea đ
so should I tell her sometime before I leave for Spain next week?
we are hanging out with another friend of hers this Saturday.
we are all going to another library at another university and getting some work done.
You should have a chat with her by yourself, not in a group setting. Go grab a coffee or something together after the meet up. And throw it out there then, casually. Being non chalant and confident in this type of situation helps a lot.
I'm confident in my ability to please... but not so much in the delivery.
I'm only masculine presenting aka tomboyish.....
I'm not exactly assertive when it comes to hitting on someone.
she seems to want to dominate me actually
so it may be one of the things I have going for me.
I get it. But someone needs to make a first move. It sounds like she is very flirty and your not because youâre unsure of what sheâs doing.
That doesnât help much with either one of you.
And sorry to put my opinion in on Geminiâs. Iâm just trying to help since I have a pretty good idea about them.click to expand
you do.....
and don't apologize and I need all of the insider info I can get!!!
all of your insights are greatly appreciated! đ
Posted by Generous_LibraPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So Next Wednesday is the last day of real class that the gemini and I will have together and I've decided to move forward and officially ask her is she would be down to be friends with benefits.
I need tips on how I should do this
I'm thinking about passing her a note in class ( right before I leave for the airport) which will read something on the lines of:
Hey ****,
Thank you again for all of the support and indirectly encouraging me to take more risks. You've made this last month or so very interesting.
I'm writing this letter I guess to say that I recently realized I think you're kind of cute and I'm very much attracted to your brain.
I'm perfectly happy with keeping things the way they are between us but I must admit I'd love to cook dinner for you sometime , talk about theory , give you a neck massage and maybe cuddle afterwards.
Let me know if you're down with to be friends with benefits. You of course again can define what those benefits would entail but regardless I'm looking forward to having more adventures with you in the future.
See you after break.
-
****
I feel like you want more with this gemini but just settling with FWB because you know she's straight and doesn't want to end up with a girl, is that true?
Also why don't you text her instead of writing a note? You can start a convo and bring that up just to see her reaction, it's less confrontational.click to expand
no I don't see us ever being a long term thing.....
fundamentally want different things.
she hates kids and doesn't want to get married.
I'm a bit more traditional/old fashioned.
I appreciate her company and I think we can learn a lot from each other in the short time we have left together here at uni.
that digs other ladies
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
Posted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
she knows that though because I told her I was Demi.
I told her I liked her brain once to which she replied right back at ya
Posted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
what are your placements again?
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
what are your placements again?click to expand
Gemini sun, Leo moon, mars Gemini, Taurus Venus, Libra lilith and think my ascending May be Taurus? Not to sure on that one.
Posted by GemalitPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
what are your placements again?
Gemini sun, Leo moon, mars Gemini, Taurus Venus, Libra lilith and think my ascending May be Taurus? Not to sure on that one.click to expand
oh yeah I remember you guys had a similar chart
her moon is in libra
maybe I should just our right say that I crave her sometimes
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by GemalitPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
what are your placements again?
Gemini sun, Leo moon, mars Gemini, Taurus Venus, Libra lilith and think my ascending May be Taurus? Not to sure on that one.
oh yeah I remember you guys had a similar chart
her moon is in libra
maybe I should just our right say that I crave her sometimesclick to expand
I think being honest is best, if she says no...well bye hunny! Youâll find someone else, trust me us geminis are to much work sometimes đ. Better friends I think than anything more. Butttt, I actually am hoping it goes well for you two â€ïž
Posted by Gemalit
Please donât do the note! I think speaking to her in person and saying the first part would be great, something vague that will leave her guessing as well. Donât bare to much!
âHey so I think youâre cute and was wondering if youâd like to have some dinner sometimes.â Orrrrr âhey I think youâre really attractive and I love the way your mind works, Iâd love to have dinner sometime and just talkâ SHED LOVEEE that, we love when weâre complicated on who we are, I mean looks is nice but Iâm far more into my personality lol.
what about "
sooo I've been thinking.....
if you just want to be friends...I'm cool with that. I'll friend you sooooo hard.
I'll friend the hell out of you.lol
BUT
if you are down to explore and have some non platonic adventures......
let me know. I'd also enjoy that as well. I'm up for anything really."
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You should have a chat with her by yourself, not in a group setting. Go grab a coffee or something together after the meet up. And throw it out there then, casually. Being non chalant and confident in this type of situation helps a lot.