How do I get my Gemini back?

I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.

Then almost a year later I came to my home town. Her brother told me that she was devastated with my actions.

I tried to reach her but couldn't. I tried to follow her at her church but I didn't find her. How do I get my Gemini's heart again?

We were close friends and I didn't want to take things fast. I was really surprised that she was devastated because I thought we were only friends.

I really had feelings for her but then I was afraid of proposing to her. All that time I was away I was thinking about her which made me comeback.

She is like 8 years younger than me.

With friends like you, who needs enemies? 🙄 Maybe she recovered and moved on by now... sounds like you've done enough damage - so just leave her be...

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Posted by Mactavish_R

Sometimes Pisces men on this website make me really angry by the way they behave in relationships.

What the fuck makes you think she's gonna be waiting for you 10 months later after you left her without any explanation? You probably fucked or dated many women in between these 10 months as well and when things didn't worked out with any of them now you feel you can swim back and try things out with your old Gemini, and you're probably gonna get bored of her as well real soon and leave AGAIN on short notice.

Ffs Pisces men need to mature big time with these stupid acts!

Pisces men are trash in real life, not just here. No offense to you, ajna , or valleys

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you figure that out soon enough

Posted by chris19

I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.

Then almost a year later I came to my home town. Her brother told me that she was devastated with my actions.

I tried to reach her but couldn't. I tried to follow her at her church but I didn't find her. How do I get my Gemini's heart again?

Gemini don’t come back if you hurt us.

We can kiss your ass all the way but if you has been an ass...move on. There is NO way.

Save your ass. Move on. We aren’t disposable.

Posted by emeraldgem

Go through her brother. Hell you've done everything else that way. Why change lanes now?

I tried to get in touch with her brother recently but he is just telling me you have a case to answer. When I ask what case do I have to answer to doesn't tell me. He is a Virgo so he usually tells me sometimes straight forward answers and sometimes parables.

Before, he was giving me straight answers and now his giving parables. It's like he doesn't want me to see her. Today I went to see him and I asked for her number and refused. He also couldn't tell me where I could find her.

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Posted by Mactavish_R

Sometimes Pisces men on this website make me really angry by the way they behave in relationships.

What the fuck makes you think she's gonna be waiting for you 10 months later after you left her without any explanation? You probably fucked or dated many women in between these 10 months as well and when things didn't worked out with any of them now you feel you can swim back and try things out with your old Gemini, and you're probably gonna get bored of her as well real soon and leave AGAIN on short notice.

Ffs Pisces men need to mature big time with these stupid acts!

You are like a Dampire in the Pisces World, because even though cursed, You use Your powers for good! 💙

Holy shit I never knew you looked SO good in real life! 😨😍

Had you been any other sign than an Aries, I would've been so upset cuz of all the fights and arguments I've picked up with you on Dxp in the past.

However, now I'm glad I did that cuz you Aries get turned on by fights and arguments. 😉😆

A photograph isn't the best representation of real life. I can't seem to remember when, why and if we fought?

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I usually agree. I was going through a heartbreak and that was like three months before. I was dating a Virgo and I figured she saw the I treated her. I used disappear without a word.

Later then I would let her know when I go on break. Then she suddenly dumped me. Then after three months I met the Gemini she brought peace in my life. She would invite me to church. Before she met me I was a shipwreck.

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Posted by chris19

I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.

Then almost a year later I came to my home town. Her brother told me that she was devastated with my actions.

I tried to reach her but couldn't. I tried to follow her at her church but I didn't find her. How do I get my Gemini's heart again?

Gemini don’t come back if you hurt us.

We can kiss your ass all the way but if you has been an ass...move on. There is NO way.

Save your ass. Move on. We aren’t disposable.

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The thing is I am really worried about her well being with respect to what her brother told me. I do realize I did the worst thing to her. I just want to make things right for her.

I dated a Gemini before, she broke my heart and came back to me begging. I forgave her and she left. Then I saw one Gemini later on in my life. She was dating I think Sag. He would mostly leave her then come back a few years later. Then only difference here is that they children together. Considering that I got some hope may I should give it a try.

I told her brother that I am going to marry her but he seemed not interested in what I was saying.

I as a Pisces sometimes I just snap when all is going well. I believe at that time I was going some kind of phase because I didn't see her for almost a week. Her brother told me that she told me "she had a nice time with you"

Now what happened before I left was that we spent sometime together a week before I left. I told her that currently I am unemployed and I am applying for jobs. We used to only meet like maybe twice or once in a week. She was kind of a mystery to me because she would only see me on her own terms. I couldn't get any kind of communication means from her. She would just blush me off.

Then I received a call from a company that is like 500 miles away. They wanted me to be there by the following day. So I was with her brother at that time. So I told him everything then I left. I used to call her brother to know how she is doing but I couldn't get any word from her.

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Posted by chris19

I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.

Then almost a year later I came to my home town. Her brother told me that she was devastated with my actions.

I tried to reach her but couldn't. I tried to follow her at her church but I didn't find her. How do I get my Gemini's heart again?

So you leave town and dump her without telling her in person....then you start stalking her at your church....

Yeah ...nope

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She could had been psycho enough that he couldn’t let her know.

Then she got devastated (big word for man went away for a job...is t it) and became more pjaycho and now he came back believing that she is love of his life...and she is not aproachable. Because she is phsycho!!!!

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Posted by chris19

I left my Gemini last year in December. We were close friends and we really enjoyed each others company. So I left town on short notice because I was going for a job. I told her brother about the short notice.

Then almost a year later I came to my home town. Her brother told me that she was devastated with my actions.

I tried to reach her but couldn't. I tried to follow her at her church but I didn't find her. How do I get my Gemini's heart again?

So you leave town and dump her without telling her in person....then you start stalking her at your church....

Yeah ...nope

She could had been psycho enough that he couldn’t let her know.

Then she got devastated (big word for man went away for a job...is t it) and became more pjaycho and now he came back believing that she is love of his life...and she is not aproachable. Because she is phsycho!!!!

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Quite right. Last night I went to see her brother believing he could tell me where I could find her. When I met him I told him that I want to talk to you, just the two of us. I asked where I could find her. He told he doesn't know.

He just told me, "she usually comes at my work place unexpected that's all. However, it's been a long time since she came, but sometimes usually comes at my workplace without seeing me. Maybe if stick around for while you might see her." Then I asked his other friend whether he has seen her.

He told me, "She usually comes to see her brother, she likes this place." Note that that's where I met her, at her brother's work place. At first I thought she was his girlfriend. Then she told that they are brothers. Then I saw that they look alike.

I think she has gone psycho. I know Gemini can be like that. But her brother told me go look for her at church again. I am a Gemini Mars, Jupiter and Rising. So I know sometimes how it can be.

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Posted by Erin

You caused permanent damage to a young girl. If you cared about her wellbeing you'd leave her alone."We were close friends"

Ahaha. You think close friends act like that?

"I told her brother that I am going to marry her but he seemed not interested in what I was saying."

What is it with all these DXP dudes wanting to marry people they haven't even dated yet? It's so weird haha.

What are these men thinking and saying they wanna marry a GEMINI before they even officially become a couple? I can't. This is the second hit. I wonder what's up with the stars and Geminis. Reading these things make me think they must be some damn good potential wife hahahs

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Geminis do pretty well in marriages with fire signs, most especially Aries. With other signs like earth they most likely do well as friends and casual flings, most especially Virgo and a lil bit Caps. With Water signs it's kinda similar with earth. Air signs also pair very well with them.

In my opinion Geminis are not good marriage materials. Most of the Geminis I know have struggled in marriage. In my case I love them for them company, someone who shares ideas with you.