@Silvuh
10 Years500+ Posts
Double Gemini - Never had a girlfriend, never had sex.
Astrological Insights for a Double Gemini Man's Relationship Challenges
A Double Gemini man may struggle with emotional connection and indecision, affecting relationships. Fire signs like Sagittarius can boost confidence and social skills, while Scorpio adds depth. Understanding his chart can help identify key traits that influence dating success and suggest ways to improve his romantic life.
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
What is his Venus, Mars and mercury?
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
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So he doesn’t know how to flirt?
What is his Venus, Mars and mercury?
I'm gonna come back and quote you when i re-do his natal. I didn't save it.
re: your other post, im thinking he literally may be saying the weirdest shit to these women bc i'm just at a loss lol
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
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Maybe he's holding out for you...
Before y'all ask, I will have chart specs by the weekend 😭
But what do we think of this? Is it pickiness? Indecision?
Generally speaking, how did this happen lmao
As (a tired) wingwoman of the year, I want to help my good pal get laid. What do the good folk of DXP suggest for a gem sun + moon man?
He's artsy, funny, a simple man. Introverted and a little out of touch emotionally but 27 years without a lay i think will do it to ya.
I read somewhere a sag would be good for a double gem man. I even read scorpio at one point in time. I def don't see him with anyone too practical.
What's the gameplan y'all lol
Millitant religious upbringing, some form of psychological abuse or chronic shyness are the only factors I can think of, with the obscure exception of being germ phobic.
In all honesty it's not for you to fight his battles.
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😢 He did have a militant type upbringing!
But he's grown into his own beliefs so i never really pictured him still abiding by the whole abstain til you're married idea, esp because he's down get out there and we always joke about helping him out. He never declines and is usually pretty lighthearted about it.
Do you think this is above wingman capacity?
I know, I know. 😭
I get how this looks too lmao
I feel like he's accepted it and all the rest of us ( close pals) are trying to make this happen. But he did actually give me his birthtime for analyzing so i feel like theres a foot in still xD
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
Hm then maybe any sort of commitment scares him.
Has he expressed to you that he actually wants to have sex?
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So this has been a lengthy mission. At one point earlier in our youth i do feel like he was more into it and now he kind of just coasts on by about it all.
Like it'd be different if we knew that wasn't his interest, but i think he feels defeated and is kind of gliding into indifference..so i wanted to cross all my Ts at least cause he's like our best friend
Be careful who you set him up with. He might fall in love with the first person he sleeps with just from all the pent-up...pent-uppedness.
We do joke that his first time will result in pregnancy LMAOOOO
I'll be back with his chart specs yall
He's artsy, funny, a simple man. Introverted and a little out of touch emotionally but 27 years without a lay i think will do it to ya.
What's the gameplan y'all lol
Hire a hooker.
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His standards wont allow it 😭
Can you post his chart from Astro com..showing houses, aspects etc...the extended chart version?
I had rships with two men who were virgins until they were 23 and 25...both very sexual, both Moon in Scorpio...
Dude's lying... He's using beta game to get in those pants.
This is a pretty normal thing nowadays.
https://www.businessinsider.com/millennials-lose-virginity-later-than-previous-generations-2018-5
He should get an older woman 😉
Mini carrot dick 🥕
He might be a late bloomer. If you're truly his friend - just leave him be. 😐
When he's ready (or when it's meant to be) - he'll get there in his own terms (hopefully in a context - like the one described by UVD). For some people - physical intimacy can be a great experience - but only with the right person. Not all men are into f'king - everything they find remotely attractive. Asexual men would be the other extreme - but there's also a middle group - the demisexual (the men who are down for sex - only after they formed an emotional connection with that person).
He's your friend, so you know better than I, but if it were me, I don't think I would want anyone talking about it or worrying about it. I think I'd just want to deal with it on my own.
Those so called friends - that keep nagging their friend into being more like they are - are the worst. When they act like that... 😒
He could be a demisexual with high standards. Going by the fact that he’s double air like me, I can relate to that sentiment. I don’t romantically like 90% of the people. I have really low tolerance for stupid, self-serving and disrespectful behaviour, which is what relationships/modern dating is comprised of. Every time I see a person in a relationship, it looks al nice and dandy from afar, but up close it’s so dysfunctional that it’s not even funny. I always find myself wondering why people put up with shitty behaviour in the name of love.
He might be a late bloomer. If you're truly his friend - just leave him be. 😐
When he's ready (or when it's meant to be) - he'll get there in his own terms (hopefully in a context - like the one described by UVD). For some people - physical intimacy can be a great experience - but only with the right person. Not all men are into f'king - everything they find remotely attractive. Asexual men would be the other extreme - but there's also a middle group - the demisexual (the men who are down for sex - only after they formed an emotional connection with that person).
Omg I love this 😭😭 that was so sweet..and informative lmao
I agree though I feel like it's mostly our curiosity st this point
Question: If he is so great why don't YOU blow him?
No.
😭 I've known him since childhood and that's fucking weird lol
But since you're implying you agree he's great too, I can swing you his way. 💀
Maybe he is interested in both sexes and confused?
He's your friend, so you know better than I, but if it were me, I don't think I would want anyone talking about it or worrying about it. I think I'd just want to deal with it on my own.
Those so called friends - that keep nagging their friend into being more like they are - are the worst. When they act like that... 😒
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This actually started a ways back when he asked we be the buffer/support to his encounters when going out! but thank you lmao
I mean granted people mature but this is now an investment!
Nah jk I get it 😂😂😂😂
he should lose his virginity first, with prostitutes. That could remove a lot of the apprehension and make things easier for him.
I think it’s sweet. If he’s manly, I’d date him.
Where’s his chart @Silvuh ?
Are you being serious with this or is this a troll thread?
Ain't no damn way in hell anyone with not one but two Gemini placements (if it's in any of the major planets) would never had sex or a girlfriend in their life. I'm finding this extremely hard to believe.
This is hard to believe, but perhaps he’s actually relationship guy and not down to just fuck. Demisexual I guess. Sounds like he needs to find the girl, not just have sex.
Even my son who had no social skills at all had girls taking control lol. He’s always in relationships.. girl always leads the way. Maybe you need to set him up with someone?
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Is he attractive?
Yes actually! He is well over 6 ft. nice jawline, good complexion. I've seen him in lengthy interactions a few good times, he just neverrrr seals the deal smh.
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Oh well "shrug". At least attractiveness is one thing we double gems got to our advantage if nothing else. I mean you can't have it all.
Before y'all ask, I will have chart specs by the weekend 😭
But what do we think of this? Is it pickiness? Indecision?
Generally speaking, how did this happen lmao
As (a tired) wingwoman of the year, I want to help my good pal get laid. What do the good folk of DXP suggest for a gem sun + moon man?
He's artsy, funny, a simple man. Introverted and a little out of touch emotionally but 27 years without a lay i think will do it to ya.
I read somewhere a sag would be good for a double gem man. I even read scorpio at one point in time. I def don't see him with anyone too practical.
What's the gameplan y'all lol
Does he want to though?
I as a fellow wizard, I would tell him that if he wants to lose it he better start now, cause depending on location and your own habits, it gets waay harder when you get to 30 and beyond . 😅
Are you being serious with this or is this a troll thread?
Ain't no damn way in hell anyone with not one but two Gemini placements (if it's in any of the major planets) would never had sex or a girlfriend in their life. I'm finding this extremely hard to believe.
I don't see how this out of the ordinary, guy is a double Gemini not the god Eros.
Hes probably gay as hell and knows how to hide it Geminis are very good at that shit. Lol
Are you being serious with this or is this a troll thread?
Ain't no damn way in hell anyone with not one but two Gemini placements (if it's in any of the major planets) would never had sex or a girlfriend in their life. I'm finding this extremely hard to believe.
I don't see how this out of the ordinary, guy is a double Gemini not the god Eros.
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I'm still waiting to see this guy's whole chart like MyStarsShine ask the OP to post. Also I need to see the aspects too. That would reveal all. I'm still finding it hard to believe. Fuck, I'm a triple Gemini and I can't relate to any of this single and gay shit.
Are you being serious with this or is this a troll thread?
Ain't no damn way in hell anyone with not one but two Gemini placements (if it's in any of the major planets) would never had sex or a girlfriend in their life. I'm finding this extremely hard to believe.
I don't see how this out of the ordinary, guy is a double Gemini not the god Eros.
I'm still waiting to see this guy's whole chart like MyStarsShine ask the OP to post. Also I need to see the aspects too. That would reveal all. I'm still finding it hard to believe. Fuck, I'm a triple Gemini and I can't relate to any of this single and gay shit.
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Probably has some aspects in his chart, or has a 8th house chiron like me 😆
I dunno, I think folks overrate the promiscuity of gem placements in general.
I'm waiting on the chart as well!!
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Before y'all ask, I will have chart specs by the weekend 😭
But what do we think of this? Is it pickiness? Indecision?
Generally speaking, how did this happen lmao
As (a tired) wingwoman of the year, I want to help my good pal get laid. What do the good folk of DXP suggest for a gem sun + moon man?
He's artsy, funny, a simple man. Introverted and a little out of touch emotionally but 27 years without a lay i think will do it to ya.
I read somewhere a sag would be good for a double gem man. I even read scorpio at one point in time. I def don't see him with anyone too practical.
What's the gameplan y'all lol